hello nairalanders. I have a friend who is in die need of relationship advice. I can't do it alone, thats why I am putting it up here for the gurus in relationship to contribute too. Please how can he end up a relationship he has been into for like 8months now without hurting the other partner? Reasons he gave for the break up
1. they are not of same class.
2. Age difference is just too much. she is older than him
3. The love is no longer there again as it was it the beginning. that is on his side
4. she is over size.. everything about her big and plenty...
and lastly she has a son that is 11years

Wait what exactly is the break up problem, he is afraid to say it, or he just feels that he would hurt her if he says it..!!??

Let's breakup please.

whitebeard:
Wait what exactly is the break up problem, he is afraid to say it, or he just feels that he would hurt her if he says it..!!??

saying it, will hurt her and make her depress

Nma27:
Let's breakup please.

lol... easier said than done

tell him to end it Hw he start it

godfrey01:
hello nairalanders. I have a friend who is in die need of relationship advice. I can't do it alone, thats why I am putting it up here for the gurus in relationship to contribute too. Please how can he end up a relationship he has been into for like 8months now without hurting the other partner? Reasons he gave for the break up
1. they are not of same class.
2. Age difference is just too much. she is older than him
3. The love is no longer there again as it was it the beginning. that is on his side
4. she is over size.. everything about her big and plenty...
and lastly she has a son that is 11years

After 8months constantly fucking her ass. is now he is realising that everything is big big. he started it big let him also end it big.

godfrey01:


saying it, will hurt her and make her depress

arhh, those kind of break up, OK this can go south real fast, it depends on her sha, but the love is no longer there nah, see guy no one would be depress based on the fact that the love is gone tell him to give it a shot, it a green light from me but still hold on for more advice.

Their friend again

He shud js sit her down tell her his had time t tink n truth be told he cant keep up cos first shes older aswell as has a son..he needs some space t figure stuffs out cos am sure d woman no tel ham about d kid initially(run from dere)..its for d best n she wud find someone else..trust me she wud undastnd if not den shes a psychopath...#MILF

Aaaaaaaa na wa oooo but wait ooo was he blind before going inn,na wa ooo well nor get weitin person nor go see,(babe don't u tink it's time for me to be alone)she go just understand

Nma27:
Let's breakup please.

just talk like say na dem dey go school put

godfrey01:
hello nairalanders. I have a friend who is in die need of relationship advice. I can't do it alone, thats why I am putting it up here for the gurus in relationship to contribute too. Please how can he end up a relationship he has been into for like 8months now without hurting the other partner? Reasons he gave for the break up
1. they are not of same class.
2. Age difference is just too much. she is older than him
3. The love is no longer there again as it was it the beginning. that is on his side
4. she is over size.. everything about her big and plenty...
and lastly she has a son that is 11years

1. Did he not notice before wasting her time for 8 months?
2. Is he just knowing that?
3. Normal thing....the gra-gra do fades but what has he done to spice up the relationship?
4. Fat girl? EWWWW but was he blind as well?
Lastly, she did not tell him before or is he just knowing this too as well?

Breh, the guy is just tired of the pussy and wants to move on.....He can just act mature and tell her he is not feeling it

Lol..d love don fade, eyes don open baa? Theres a trend i notice usually...before a guy brks up, he says he doesnt wanna hurt the lady. I hardly hear same from ladies..guess another man is always already making advances or so.

Well let him look for something to keep telling her he doesn't like about her and she's refusing to improve. But the issue is if she loves you, she'll beg to change to soothe you. If she's not that affectionate (...which isn't even expected from a single mother...) she'll turn it to a fight matter and claims to be hurt.

Goodluck

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oshinadekunle:
tell him to end it Hw he start it

this one really got me laughing out loud.

