The question ladies should ask themselves is "if I were me would I marry me"?.

Be honest with urselves. No one is perfect Buh crap remains crap.

Doctorfitz:
A vast majority of them have nauseating attitudes and they'd still stand on their horses claiming rights. It's so appalling, if a woman is marriage worthy my brother she won't be single at all. That's the truth.

I can see that you're more of a realist.. I will always continue to say that a woman with good wife material quality will surely attract responsible men.

If a lady is marriage worthy yet she keeps falling in the hand of irresponsible or fcck boys, she really needs to check her life. Something must be wrong

tosyne2much:
[/b] I used to pity ladies who can't find male suitors but now, I no longer have a pinch of pity for them. When you get close to some of them and engage them into conversations, then you will get to know the reason why men don't take them serious

That's just the truth...

Ask urself as a lady y do men keep leaving me?
Y don't they take me serious?

Y hasn't anyone of them engaged me talk less marry me?

The answers are right there with you.

tosyne2much:
I can see that you're more of a realist.. I will always continue to say that a woman with good wife material quality will surely attract responsible men.

If a lady is marriage worthy yet she keeps falling in the hand of irresponsible or fcck boys, she really needs to check her life. Something must be wrong

Yes oo a realist to the core, those that know me offline can attest to that... What u see is what you get, no gimmicks..

U're simply what u attract.

Whenever this topic comes up, I hear the same old story. Ladies are this, they are that. There are bad men too in this Nigeria...
There have always been bad men and women, we're used to that.

Societal values have dropped, no gender is innocent.

Responsible guys will see a responsible partner as at when due. If this topic was why guys above 30 are still single, you all will come in chanting how it's slay queens everywhere. Now you suddenly forgot your fellow men are perpetrating crimes worse than 'slaying' hence reduction in responsible men too.

Why are the good ladies not getting married?
Why are all you good men still single?

The above is gonna be a new topic, this particular one...though sensible has been overflogged.

emusmithy:


To be created by you? I await it.

Don't beat yourself up. Pick a lesson and walk away.

Emusmith, pick your own lesson and walk away too. This is a forum...don't beat yourself up over my views, you hear?

emusmithy:


Bro, you are so right.

One once said, the guy that must date me must first give me a car on my birthday. You carry fire for head? Or you possess the latest version of privy parts?

E tire me

lol a car just to date you?! well i have heard more than that...anyways,Op i think your write up is well balanced,advanced and very nice. good job Mr emusmithy

Why are these guys always so worried about women being single? Thread after thread after thread of endless whining. Let the women be, they're not accidentally single.

Is being single an economic problem?

pocohantas:
Whenever this topic comes up, I hear the same old story. Ladies are this, they are that. There are bad men too in this Nigeria...
There have always been bad men and women, we're used to that.

Societal values have dropped, no gender is innocent.
The economy isn't helping either. Way back our fathers knew who they wanted and went straight to her people, they didn't go testing different women...everybody was happy.

Why are the good ladies not getting married?
Why are all you good men still single?

That's a genuinely big question. The bad far outweighs the good people. The good people are not taken seriously. Sometimes even the good people don't know when they kick out their fellow good and crave for the bad people.

IamKashyBaby:


Aha...well, some of us that are still single, simply bcoz we dont go down with all the BS some men will bring on the table...

Some of us are busy chasing our own dreams..dream to be a selfmade woman..

And some of us, juz dont believe in marriage as a true happiness..Marriage is NOT for everyone anyway..

datz a konsolation perception..

veraiyke:
That's a genuinely big question. The bad far outweighs the good people. The good people are not taken seriously. Sometimes even the good people don't know when they kick out their fellow good and crave for the bad people.

LOL!!! I like you already.

Girls dodging this thread like EBOLA...

TwoFacedBitch:
Someone should get an original diamond ring for this one she's almost begging for it.

The 2k ring she has is fading already.

Egbon, don't you think it's time to move on? Quit all these online dramas. Haba na. You old pass this Bullshyt you been playing. Se otò ki Agba ma soro bi ewe?

