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Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Doctorfitz: 3:44pm On Jun 20, 2017
Eya this is serious.
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Nobody: 3:50pm On Jun 20, 2017
Oyindidi:
Blame yourself for bringing up your family matter here.
exactly..girls should be mindful of whatever they post here...this guys are heartless...they must use it against the person

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Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by smellingmenses: 3:53pm On Jun 20, 2017
sekxy:

exactly..girls should be mindful of whatever they post here...this guys are heartless...they must use it against the person
Do not give this issue a gender cloak. Help her... Her heart is heavy.. ishilove kennygee
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by smellingmenses: 3:54pm On Jun 20, 2017
Oyindidi:
Blame yourself for bringing up your family matter here.
It is actually good she opened up here... and got some measure of release...
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Nobody: 3:54pm On Jun 20, 2017
smellingmenses:
Do not give this issue a gender cloak. Help her... Her heart is heavy
but that's not the way to go about it...it's not funny atall
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by smellingmenses: 3:55pm On Jun 20, 2017
sekxy:

but that's not the way to go about it...it's not funny atall
I have done my bit. Making the issue obvious. You guys should reach out to her...

missyadorable:


there is nothing like love btw man and woman.its primarily a function of their sexual organs leading to attraction,followed by what they stand to gain which ranges from wealth,power,status,security,companionship,etc....

The day I start believing in man and woman love will be the day am doomed
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Amarabae(f): 4:00pm On Jun 20, 2017
Look at her mouth .my father this, my father that.
Let us hear word abeg. Lack of home training can be a problem to many grownupz.
Yes her mother suffered domestic abuse and she is traumatised, why not book a date with a Psychologist?after that, work on her to reconcile things up!
And believe you me, she will transfer the anger to her husband if she don't work on herself.
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by smellingmenses: 4:04pm On Jun 20, 2017
Amarabae:
Look at her mouth .my father this, my father that.
Let us hear word abeg. Lack of home training can be a problem to many grownupz.
Yes her mother suffered domestic abuse and she is traumatised, why not book a date with a Psychologist?after that, work on her to reconcile things up!
And believe you me, she will transfer the anger to her husband if she don't work on herself.
She has.

missyadorable:


there is nothing like love btw man and woman.its primarily a function of their sexual organs leading to attraction,followed by what they stand to gain which ranges from wealth,power,status,security,companionship,etc....

The day I start believing in man and woman love will be the day am doomed

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Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Amarabae(f): 4:09pm On Jun 20, 2017
smellingmenses:

She has.

A lady that have the boldness to wish her father(who is her blood) Dead CAN NEVER spare the husband.
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by smellingmenses: 4:11pm On Jun 20, 2017
Amarabae:
A lady that have the boldness to wish her father(who is her blood) Dead CAN NEVER spare the husband.
Reason why she ​needs help. To heal
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jun 20, 2017
Missyadorable going by all that has been posted here I have been able to deduce that you are merely a victim of circumstance.You strike me as a smart lady who unfortunately had an unpalatable childhood courtesy of your father.Am not going to tell you to not hate your father or that all men are not the same.Am only going to tell you that for your husband to have married you am sure he loves you.Dnt allow your past become a barrier to the happy future you and your spouse could have. Forgiving your father is up to you but I beg you to forget the past and move on.Not for anyone but for your own happiness and peace of mind.
Amarabae:
Look at her mouth .my father this, my father that.
Let us hear word abeg. Lack of home training can be a problem to many grownupz.
Yes her mother suffered domestic abuse and she is traumatised, why not book a date with a Psychologist?after that, work on her to reconcile things up!
And believe you me, she will transfer the anger to her husband if she don't work on herself.
It is easy to judge people when you don't walk in their shoes.You weren't part of her childhood and you dont know how bad it was.Besides we all deal with issues differently. So if you are only going to blame her and make her feel guilty for her father's misdeeds then it's better you just shut the hell up.The fact that such didn't happen to u gives u no power as chief judge over those traumatised by their childhood experiences. No bad blood,just saying.

