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Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by grafitti(m): 7:17pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Jman06: Exactly my point! As a spinster, d #average ![]() ![]() #karma~tinz?! Maccoy507: Preach it bro! pocohantas: I accept u 4 ur imperfections.....but Next time use Gugu b4 u type, inugo? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Jman06(m): 7:18pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Naija ladies have just displayed the selfishness which they are known for on this thread. I know deep down they always wish a guy could kill his mom so they can have it all. Yet they would love their own moms o, but expect the guy to abandon his own as if doing that would stop them from dumping the guy when the chips are down. Only foolish guys would allow a lady come between him and his mom and family generally. |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Maccoy507: 7:45pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
GhettoG1:anyone who has a good mother will know that a mother is like a second god after the most high in their life. |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by doyinbaby(f): 7:53pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
I think if you like to marry this guy....you have to love his mum 100%....take his mum to be your mum and you will be good to go.........he loves his mum and he will continue to love her....you can't change that rather accept it and live with it 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by boiz2men(m): 7:54pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
pocohantas: pocobaby, you didnt answer my one simple question.Ever heard of OEDIPUS COMPLEX... it is a sigmeud freud theory that is accepted globally.. although its usage has changed in recent times but its initial meaning is evident in almost all homes... it is stronger with mums and first sons..... as for the bolded, I hear ladies say "I WANT A LADY WHO WOULD LOVE ME LIKE MY DAD"=> anything short is inadequate.... you would become a mother in law someday.. I just wish i would be there to tell you "I TOLD YOU SO" if/when it happens.. |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by doyinbaby(f): 8:00pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
grafitti:matured thinking....the baby has to be extra submissve to the guy mama |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by veraiyke(m): 8:02pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
ImaIma1:my regards. In no place did the op mention the man puts the mom over her. A man running out of the house to make sure his mother is fine even when the mother said he shouldn't worry does not call for worry. If the mother called him and told him to leave everything he is doing and come to her including the fiance then there would be cause for alarm. It is better not to project what was never intended. |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Ngokafor(f): 8:03pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Ralphdan: ...Please do not get married..no one will miss your type.. ..I wonder why you guys cant think like rational beings..will you be happy with a wife who calls her mum morning,noon and night??...who consults and asked for her opinion on every single issue concerning both of you? ...You can marry your mum if you cant grow up..period. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by pocohantas(f): 8:03pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
boiz2men:I guess while typing this, you forgot the mother may also be reaping what she did to her own MIL. Naso!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by veraiyke(m): 8:07pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
DocAdray:like seriously! Break up for no reason. That you consult your mom to advice you or render suggestions is now bad. Poor lady I feel for you because you the op is already finding faults where there's none. The way he meets his mother for advice doesn't he meet you. I think you are seeing his mother as COMPETITOr even before marriage so watch your steps. You might just lose a good husband, home and family because of unfounded ideas and ya attitude. 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by PapaNnamdi: 8:09pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
EasyWork001:Thank you, My mother still comes first 2 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by boiz2men(m): 8:13pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
pocohantas: lol.. its a cycle my dear... you would join someday... its inevitable |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by mrphysics(m): 8:15pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
pocohantas:This is nairaland Theory. it doesn't work in reality. 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by pocohantas(f): 8:17pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
boiz2men:This thing you're saying is stale. Whenever this topic comes up, you guys would be talking off point. The issue isn't him loving his mum, I doubt there is anywhere in my post that said he shouldn't love his mum. The issue is not being able to take decisions without his mother's influence. If you think it's acceptable, marry a mom's girl that would put her mom before you, then put your own mom before her. Keep on taking decisions with your mothers influences. Let's see how the marriage will end up. Fuckeen hypocrisy. Justifying what you all can't take. I'm out of here jare. 5 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by boiz2men(m): 8:47pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
pocohantas: is this what the thread is about? i didnt read the content but the topic... but then any other day, its my mum first.. all my childhood memories are still sharp in my head... some people have terrible mums .. i dont... if i lose my life, my wife can remarry and she would mourn me for only a time but my mum would mourn me all her life... mums can give their lives for their sons but wives cant.... i owe no one no apology.. if im in a critical situation where i have to choose who would live between my mum and wife.... i would choose my mum.. if you were born into affluence, you might never know what manner of love mums have for their children esp their sons... I remember just like yesterday when i got into admitted into school but there was no money to process my admission.. when i told her i was admitted into UNIBEN.. she was filled she joy and it became sour and she started to cry when she remembered it would cost money to be in med school for 6 good years... no where she didnt borrow money from to make sure i process the admission... I am a licensed health practitioner now. all thanks to her.... in fact, you made me emotional... i am going to call her now and say "THANK YOU" for no apparent reason... In fact, i would choose my dad over anyone else sef ![]() |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by pocohantas(f): 9:30pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by jaydee87(m): 9:57pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
