Deeldorado:
Dear Sexybbstar and nairalanders, gender equality is not about 'equality' between men and women, it's an advocacy for equal opportunities for
both men and women.

tiger28:
My greatest observation is that most of these gender equality movement ppl are lesbians but the media won't tell you that. These are lesbians masquerading as female movement, don't even believe when they are married ,it's a ruse. Their main intention is to destabilize the sacred male/female /children structure.

sexybbstar:


And the reason y it can't be possible is due to some of the points stated there.... The reason y gender Equality is been frowned at is mainly because of physical differences.

lovelygurl:


You are so dumb it's hilarious

Are you sure you a girl? So you are telling me you know nothing about your body? Sagged breasts and wide vaginas is not the result of being promiscuous. You can have sagged breasts by losing weight, breastfeeding etc. The only thing than can widen a vagina is giving birth because your vagina is ELASTIC.


The funny thing is you think you are making sense but looooooool

RadicallyBlunt:
Do you know that God is d most heartbroken being in the world? Look at what i mean... Just like God finds it hard to find an absolutely devoted Christian who dares to be different from the bandwagon around him, so do men find it difficult to find a devoted woman who dares to stay away from the general belief and influence of other women.

Some women will claim to love their husband but the bible never commanded them to love their man. I dont know what makes them think that its love he needs. Their command is to submit to and respect their man yet its the inverse that's happening in the world today..the man respects and almost submit to show his love for her which is fair and ok. But while he does that, she claims to love him. The question is did God ask you to love him? Submit he says. When a woman says she loves her man, sincerely it means nothing to d man, he just accepts it as his wife's manner of expression. But when she respects him, then he knows she loves him.

Op you're thinking properly and it will favour you greatly forever if you keep to it. Weldone! Women like you are scarce.

TheUmbra:



No one will deny you your right to education and the opportunity to succeed but maybe men will start taking you women seriously on gender equality thing when you start dominating fields like the army, fighting terror in the thick of sambisa forest, dominate the police force, heeding a distress call in the middle of the night with your bullet proof vest on because you're show some daredevil criminals are Ak47-armed and are waiting to ambush you; dominating the fire service where you brave yourself up with your fake brazilian wig and embrace a burning building, or the construction industry that requires heavy manual lifting of tools and equipment.

But you all never complain when the female numbers are next to non-existent in these fields, but you raise dust on executive positions and start screening your gender equality trash.

Fact is you all are greedy vultures trying to reap where you didn't sow.

Even the boundary in your village was carved out by the blood of your forefathers. The identity you have was sustained and preserved by fearless men of old who hid your great grandmothers in a safe cave while they charged to war to preserve their seeds. And you're here hiding in your little hut typing gender equality.

FvckShiT:

Yeah they're fúçking different...One fúçking got a DIÇK &
the other got a fúçking PúSSY± and they fúçk em'selves

gokuu:
What a dumb and uninformed post!



Anyways, as Madeleine Albright would say; "there's a special place in hell for women who do not support other women"

Deeldorado:


It's not a debate of whether it will be possible or not but an advocacy to improve the prospects of women. The gender gap is too wide ... pay gap at work, the constraints they face in getting employment and growing on the job. The work women do at home are not calculated as part of GDP but if a nanny does it, it is calculated as part of GDP thereby underestimating women contributions to the national economy.

Why for example have we taken it for granted that it is the woman that has to give up her dreams for other siblings if something goes wrong in the family? Why for example, does a woman have to give up her aspirations or 'cut it down a bit' once she is married? Can't we find a balance that allows both a man and a woman t succeed with their aspirations? By doing this, we place a glass ceiling on women and decapitate their capacity to aspire and achieve their aspirations.

The idea is that making progress in achieving equity in economic participation and opportunity and political empowerment will not benefit women alone but will benefit families, communities and the whole country.

It is unfair and runs against nature to deny a woman the opportunity to succeed as well as men just because they go on maternity leave or because of things they are not directly responsible for.

We know that we may not be able to achieve gender equality in a practical sense completely because of traditions, cultures and historical legacies, but we can unleash the power of women for development by doing as much as we can to close up the gap.

The argument of whether it's possible or not may not hold water because a lot of countries are already closing this gap - for example, Scandinavian countries and even South Africa, back home.

rkennyking:
I think Gender is actually equal but in different ways. I think a woman that thinks she can do what a man does better is practicing misplaced priority because in the real sense she can do what a man cannot do and vice-versa. If wee got to be honest to ourselves, when a woman need protection from man who gives her? When a man is protecting a woman he his protecting her from who?. When you protect a woman you protect your mother, your sister, your wife, your daughter. To every man and woman in this world we are equal but in unequal ways. A man will not be pregnant ideally and a woman cant impregnate a woman. A man ,may do as a single father, a woman may do as a single mother, but nobody wants that to happen to them because we no the issues associated with single parenting. This world was perfectly created but Humans seek for a better personal perfection, However, what did we get, we get natural problems that had being solved by the almighty before we decided to reinvent it

Evaberry:



I can't believe a girl wrote this trash. No offence.
I just can't understand why African women don't appreciate themselves and always play 2nd fiddle to men.
.dear op my boobs are sagged already but I'm still a virgin, so I really don't understand why u got all these from as sagged boobs or wide vagina isn't really cuz of an indecent life

stop being shallow

sexybbstar:


Okay, thank you ma. Everybody is entitled to his or her opinions, That's my opinion and you just stated yours......AND IT'S APPRECIATED.

menwongo:

Brother are you telling me in South Africa and Scandinavian countries women are up to 50% in their forces?

