Good morning palz...

In the last few days, I have met many girls and guys who asked me about many things but the most asked question from both girls and guys is "Should I make it verbally to my girlfriend/boyfriend before having sex with her/him. So, I had to head out to you my palz who have been in the game for decades to horn out your experiences. Thanks for your contribution in advance!

Before having SEX with your girlfriend/boyfriend: Do you make it verbally or Not?

Nigga.. who verbal epp? wen she comes to u just grab her by the pussay

Before I answer I want to make sure I understand your question. Are you asking if , you should ask your partner verbally for sex ? Or you should use actions to show you want to do it?

You needn't ask verbally. We all love surprises, so why don't you start from kissing or what does it best for you, and if your spouse says he/she isn't in the mood, let them be.

Lionessza:
Before I answer I want to make sure I understand your question. Are you asking if , you should ask your partner verbally for sex ? Or you should use actions to show you want to do it?

Exactly, should I ask her verbally for sex?

mrhm:



Exactly, should I ask her verbally for sex?

Everyone is different, some feel it's too much to verbalize so they prefer using actions. Some feel their actions might be misread so they verbalise it.


I normally act on it , but I also find it sexy when it's verbalized, when he tells me or I tell him what it is I want , how and where . Whether face to face or not, although I prefer sexting or over the phone it makes it more interesting.


Now to answer your question?. I can't because I don't know how you and your gf are, so you are the best person to find out by trying both out and see the reaction.

Lionessza:










Everyone is different, some feel it's too much to verbalize so they prefer using actions. Some feel their actions might be misread so they verbalise it.


I normally act on it , but I also find it sexy when it's verbalized, when he tells me or I tell him what it is I want , how and where . Whether face to face or not, although I prefer sexting or over the phone it makes it more interesting.


Now to answer your question?. I can't because I don't know how you and your gf are, so you are the best person to find out by trying both out and see the reaction.

Can you tell how your boy verbalizes it?

Lionessza:










Everyone is different, some feel it's too much to verbalize so they prefer using actions. Some feel their actions might be misread so they verbalise it.


I normally act on it , but I also find it sexy when it's verbalized, when he tells me or I tell him what it is I want , how and where . Whether face to face or not, although I prefer sexting or over the phone it makes it more interesting.


Now to answer your question?. I can't because I don't know how you and your gf are, so you are the best person to find out by trying both out and see the reaction.

Can you tell how your boy verbalizes it?

mrhm:


Can you tell how your boy verbalizes it?


Can you tell how your boy verbalizes it?

Hehehehe that's too personal

Smh, is she an ashawo that you must ask for sex before going down on her?? ...to me that's some sort of ego demeaning…like someone above said it should happen naturally.

firstking01:
Smh, is she an ashawo that you must ask for sex before going down on her?? ...to me that's some sort of ego demeaning…like someone above said it should happen naturally.

But do you know that kisses don't always give some girls organ?

In this case, what do you think should be done?

mrhm:



But do you know that kisses don't always give some girls organ?

In this case, what do you think should be done?

And why would kissing not arouse a girl ??

firstking01:
And why would kissing not arouse a girl ??

Over to you girls...

Also, in addition to verbal, put it down in writing with signatures of both parties....and a witness, before someone brings up rape issue....