In other news.....Great miss Zino z 2years today.....oya make Una dash my mini drama queen LIKES!

I wantu use the LIKES to buy flour and bake a nice birthday cake for her.

The more the LIKES from you,the greater of her chances of my using the likes to buy a carton of happy hour.
Tenkhu.

ahnie:
In other news.....Great miss Zino z 2years today.....oya make Una dash my mini drama queen LIKES!

I wantu use the LIKES to buy flour and bake a nice birthday cake for her.

The more the LIKES from you,the greater of her chances of my using the likes to buy a carton of happy hour.
Tenkhu.

Happy Birthday Zino, age with grace.... keep some happy hour for me cuz I dey run go borrow some likes add make d juice for go round and remain sef...

wia is her pinshure nah?

Benignasweety:
Happy Birthday Zino, age with grace.... keep some happy hour for me cuz I dey run go borrow some likes add make d juice for go round and remain sef...

wia is her pinshure nah?

juice dey spoil teeth...i wee substitute onions peel water in place of juice.

zaynie:
Mmotimo,
In this case being a SAHW is one of the reasons o.
SAHW... Not mom.
It is working out well for you and many women out there because you have a good man walking the road with you.
Not so many women are that lucky.
She's living with her in-laws and her husband. So they're all at home all the time....
Together!
Think am .....
Do you know what happened the day she was to deliver?


1. She should have walked out a long time ago.
2. Since she didn't, she should have got herself busy by leaving the house. It's not about the income, it's about a little bit of independence and a fresh breathe of air.
3. She can't come here airing her woes when she knows her husband will see this and counter at home. Considering he has all the power at the moment.
4. Your in-laws won't want you to leave. With their grandbaby.
5. You begging means you're not really ready. He's making you make this decision.


In fact.... I'm going to sit this one out.
I've learnt that women in her shoes will only act when they've had enough.
I wish her well.


In other news, Her husband is already under fire from NLers....
Choi!
It sucks to be him right now?

Thanks ma'am... dat fresh air I will breathe wen I finally travel back...

something struck me from dix post, about what happened when I delivered? I really dont understand it and I wld want to send you a pm to throw more light on it... lemme milk from your bank of wisdom nah...

Thanks everyone, u all are more than family... Hopefully, he might deactivate sef, d man strong kakaraka...

ahnie:
juice dey spoil teeth...i wee substitute onions peel water in place of juice.

Apriko woman... I will deduct d likes nah so we get jex enough for onion peels...

Happy birthday princess Zino! I wish you good health and long-life. God bless you

ahnie:
In other news.....Great miss Zino z 2years today.....oya make Una dash my mini drama queen LIKES!

I wantu use the LIKES to buy flour and bake a nice birthday cake for her.

The more the LIKES from you,the greater of her chances of my using the likes to buy a carton of happy hour.
Tenkhu.

Okay ma'am! Thanks

zaynie:



7 weeks is too early o.... Let the baby's feet breathe except it's for photoshoot.
I don't wear shoes for my kids till they are like 6m or ready to crawl except when we're going to parties and want to do maximum shakara

Graciouscharis:


I think she meant 7 weeks not months. I can bet with my left butt that her baby is far from being 7 month old. I know when she announced her BA if my memory doesn't fail me.
If it's 7 weeks, rotavirus is still possible.

when is the recommended time for d rotavirus vaccine to be taken?when is it late?

ifyalways:
For two women with marital crises, I have very little to say. You guys are luckily in lagos, so many resources and organisation's that you guys can reach out to and get help. Praying and hoping for a change won't stop the abuse. I can never love any adult more than they love themselves, even a goat retreats and seek refuge in a safe place when it's been beating so what excuse does an adult with two legs have?

I'm not in y'alls shoe and don't know whatever your reasons and excuses are but sister, life got no duplicate. Save your head first then come back to fight or sort it out. I wish you both well.

@Topic, team September and November for two of my DILs.

pls can u help me with d name of any of the organization or how to join them I don't know of any pls

Benny isn't going anywhere because Benny isn't ready to leave her husband that she loves so much.
If Benny was ready to leave, she would have been writing her posts from a safe haven and not from the house of her abuser. She would'nt be waiting till next month.
If Benny was ready to call it quits, she wouldn't have apologized to that joke of a man.