Body structures will not allow gender equality to be fulfilled!

AyilaraFingar:
. Guy,Madeleine Albright no be God,forget that one
You are talking as if you don't know how easily women misinterpret things,..I believe 80% of nairalanders can relate to what gender equality means,its what it is in forums,but most women misinterpret the concept and apply it into their marital life,which is not possible...a woman can never be equal with a man in his home...we may be equal in having a say in the society (which may never happen in years to come as long as Nigeria is concerned),we may both have the same opportunities to our dreams and goals,..but its better for women (that still cling to the fantasy of wanting to be equals with their husbands in HIS HOUSE) to just stay single and stop arguing around when topics like this come up

lovelygurl:


Don't mind them, they think they are smart but those guys are sooooooo dumb. I swear they are extremely easy to fool. I know exactly what to say for them to shower me with praises, the thing is they will be lies


And I am not as desperate as the girl and I also loooove using my brain.

Deeldorado:


Talking about women's ability to be part of combat forces is a narrow way of discussing gender equality. There's a much bigger picture which I have tried to state already.

LordAdam16:
This is the kind of thread that makes me want to throw up inside my mouth.

And it graces the FP?!

What next, we have threads on the FP about why there is nothing like "under-age" in marriage.

Since some people's god told them it's fine and okay to have women consistently play second fiddle to men for some ridiculous reason, and these people are content with throwing around their dipsh*t and attempt to force others to gulp on it; I think it's only fair we extend that courtesy to the other ultra-conservative and utterly asinine group that say their god permits them to romp with 12 year olds.

The bar just keeps getting lower on NL, just when you think it can't fall any further.

cc Seun

I'm not going to direct any attention to the OP. He (I strongly believe she is a he) can keep grasping at straws, we'll always have their kind around, being perpetually stuck in the medieval dark ages.

Natural selection would do its thing, as they and their deranged opinions will get consigned to the dustbin of history.

-Lord

Benita27:
What has gender equality got to do with promiscuity?. For the fact that you think if a lady is wayward, sagged breast and wide vagina will be evident makes your write-up pathetic. Does a lady need to be wayward to have a sagged breast?. Are you also saying it's ok for a guy to mess himself up but if a lady does it's a crime?.

You mustn't create threads over anything you had the urge to. Some are senseless like this one.

sugarwiz:

I'm yet to see the positive message in this. Of all examples u choose promiscuity.

AyilaraFingar:
. See madam,no matter how some women may have natural sagged breast,it will always tell,so forget that one wey u dey talk and let us hear word

RadicallyBlunt:
Do you know that God is d most heartbroken being in the world? Look at what i mean... Just like God finds it hard to find an absolutely devoted Christian who dares to be different from the bandwagon around him, so do men find it difficult to find a devoted woman who dares to stay away from the general belief and influence of other women.

Some women will claim to love their husband but the bible never commanded them to love their man. I dont know what makes them think that its love he needs. Their command is to submit to and respect their man yet its the inverse that's happening in the world today..the man respects and almost submit to show his love for her which is fair and ok. But while he does that, she claims to love him. The question is did God ask you to love him? Submit he says. When a woman says she loves her man, sincerely it means nothing to d man, he just accepts it as his wife's manner of expression. But when she respects him, then he knows she loves him.

Op you're thinking properly and it will favour you greatly forever if you keep to it. Weldone! Women like you are scarce.

Emdeejay:
Someone said that many women are sad because the OP sold women out. I am sad because the OP did not realize what gender equality entails. I'll tell you what it means to me. There was a time when women could not vote because they are considered substandard to men. Currently, with every $1 a man earns, a woman earn 83 cents while having the same qualifications. It is even worst in the medical field because the field comprises of the "big boys" and as a woman, it is hard to fit this. Information is rarely shared with me and I have to be assertive for my voice to be heard. Some women are not selected into certain residency because they might want to start a family and therefore at a disadvantage. And as a person in the medical field, I'll enlighten you about boobs. Breasts are mainly made up of fat and not muscle. If you lose weight (i.e fat), your breast will sag. As you age, the breast sags because the structural ligament loses its elasticity leading to sagging. Someone touching your breast doesn't make it sag. And sex does not make vagina loose. I'll go into that but I'm sure you're well read and can read scientific journals yourself. Gender equality is not how often I can have sex with someone, it is about being treated as an intelligent human that can achieve anything if I try.

julietkcee:
Ur points are nonsense...... Undastand equility first....