Please my people help me. We are from a poor family and I have a very stubborn boy of 13 years son that I want to put him under a Muslim clergy man away from my state. I want him to become a reliable person and to be very good a Arabic speaking. I am ready to come for better discussion. any of Imam that want to help me.

omohoneyland:
Please my people help me. We are from a poor family and I have a very stubborn boy of 13 years son that I want to put him under a Muslim clergy man away from my state. I want him to become a reliable person and to be very good a Arabic speaking. I am ready to come for better discussion. any of Imam that want to help me.

if your reason is for him to be fluent in Arabic, ill advice you to continue with the idea; but, for him to become a reliable person? If you actually failed on making him that, I doubt any clergy man will fulfill that wish on your behalf.
Just keep praying to whatever you serve and also try to change him with advice and soft words! Cain doesn't do it at all!

omohoneyland:
Please my people help me. We are from a poor family and I have a very stubborn boy of 13 years son that I want to put him under a Muslim clergy man away from my state. I want him to become a reliable person and to be very good a Arabic speaking. I am ready to come for better discussion. any of Imam that want to help me.

i schooled in Ilorin. What they put into those boy's head in Arabic schools is bad.
Just forget about incurcating a good habit into through a clergy.
By the time he comes back to you, just know you traded a saint for a demon.

I can give you instances if you want

inMyOpeenion:
if your reason is for him to be fluent in Arabic, ill advice you to continue with the idea; but, for him to become a reliable person? If you actually failed on making him that, I doubt any clergy man will fulfill that wish on your behalf.
Just keep praying to whatever you serve and also try to change him with advice and soft words! Cain doesn't do it at all!

shai see as woman fine finish

omohoneyland:
Please my people help me. We are from a poor family and I have a very stubborn boy of 13 years son that I want to put him under a Muslim clergy man away from my state. I want him to become a reliable person and to be very good a Arabic speaking. I am ready to come for better discussion. any of Imam that want to help me.

Do this, then you have failed as a parent.

I only feel sorry for the minor in the long run.

By the way, where is the mother of the child?

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I PITY YOU

uboma:





Do this, then you have failed as a parent.

I only feel sorry for the minor in the long run.

By the way, where is the mother of the child?

the mother is with me. we are doing the same. we just Want the boy to have the knowledge and use him to work for Allah. is there no Muslim in the room.

omohoneyland:
the mother is with me. we are doing the same. we just Want the boy to have the knowledge and use him to work for Allah. is there no Muslim in the room.

Good to hear that the child lives with his biological parents.

But you need to find out the root cause of his stubbornness.

No child was born bad or troublesome.

Show love to your child and see him open up more to you.

And for the records, I am not against the idea of wanting him to learn Arabic but please be mindful of who you send your child to.

Some Alfas/Clergy men are worse than vipers.


My only interest is in the well-being of the minor in the long-run.

Salam

omohoneyland:
Please my people help me. We are from a poor family and I have a very stubborn boy of 13 years son that I want to put him under a Muslim clergy man away from my state. I want him to become a reliable person and to be very good a Arabic speaking. I am ready to come for better discussion. any of Imam that want to help me.

Why should we care?
Hey, take this to your pit (Islamic section).

analice107:
Why should we care? Hey, take this to your pit (Islamic section).

Who's asking you to care

analice107:

Why should we care?
Hey, take this to your pit (Islamic section).

This is a General Religion section

uboma:




Good to hear that the child lives with his biological parents.

But you need to find out the root cause of his stubbornness.

No child was born bad or troublesome.

Show love to your child and see him open up more to you.

And for the records, I am not against the idea of wanting him to learn Arabic but please be mindful of who you send your child to.

Some Alfas/Clergy men are worse than vipers.


My only interest is in the well-being of the minor in the long-run.

Salam

thanks very much.

tartar9:


Who's asking you to care

And here comes the depressed goon.
Pls remind him that Seun gave you goons a cave to take your 7the Century shit to.

Now, move it.

analice107:

And here comes the depressed goon.
Pls remind him that Seun gave you goons a cave to take your 7the Century shit to.

Now, move it.

why are you so bitter?

Superpower:
why are you so bitter?

Define bitterness. Not the Islamic definition, i mean the dictionaary definition let's see if you know what bitterness means.

Get out muslim.

analice107:

Define bitterness. Not the Islamic definition, i mean the dictionaary definition let's see if you know what bitterness means.

Get out muslim.

i am not a muslim.you take nairaland too seriously

Go to your Islamic section and ask this, it's none of our business please go there and leave this place for religious discussions. Some of you can be greedy sha, is your section not appropriate for this your question?

Ahan
Wat re u doing
Be fast na
wen u see ur boi head on the road without his body u would know dat speaking Arabic is good
na joke i dey oo

Superpower:
i am not a muslim.you take nairaland too seriously

For that you called me bitter, or that's your definition of bitterness?

If i take something seriously, it's interpreted as me being bitter? Check words and phrases before using them.

omohoneyland:
Please my people help me. We are from a poor family and I have a very stubborn boy of 13 years son that I want to put him under a Muslim clergy man away from my state. I want him to become a reliable person and to be very good a Arabic speaking. I am ready to come for better discussion. any of Imam that want to help me.

First, I am a Christian but I will speak the truth with you without any bias.

