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Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by blaqroy: 4:47pm On Jun 18, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
He is simply a woman wrapper who hasn't learnt how manipulative women are...


Before he will know it, he will be corked inside a bottle.

Can you get a sense for once kidkid embarassedembarassed
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by Azam101: 4:54pm On Jun 18, 2017
PaperLace:
This shows that kids are smart and sensitive: they see and hear every. It takes a virtuous woman to keep a home and a loving man to get the best out of that virtuous woman.

Men should take it easy on the dictatorship. When you lord over your wife, she might rebel or better still give you the total submission you seek _ but we all need someone to counter us with reverence. Who else is better for the job if not ones spouse that knows you in and out? You're the head and a good wife knows this, you don't have to go out of your way to prove it.

A good woman is more powerful than you know, she is very analytical and discerning. When you take away that power to voice out her concerns, by forcing her into sheepish submission , there shall be issues. Maybe not now, but in future.

Some couples spend so much energy fighting themselves at home. Both trying to outdo the other _that's why they don't have any energy remaining for work and lovemaking .
LMAO
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by obataokenwa(m): 4:57pm On Jun 18, 2017
supereagle:


If you have a possessed wife, you will regret coming across her not to talk about marrying her.
Is only death that don't have repairs/amendment/solution.

Besides, I don't reason failure. Maybe you so wish it or expect it.
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by Azam101: 4:58pm On Jun 18, 2017
Evablizin:
Oh thank God one has repented that is one down in the area of i'm always in charge i'm the man of the house i have the final say,good ladies are their to support you and make work easy not to collect your title.
Nice writeup!

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Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by supereagle(m): 5:08pm On Jun 18, 2017
obataokenwa:
Is only death that don't have repairs/amendment/solution.

Besides, I don't reason failure. Maybe you so wish it or expect it.


Don't for your enemies to marry a stubbornly possessed woman.
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by stuffs4me(m): 5:10pm On Jun 18, 2017
cococandy:
The man that will disrespect me in the presence of my kids has not been born. After the first time (if he's foolish enough to try it), it won't happen again.

My advice ladies: know who you marry. If he's obsessed with 'headship' during the dating stage, that's a big red flag.

Only insecure people need to put others down especially in the presence of others in other to elevate themselves.
If a man has to be taught that himself and his wife are partners and should always present a United front to their kids, he's not ready to marry.

The senseless and mumu ones have arrived.
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by Nobody: 5:10pm On Jun 18, 2017
obiezed:

Ikpuoto nne gi,scum.

Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by supereagle(m): 5:11pm On Jun 18, 2017
obataokenwa:
Is only death that don't have repairs/amendment/solution.

Besides, I don't reason failure. Maybe you so wish it or expect it.


Don't pray for your enemies to marry a stubbornly possessed woman.
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by obataokenwa(m): 5:13pm On Jun 18, 2017
supereagle:



Don't for your enemies to marry a stubbornly possessed woman.
I don't have enemies... If they exist I don't know.

I'm too loaded with positivity, so no time to know if an enemy is there or not.

Isa 49:16 Behold, I have graven thee upon the palms of [my] hands; thy walls [are] continually before me.
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by Ishilove: 5:17pm On Jun 18, 2017
obiezed:

I don't usually do this,but you must be dense,or you didn't read the story thru very well,the person in question is a cousin of mine,you would wish to be his wife with the amount of trips abroad she takes yearly,and he doesn't mistreat her in the least bit,was just prone to spoiling his kids a little too much,till he started realising they were playing his kindness for weakness.you must retarded to read thru and call him a egomanic fucvktard,you piece of shit.
Both you and your so-called cousin are egomanic fvcktards!

Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by supereagle(m): 5:19pm On Jun 18, 2017
obataokenwa:
I don't have enemies... If they exist I don't know.

I'm too loaded with positivity, so no time to know if an enemy is there or not.

Isa 49:16 Behold, I have graven thee upon the palms of [my] hands; thy walls [are] continually before me.
You have, Jesus Christ the master Himself had.
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by obataokenwa(m): 5:23pm On Jun 18, 2017
supereagle:

You have, Jesus Christ the master Himself had.
Help me locate them please. Thanks
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by Nedsnow(m): 5:42pm On Jun 18, 2017
x240:
you are one of the reasons many Nigerians don't own up to mistakes.

It takes someone intelligent to make a mistake and try and correct it but it shows how shitty another person is who can't help but find a way to judge people and rain invectives.