And no Benny, it's not a man's world in this case. It's a world where you as a woman has the choice to walk away.
You have the choice to make a life for yourself without him.
A choice to take your baby out of that situation. Believe me you ll survive.

Benignasweety:
Thanks ma'am... dat fresh air I will breathe wen I finally travel back...

something struck me from dix post, about what happened when I delivered? I really dont understand it and I wld want to send you a pm to throw more light on it... lemme milk from your bank of wisdom nah...

Thanks everyone, u all are more than family... Hopefully, he might deactivate sef, d man strong kakaraka...

Lol.
Prior to your BS, I know you went to a nursing home and you kept lamenting about no money to go to a big hospital.
I just felt the risks you took could have been avoided if you had your own money. That's all.

ifyalways:
For two women with marital crises, I have very little to say. You guys are luckily in lagos, so many resources and organisation's that you guys can reach out to and get help. Praying and hoping for a change won't stop the abuse. I can never love any adult more than they love themselves, even a goat retreats and seek refuge in a safe place when it's been beating so what excuse does an adult with two legs have?

I'm not in y'alls shoe and don't know whatever your reasons and excuses are but sister, life got no duplicate. Save your head first then come back to fight or sort it out. I wish you both well.

@Topic, team September and November for two of my DILs.

Maami, you're old o....
You already have DiLs
Good morning Ma.
May they have easy birthing. Amin

zaynie:



LMAO! @ watery sperm....
Just type his name in the search box and see how people have been shutting him up...

Tochukwu Orafunam tydi is
1: a wife beater
2: an emotional abuser
3: an incorrigible fool
4: proud igbo smoker
5: a tour. Agbero ojoo
6: an illiterate

He's not even remorseful, was even beating his poverty-stricken chest that if Benignasweety leaves that he'll take in another wife. That his son will grow up to be an igbo smoker like him that is in his gene.

Benny nwanne m nwaanyị biko RUN. Love should catch fire.

Wasted sperm, you're misfortune is knocking on your door but you're too deaf to listen.

Efulefu mmou

Prettyhurts:


Tochukwu Orafunam tydi is
1: a wife beater
2: an emotional abuser
3: an incorrigible fool
4: proud igbo smoker
5: a tour. Agbero ojoo
6: an illiterate

He's not even remorseful, was even beating his poverty-stricken chest that if Benignasweety leaves that he'll take in another wife. That his son will grow up to be an igbo smoker like him that is in his gene.

Benny nwanne m nwaanyị biko RUN. Love should catch fire.

Wasted sperm, you're misfortune is knocking on your door but you're too deaf to listen.

Efulefu mmou

How did you know his full name?

Maamas ehhhh

Benignasweety:
How did you know his full name?
Maamas ehhhh

Is boldly written on his profile na, that's why I called him an illiterate

MsAfricaa:


Present.
Sex is still unknown.
The headaches tho...cant deal mehn!

Make sure you drink water from time to time, Do away with your phone for few hours everyday, avoid television for some hours daily, rest and don't stress your self, that was how I overcame mine when it became unbearable. Nothing like headache again, try all these. you will surely get better.

Pele, God will see us thru.

meenagiggs:
Benny isn't going anywhere because Benny isn't ready to leave her husband that she loves so much.
If Benny was ready to leave, she would have been writing her posts from a safe haven and not from the house of her abuser. She would'nt be waiting till next month.
If Benny was ready to call it quits, she wouldn't have apologized to that joke of a man.

And no Benny, it's not a man's world in this case. It's a world where you as a woman has the choice to walk away.
You have the choice to make a life for yourself without him.
A choice to take your baby out of that situation. Believe me you ll survive.

my inlaws are nice pipo, I already had a set date dix month end to leave... It wld be very badt on my side to jex make away with my things jex like dat...
Next weekisnt far again, though today is tuesday but nextweek will eventually come..

As for d love, lol mbah o, love should catch fire! I cant deal no more... Wat I knw is my parents are alrdy involved, he wldnt dare lay his hands on me again...

