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Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by ibkgab001: 12:11pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Op nothing must happen to your husband .... If he is sick you are in trouble ... If you can't cope with mother and son rappor kindly divorce gently and marry soneone who doesn't love nor care For his mom 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by jaxxy(m): 12:13pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
sweerychick: There's nothing weird and creepy. Manys guys will say such especially if d dad is late. Is he d only son? U hv to understand his reasons 1st b4 even trying to counter if they actually make sense or weird. Also u being close to d mum will help u guys cos if d mums sees u as as sm1 against her or fighting d affection her son gives her it might be a bigger issue. Atleast he can make decisions without consulting his mum 1st rite? My guy dated a gal who cudnt make Ny decision without her mums consent cos she wa d only child my guy didn't like it so he quit d relationship so its a choice thing i wud say. Sm other guy wud like d gal dat way also. Cheers |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Tiffbuxas: 12:13pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
sweerychick:Maybe you should hear my story. I'm practically my mom's only child for now, she had me when she was 17, and practically brought me up herself Cuz my dad wasn't ready to do his duties until last year when he started calling me. While I was in jss3 Dats when my mom took her GCE exam while I was in SS3 she was in 100l pastime, tins Wer really tough, we both graduated the same year, I went for service and she did her MBA, graduated and I went for my MSc, she basically calls me daily, and I always worried abt her. Due to my closeness with her people call me a mommy's boy, Cuz we basically talk abt everything from what I'm buying to relationships, but what people fail to see is that she wouldn't take any decision without consulting me. I won't be principled, determined, smart.. I won't be anything without her.. I owe hugely my success today to her. So if my woman chooses to compete with her she'll lose, Buh if she appreciates her and understand that in as much as I love my mother I chose her as my bride. She'll realize that my mother might even love her and appreciate more than I do. Pls don't lose a good man Cuz he made some exaggerations, accept and appreciate your in-law for her input and she'll love you forever more |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by decub: 12:14pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
sweerychick:I was reading other comments until I got to @thorpido whom I think has solved your puzzle. If he's the man he should be by taking his decisions without his mum influencing it, then that's cool but if he's the mummy's boy that is still controlled by the mum like a child, then watch cos his mum will run your family for you! 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:14pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Infact, that guy's comment is irritating. The number of likes it garnered is quite revelatory of the number of sick, abnormal people walking around. rainylad: 3 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:14pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Masquerade7: If you're over 21, you may be sick and not know it. If you have been fortunate enough to make something out of your life far away from your comfort zone, you may be having these unreasonable mentality. 3 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Tiffbuxas: 12:15pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
GhettoG1:lol guy u harsh o... some ladies don't understand the sacrifices some mother have made to get their kids to where they are now... No reasonable son will abandon or neglect such mothers for a second |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Martin0(m): 12:17pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
saydfact:sure you have to love his mum equally like take his mum as more serious as u do you ur man,you saying or probably it rolling through your mind is not a gud reason.stick to her and equally love her...remember marriage is not for you and ur man alone,marriage is the bound btw two person's families,relations,sisters,brother's mother's and father's so it a task,if one get's missing it might likely be a problem,so you need to put his mum into that same bound that why you have to love her equally... |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by DonBobes(m): 12:17pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
sweerychick: Truth dey say is bitter but if u are still single oh girl run because u are still not married because when una marry dat is all. She will b in charge of ur home 2 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Touché! You spoke my mind. NairaSand: 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by dreezybines: 12:18pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Benita27: Kk... Is that the only branch available... I stay in lag |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by luckysparks(m): 12:19pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Thread carefully with your man and also study the behaviour of his mum,if she is the controlling and pokenosing type,my dear quit the affair . 2 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by solelymade: 12:21pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Ziinno: Dear, I love your comment so much. It shows how much we can grow in love if we last appreciate maturity. In the Op's post, the two situations she cited are trivial issues. Any human being let alone a son should attend physically to a sick person/mother if time and space permits. Excessive calling, every hour is definitely an exaggeration and the following mama to d grave too is also. She hasn't said the man denies her of any of the twos or others. Interestingly, she said the mother said the finance shld remain at work, that her illness isn't serious. That's a pointer to mutual interest relationship healthy for both mother and son as against a parasitic one. I doubt the mama's boy label seriously except... |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Liverpoolfc(m): 12:21pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
NairaSand:He wouldn't die. He said that to show how much he love his mum. 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by robosky02(m): 12:22pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Oyindidi: hmmmm
