My closest friend in school broke up with his girlfriend like 2 months ago because "there were more fishes in the ocean " according to him. After the breakup she was broken. I offered her comfort, was there for her and constantly checked on her as being a nice guy. One thing led to another and everything went too far between I and his ex. She asked me out and I had to play along. The problem is I don't know how long we can hide this from my friend. Though I feel she's using me to get back at my friend and the relationship might still end. I'm scared that he'll find out later on. I'm just a nice guy in a whole lot of mess because he'll see me as a backstabber and I can't just say no to his ex. I'm confused

You are a Sly Nigga and you'll lose both ways. mtscheew.

Confuse people don take over nairaland

you are threading a very dangerous path. Just pray to God to see you through.

If you're 9ice guy then you must be ready for the Payne. Coz if he finds out it's would definitely be Rugged for you

Guy learn to stay away from ur paddy girlfriends - present and past.
It'll save you lots of headache and stress esp coming to nairaland to ask for advice..

Chaiiiiii
God forbid
Why I go swallow what my friend vomit
Never


When we av millions of gals roaming the street.

Maybe it's just something in your expression but somehow I don't believe you're as much of a "Nice guy".

That said, you should tell your friend. You should have actually told him before starting anything, that way you're not in a situation where you're scared of what might happen if he finds out. You should have talked to him as soon as you saw she was into you. Then you'd know if he gave the green light or not (regardless of if he meant it) and you have that as your defence.
Now you're dating a girl, who you're not even sure whether or not she's using you for revenge or rebound or if it's something real.
And You're not being a bestfriend to your bestfriend because so far, you've been dishonest. And that's just basic friendship, not even Nice Guy friendship.

If you actually see him as a friend/care about your friendship, you should let him know. You've already started it, He might not support it but at least it's better than getting caught red handed.

Hmmnn, nawa o... Just kiss your friendship goodbye dat is if you valued it in d first place
Anyway, tell your friend.. Expect the worst, hope for d best.. My 2 cents

Bleep boy




why would u roll with your BEST FRIEND x?






am sure u are d course of d break up @ least 50 % reason y she left d guy

puxi axx niga!!! ur frnds ex wat if he wanna get bak wit her ar u okkk? dia ar way tooo many oda grls around!!! is it dat u dnt kno hw 2 get one 4 ur slf or wat? nd u saw an opportunity of gettin close wit one not minding its ur frnds ex!!! nice guy ma left balls! u knew wat u wanted!!!
itz a no! no! no!!!
end it hw eva u can!!!

uninvited:
My closest friend in school broke up with his girlfriend like 2 months ago because "there were more fishes in the ocean " according to him. After the breakup she was broken. I offered her comfort, was there for her and constantly checked on her as being a nice guy. One thing led to another and everything went too far between I and his ex. She asked me out and I had to play along. The problem is I don't know how long we can hide this from my friend. Though I feel she's using me to get back at my friend and the relationship might still end. I'm scared that he'll find out later on. I'm just a nice guy in a whole lot of mess because he'll see me as a backstabber and I can't just say no to his ex. I'm confused

good example of a pussy ass nigga

pressplay411:
If you're 9ice guy then you must be ready for the Payne. Coz if he finds out it's would definitely be Rugged for you

Lyrically, ya crazie

WildWine:
Maybe it's just something in your expression but somehow I don't believe you're as much of a "Nice guy".

That said, you should tell your friend. You should have actually told him before starting anything, that way you're not in a situation where you're scared of what might happen if he finds out. You should have talked to him as soon as you saw she was into you. Then you'd know if he gave the green light or not (regardless of if he meant it) and you have that as your defence.
Now you're dating a girl, who you're not even sure whether or not she's using you for revenge or rebound or if it's something real.
And You're not being a bestfriend to your bestfriend because so far, you've been dishonest. And that's just basic friendship, not even Nice Guy friendship.

If you actually see him as a friend/care about your friendship, you should let him know. You've already started it, He might not support it but at least it's better than getting caught red handed.

