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I Am Confused. by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jun 17, 2017
Good day Nairalanders.
I don't know what I did wrong and is in need of advice. I met this guy through my cousin in December 2015. since then we have been communicating and he made me realize he wanted a relationship.

Though he is based in Lagos while I am currently schooling and in my final year in a different state. He begged me to pay him a visit and since I wasn't in any relationship having quit one last year, I decided to visit him.
I spent about two weeks and decided to return, but since then we have barely spoken and the painful part is that I already developed a soft spot for him.
while at his place, his pleas made me give in and we got intimate which I regret currently. He was nice but never discussed his request which I hadn't agreed to before paying him a visit.

My confusion is that he has refused to call me and the last time we spoke which is over 10 days, he promised to call at his own convenient time. I feel so stupid and cannot concentrate on what I am doing.

Advice needed please.
Re: I Am Confused. by brighttech95(m): 12:36pm On Jun 17, 2017
Move on with ur life he has gotten wat he set out for which is sex

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Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jun 17, 2017
That one was only interested in what's in-between your legs.

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Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jun 17, 2017
And one correct responsible guy will be asking you out...you will be forming and doing shakara....

now you carry Puna go give playboy smiley



And you con dey love up after in don fvck u finish...



Wetin you dey ask again....Him don get wetin in want....Move on!

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Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 12:46pm On Jun 17, 2017
Dude just used you.

Don't bother yourself crying over a spilt milk, just put an end to whatever feelings you've got for him. kiss

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Re: I Am Confused. by IamSINZ(m): 12:47pm On Jun 17, 2017
RB007:
And one correct responsible guy will be asking you out...you will be forming and doing shakara....

now you carry Puna go give playboy smiley



And you con dey love up after in don fvck u finish...



Wetin you dey ask again....Him don get wetin in want....Move on!

If I was president, I will name you petroleum minister for this comment. grin

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Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 12:49pm On Jun 17, 2017
IamSINZ:

If I was president, I will name you petroleum minister for this comment. grin
gringringringrin
Oyel mini grin

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Re: I Am Confused. by Splinz(m): 12:50pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
That one was only interested in what's in-between your legs.

At her age, she still doesn't know when someone just want to coman chop and go. SMH
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jun 17, 2017
Splinz:


At her age, she still doesn't know when someone just want to coman chop and go. SMH
You won't blame her tho. Two years long distance relationship, and she finally gave in this year. Some guys are assholes. grin
Re: I Am Confused. by MissRaine69(f): 12:57pm On Jun 17, 2017
Favoured4:
Good day Nairalanders.
I don't know what I did wrong and is in need of advice. I met this guy through my cousin in December 2015. since then we have been communicating and he made me realize he wanted a relationship.

Though he is based in Lagos while I am currently schooling and in my final year in a different state. He begged me to pay him a visit and since I wasn't in any relationship having quit one last year, I decided to visit him.
I spent about two weeks and decided to return, but since then we have barely spoken and the painful part is that I already developed a soft spot for him.
while at his place, his pleas made me give in and we got intimate which I regret currently. He was nice but never discussed his request which I hadn't agreed to before paying him a visit.

My confusion is that he has refused to call me and the last time we spoke which is over 10 days, he promised to call at his own convenient time. I feel so stupid and cannot concentrate on what I am doing.

Advice needed please.
Sorry to tell you 2 weeks is a long time to spend with someone you hardly knew.
It was about sex, and he got it that's all it was for him. He wanted a physical relationship and he got it, you want an emotional relationship it's not going to happen here.

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Re: I Am Confused. by IamSINZ(m): 1:00pm On Jun 17, 2017
RB007:

gringringringrin
Oyel mini grin
Just go and be chopping money cheesy
Re: I Am Confused. by IamSINZ(m): 1:04pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
You won't blame her tho. Two years long distance relationship, and she finally gave in this year. Some guys are assholes. grin

And then she let someone she barely knows fück her back to back for two straight weeks? grin


Some girls are senseless tripple-timing pseudo-sanctimonous biitches! grin

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Re: I Am Confused. by Splinz(m): 1:06pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
You won't blame her tho. Two years long distance relationship, and she finally gave in this year. Some guys are assholes. grin

She failed. And this is what the religious people would say: "And Satan finally succeeded in her life".

Benita, mbok pray for her.

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Re: I Am Confused. by TheHistorian(m): 1:16pm On Jun 17, 2017
Fuckingly Stupid! angry
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jun 17, 2017
IamSINZ:


And then she let someone she barely knows fück her back to back for two straight weeks? grin


Some girls are senseless tripple-timing pseudo-sanctimonous biitches! grin
My hand no dey oh!. She was in-love. grin
Splinz:


She failed. And this is what the religious people would say: "And Satan finally succeeded in her life".

Benita, mbok pray for her.
It is well. grin Since we're going spiritual.
Re: I Am Confused. by MrDandy(m): 1:24pm On Jun 17, 2017
*in Tope alabi's voice* Aye le o ibosi o!
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jun 17, 2017
Aderola15:
Dude just used you.

Don't bother yourself crying over a spilt milk, just put an end to whatever feelings you've got for him. kiss
I wish it is easy.
Re: I Am Confused. by cerowo(f): 2:00pm On Jun 17, 2017
D guy was jst after yr body....he has gotten wat he wantd already... Wld advice u shld jst let him be, forget abt him
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jun 17, 2017
IamSINZ:


And then she let someone she barely knows fück her back to back for two straight weeks? grin


Some girls are senseless tripple-timing pseudo-sanctimonous biitches! grin
You can insult all you want, na you holy pass.