Your type just come online and make mouth and frost. See you threatening fire and brimstone over something you could school him over gently. Asking for headship ain't about insecurity. It's a result of what the environment, society, culture and religion dictate. He who pays the piper, dictates the tune. More reason we need to abolish all these bride price, women not contributing to the family resources thing so they can effectively have a say and get marriages to be a team efforr not the he is the man and needs to do the all in all.

No one is holding brief for him but both men and women are actually guilty of pushing such narratives that the man is always right and the woman with her idiosyncrasies cannot be trusted with decisions. As much as that is not true the many examples of women letting their emotions cloud their judgment fuels such belief systems. It is a known fact that most ladies are risk averse and would prefer the "man" make the decisions.


It would take a lot of time to change the perception but we can all do more by training our boys that yeah they have advantages in some areas but the opposite sex also have skills that can be used in achieving greter results in a home. That's more pragmatic than all you i have not seen a man born or whatever you keep spitting up there. The problem of marriages that we have currently stems from the advices and views of you extreme lefties and righties in both the male and female camp who believe in absolutes and don't see things the way they are.

Young single ladies should take the more pragmatic approcach. You can't remove decades of nuture and environmental stereotypes out of him in a day. Else you would just be jumping from one guy to the other. Men aren't robots that you can't speak to and mold their outlook towards life.

Bros!!!
Kneel down and let me pray for you.
Because of this your post, God will bless your home yafunyafun. You are blessed bro.
You ve said it all

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Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by supereagle(m): 5:44pm On Jun 18, 2017
obataokenwa:
Help me locate them please. Thanks

Satan
The World
The flesh
These are Christian enemies. Satan is an arch enemy.
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by Fkforyou(m): 5:48pm On Jun 18, 2017
He realised his mistake, instead of him to quietly rectify it, he had to come to social media to announce it probably to impress other women.

He will be surprised that after his bull crap story he would still be downgraded and insulted by the same women he is trying to impress... undecided

He will soon be surprised to know that, reality is quite different from what he perceives is supposed to be the ideal very soon. undecided

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Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by sekem: 5:50pm On Jun 18, 2017
obataokenwa:
I've seen wicked men also that became bedridden at old age and their wife used their fish brain to show them "shege".

My people said... "A sheep thinks its doing anybody by defecating watery faeces on itself, but it will suffer the consequences when flies becomes its companion".

If you have to wait until old age before you take your own pound of flesh, then you might as well take the title for the biggest fish brain to have ever walked the surface of earth

Guy you betta open your eyes now

Don't let any woman fool you into believing that real men shït
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by obataokenwa(m): 5:55pm On Jun 18, 2017
supereagle:


Satan
The World
The flesh
These are Christian enemies. Satan is an arch enemy.
All this has been defeated and I don't know they exist and don't have effect on me....

Col 2:14 Blotting out the handwriting of ordinances that was against us, which was contrary to us, and took it out of the way, nailing it to his cross;
Col 2:15 [And] having spoiled principalities and powers, he made a shew of them openly, triumphing over them in it.



Luk 10:19 Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you.
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by obataokenwa(m): 5:58pm On Jun 18, 2017
sekem:


If you have to wait until old age before you take your own pound of flesh, then you might as well take the title for the biggest fish brain to have ever walked the surface of earth

Guy you betta open your eyes now

Don't let any woman fool you into believing that real men shït

With your mentality, I fear for your wife. So how do you expect your daughters to be treated by their husband?
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by Phi001(m): 6:03pm On Jun 18, 2017
Much ado about nothing.

What my sister and I did then was simple. If we know popsi will say no, we ask momsi. If we know momsi will say no, we ask popsi...


QED!!!
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by chukzyfcbb: 12:31am On Jun 19, 2017
obataokenwa:
Very good lesson. My mentality about women changed after I read Myles Munroe's book (Understanding The Power and Purpose of a Woman). From that moment, I will support my wife and my girls to achieve whatever they want to achieve. Steve Harvey's Book (Treat Her Like A Lady) also did a great lesson to me. I smh for men that beat their women.
I am a huge addict of any Myles Munroe books, pls do u have them in e format. I will be very glad if you did and could sent them via email. thanks
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by obiezed: 7:58am On Jun 19, 2017
Ishilove:

Both you and your so-called cousin are egomanic fvcktards!

Lol,doesn't change the fact that the males in your kindred are demented,chauvinistic,leprechauns, they are why you think all men operate on your pond scum level,you nematode, seriously, how many were abused as a child to end up like this??.
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by Ishilove: 8:39am On Jun 19, 2017
obiezed:

Lol,doesn't change the fact that the males in your kindred are demented,chauvinistic,leprechauns, they are why you think all men operate on your pond scum level,you nematode, seriously, how many were abused as a child to end up like this??.
Lmao! So in your mind you have made sense, abi? cheesy Your puerile rants show you have just learnt new words.

