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Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jun 14, 2017 |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 7:51pm On Jun 14, 2017 |
MsRoe:Yinmu |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jun 14, 2017 |
Toks2008 you are among the very FEW who add VALUE to our humanity on NL. I love the way you keep enlightening especially ladys. TRUTH HURTS. 5 Likes |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 8:11pm On Jun 14, 2017 |
WORDWORLD: Thanks brother . And they hate me so much...expecially the teenagers and adolescents who are still starting life and have no clue yet of what romance is all about. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jun 14, 2017 |
Toks2008: The merchants of illusion have taken hold of their reasoning. I bet you the few who choose to be wise among them are learning alot from you.. its a natural law that the FOOLISH live a life of regret. It always baffels me how most ladies care less despite the fact that the pay the most price when things go wrong in a relationship. Yet they are mostly glued to supperfaciality that ends up dumping them in the waste bin. GOOD JOB BRO! ALOT OF PEOPLE JUST COME ONLINE TO DISPLAY HOW EMPTY THEY ARE UPSTAIRS. CONTRIBUTING NOTHING. 3 Likes |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 8:37pm On Jun 14, 2017 |
WORDWORLD: Good one brother. .. I don't know if lalasticlala finds this insightful. 1 Like
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Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by lalasticlala(m): 9:30am On Jun 16, 2017 |
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Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 9:30pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
[quote author=lalasticlala post=57565910][/quote] Yes I knew it was harsh and that was why I edited it and explained why I used the title in my very first paragraph... I have peculiar ways of getting people to read my threads and my choice of title is one of them. 1 Like |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 9:32pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
memories1: Those who judge the book by its cover will always make wrong conclusions. Titles remain titles but it is the message that counts. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by TheUmbra: 10:17pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Toks2008 at it again! Like me you'd never sacrifice truth for convenience. You've spoken the truth. There're two types of people who would oppose your view as expressed in your article, one for each gender. Most guys that would oppose your views here were either brought up by their moms or they have an abusive father. And they've come to hate the male folk and everything that seems to associate with their authority and advantage. The other group are feminists from the female gender who may hate men for the same reason stated earlier. But their views have no influence on reality. Once a woman was once married and steps out of her marriage in the name of divorce, there's only one thing in the mind of the average man - she's second hand. 6 Likes |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 10:27pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
TheUmbra: You can only imagine that the title I gave is an issue that lalasticlala is even bothered about but unfortunately I may have to sacrifice front page rather than for me to change that title cos I can't sugar coat it |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by TheUmbra: 10:52pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Toks2008: You can still tweak the title a bit. Let it hit front page and meet the bigger audience. I understand lalasticlala's concern but as long as the message remains intact, you can sacrifice the title. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 9:23am On Jun 17, 2017 |
TheUmbra: My brother I no they tweerk or tweak anything...if lalasticlala like let him even close the thread I care less. the disclaimer Seun put at the bottom of nairaland page is clear enough and it states "Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland" Yes I like my articles to get to front page because I write good stuffs but I'm not desperate about front page. A good writer must have traffic generating titles that will attract people to view and not the type that people just read and assume the contents without bothering to click on the thread...this is not my style....controversy sells and that is one secret of top bloggers. Let the mods leave this thread if they find the title appalling and consider my other great threads with subtle titles yet to grace front page... -Dangerous desire(Ife gbonna) https://www.nairaland.com/3835190/dangerous-desire-ife-gbona -Before you fire the shots https://www.nairaland.com/3610005/before-fire-shots - When You Have To Choose Between A Philandering Husband Or Polygamy. https://www.nairaland.com/3680733/when-choose-between-philandering-husband -6 ways women can avoid domestic violence.(I had to edit this title from "6 ways some women cause domestic violence" after Seun ordered the thread be removed from front page but if you read through the threads you will find marriage saving facts there) https://www.nairaland.com/3094868/6-ways-women-avoid-domestic As far as I'm. concerned,there is nothing bad about this thread title cos that is my opinion as the writer. 2 Likes |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by TheUmbra: 9:54am On Jun 17, 2017 |
Toks2008: I agree with you a hundred percent! |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by tosyne2much(m): 12:00am On Jun 18, 2017 |
Yes you're right egbon Toks, controversial write-up sells and that's what I've been using to gain ground on social media 1 Like |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by pocohantas(f): 12:22am On Jun 18, 2017 |