1. Sending your Boy to Anyone for Moral grooming is counterproductive. No human being has the power to convert anyone.
2. You will need to go back to the drawing board and ask yourself the question
a. What do you think is influencing your son?
b. Are you a having a friendly relationship with him?
3. Show more love and spend more time with him
3. Pray hard for him. The problem could be demonic.

Jesus does reliever from demonic afflictions

analice107:

And here comes the depressed goon.
Pls remind him that Seun gave you goons a cave to take your 7the Century shit to.

Now, move it.

Move it na
Why all this groaning for what you can't change.
I understand your frustration.

Omohoneyland

I don't know why you need another man to help you train your child when you are not physically challenged. You know your child,you should know how to put some words into his head.

Instead of taking him to someone that will abuse him physically, mentally and socially why not take him for counselling. We are In a more advanced time.

How is an Arabic speaking person a better person,the issue is always with the mind.

Pidgin2:
Go to your Islamic section and ask this, it's none of our business please go there and leave this place for religious discussions. Some of you can be greedy sha, is your section not appropriate for this your question?

At least you should have make use of your sense.

What is "Religion" ??

Beauty without brains. If you have a sensible contribution to make you should post.

Brainwashing the next generation in action. Sending a child to a clergyman and not a school.


Congratulations on making your son a slave to a lie and a follower of 7th century nonsense, you almighty idiot. And Naij wonders why academic endevours are so few in it's country!

People in Europe always wonder how terrorists and religious madmen come to be due to their actions being so violent and unnecessary to the point of not being able to empathise with them, if they are just different in a psychological way. They never see the roots of the extremism and the madness, people like you who train your children to be god-fearers.

You disgust me.

People are not getting me right. not that I cannot train the child but I purposely want him to learn and practise Arabic fluently and to learn how to preach the words of God to people.

omohoneyland:
Please my people help me. We are from a poor family and I have a very stubborn boy of 13 years son that I want to put him under a Muslim clergy man away from my state. I want him to become a reliable person and to be very good a Arabic speaking. I am ready to come for better discussion. any of Imam that want to help me.

This is a terrible idea. Give yourself 24 strokes of the cane and never speak of it again unless you want your stubborn boy to become a stubborn Boko Haram terrorist. Reserve another 6 strokes of the cane for the person that gave you this terrible idea that will do you no good.

If your son is stubborn then study him well and find out what is really bothering him and then use wisdom and intelligence to persuade him to seek a better future. You cannot fight stubborness with stubborness. You fight it with intelligence and sincerity and love.

If your family is poor then the way forward is to give your children a real education that will allow them to rise beyond what they came from. Send them to the best schools you can afford and encourage them to take their studies seriously. Make sure they choose professions that they love and which are in demand and lucrative. Learning Arabic has never made any poor person rich.

Nawa oo

NwaAmaikpe:
3 words



I PITY YOU

i support you,never knew you have a little reserved sense

omohoneyland:
People are not getting me right. not that I cannot train the child but I purposely want him to learn and practise Arabic fluently and to learn how to preach the words of God to people.

You better train your own child before you take him to someone that will turn him to a wild animal when he comes back. You think the Alfa don't have his own responsibilities. As a parent you are running from yours. Why you think an outsider will care about your kid more than you is mind boggling! You better learn sane ways to deal with your child. If you want him to go to ile kewu, let him go for an hr after school and come back home. With proper care and attention from you, your son will change. What does he do that makes him so stubborn? Are you running multiple homes that you can't be there for him like you should?

Seun:

This is a terrible idea. Give yourself 24 strokes of the cane and never speak of it again unless you want your stubborn boy to become a stubborn Boko Haram terrorist. Reserve another 6 strokes of the cane for the person that gave you this terrible idea that will do you no good.

If your son is stubborn then study him well and find out what is really bothering him and then use wisdom and intelligence to persuade him to seek a better future. You cannot fight stubbornness with stubborness. You fight it with wisdom and intelligence and love and care.

If your family is poor then the way forward is to give your children an education that will allow them to rise beyond what they came from. Send them to the best schools they can afford and encourage them to take their studies seriously. Make sure they choose professions that they love and which are in demand and lucrative. Learning Arabic has never made any poor person rich.

bro seun thanks for your advice,in terms of the 24 strokes i think a Soldier will do the work very well so that he will recieve some sense,my opinion

Seun:

This is a terrible idea. Give yourself 24 strokes of the cane and never speak of it again unless you want your stubborn boy to become a stubborn Boko Haram terrorist. Reserve another 6 strokes of the cane for the person that gave you this terrible idea that will do you no good.
If your son is stubborn then study him well and find out what is really bothering him and then use wisdom and intelligence to persuade him to seek a better future. You cannot fight stubborness with stubborness. You fight it with wisdom and intelligence and love and care.

If your family is poor then the way forward is to give your children an education that will allow them to rise beyond what they came from. Send them to the best schools you can afford and encourage them to take their studies seriously. Make sure they choose professions that they love and which are in demand and lucrative. Learning Arabic has never made any poor person rich.

bro Seun really vexed on this

You are an irresponsible father. I see irresponsibility all over you.

By the time your stubborn boy is done with his training in the hands of a radical Alfa, he will end up detonating bombs all over you and your household.


If he must learn Arabic or any language, take him to a proper, relevant and accredited college