You people worry too much literally on non-issues. Everybody with their own destiny and life journey to embark on.

tosyne2much:
[/b] I used to pity ladies who can't find male suitors but now, I no longer have a pinch of pity for them. When you get close to some of them and engage them into conversations, then you will get to know the reason why men don't take them serious

you are very correct those matured but yet to marry ladies, check them very well most of them have over 4 boy friend including one old sugar daddy somewhere, see if you are not straight forward with a guys he can never be straight with you, and most of their mistake is that while you are still trying toast them they will say they have a boyfriend, but when they visit you a week after.
the boyfriend's chapter is closed as if the new guy has forgotten all she told him earlier.#Nomumuanywhere

Tahrah:
It pays to be financially independent before getting married.

And this has to always be the man abi. WeH done ma

sshola:


And this has to always be the man abi. WeH done ma

I meant my fellow ladies.

Doctorfitz:
The question ladies should ask themselves is "if I were me would I marry me"?.

Be honest with urselves. No one is perfect Buh crap remains crap.

I love this! Some of these single ladies are are just too addicted to material thins which is not suppose to be a priority before marriage.

gabi101:



lol a car just to date you?! well i have more than that...anyways,Op i think your write up is well balanced,advanced and very nice. good job Mr emusmithy

Thanks bro! I appreciate.

pocohantas:
Whenever this topic comes up, I hear the same old story. Ladies are this, they are that. There are bad men too in this Nigeria...
There have always been bad men and women, we're used to that.

Societal values have dropped, no gender is innocent.

Responsible guys will see a responsible partner as at when due. If this topic was why guys above 30 are still single, you all will come in chanting how it's slay queens everywhere. Now you suddenly forgot your fellow men are perpetrating crimes worse than 'slaying' hence reduction in responsible men too.

Why are the good ladies not getting married?
Why are all you good men still single?

The above is gonna be a new topic, this particular one...though sensible has been overflogged.

To be created by you? I await it.

Don't beat yourself up. Pick a lesson and walk away.

iPopAlomo:
Girls dodging this thread like EBOLA...

This matter isnt funny at all for them; many have made irreversible mistakes.

Its only a miracle that can change things.

tosyne2much:
Even with the attitudes some of them display on social media, you will begin to shake your head for a man that will marry them

As in enh

Tahrah:
Unku,i no dey follow you yarn.I meant my fellow ladies.

Hantee, buh u quoted me Na.. .see me o

Dasgoro:
This matter isnt funny at all for them; many have made irreversible mistakes.

Its only a miracle that can change things.

Hmm

sshola:

Hantee, buh u quoted me Na.. .see me o

E ma binu.

fellom:
you are very correct those matured but yet to marry ladies, check them very well most of them have over 4 boy friend including one old sugar daddy somewhere, see if you are not straight forward with a guys he can never be straight with you, and most of their mistake is that while you are still trying toast them they will say they have a boyfriend, but when they visit you a week after.
the boyfriend's chapter is closed as if the new guy has forgotten all she told him earlier.#Nomumuanywhere

Some of them can be physically matured but are not mentally matured.

Tahrah:
E ma binu.

So Omo Yoruba niyin. Bawo ni. Se alafia ni...ama mora jubayi lo o

sshola:


So Omo Yoruba niyin. Bawo ni. Se alafia ni...ama mora jubayi lo o

Mo wapa .Alafia ni sah ,eyin nko?Bawo ni ise ati family?

Tahrah:
Mo wapa .Alafia ni sah ,eyin nko?Bawo ni ise ati family?

Lolz...ise ati family WA o. Omo abeoKuta lemi o, omo ogbon Odin si nimi. Eko sini mo ngbe, sugbon erekusu eko ni mo ti nsise

sshola:


Lolz...ise ati family WA o. Omo abeoKuta lemi o, omo ogbon Odin si nimi. Eko sini mo ngbe, sugbon erekusu eko ni mo ti nsise

Yoruba mi ko de ibeyen.Koyemi o.

Tahrah:
Yoruba mi ko de ibeyen.Koyemi o.

...

Meaning around Lagos. But Island, WITh More precision