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Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 2:06pm On Jun 17, 2017
MissRaine69:

Sorry to tell you 2 weeks is a long time to spend with someone you hardly knew.
It was about sex, and he got it that's all it was for him. He wanted a physical relationship and he got it, you want an emotional relationship it's not going to happen here.
The reason I had to leave my base was because I trusted my cousin who made me know him.
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 2:10pm On Jun 17, 2017
TheHistorian:
Fuckingly Stupid! angry
It isn't your fault.

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Re: I Am Confused. by gabinogem(m): 2:12pm On Jun 17, 2017
Favoured4:
I wish it is easy.
I believe the reason he blanked u was because of the initial hard to get u were giving him... U now made it easier for him after u allowed him tasted ur honeypot for two straight weeks. Take heart, move on.
Re: I Am Confused. by tosyne2much(m): 2:18pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
That one was only interested in what's in-between your legs.
Are you speaking for the dude ni? cheesy
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jun 17, 2017
Favoured4:
I wish it is easy.

Chaiiii! This girl don love up *lemme get my pankere, you need am* angry angry

Owkies... You have to be true to yourself right now, see him for whom he truly is... You're a queen, you deserve better, you deserve a king who isn't going to stoop ridiculously low just to deceive others in order to satisfy their selfish desires.

You need to fall in love with a honest and brave person not some idiotic cowards. He fooled you once and you ain't gonna make yourself a certified fool by falling in love with him. Get over that wimpy bastard asap. angry angry
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jun 17, 2017
Op, the deed has been done, what u need to do now is to move on with ur life unless u have strong feeling for him but u have not to forget that love is two sided and not one sided
Re: I Am Confused. by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jun 17, 2017
tosyne2much:
Are you speaking for the dude ni? cheesy
That's obviously the situation here even though she made a mistake by spending weeks with him.
Re: I Am Confused. by dacovajnr: 2:45pm On Jun 17, 2017
Choi! shocked shocked You travel go meet a guy wey knack you for "Odindin" 2weeks and you neva even gree accept d guyman love advance.


Well you've been "Favoured" as your name implies...I told my paddy that most girls like to dey allow dem Pussay do the thinking when "Fineboy" is involved grin grin grin..

I can't even imagine myself travelling way down to another state just to knack pussy..what would I tell my creator that ayam upto if I die in a Motor accident? grin grin grin


Op kindly accept my Sympathy for your stupidity is inbuilt undecided



Cc:Edimolu

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Re: I Am Confused. by Wizklynd23(m): 2:49pm On Jun 17, 2017
Good market for that guy cos his aims was to used u and dump u, bad market for him also cos certainly thats a judgement waiting for him ahead.... And as of u OP love dont decieve u go carry yourself completely spend good two weeks in someone room in the name of love and now e don used u, u come dey say u dey confused, y wont u be confused, when they say do better relationship u girls no go gree u, now e don dump u now.... Chai some of this girls all thesame... Sorry dear that guy don get wetin e wan just move on, tongue tongue
Re: I Am Confused. by Wizklynd23(m): 2:57pm On Jun 17, 2017
dacovajnr:
Choi! shocked shocked You travel go meet a guy wey knack you for "Odindin" 2weeks and you neva even gree accept d guyman love advance.


Well you've been "Favoured" as your name implies...I told my paddy that most girls like to dey allow dem Pussay do the thinking when "Fineboy" is involved grin grin grin..

I can't even imagine myself travelling way down to another state just to knack pussy..what would I tell my creator that ayam upto if I die in a Motor accident? grin grin grin


Op kindly accept my Sympathy for your stupidity is inbuilt undecided



Cc:Edimolu


leave this girls of now adays, good two weeks inside someone room in the name of love..... That guy don finished with OP, wen dey say let dem do better relationship the girls no gree instead they will go and fall in luv with one maga after e don magaaa dem they will come back and be saying all men are thesame...thats ma no1 problem with most of this gals
Re: I Am Confused. by izzou(m): 3:00pm On Jun 17, 2017
Favoured4:
You can insult all you want, na you holy pass.

That line was not necessary. He made a point even though he was kinda harsh

And I don't see why you can't move on. He used you. You must have seen the writings on the wall but you chose to ignore.

Two distant years and two intimate weeks is enough for you to have known his intentions. So so sorry for everything sha
Re: I Am Confused. by edimolu(m): 3:00pm On Jun 17, 2017
dacovajnr:
Choi! shocked shocked You travel go meet a guy wey knack you for "Odindin" 2weeks and you neva even gree accept d guyman love advance.


Well you've been "Favoured" as your name implies...I told my paddy that most girls like to dey allow dem Pussay do the thinking when "Fineboy" is involved grin grin grin..

I can't even imagine myself travelling way down to another state just to knack pussy..what would I tell my creator that ayam upto if I die in a Motor accident? grin grin grin


Op kindly accept my Sympathy for your stupidity is inbuilt undecided



Cc:Edi.molu

Re: I Am Confused. by dacovajnr: 3:04pm On Jun 17, 2017
Wizklynd23:


leave this girls of now adays, good two weeks inside someone room in the name of love..... That guy don finished with OP, wen dey say let dem do better relationship the girls no gree instead they will go and fall in luv with one maga after e don magaaa dem they will come back and be saying all men are thesame...thats ma no1 problem with most of this gals
Love never enter this level sef... Op no wan look cheap na e make her never say accept the guy love...but she cum carry herself go meet the guy again for another state..i bet "bitter-cola" get value pass Op for this level baami..she cheap pass pure water undecided

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