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Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Acidosis(m): 4:39pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
cococandy: Not really, but most were raised by single parents (baby mamas). Some baby mamas can so condition a boy's brain and make him a complete baby dummy. Have you seen the recent costume of Tonto Dike? As long as we continue to encourage divorce, separation and baby mama, the next generation of husband will be so devastating. A grown up mother with a loving and super active husband will not encourage some useless trailing calls from a 30 year boy 4 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
sweerychick: If you want to cwhether a man will respect you ,watch how he treats his mum ..if you wanna c how he will treat kids watch how he treats animals .( pets) Don't try to interfere you don't know what sacrifices his mum made for him as far as am concerned your man is a good man and if you feelits"creepy" walk away. Simple ! 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Oyindidi(f): 4:44pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
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Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by IMASTEX: 4:59pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
fohlarp:She is just a fiancée not yet officially married. She shouldn't turn it to attention seeking game. I believe when the guy is married, he will know the boundaries. If she can't cope, then she should use your last statement |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by ImaIma1(f): 5:04pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
MrMoney007: To think you have the audacity to tell me to shut up means you have a loose nut somewhere. 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by ImaIma1(f): 5:07pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
engrchykae: You should have tried to make sense. |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Gkemz: 5:12pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
He's so much emotionally attached to his mum after losing his dad. It's understandable but as a man he needs to brace himself up for his future wife. Every woman is jealous and wouldn't want to share your attention, love, affection with someone else. As for the lady, if you can manage this attitude of your man, go on with him but if you can't, you have to call it a quit because It's as if you are marrying the mum whose wishes are being played by your man. 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by rumenase(m): 5:16pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
mummy's boy syndrome. Run Run Run 4 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by MrigweC(m): 5:18pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Pidgin2:There is nothing wrong in it ,its common with first and only boys .like I said it gets weird when u calling your mom midnights |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
MrigweC: I said a male being ATTACHED to his mum is always unhealthy and leads to marital problems, it's not good. Of course I like it when a child loves his or her parents but when there's an attachment, that's where the problem lies "A man must leave his mother and father and cleave to his wife' Attachment should be found in couples not parents/children relationship. May God give us knowledge to understand 4 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by pocohantas(f): 5:30pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
boiz2men:Boiz, does it have to be a competition? Why are you men like this? Why did you marry her? To procreate, putting her life on the line and you keep loving your mother. What if she decides to love her own father and maybe siblings more, what love would be left for you both to enjoy as a couple? Let's be realistic, it makes no sense. Mothers should stop this blackmail, raise your sons to be strong men. They should go and create their own family. The bible said a man would leave his parents and cleave to his wife, it didn't make exception for single mothers or double mothers!!! Can you marry a woman who boldly tells you, you come after her father? Women hardly make this statement, it's always you men. Can't you all be men for once. If your wives are not in a competition with side chicks, they're in a competition with your mothers, sisters, brothers...even family pet. 5 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by bitcoinvin(m): 5:37pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
sweerychick: dont blame him dear,happens to everybody whos dad is late.. My dad is late,since then i have taken over his postion and is now more close to my mum than ever..i couldnt believe this..my mum is my world..i told her such on her birthday.. |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by engrchykae(m): 5:40pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
ImaIma1:i will side with my mum and deal with your type until you realize that the first son is also the mum's husband.the irony of life is that nature might just provide you with a woman wrapper. |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by VERON01: 5:42pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Just see opportunity in difficulty @ least u re sure of where to run to when he misbehaves just work on getting closer to his mum than him |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by engrchykae(m): 5:47pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Pidgin2:i had a girl that adore her family but frown whenever she heard that am with my sister.she never care about my family.i left her because she did not see my family like her own.you girls are something else these days but i dont care anyway because am very corrosive and i have killed emotion.so those women tricks dont apply to me.wives are not loyal,only mothers are. |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
engrchykae: Then marry your mother, it will solve all your problems and prevent future ones 3 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:56pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
bitcoinvin: If your mum is your world what will your wife and kids be? 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by orjaha(m): 5:57pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
she is just a fiancé not a wife |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by veraiyke(m): 6:03pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
