Greetings
pls am not too good at writing
Their is this girl a customer of mine she is beautiful and has all the specs I want in a woman(fair,thick with extremely flat tummy, neatness, with no stretch marks) when I see she was already into me I didn't waste time to ask her out on our first date most of what  we  discussed was all sexually one thing lead to the other and we are already smooching and kissing on the hotel bed (no oral)just as I was about going in she dropped the bomb am married I tried waving  it aside thinking is one of those excuse ladies use but this time she said it with a serious face. O boy i use speed abort mission. I asked her what about her husband she said he is a sailor and hardly come home. After that I was not convinced till I ask a fellow customer staying same street with her and she confirmed yes she is married with 3 kids since then my heart keep judging me I slept with a married woman. till today she is still trying to lure me into having sex with her.
BUT MY QUESTIONS IS :
Did I commit.....?

whitebeard:
is anything wrong with u.what nonsense is this. This is old school stuff abeg

no mind that nonsense boy he must be a nuisance at home. See as he wan spoil this thread for nothing. @ OP dont go for second round. Just stay clear off her. But na wa for you ooo. Some boys sha u went on a first date with a lady and its straight to sex, you no dry fear sef. Some people have slept with ghost and maimi water like that oo pls take caution next time. As for that woman keep off am sure u re not her first target many have gone dont join them. Your story may turn worst. Stay away from her.

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This is just messed up. OP, just don't have sex with her again. you knew it was wrong but you did it anyway and you'll be rewarded in your turn. This fact is established.

A man is off working off his ass to feed his house and you dare bed his sexually starved wife?. It seems your own conscience doesn't even conform to her preconceived notions of lust.
Just do what you think is right man.

ErnieSmallzz:
the woman is stupid wen she knows she wants the sex, why did she bring up dat topic? OP, no worry, u not at fault. She is too dense

I was damm scared when a friend of mine i expliained to said yes that i have committed as long as we have mixed spit together that cursed more anger as I called to tell her she should keep off from me and stop patronising me but she showed on my birthday with gift asking me we should be cool and let it slide away. We just friends and she still comes close to me even do am avoiding her

Pray to God and sincerely ask for forgiveness,next time she comes around give her a stern warning to leave you alone and threaten to report her to her husband..


If you are still lusting after her then it's beyond my advice

i do lust for women too but never make a move without identifying with her if she's single or not. u've committed just give all ur wealth to charity and begin afresh.

ikeepitreal:
This is just messed up. OP, just don't have sex with her again. you knew it was wrong but you did it anyway and you'll be rewarded in your turn. This fact is established.

A man is off working off his ass to feed his house and you dare bed his sexually starved wife?. It seems your own conscience doesn't even conform to her preconceived notions of lust.
Just do what you think is right man.

my write up didn't say I penetrated inside her but we are just kissing and touching was about to when she brought the issues up

newyorks:
i do lust for women too but never make a move without identifying with her if she's single or not. u've committed just give all ur wealth to charity and begin afresh.

U are scaring me more

Act 17:30 And the times of this ignorance God winked at; but now commandeth all men every where to repent:

New American Standard Bible
"Therefore having overlooked the times of ignorance, God is now declaring to men that all people everywhere should repent,

Bishopvic

newyorks:
i do lust for women too but never make a move without identifying with her if she's single or not. u've committed just give all ur wealth to charity and begin afresh.

why are you dis wicked, start afresh in dis economy

Bishopvic:
U are scaring me more

her hubby is far the coast risking his life for his wife and children now u want to start bleeping her wifey. money is never her problem that i am quite sure, not blaming her cos is not easy to go that length of time. remember jesus was to be sold and crusified but from who's hand? again are u telling us u can't diffrenciate a girl from a woman?

BadBlaize:

why are you dis wicked, start afresh in dis economy

Lols

Bros abeg where you dey stay?

