This might sound like a nollywood script but trust me it's real. My friend, who's a banker, met this girl through a connect and instantly they made a hit. Very beautiful Igbo young girl. Funny thing is the lady that connected them told my friend that he shouldn't take her too seriously like a take home to mama kinda girl, as she knows how loose she can be. Four months down the line, my friend starts getting emotional and even ended something serious he had with his other lady. He went as far as getting her guy's numbr (of course we all know that our girls, no matter how nice and serious we are with the relationship, will aways have the school boyfriend guy that takes care of them...whether or not they do the bleepn act), set up a meet and made him understand terms that he really wants to settle down with her,and that he should make sure he keeps her close as a friend, and not let her mess around with guys...of course it was to be in confidence. My friend's crazy idea, is to try to make sure that even if he knows she likes to do bad stuff and bleep a lot, at least she's doing it with just one dude-someone he also knows, and not sharing the cookie to everyone. I was shocked but he told me he's cool with it, and remembering that he once told me he could marry even a LovePeddler (runs girl), long as she really understands him, gives him peace of mind, and is ready to change....he's a really social, club-life kinda guy anyways. All these of course he did making sure the school guy believed he sees them as jz best friends, and nothing more...she studies in one of the private universities. Well, summarily, however crazy and unrealistic it sounds, it all worked out till the girl found out, got really pissed, and says she wants out...says she can't imagine the fact that a man he plans to be with for life would do that kinda wicked thing to her. They've been on the issue for about two weeks now, my friend is demoralized, says he's way too deeply in love with her. Now there are many questions... How do you love a girl and be cool with another dude bleeping her? Why don't the girl just chill and forgive him since my friend isn't tryna crucify her for cheating? How do you hope to curb her if you finally get married to her (i feel stuff like this results in wife battering, for obvious reasons)? I don't even know what to advise in this situation cos i don't jz see it happening with me, have never imagined it...I guess she's pissed because aside from my friend trying play smart with her, she'd feel ashamed with her school dude and probably his friends after all the lies she'd have told without knowing the guy actually knew, but is it worth throwing the relationship away?... Guys and ladies, what's your take...please reasonable and mature comments

True talk sir..but you we guys, always tryna have our man's back, no matter what..funny thing is, this dude is a real street guy oh..apart from when he's in the banking hall of course. i actually told him to open up to the girl after he told me of the stunt he pulled with her school boy... But he refused, saying she'll get pissed and might end it.

Afonjashapmouth:
Bruh its always good not to get emotionally carried away and leave people with their blind choices especially the stubborn ones, cos at the end either way you carry the blame

m not sure d guy is in love!!! he is jst greedily in lust!!! on d oda hand! d grl is an idiotic idiot 4 wantin 2 end tins wit him! its jst so ironical

I do not understand the whole thing.

The truth is that the girl is tired of the relationship, she just got something to lay hand on as suitable reason for the breakup call. Your friend will get over it, it might take days.

A man with no self worth.

The woman should loose him..