If I were to be in the same situation, I will just cut off any means of communication. If she calls, I won't pick. Text, I won't reply. And if she comes to my house to find out what the problem is, I will tell my siblings and friends to tell her that I got a job in Jupiter and have RElocated there

… but I can't be in such situation because I will never enter a relationship with a lady I can't put up with forever.

godfrey01:


saying it, will hurt her and make her depress

Then no point pitying her. If you're scared your words may hurt her, then go AWOL. She'll get the message from your actions.

godfrey01:
hello nairalanders. I have a friend who is in die need of relationship advice. I can't do it alone, thats why I am putting it up here for the gurus in relationship to contribute too. Please how can he end up a relationship he has been into for like 8months now without hurting the other partner? Reasons he gave for the break up
1. they are not of same class.
2. Age difference is just too much. she is older than him
3. The love is no longer there again as it was it the beginning. that is on his side
4. she is over size.. everything about her big and plenty...
and lastly she has a son that is 11years

Wat was he thinking b4 entering into it

oshinadekunle:
tell him to end it Hw he start it

Abi na, he did not seek for advice when he started it why seek advice to end it? ....When him dey chop oversize meat him no know say na him teeth and gum go hear am.

Op, Abeg tell ur friend that he is "stuck in the middle"....lol

I guess he knew partially all dis b4 goin ahead with her, u jes nid to tell her an edited truth!

Cheat on her constantly and make sure she always find out, anytime she finds out apologize, once e don too much na she go run. Thank me later

D reasons u listed here....just tell him to relate it to her exactly.....i dnt see any big issue here...

They said Matured minds only...then all the clowns of NL came here and they are composing emselves... ....how epic

godfrey01:
hello nairalanders. I have a friend who is in die need of relationship advice. I can't do it alone, thats why I am putting it up here for the gurus in relationship to contribute too. Please how can he end up a relationship he has been into for like 8months now without hurting the other partner? Reasons he gave for the break up
1. they are not of same class.
2. Age difference is just too much. she is older than him
3. The love is no longer there again as it was it the beginning. that is on his side
4. she is over size.. everything about her big and plenty...
and lastly she has a son that is 11years

Exactly like the PP Brooke said, all these are things that I mean he didn't need 8 months to figure out. If he wasn't comfortable with all those things, why did he remain with her.
Except maybe the falling out of love and the Son, assuming she hid it from him. If she did hide that information from him, that should have been a simple exit strategy then.
Falling out of love(LUST) is a good enough reason to end things. If it's not happening, it's not happening.

He should just simply be honest and end it, he's had his fun, let him not waste any more of her time.

Lol, You can't expect the euphoric feeling of love to last forever

...sooner or later, you'll come down from that emotional ''highness''.

And then the work and effort begins. . .

Walk away from it all.. Slowly but surely without a fight

The guy don chop money tire and his eye Don clear... Me I always use absence and over busy to pass my message. Guys should all read 48Laws of power.

godfrey01:
hello nairalanders. I have a friend who is in die need of relationship advice. I can't do it alone, thats why I am putting it up here for the gurus in relationship to contribute too. Please how can he end up a relationship he has been into for like 8months now without hurting the other partner? Reasons he gave for the break up
1. they are not of same class.
2. Age difference is just too much. she is older than him
3. The love is no longer there again as it was it the beginning. that is on his side
4. she is over size.. everything about her big and plenty...
and lastly she has a son that is 11years

Hope you're not talking about one lady I chop that year! Hmmmmm.. It's easy... Let her c your lovey conversation with another person... (don't show it to her ooo...drop your phone n let her have access to it) after give her little or no attention.... Then she's gone

thanks all.. I really appreciate your contributions. To be sincere majority of the contributions were very funny. Nairaland a a website to remember...

godfrey01:

saying it, will hurt her and make her depress

Wasnt he aware of her son and other issues b4 starting ?
Or he just wanted a fling at first ?

godfrey01:

saying it, will hurt her and make her depress

ok.
Dont say it.

Take her out for dinner or lunch and after the food still in the restaurant or wherever, tell her its me not U phrase...

She be angry, but the food and public place will calm her down small.. Assuming she aint crazy that is