I don't think the op set out to argue against equal opportunities for women.
The crux of her argument is; equal opportunities doesn't always amount to equal outcomes.
She simply uses the difference in the sexuality of both gender to drive home her point.

Men generally will not wife a perceived LovePeddler, that is why women tend to lie about their body count & virginity.
On the other hand, a man's sexual past doesn't seem to bother a lot of women as long as he is a resourced male.

That's why she wants young women to make better choices, cos the odds seems against them in the sexual market.

porozhniy:
I don't think the op set out to argue against equal opportunities for women.
The crux of her argument is; equal opportunities doesn't always amount to equal outcomes.
She simply uses the difference in the sexuality of both gender to drive home her point.

Men generally will not wife a perceived LovePeddler, that is why women tend to lie about their body count & virginity.
On the other hand, a man's sexual past doesn't seem to bother a lot of women as long as he is a resourced male.

That's why she wants young women to make better choices, cos the odds seems against them in the sexual market.

God bless you bro.....

sexybbstar:
I saw a thread earlier on (why do guy thinks girls are whores?) I think this is my own view.

You had better stop comparing, if God wants equal rights for us all, he would have created everyone with p.enis or va.gina. But the difference in our private organ and body build shows that what is good for one may not be good for the other.

If a male child should become wayward, believe me if he repents, not a sign of it will be on his body but if a female child becomes wayward, I won't lie to you, let her become a pastor. There will still be signs to show for it like sagged breasts, wide va.gina, etc.Tell me can a man have a deformed organ as a result of being promiscuous.? obviously no!

Don't compare the two together.A lady that compare herself with a man is playing a dangerous game. U sure know that when he have sex with u without protection, u would get pregnant and u will receive the blame. Yet u allowed him, don't blame anyone for your misfortune because u are aware that the lady takes the blame.

Man and woman are two different words with different attributes. A man who lives like a woman won't find it easy and vice versa. Even two ladies are not the same not to talk of a man and a woman.

You want gender equality, ladies. Can you impregnate a fellow lady? Even those of us who transgendered to become a man still have so many manly activities they can't do.

Learn to appreciate your gender and bring out the best from it.

Lalasticlala biko push this thing to front page cos this is coming from an intelligent lady and not a man.

Toks2008:


Lalasticlala biko push this thing to front page cos this is coming from an intelligent lady and not a man.

I see you egbon Toks...

Dimples129:
1. Can a man impregnate another man?

2. Why should the lady take the "blame" (a child is a blessing and not blame) when it takes 2 to reproduce?
Should we not change this backward ideal rather than embracing it?

3. Gender equality isn't about trying to be a man but rather trying to protect women from the injustices that you as woman is supporting.

I hope all the praise you get from the men on this thread puts money in you're account because you just sold out on the female race including your daughters.

Otito koro

sexybbstar:


I see you egbon Toks...

I just felt I should visit the romance section today cos I hardly browse the romance section of naira land except when I create threads and I think I'm really missing out cos I so much love this thread.

How I wish you could add more points buy I guess it's OK as it is.

I really ant to see how ladies will react to this thread from their own kind.

RadicallyBlunt:
Do you know that God is d most heartbroken being in the world? Look at what i mean... Just like God finds it hard to find an absolutely devoted Christian who dares to be different from the bandwagon around him, so do men find it difficult to find a devoted woman who dares to stay away from the general belief and influence of other women.

Some women will claim to love their husband but the bible never commanded them to love their man. I dont know what makes them think that its love he needs. Their command is to submit to and respect their man yet its the inverse that's happening in the world today..the man respects and almost submit to show his love for her which is fair and ok. But while he does that, she claims to love him. The question is did God ask you to love him? Submit he says. When a woman says she loves her man, sincerely it means nothing to d man, he just accepts it as his wife's manner of expression. But when she respects him, then he knows she loves him.

Op you're thinking properly and it will favour you greatly forever if you keep to it. Weldone! Women like you are scarce.

hmmm, deep.

am sure the op just created this thread to be noticed and create unnecessary tension,especially cos she is a lady....
sagging of boobs has nothing to do with pressing or grabbing ..boobs has different shapes and form.
std, sti don't prefer or respect any gender.. and ur vigina widening ish ehnnn.u need to do some little Google search.....

all your points are just off....


gender equality is far fetched here, but stating those points is just off....


so funny to say can a lady impregnate another lady, like say a man can do same to another man.....