Bishopvic:
Greetings
pls am not too good at writing
Their is this girl a customer of mine she is beautiful and has all the specs I want in a woman(fair,thick with extremely flat tummy, neatness, with no stretch marks) when I see she was already into me I didn't waste time to ask her out on our first date most of what  we  discussed was all sexually one thing lead to the other and we are already smooching and kissing on the hotel bed (no oral)just as I was about going in she dropped the bomb am married I tried waving  it aside thinking is one of those excuse ladies use but this time she said it with a serious face. O boy i use speed abort mission. I asked her what about her husband she said he is a sailor and hardly come home. After that I was not convinced till I ask a fellow customer staying same street with her and she confirmed yes she is married with 3 kids since then my heart keep judging me I slept with a married woman. till today she is still trying to lure me into having sex with her.
BUT MY QUESTIONS IS :
Did I commit.....?

I Almost got caught up in this kind mess before too... the Lady was young and I never knew she was married. the husby is rarely around. thank God is a deep research to find out.. omo na so I pull out...


now I understand ladies crave attention as much as men do in relationships and marriages...


op. stop banging here ...move on already and Neva give in again.. seems u a have a strong conscience, next time be sure of d lady's status....

the topic though

newyorks:
her hubby is far the coast risking his life for his wife and children now u want to start bleeping her wifey. money is never her problem that i am quite sure, not blaming her cos is not easy to go that length of time. remember jesus was to be sold and crusified but from who's hand? again are u telling us u can't diffrenciate a girl from a woman?

where in the write up did I say I wanted to have sex with her? Nor had sex with her? Brother am not looking for sugar mommy.money is not my problem i won't say am too rich as well. And marrige is not written on the forehead either

Op what do you mean by commit.

A thick woman with flat tummy, That's rare

ErnieSmallzz:
the woman is stupid wen she knows she wants the sex, why did she bring up dat topic? OP, no worry, u not at fault. She is too dense

Sister, abeg, which one is too dense?

Don't eat another man thing, bible says you can not be innocent. Will you like someone giving side kicks to your wife.? Think about it.

Bishopvic:
where in the write up did I say I wanted to have sex with her? Nor had sex with her? Brother am not looking for sugar mommy.money is not my problem i won't say am too rich as well. And marrige is not written on the forehead either

don't try to justify ur evil perhaps what where u doing in a hotel room with woman if ur intentions where not to bleep? is there a bible class?

Be prepared for public shame

subtlemee:
Pray to God and sincerely ask for forgiveness,next time she comes around give her a stern warning to leave you alone and threaten to report her to her husband..


If you are still lusting after her then it's beyond my advice

Lady, you are giving people poison, why Are you not telling him to go to church and repent,

@OP, be cautious and get married so there won't be next time. Avoid, I repeat AVOID that lady. Formication is a big case, but Aldutery? You have multiple cases to answer and Karma does not forgive.

newyorks:
don't try to justify ur evil perhaps what where u doing in a hotel room with woman if ur intentions where not to bleep? is there a bible class?

oga I don't just understand you.

did you read what the op just said, he didn't know she was married, any guy will want to get down with any sexy lady. so don't paint the op bad .

op forget about her, don't ever, I repeat don't ever have sex with a married woman.

I'm just here reading bias hypocritical comments. The I read comments on Nairaland, the more I hate dealing with religious folks. Their hypocrisy and bias too much.

OP, you shouldn't have posted this. Move on bro. It wasn't your fault. She posed as an unmarried lady. Any guy who is sexually active would have done the same and even penetrated her if he didn't know that she's married.

It was a case of mistaken identity. Move on! I repeat, move on!

Wetin dey pain me pass be say even dogs wey dey fűck people wey they never marry every week go come here dey yarn trash like say they holy. Sin na sin.

Here's how to keep her off. Always ask her about her husband's welfare. Make 80% of your conversations with her all about her husband. That's how I keep deals with girls around me who are in relationships.

Bro you're too mature to be bringing stuff as simple as this to the public.

NO u didn't