A) Define and explain, in less than 200 words, the meanings of the below:

i. Leprechaun

ii. Nematode

iii. Chauvinistic

iv. Demented

B) Give the etymology and origins of the above. Make sure your answers pass copyscape.

Your reward for answering the questions correctly will be a functioning brain and a whole lot of freebies attached!




Oponu radarada. Leprechaun ko, lepa shandy ni

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Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by obiezed: 10:28am On Jun 19, 2017
Ishilove:

Lmao! So in your mind you have made sense, abi? cheesy Your puerile rants shows you have just learnt new words.

A) Define and explain, in less than 200 words, the meanings of the below:

i. Leprechaun

ii. Nematode

iii. Chauvinistic

iv. Dememted

B) Give the etymology and origins of the above. Make sure your answers pass copyscape.

Your reward for answering the questions correctly will be a functioning brain and a whole lot of freebies attached!




Oponu radarada. Leprechaun ko, lepa shandy ni
LOL,that the best you got,your clap back is weaker than an octogenarian's erection.you obviously think everyone is a half baked fruit like you.answer the damned question.you devolved degenerate, I can keep this going ad infinitum,no gimmicks, no meme's,just words off the top of my head,shit for brains.
Answer the damned question
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by Ishilove: 10:33am On Jun 19, 2017
obiezed:

LOL,that the best you got,your clap back is weaker than an octogenarian's erection.you obviously think everyone is a half baked fruit like you.answer the damned question.you devolved degenerate, I can keep this going ad infinitum,no gimmicks, no meme's,just words off the top of my head,shit for brains.
Answer the damned question
Buhahahahahahahaha! Chaiiiiii!! cheesy

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Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by obiezed: 11:16am On Jun 19, 2017
Ishilove:

Buhahahahahahahaha! Chaiiiiii!! cheesy


Hold on,I haven't gone full savage yet,you bottom feeding,full flushing, sack of diseased rhinoceros shit.keep coming till you realise you done chose the wrong one to test.ezhi.
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by AngelicBeing: 1:09pm On Jun 19, 2017
obiezed:

Hold on,I haven't gone full savage yet,you bottom feeding,full flushing, sack of diseased rhinoceros shit.keep coming till you realise you done chose the wrong one to test.ezhi.
grin grin
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by AngelicBeing: 1:09pm On Jun 19, 2017
Chai wink
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by ImaIma1(f): 1:27pm On Jun 19, 2017
PaperLace:
This shows that kids are smart and sensitive: they see and hear every. It takes a virtuous woman to keep a home and a loving man to get the best out of that virtuous woman.

Men should take it easy on the dictatorship. When you lord over your wife, she might rebel or better still give you the total submission you seek _ but we all need someone to counter us with reverence. Who else is better for the job if not ones spouse that knows you in and out? You're the head and a good wife knows this, you don't have to go out of your way to prove it.

A good woman is more powerful than you know, she is very analytical and discerning. When you take away that power to voice out her concerns, by forcing her into sheepish submission , there shall be issues. Maybe not now, but in future.

Some couples spend so much energy fighting themselves at home. Both trying to outdo the other _that's why they don't have any energy remaining for work and lovemaking .

Kids are smarter than we thing. I realized it when i watched my friend's baby. When you stop her from sucking her thumb, she takes a cloth and covers her thumb in her mouth to hide it. A 3months old baby.

Don't underestimate them
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by salesforce: 2:43pm On Jun 19, 2017
Ha
Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by Ishilove: 3:27pm On Jun 19, 2017
obiezed:

Hold on,I haven't gone full savage yet,you bottom feeding,full flushing, sack of diseased rhinoceros shit.keep coming till you realise you done chose the wrong one to test.ezhi.
Lol. India delta india oscar tango cheesy

See as you're splashing spittle and vibrating. The noisy echo of your empty cranium has distracted and fooled you into believing you're actually making sense. Responding in like manner will mean descending to your abysmal level (such an indignity!) so let me leave you to keep entertaining me like the village idiot you are. grin

Re: Nigerian Man Who Intentionally Shuts Down Wife In Front Of Their Kids Changes by jnrbayano(m): 4:00pm On Jun 19, 2017
Ishilove:

Both you and your so-called cousin are egomanic fvcktards!


The guy in the Op retraced his steps. Why still call him a fuccktard?

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