I won't be surprised if the op is a boy sef...cos this new nairaland ehn
... eb like say Seun has sold his share

Men respect your wives and women submit to you husbands. Respecting your wife includes not sleeping with d neighbor or house help or belittling her in public. And ladies, submission encompasses Love and all.cos

Melonny:
As you have said, let's appreciate our gender. I would like to point out what really GENDER EQUALITY is, Gender equality is achieved when women and men enjoy the same rights and opportunities across all sectors of society, including economic participation and decision-making, and when the different behaviours, aspirations and needs of women and men are equally valued and favoured (genderequality.ie)
So, it doesn't mean men and women become the same, we should have access to same opportunities.

Unfortunately, the idea is entering into marriage. Women now want to take the place of men

sexybbstar:
I saw a thread earlier on (why do guy thinks girls are whores?) I think this is my own view.

You had better stop comparing, if God wants equal rights for us all, he would have created everyone with p.enis or va.gina. But the difference in our private organ and body build shows that what is good for one may not be good for the other.

If a male child should become wayward, believe me if he repents, not a sign of it will be on his body but if a female child becomes wayward, I won't lie to you, let her become a pastor. There will still be signs to show for it like sagged breasts, wide va.gina, etc.Tell me can a man have a deformed organ as a result of being promiscuous.? obviously no!

Don't compare the two together.A lady that compare herself with a man is playing a dangerous game. U sure know that when he have sex with u without protection, u would get pregnant and u will receive the blame. Yet u allowed him, don't blame anyone for your misfortune because u are aware that the lady takes the blame.

Man and woman are two different words with different attributes. A man who lives like a woman won't find it easy and vice versa. Even two ladies are not the same not to talk of a man and a woman.

You want gender equality, ladies. Can you impregnate a fellow lady? Even those of us who transgendered to become a man still have so many manly activities they can't do.

Learn to appreciate your gender and bring out the best from it.

be Strong as some other women may come for you, but be of good cheer , May the lord be with you

even Jesus talk say " i will prepare a table for you in the presence of your enemies" for Matthew something something. no sorry na Romans


lol

so this bae page enter front page?

Like play like play.... this babe will get good job from real men who love to reward amazing women while her haters will keep gossiping in their whatsapp group jobless...

sexyBB you are on front page, nice write up. kisses......

And she landed on front page








As for the topic on board

I'd advice all women to read the following books

1. Created to be a help meet by Debbie Pearl

2. Total woman by....... would get her name later


Modified: my problem with some women is that they can't even think for themselves.

many are saying why will a fellow girl write something like this, simply because she chooses to have a brain of her own however the size unlike many of you that your thinking organ is being controlled by "your fellow girls"

I may or may not agree with everything the OP said but it's her opinion and she's entitled to that. she's passed her message without insulting anyone but you that claim to be smarter can't issue a rebuttal without grenades of insults.




Besides make we reason am many of does girls wey dey shout anyhow below me are victims of either heartbreak, bad relationship or "no man to marry me"

we all know one of them she's 33 and keeps jumping from thread to thread looking for anyone to marry her, babe which sensible man go many brainless girl like you. anyhow shiloh is soon coming see you there

sexybbstar:
I saw a thread earlier on (why do guy thinks girls are whores?) I think this is my own view.

You had better stop comparing, if God wants equal rights for us all, he would have created everyone with p.enis or va.gina. But the difference in our private organ and body build shows that what is good for one may not be good for the other.

If a male child should become wayward, believe me if he repents, not a sign of it will be on his body but if a female child becomes wayward, I won't lie to you, let her become a pastor. There will still be signs to show for it like sagged breasts, wide va.gina, etc.Tell me can a man have a deformed organ as a result of being promiscuous.? obviously no!

Don't compare the two together.A lady that compare herself with a man is playing a dangerous game. U sure know that when he have sex with u without protection, u would get pregnant and u will receive the blame. Yet u allowed him, don't blame anyone for your misfortune because u are aware that the lady takes the blame.

Man and woman are two different words with different attributes. A man who lives like a woman won't find it easy and vice versa. Even two ladies are not the same not to talk of a man and a woman.