LOL! Lala can not find this insightful because he knows both gender should guard a marriage. This is why some women are struggling to keep their marriage going. A man goes fu<king around acting nonchalantly and his wife must doggedly and tenaciously protect his wandering prick, that might be laced with HIV. She must guard the marriage so she doesn't turn to the abominable divorcee... The man on his part has nothing to lose, he can always get another wife. Nigerian marriage is so sweet . So many unhappy married men and women. Who in his right mind would be enthusiastic about joining the bandwagon? Marriage that should be enjoyed is now something they encourage people to endure adultery and all sorts in? Instead of teaching people to love and treat their spouses as they'll treat themselves. Jesus when are you coming? Even the devil will marvel at the wickedness of some Nigerian men. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Martin0(m): 12:35am On Jun 18, 2017 |
pocohantas:that why as a lady if u want ur husband to be faithful there are somethings as a lady u should let go(Quit the porn. Bringing porn into a relationship is not healthy. It’s like bringing another woman into your marriage, except she’s glossy and airbrushed. Porn will only create an unrealistic expectation in your mind about your spouse’s libido, body, and comfort level with weird sex positions. Pretty soon you’ll find that your wife isn’t satisfying you and your eyes will start to wander. Dump the porn.)Not all ladies do this but majority start bringing it into their marriage likwise men 1 Like |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Originalsly: 1:13am On Jun 18, 2017 |
Let me first quote from where many will dare not disagree...."He who findeth a wife findeth a good thing.... that's from the Bible. ... so isn't the man the lucky one to find a wife? After marriage many men realize the woman of the house is simply the woman of the house and not a wife..... and out of the marriage he steps to search all over again for a wife. Unlucky man ... lucky woman. 1 Like |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 8:10pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Originalsly: I totally agree but I also understand that it is the woman that loses more if there is any disollution. 1 Like |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 9:03pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Martin0: Talking about porn I totally agree with you on this. Many ladies tend to measure the manliness of the porn actors to that of their hubby and they begin to fantasize thereby deriving lesser pleasure from their husbands. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 9:09pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas: Leave all the comparison @Nigerian marriage is so sweet...and what if it's not Nigeria? Is it not what I see everyday? single mums and divircees everywhere. ..they chase the man from their house and then what next? does the guy sleep out in the cold? HELL NO..but instead he is gladly sheltered by another lady possibly another single mum or divorcee and the crazy circle continues then s.x toys become the woman's companion. And taking about STD,trust me,no one is totally safe from it except you don't ever make love to a human being without protection. Cheating is bad and I won't encourage it but for ladies who find themselves with a cheating guy I will advise them to think twice before leaving that union. Yes it is very hard but it's not just worth it except the lady is ready to remain single and celibate. 1 Like |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 9:13pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Lalasticlala I guess you need to read this and decide. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 9:33pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
DON: Will they ever accept? Until they have been thoroughly sampled and dumped by Randy men after divorce or separation, they won't learn. Except a woman is just looking for excuse to test other waters,it is totally baseless to leave your marriage because of a hopeless side dish or chic as they call them. I'm not sure of the Toke's story but if it is true then that is just one out of many ladies. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Martin0(m): 9:52pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Toks2008: Gbam |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by lezz(m): 10:11pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Non-compromising facts. But there’s just a little bias in that op makes females appear to be the only ones at the losing end of divorce. Statistics show men’s lifespan and wellbeing are affected more in divorce than woman’s even though women are likely to face harsher financial reality. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 10:45pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lezz: There is no bias bro..it's all about statistics and please leave finance out of it. In developed country,a lady gets more money from the Government as a separated single mum but what about emotional and biological needs? |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by lezz(m): 9:37am On Jan 03, 2018 |
Toks2008:no. The poorest demogrsphics are single mothers going by US statistics. Biologically, women are in better control of their hormones than men. I think single mothers and widows fare well after a divorce/sepsration than males. The lifspan of widows and widowers further proves this. Emotionally female divorcees fare worse no thanks to their biological disposition and societal mores. But men also have it tough domestically espcially as they age. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 11:41pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Toks2008: Lalasticlala |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by mrphysics(m): 11:49pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Toks2008:Toks2008 welcome back. Where have you been? We have got new generation of kids on nairaland coupled with the grown kids who reason from their anus. These people needs to be baptised. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 11:53pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
mrphysics: My brother i have been so busy but you know,i no fit abandon this forum like that.As for the kids they will certainly grow, As they say ''A child that calls his father poor will soon realize how difficult it is to be rich..its just a matter of time'' 1 Like |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by RoyalStyles2020: 10:52pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Yankee101: 10:53pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
He starts living in bondage Especially with modern women |
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