Icequeen0424 has no chill....
None








SippingHotTea....
Oh I forgot I'm fasting





In more news, it's BumpieTuesday today

LMAO.
With this weather, some people go don finish the tea before they remember say fasting dey.

zaynie:
Icequeen0424 has no chill....
None








SippingHotTea....
Oh I forgot I'm fasting





In more news, it's BumpieTuesday today

Benignasweety much have been said already in here by sabi mamas and few other men. I don't want to believe that everything is falling on deaf ears!! From all indication I think you're comfortable typing from the comfort of his house else, you should have informed your relations to come assist you move out of your wife beater's house. Using Dear Husband for him would amount to giving him the honour and recognition he doesn't deserve. Your case have taken over 10 pages already! That's to tell you how well we mean for your wellbeing. Stop giving excuses! My fear and prayer is we hope he won't come for you after reading all this posts on nairaland? How can you tolerate such man in your life? What More can we call slavery other than this?

ifyalways:
For two women with marital crises, I have very little to say. You guys are luckily in lagos, so many resources and organisation's that you guys can reach out to and get help. Praying and hoping for a change won't stop the abuse. I can never love any adult more than they love themselves, even a goat retreats and seek refuge in a safe place when it's been beating so what excuse does an adult with two legs have?

I'm not in y'alls shoe and don't know whatever your reasons and excuses are but sister, life got no duplicate. Save your head first then come back to fight or sort it out. I wish you both well.

@Topic, team September and November for two of my DILs.

for you ma teamseptember must collect dues and payment for late registration. ..wait let me consult with my fellow teamies....

on the brighter side please drop her EDD and baby gender

Benignasweety:
Chai, na dat oya kneel before your husband and tell him you am sorry... it weakened me cuz I deserved d apology not him... He got it and conscience no even tell am to say am sorry, itz we should pretend. Nothing will happen to my son, for respect sake, we go reach d next week we planned travelling.


LAWD I PRAY FOR STRENGTH THIS IS JUST TOO MUCH FOR BENNY TO HANDLE

Chai!!! women don't suffer. God knows I will never apologize, not pride but I will stand my ground that he must apologize to me. So, they can't scold their son,. Abeg, talk with your leg, make e carry you fast fast. He will learn his lesson and come back to you, just let him know you can survive without him.

Nothing will happen to your baby dear.

Benignasweety:
my inlaws are nice pipo, I already had a set date dix month end to leave... It wld be very badt on my side to jex make away with my things jex like dat...
Next weekisnt far again, though today is tuesday but nextweek will eventually come..

As for d love, lol mbah o, love should catch fire! I cant deal no more... Wat I knw is my parents are alrdy involved, he wldnt dare lay his hands on me again...

If you insist.
I wish you well.

Reppin #Teamseptember @26.5days pregnant.
Just like yesterday , av got few weeks left....ayam happy

comtem2011:
Chai!!! women don't suffer. God knows I will never apologize, not pride but I will stand my ground that he must apologize to me. So, they can't scold their son,. Abeg, talk with your leg, make e carry you fast fast. He will learn his lesson and come back to you, just let him know you can survive without him.

Nothing will happen to your baby dear.

He is bigger dan his parents nah, so if dey scold him, he might walk out... I dunno but wat I knw is dat I value respect alot, yes I said I deserved an apology but my Fil wanted to restore an unforeseen peace 1st...

Mbliz, I really have heard and made decisions but I have to keep to already scheduled plans we earlier had on travelling month end... I no want back stories dat that I am being disrepectful..

Prettyhurts:


Tochukwu Orafunam tydi is
1: a wife beater
2: an emotional abuser
3: an incorrigible fool
4: proud igbo smoker
5: a tour. Agbero ojoo
6: an illiterate

He's not even remorseful, was even beating his poverty-stricken chest that if Benignasweety leaves that he'll take in another wife. That his son will grow up to be an igbo smoker like him that is in his gene.

Benny nwanne m nwaanyị biko RUN. Love should catch fire.

Wasted sperm, you're misfortune is knocking on your door but you're too deaf to listen.

Efulefu mmou

no no mama, please don't go this far... he still remain her husband and remember she is still in his house... I think all this name calling shld stop for now until she finally leaves..you people shld provoke him any further because u don't know what benny is going tru in that house...forget all the strong front she is putting up oooo she won't tell u everything...please just reserve all this insults till she leaves then me too I will join us and add more insults...

don't also be suprised her family will settle this issue and he might never lay a
finger on her again so please let's stop with the name calling for now..


