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I Am Confused. by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Good day Nairalanders. I don't know what I did wrong and is in need of advice. I met this guy through my cousin in December 2015. since then we have been communicating and he made me realize he wanted a relationship. Though he is based in Lagos while I am currently schooling and in my final year in a different state. He begged me to pay him a visit and since I wasn't in any relationship having quit one last year, I decided to visit him. I spent about two weeks and decided to return, but since then we have barely spoken and the painful part is that I already developed a soft spot for him. while at his place, his pleas made me give in and we got intimate which I regret currently. He was nice but never discussed his request which I hadn't agreed to before paying him a visit. My confusion is that he has refused to call me and the last time we spoke which is over 10 days, he promised to call at his own convenient time. I feel so stupid and cannot concentrate on what I am doing. Advice needed please. |
Re: I Am Confused. by brighttech95(m): 12:36pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Move on with ur life he has gotten wat he set out for which is sex 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
That one was only interested in what's in-between your legs. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
And one correct responsible guy will be asking you out...you will be forming and doing shakara.... now you carry Puna go give playboy ![]() And you con dey love up after in don fvck u finish... Wetin you dey ask again....Him don get wetin in want....Move on! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 12:46pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Dude just used you. Don't bother yourself crying over a spilt milk, just put an end to whatever feelings you've got for him. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused. by IamSINZ(m): 12:47pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
RB007: If I was president, I will name you petroleum minister for this comment. ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 12:49pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
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Re: I Am Confused. by Splinz(m): 12:50pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Benita27: At her age, she still doesn't know when someone just want to coman chop and go. SMH |
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Splinz:You won't blame her tho. Two years long distance relationship, and she finally gave in this year. Some guys are assholes. ![]() |
Re: I Am Confused. by MissRaine69(f): 12:57pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Favoured4:Sorry to tell you 2 weeks is a long time to spend with someone you hardly knew. It was about sex, and he got it that's all it was for him. He wanted a physical relationship and he got it, you want an emotional relationship it's not going to happen here. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused. by IamSINZ(m): 1:00pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
RB007:Just go and be chopping money ![]() |
Re: I Am Confused. by IamSINZ(m): 1:04pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Benita27: And then she let someone she barely knows fück her back to back for two straight weeks? ![]() Some girls are senseless tripple-timing pseudo-sanctimonous biitches! ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused. by Splinz(m): 1:06pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Benita27: She failed. And this is what the religious people would say: "And Satan finally succeeded in her life". Benita, mbok pray for her. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused. by TheHistorian(m): 1:16pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Fuckingly Stupid! ![]() |
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
IamSINZ:My hand no dey oh!. She was in-love. ![]() Splinz:It is well. ![]() |
Re: I Am Confused. by MrDandy(m): 1:24pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
*in Tope alabi's voice* Aye le o ibosi o! |
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Aderola15:I wish it is easy. |
Re: I Am Confused. by cerowo(f): 2:00pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
D guy was jst after yr body....he has gotten wat he wantd already...
Wld advice u shld jst let him be, forget abt him |
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
IamSINZ:You can insult all you want, na you holy pass. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 2:06pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
MissRaine69:The reason I had to leave my base was because I trusted my cousin who made me know him. |
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 2:10pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
TheHistorian:It isn't your fault. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Confused. by gabinogem(m): 2:12pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Favoured4:I believe the reason he blanked u was because of the initial hard to get u were giving him... U now made it easier for him after u allowed him tasted ur honeypot for two straight weeks. Take heart, move on. |
Re: I Am Confused. by tosyne2much(m): 2:18pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Benita27:Are you speaking for the dude ni? ![]() |
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Favoured4: Chaiiii! This girl don love up *lemme get my pankere, you need am* ![]() ![]() Owkies... You have to be true to yourself right now, see him for whom he truly is... You're a queen, you deserve better, you deserve a king who isn't going to stoop ridiculously low just to deceive others in order to satisfy their selfish desires. You need to fall in love with a honest and brave person not some idiotic cowards. He fooled you once and you ain't gonna make yourself a certified fool by falling in love with him. Get over that wimpy bastard asap. ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Op, the deed has been done, what u need to do now is to move on with ur life unless u have strong feeling for him but u have not to forget that love is two sided and not one sided |
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
tosyne2much:That's obviously the situation here even though she made a mistake by spending weeks with him. |
Re: I Am Confused. by dacovajnr: 2:45pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Choi! ![]() ![]() Well you've been "Favoured" as your name implies...I told my paddy that most girls like to dey allow dem Pussay do the thinking when "Fineboy" is involved ![]() ![]() ![]() I can't even imagine myself travelling way down to another state just to knack pussy..what would I tell my creator that ayam upto if I die in a Motor accident? ![]() ![]() ![]() Op kindly accept my Sympathy for your stupidity is inbuilt ![]() Cc:Edimolu 2 Likes
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Re: I Am Confused. by Wizklynd23(m): 2:49pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Good market for that guy cos his aims was to used u and dump u, bad market for him also cos certainly thats a judgement waiting for him ahead.... And as of u OP love dont decieve u go carry yourself completely spend good two weeks in someone room in the name of love and now e don used u, u come dey say u dey confused, y wont u be confused, when they say do better relationship u girls no go gree u, now e don dump u now.... Chai some of this girls all thesame... Sorry dear that guy don get wetin e wan just move on, ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Am Confused. by Wizklynd23(m): 2:57pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
dacovajnr: leave this girls of now adays, good two weeks inside someone room in the name of love..... That guy don finished with OP, wen dey say let dem do better relationship the girls no gree instead they will go and fall in luv with one maga after e don magaaa dem they will come back and be saying all men are thesame...thats ma no1 problem with most of this gals |
Re: I Am Confused. by izzou(m): 3:00pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Favoured4: That line was not necessary. He made a point even though he was kinda harsh And I don't see why you can't move on. He used you. You must have seen the writings on the wall but you chose to ignore. Two distant years and two intimate weeks is enough for you to have known his intentions. So so sorry for everything sha |
Re: I Am Confused. by edimolu(m): 3:00pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
dacovajnr:
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Re: I Am Confused. by dacovajnr: 3:04pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Wizklynd23:Love never enter this level sef... Op no wan look cheap na e make her never say accept the guy love...but she cum carry herself go meet the guy again for another state..i bet "bitter-cola" get value pass Op for this level baami..she cheap pass pure water ![]() |
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