sweerychick:Hello lady, all you have said calls for no alarm. He loves you and he loves his mom. Personalities differ and the way we react to our mothers who sacrificed so much for us at the demise of our fathers also differ. His statement does not mean he will die once his mother dies. It just explains how much he values and wishes that his mother remain there for him. You can relate that sometimes anybody can make that statement. It doesn't in anyway imply he loves his mom more than you or would prefer her ahead of you. Only he understands what he nd his mother has been through and he feels she has done a lot for him to deserve him running helter skelter to be double sure she's fine. You said his mother told him not to worry but he insisted. To me that says his mother does not dominate him or push him about. It is what he wants to do. If your own biological mother had called saying she's sick and he ran to her in that way, maybe you would have been saying he's so caring and sacrificing and that he values your mother and your family. Sometimes put yourself in people's shoes. Know their past to understand why they act the way they do. Young lady don't let anyone mislead you into missing a happy home with a lovely man. I implore you to love his mother just as you love yours. In fact be the one to remind him about his mother and be supportive to him. His mother is not contending with ya place as to-be wife or wife in few months time. I wish ya a wonderful married life and GoD BLESS ya UNION. |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by grafitti(m): 6:15pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
sweerychick: Hmmm...., my economics teacher tot me dt opportunity cost iscd alternative forgone in d process of making a choice This issue of he's a mummy's boy, u can't win. Its better u knowvdt now b4 u say I do The problem is dt d average woman {be it mother/daughter, mother-in-law/daughter-in-law, sister/sister or wife/sister-in-law etc}- wants her space, pure and simple. If u really want to have a looooooog-lasting marriage with ds particular chap,....*sighs* ......I'm afraid u have to lick ur mother-in-law's behind ![]() "How'' u may ask. U have to see her as ur own mother and not just ur mother-in-law! And this means taking a lot of BS from her! In other words , u'll have to be extra submissive to her-and this takes a lot of humility from u. Can u be ds submissive? If yes, good, go ahead with d marriage; if ur answer is a 'no', dn don't bother going into this particular marriage as its a time bomb! Know for sure that if u see her as 'd other woman/stranger/tresspasser/competitor' , there'll most def be clashes, and if u think bross will take side with u, I'm afraid.......(in dbanj's voice), u're on a looooong tin!!! Best wishes doyinbaby: Cc pocohantas |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Lancelott(m): 6:25pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Mr counselor, please before rendering advice, get the total facts straight. You don't know what the mum passed through for him to get to where he is. When you love someone, you take the baggage with them, that is what a lady will tell you. Is his mum staying in his house? Does he deny her attention? Do you even know parents discuss marital issues with their married daughters, so what is different about the son discussing such with a parent? Am not saying your talk is pointless, am saying it's not totally right as circumstances also matter. IdeyFindWife: |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by ImaIma1(f): 6:36pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
engrchykae: Don't try to justify some unfounded ideas. My hubby is the first boy, his dad is late and he is his mother's husband but he certainly does not subscribe to this way of thinking. I have never felt he puts his mum before me. He knows where to draw the line. That is exactly what most of you are missing. 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Jman06(m): 6:43pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Antoeni:Your own mother must be a bondage to you! |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by DocAdray(f): 6:44pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
sweerychick: Hello dear, please run away before it will be too late. The way it seems, he's closeness to his mum is scary and true to his words, he don't mind dying for/with his mum if need be. There ll be a lot of interference in your marriage. Break up with him else you'll regret it. 4 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by grafitti(m): 6:45pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
boiz2men: pocohantas: The funny tin is dt d average woman is ds realistic as a spinster, but d moment she becomes d mother-in-law d script changes. ![]() Which way nah?! |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Zedoo(m): 6:52pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
sweerychick: Hahaha.. One day your son will be told by his fiance that he is too attached to you..... Accept u can't compete with the mom, she has been there his whole life....just work harder to kolobi him without making it look like quarrel...... Or suggest getting the mom an errand girl who will be on hand to do all those things...period |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by engrchykae(m): 6:59pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Pidgin2:you are a member of the then marry your mother crew.who erroneously think that the world start from their breast and end in between their legs.you never thought that i had another option of marrying another woman.at least a yoruba woman or a benue woman instead of slay queen like you. |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by pocohantas(f): 7:02pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
grafitti: As an average realistic man, are you a mummy's boy? You'll say no. Then how exactly do you think millions of average women in the world would all be clingy mother in-laws? This is very stale. 3 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by grafitti(m): 7:09pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
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Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Godhead4(m): 7:11pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
sweerychick: Sweerychick I think that's more of an exaggeration.. he won't die if his mum dies.. don't be afraid. 2 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by pocohantas(f): 7:12pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
grafitti:My average, look for another person and use for your average comparison. If you're not an average mum's boy, I am not an average prospective clingy mother inlaw. Bye 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
engrchykae: Lol @slay queen hahaha, u sound so childish mummy's boys always so sissy in behavior ![]() 1 Like |
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