@benignasweety please where exactly are you from, I hope u are not from one of those igbo communities that don't take in and raise grandchildren oooo.. it is well with you..don't forget to stay safe during this period, don't give him a chance to hit u again and play the fool till u leave... if he says you are stupid just say yes sir, so that u will return to ur parent in gud health

This whole abuse matter tie wrapper.
But I would say to Benny...I love u. U are a strong spirited lady, even d way u chat behind the moniker, u have something within. U may have made mistakes in the past as a young lady which am sure can be corrected, u have a story that u will boldly tell someday.
From your write-ups u really and genuinely loved your husband but reverse was the case for him. If u were my immediate sis I would have dragged u home a long time ago, but your decision to leave is the best u can do for that lil Zion and your sanity.
Next, pls delete all the information abt yourself and your marriage on nairaland including pics. Cos the issue is dragging alot of people into your marriage. Do this, for Zion sake. U can come back with a different moniker.
Also stop speaking evil of him here, it have do.
Again, am very sure some mums here are going through same issue as this but won't speak up for fear of the unknown and what people will say. Am referring to you...Yes you reading this post. Brace up and leave, marriage is not a do or die affair, for your life sake LEAVE. Forget what people will say, when he lands u in d grave, they are the ones to come pay last respect. His abusing u isn't a sign of love, it's a sign of wickedness, heartlessness.
@Damsel21 whatever happened is past, move on and embrace your God. Life is just once, love yourself and in all surround yourself with people who will love and encourage u.

Update
Nobody here will advice u good enough, na u go advice yourself, do what's best for u and d baby.

MoyosBlog123:
Reppin #Teamseptember @26.5days pregnant.
Just like yesterday , av got few weeks left....ayam happy

yes oooo my teamie representing... this ur bump is facing ground oooo, my own just round stand for up, I can't even climb bike again because no space for me and the bike man...

Benny whatever decision u make , it is well huh!.
I don't comment on stuffs like this cos I may sound harsh, and truth b told, ur comments r starring up anger inside me.I don't mince words, I say it as it is, u take it or leave it.
Your staying till month end means u r staying forever. Today is 20th, before the 30th u wld av bin brainwashed. I wouldn't want to read about someone dying from postpartum delivery issues whereas its domestic violence on Linda Ikeja sometime in future.
U r matured now, take that am a small girl attitude from your mind and think/act like an adult for your child.

If it is tfare you need let us know.we are family already. Its too early to vex cos am vexing for u already
I pray for your wellbeing.

Benignasweety:
He is bigger dan his parents nah, so if dey scold him, he might walk out... I dunno but wat I knw is dat I value respect alot, yes I said I deserved an apology but my Fil wanted to restore an unforeseen peace 1st...

Mbliz, I really have heard and made decisions but I have to keep to already scheduled plans we earlier had on travelling month end... I no want back stories dat that I am being disrepectful..

Benignasweety:
He is bigger dan his parents nah, so if dey scold him, he might walk out... I dunno but wat I knw is dat I value respect alot, yes I said I deserved an apology but my Fil wanted to restore an unforeseen peace 1st...

Mbliz, I really have heard and made decisions but I have to keep to already scheduled plans we earlier had on travelling month end... I no want back stories dat that I am being disrepectful..

delay is dangerous my dear!! So you don't want to be disrespectful to your in-laws that didn't see anything wrong on the part of their son? And to think that man is unrepentant and unremorseful is just the height of it all. So many things can go wrong within this period hence you're still under his roof. Your in-law can cajole you into believing he's a changed person. Well, its up to you!!! We don't try !!!!

Na my back they suffer am o. And my right leg. It will end in praise

katchycouture:



yes oooo my teamie representing... this ur bump is facing ground oooo, my own just round stand for up, I can't even climb bike again because no space for me and the bike man...

MoyosBlog123:
Reppin #Teamseptember @26.5days pregnant.
Just like yesterday , av got few weeks left....ayam happy

TeamSeptember counting down in weeks.... Kikikikikikiki..
How many days? No like 70 days?