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Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Parents no matter how close to their children shouldn't interface in their marriage. You'd see the signs when dating. Live with it or run if you can't deal. A lot of adults on this thread are actually big babies. Quite unfortunate. 2 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by ZAWs: 12:23pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
All these substandard adulterated gold diggers that doesn't know the value of a mother; Don't worry you'll have a son and you'll definitely understand. I didn't bothered reading the entire post cus we know your type. But If i were your husband to be, even at the altar and you talk Ill about my mum; that wedding is COMPLETELY OVER!! Nonsense |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by WHALEY7(m): 12:24pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Baba chill....he never reach dis one. Haba If u are not cool with it, U ar indeed egocentric, Nonsense, No lady can take my mother's place, if u no like am, get the furk off, Nonsense, Naso Evans love Lady so tey she betray am, Which person mama go do like dat to her son? Annoying self centered ladies everywhere.. Mtchew[/quote] |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Liverpoolfc: Says who? A man that attached to his mom will die psychologically or even worse be or remain broken If anything happens to the mom. I can't deal. 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:26pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Go and fork her then. Silly immature fool. The woman who would marry you would be unfortunate to do so. May God not let a good woman have the misfortune of coming across a disturbed man like you. Ewww. Liverpoolfc: 4 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by unbeatablerosak(f): 12:26pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
sweerychick:You never can tell what his mum went tru, to get ur man where he is today. That made him say that. Some men are like that. But for him to say he will die with his mum, is a NO for me. Trade carefully my dear. Marriage is not boyfriend and girlfriend stuff. Life time business. |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by DonBobes(m): 12:28pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
decub:God bless u Just like my mother trying to control my life against my wife at d moment. Na God go help us finish d fight. I love her but it as limits because she is my mum. My wife is my new family now. So I don't care about dat. 2 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by rainylad(f): 12:28pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Nazeren: ..The number of insane folks in Nigeria are increasing by the day,so no surprises. 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by enigmaticlion: 12:29pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
You need help and re-orientation. You ladies think marrying a grown man will make him forget his Mom? Most of you usually wish the mother of your fiance to be to have been dead before you met him. Now turn the tables around and imagine of you were that mother and your fiance is your son. Nigerians ladies are naturally I'll mannered and lazy domestically , hence they want absolute and total control. sweerychick: |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by ImaIma1(f): 12:29pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Tiffbuxas: My mum inlaw and I are cool. My hubby doesn't even know when i call her. We even gossip about him sometimes. His dad is late. Him and his mum talk almost everyday and it doesn't bother me. They both understand what marriage is about and my mum inlaw does not interfer on our matters. He hardly discusses our issues with her just like i dont report or discuss our issues with my family. They are all 3rd parties. There is no power tussle because he is very mature and wise about the situation. Maybe it is a tribe thing. Most women i have seen from our tribe respect their sons and son's wives and try to do things to make their lives simple not complicated. They train their sons and leave them to be their own men. It is the same 9months that they carried the sons for. They hardly ever interfer in your choice of a wife. You become one of their daughters instead of an outsider that they keep trying to frustrate. So i dont understand all these "my mum is my life" "nobody can separate us". Yes love your mum no doubt but you aint kids no more. I dont even like clingy children. Grow up and live your life. I can only guide and pray not control. 3 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by saxyminia: 12:30pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
its very simple try n ve a son n den u mistakenly hear his wife to be don't lyk d fact dt he is close or too close to u den u cn advice ursef on ds subject mata.....girls self....some would say dey prefer tp marry a guy who's mom is dead ure gonna be a mom some day n someone wud wish u dead as well... |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:30pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
obataokenwa: Your mom is already educating you why she has to mean more to you than your wife. ![]() ![]() ![]() I pity the direction your life is headed. ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by soflygerian(m): 12:30pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
He's just your fiance, so technically ur not yet married so he's still moma's buoy... The ''i will die part'' jst shows his closeness to moma. I bet you he's not gonna die not when ur his new mummy... I shldnt be giving u advice on hw to tease ur man to open up... Be his friend n get details since u wanna knw.. Inspector sweerychick |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by enigmaticlion: 12:31pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
The lady needs help and re-orientation. Naija ladies think marrying a grown man will make him forget his Mom? Most of them usually wish the mother of their fiance to be to have been dead before they met him. Now turn the tables around and imagine of they were that mother and their fiance is her son. Nigerians ladies are naturally I'll mannered and lazy domestically , hence they want absolute and total control. Afam4eva: |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Lifeislife: 12:31pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
IdeyFindWife: Tis guy u never still see wife up till now make u change ur moniker? |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:31pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
dreezybines:The main branch is in Lag na. Pastor Paul Adefarasin. |
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