I know what I did was wrong but like I said, I didn't intend to go for her. My intentions were pure, I just saw she was hurting and I wanted to help. I didn't plan for it to get to this way. I just wanted her to be happy.

Another Wayne Bridge and John Terry palava in the making.but Op you're certified SLY!!!

Some kyn advice just dey annoy me..

Some people be saying he should have talked to him.. Na him be her papa?


Or na him pay her bride price?

Please carry on with the chic... Wtf

she"s just using u as a door mat for the main time until she gets the next main guy.no serious minded lady dates her ex boyfriend"s best friend.

Aderola15:


Lyrically, ya crazie

Glad you dig it. You're deep.

dacovajnr:
Another Wayne Bridge and John Terry palava in the making.but Op you're certified SLY!!!

there was this Welsh guy in Man u who banged his elder brother"s wife silly.i have forgotten his name .

lefulefu:

there was this Welsh guy in Man u who banged his elder brother"s wife silly.i have forgotten his name .

That's Eleribu Ryan giggs...The idol of most Mad-U fans

dacovajnr:
That's Eleribu Ryan giggs...The idol of most Mad-U fans

yea! Ryan Giggs
that guy was a badt nigga
i never expected he would be able to do such a thing

lefulefu:

yea! Ryan Giggs
that guy was a badt nigga
i never expected he would be able to do such a thing

He bleeped Her back to back on his matrimonial bed...you shouldn't expect anything less from anything that has Devil's logo inscription on it

uninvited:

I know what I did was wrong but like I said, I didn't intend to go for her. My intentions were pure, I just saw she was hurting and I wanted to help. I didn't plan for it to get to this way. I just wanted her to be happy.

What you did wasn't necessarily wrong. You didn't go with your friend's girl, you went with your friend's ex. As long as you believed he wasn't into her, etc. then that should be fine.
Maybe your intentions were pure, especially considering you've said your friend left her for other "fish in the sea" and you were just trying to be there for her.
The point is you're asking on here and haven't told your friend because whether you like it or not, you feel guilty.

What has happened has happened.
It's all about how you move forward now.
Like I said, I'll tell him rather than him finding out, he's not just some guy you know, he's your best friend.
Maybe it's just casual, maybe it's not.
Maybe you're being used, maybe you're not.
Maybe you're the one using her, maybe you aren't.
Maybe your bestfriend wouldn't care, maybe he would.
Maybe she'll even get back with him, maybe she won't.
And a lot more possibilities.

The longer you wait and keep it a secret, the more complicated things could get.
Think of the longterm

dacovajnr:
He bleeped Her back to back on his matrimonial bed...you shouldn't expect anything less from anything that has Devil's logo inscription on it

..

Guy d type of u na em dey sleep with ena relative wife wen opportune

uninvited:
My closest friend in school broke up with his girlfriend like 2 months ago because "there were more fishes in the ocean " according to him. After the breakup she was broken. I offered her comfort, was there for her and constantly checked on her as being a nice guy. One thing led to another and everything went too far between I and his ex. She asked me out and I had to play along. The problem is I don't know how long we can hide this from my friend. Though I feel she's using me to get back at my friend and the relationship might still end. I'm scared that he'll find out later on. I'm just a nice guy in a whole lot of mess because he'll see me as a backstabber and I can't just say no to his ex. I'm confused

the brother code says your friend girl or ex is a no no

Wetin dey sup with nairaland these days o

each day person must see at least 4 post of confused people seeking for advice (70% of the posts na lie)


confused people don overtake nairaland



and ermm if ur guy na ......... E no suppose talk put

if i date a lady and later a friend of mine dates her its no business of mine and i no go talk or do anything than to wish dem well

anyways.........

How could you loose control of things
Swear you've not slept with her
How did the erection come on if you never wanted it
Being by her can happen without you wanting more
Have you thought of how it would feel when she dumps you boda voltron
Why do you now find it difficult to tell your friend since he called it off

If I'm ur friend ur doing dis to ehn...
U just booked 10 bullets for urself