You want gender equality, ladies. Can you impregnate a fellow lady? Even those of us who transgendered to become a man still have so many manly activities they can't do.

Learn to appreciate your gender and bring out the best from it.

I'm yet to see the positive message in this. Of all examples u choose promiscuity.

Benita27:
Have to quote you 'cause ignorance isn't an excuse. Breast sagging has nothing to do with promiscuity. I repeats, breast sagging has nothing to do with promiscuity. Have you seen any boosty lady with firm boob without the aid of silicon?, some sagged boobs are natural. Perhaps because they have weaker breast. Not to add the fact that once a lady puts to bed her boob sags, this still has nothing to do with promiscuity.

The op should create a balance in criticism instead of castigating the female folks and praising their male counterpart. The hypocrisy and ignorance in her write-up is alarming.

. See madam,no matter how some women may have natural sagged breast,it will always tell,so forget that one wey u dey talk and let us hear word

Some galz would be like lala i can't take dis
bbstar keep on shinning jare

Where is useless notice me girl called Aderola15... You all haters of this girl are going to be put to shame by God's grace

Benita27:
What has gender equality got to do with promiscuity?. For the fact that you think if a lady is wayward, sagged breast and wide vagina will be evident makes your write-up pathetic. Does a lady need to be wayward to have a sagged breast?. Are you also saying it's ok for a guy to mess himself up but if a lady does it's a crime?.

You mustn't create threads over anything you had the urge to. Some are senseless like this one.

This is the first make sense post here. Thanks for that.

You kill it OP but the issue here is that you are smoking when this inspiration come in

greyboy5000:
first you deserve a bottle of groundnut and freshly roasted plantian for your post
But your ananology may be the problem
Men also carry scares from sleeping around just as their female counterpart ( sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted child, failed marriage among others)
However, I agree with you that woman and men are different BUT BOTH SEX HAVE THEIR STRENGHT
For example an average man is physically stronger than a woman BUT an average woman can seduce a strong man and make him powerless

2. While a man is allowed to marry several women and polyandry is a taboo in most parts of the world, a woman would always know her own child apart from a stepchild . How can a child I didn't carry in my womb be mine ? This fact compensates a woman for the labour pains and the pains of male infidelity and explains why society is stricter on unfaithful wives than unfaithful husbands. Also, it explains why children bear their fathers' surnames . The mother is sure of the maternity of the child so let us use the surname to reassure the father.

henrylowe:
Where is useless notice me girl called Aderola15... You all haters of this girl are going to be put to shame by God's grace

We don brutalize she and her fellow Nairaland slay girls

Even Lala sef come still silent them with this one.. Useless girl

Something to massage men's ego, even the broke and ugly ones will be so happy reading this

lovelygurl:


You are so dumb it's hilarious

Are you sure you a girl? So you are telling me you know nothing about your body? Sagged breasts and wide vaginas is not the result of being promiscuous. You can have sagged breasts by losing weight, breastfeeding etc. The only thing than can widen a vagina is giving birth because your vagina is ELASTIC.


The funny thing is you think you are making sense but looooooool

so are you telling me a girl of 19 with Dunlop slippers breast,wide pussy and have never given birth before is as a result of weight loss,or can the vigina lose its ELASTICITY naturally?,...can you please enlighten me,.I'm very curious

I really love my fellow women. Honest to God.
But I experience special heartbreaks when I encounter dumb ones.
It's defeating to me.
Like I should just give up.

Cinderella5:
Something to massage men's ego, even the broke and ugly ones will be so happy reading this

Wetin concern broke and ugly guys now ? Ehn ?

All these small small girls for this NL sef.

Op, your head dey there.

Yeahs mansplain it for us. Because we can't read and it will make more sense coming from you.

porozhniy:
I don't think the op set out to argue against equal opportunities for women.
The crux of her argument is; equal opportunities doesn't always amount to equal outcomes.
She simply uses the difference in the sexuality of both gender to drive home her point.

Men generally will not wife a perceived LovePeddler, that is why women tend to lie about their body count & virginity.
On the other hand, a man's sexual past doesn't seem to bother a lot of women as long as he is a resourced male.

That's why she wants young women to make better choices, cos the odds seems against them in the sexual market.