NairaSand:she Neva mentioned he was asking her before making decisions. she just scared over nothing. our emotions differs. ask the op how many times he calls in a day? am sure he calls her more than once. |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by MissRaine69(f): 10:26pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Pidgin2:I will reiterate You don't know the history. |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Alobogab(m): 10:35pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Another possessive wife in the making. Within months of marriage, The mother in law would become a witch. if she grow old enough to become a mother, the daughter in law will start from where she stops and the vicious circle continuous |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Missfads(f): 11:01pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
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Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Jazmiynne: 11:19pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
sweerychick: I've only read the first page and honestly it's very annoying many of the comments I've seen. Especially where one person said a mother can never make decisions in the marriage of her son which would not be for his advantage. Like seriously? Are these people in this world or elsewhere? Now to the matter... I'm going to tell you exactly how I would react in your shoes. For your good, I think it's a good advice but you do not have to take it though. If truly you are dating a full grown man who has a full-time job and yet calls his mother every one hour, then I honestly do not think you need anyone to tell you that you are about to sign to become a passenger in your own life. The Bible does indeed say that a man would leave his father and mother and stick with his wife. I tell you, a man who would leave his job to call a mother who is not sick every one hour, that man is not planning to leave his mother and stick with you. It even becomes even more alarming when his mother complains of HEADACHE and he is ready to leave his job (in this recession) to buy drugs for headache even when the woman said she had it under control. As in, as he love im mama reach he no get phone number of anybody wey de d compound wey he fit call to buy drugs for am? Lol, That is some obsession there. It depends on you though... If you don't mind being wife number 2 after his mum, you can go ahead. While you are considering this, imagine a lifetime where you are constantly playing second fiddle after mumsy and it gets to a point you start being compared to mumsy... Your food, your housekeeping, etc. If you mind, talk to him about it.... If it doesn't work, then please breakup, cry, and get stronger. A man who loves his mother is gold as it shows you how well he cares for the first woman he ever had to care for. However, a man whose mother is his soul is arsenic and can only bring you the poisonous venom of his obsession to his mother. ***If I were you, I would have only one option*** ![]() There are already plenty ups and downs that comes with marriage, the ones that you see before you enter, do your best to confirm if u can truly handle them 2 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by boiz2men(m): 11:38pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Jazmiynne: cluster headache,migraines can lead to suicidal attempt.... u go born too and ya son go marry.... ![]() continue with ya advice... i just wanted u to know one of the types of headache 1 Like |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by liberalchick(f): 11:54pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
frubben: So thunder will fire the woman that was inside sun, receiving insult form little conductor bus just to get to work and put food on the table of YOUR children. Isn't your wife going to be the MOTHER to your CHILDREN?! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by pocohantas(f): 11:58pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
boiz2men:enough of this. You will marry too. Can you marry a girl that calls her father every hour? Doesn't take decisions without consulting her father? Can you?? Would you be happy with your father inlaw interfering in your marriage and marital decisions? Please marry that type of lady and you'll also know the types of headache. 5 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by boiz2men(m): 12:03am On Jun 18, 2017 |
pocohantas: well done ma ![]()
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Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by pocohantas(f): 12:06am On Jun 18, 2017 |
boiz2men:I knew you can't say yes to that...bloody hypocrites ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Jazmiynne: 12:11am On Jun 18, 2017 |
boiz2men: You can't teach me the types of headaches there are. I spent about one and a half years of my life convincing medical specialists why my therapy is best for their patients. But if you have eyes, you can open it and read and then discern that the Op was referring to the regular headache. u go born too and ya son go marry....Yes and I most definitely hope he would have a life of his own not one where he has to be calling me every one hour. Calling his mum at one hour intervals daily when she isn't sick is creepy! Accept it or leave it. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by boiz2men(m): 12:13am On Jun 18, 2017 |
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Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by boiz2men(m): 12:18am On Jun 18, 2017 |
Jazmiynne: i like to read ya literature reviews, journals and statistical report on the said therapy..... Maybe we can wok it out to become a treatment regimen
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Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by LadyP3(f): 3:04am On Jun 18, 2017 |
sweerychick: I think it's time to say, "It's over". Why? It will get worse when you're married. Mommy will always be in all your decision making and more. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 4:33am On Jun 18, 2017 |
PapaNnamdi:Therefore, your wife will put her own parents before you, equation balance. 2 Likes |
Re: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by Nobody: 4:42am On Jun 18, 2017 |
MissRaine69: You think the lady doesn't have a history too, didn't her mother suffer to give birth to her too. I think if the OP wants to marry the guy she should make sure her own mum or dad is placed above him. This is the only way they can live together amicably 4 Likes |
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