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Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by smellingmenses: 4:33pm On Jun 20, 2017
missyadorable:
Show me a man without a side chick

And I will show you a dead rotten man in the grave

All men cheat

What's the fuss all about?


missyadorable:
Show me a man without a side chick

And I will show you a dead rotten man in the grave

All men cheat

What's the fuss all about?
missyadorable:
After all the insults,abuses,curses,name calling I received from home while growing up from my father till I graduated,got married and cut off every link from him...there is no amount of insult an outsider would heap on me that will make any sense to me,especially when my job and a good pay as 850k is involved.

I won't even take note...Insults don't pain me anymore
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Nobody: 4:36pm On Jun 20, 2017
smellingmenses:




Guy stop posting this stuff abeg.The babe was probably having a happy time before you reminded her of this.What mood do u imagine this has put her in?Be honest.

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Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by smellingmenses: 4:39pm On Jun 20, 2017
Henryyy:

Guy stop posting this stuff abeg.The babe was probably having a happy time before you reminded her of this.What mood do u imagine this has put her in?Be honest.
A thinking one.... She's smart a barrister I reckon....she needs a psychiatrist..
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by smellingmenses: 4:51pm On Jun 20, 2017
missyadorable:


Thank You Madam! I hope you are married and you deeply love your husband...for your info,am not in an abusive marriage...I dont love my husband,yes! because men don't deserve love
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by CaraJewel(f): 7:34pm On Jun 20, 2017
missyadorable:

Of course,all men are not like my father
my husband is not like my father because I am not like my mother
the moment I start showing him love,care, attention, he will start behaving like my father.
Men don't appreciate good women,they take advantage of them and punish them

My husband as my next of kin? what manner of stupidity will that be?
So that he will kill me and use my money to marry a new wife?
God forbid.
But why did you marry and what if u have a son will you treat him like all men when he grows uP?no love for him?

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Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by missyadorable(f): 7:42pm On Jun 20, 2017
CaraJewel:
But why did you marry and what if u have a son will you treat him like all men when he grows uP?no love for him?

I married because an Unmarried woman has no respect
Being single is seen as a curse
I have worked so hard to be successful: Education and career wise
I didn't want all my efforts and achievements to be null and void
I just had to get that title of a. "MRS" to be respected and regarded as a complete responsible successful woman

I have a son...And I love him.My relationship with him is mother and child
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by smellingmenses: 7:53pm On Jun 20, 2017
missyadorable:


I married because an Unmarried woman has no respect
Being single is seen as a curse
I have worked so hard to be successful: Education and career wise
I didn't want all my efforts and achievements to be null and void
I just had to get that title of a. "MRS" to be respected and regarded as a complete responsible successful woman

I have a son...And I love him.My relationship with him is mother and child
Do you realise that whatever​ your husband and father are going through via your disposition will haunt your son in future? And I put it to you that you are incapable of loving anyone including yourself!
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Precial419: 8:35pm On Jun 20, 2017
Tel women 2 leave abusive mariage n claim dat dey r doing it 4 dier, dese r one of d probs. Ma i knw its nt easy to change after a lng time bt as a woman u jux hav to change ur thinking. Y nt pretend to show love wit time u wil feel d love too. Children learn frm deir, if u wnt ur child to treat u n girls wel, u nid to let go.
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by debque(m): 9:49pm On Jun 20, 2017
Omo.. this one is strong o
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Homeboiy: 10:19pm On Jun 20, 2017
Rubbish, the man ur causing is the person that trained u till u became a lawyer.


my anger is that u have transferred u aggression to ur loving husband


Anyways the way u hate ur father, Is equals to the way I hate Nigerian girls



My advice to u,...LOVE YOURSELF AND CHANGE UR WAYS,stop poisoning ur little kid mind
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by smellingmenses: 10:39pm On Jun 20, 2017
Homeboiy:
Rubbish, the man ur causing is the person that trained u till u became a lawyer.


my anger is that u have transferred u aggression to ur loving husband


Anyways the way u hate ur father, Is equals to the way I hate Nigerian girls



My advice to u,...LOVE YOURSELF AND CHANGE UR WAYS,stop poisoning ur little kid mind
The child needs to be rescued from her toxicity​... She's a danger to the poor baby and the husband
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Homeboiy: 10:48pm On Jun 20, 2017
smellingmenses:

The child needs to be rescued from her toxicity​... She's a danger to the poor baby and the husband


Exactly, if Nigeria should pass equality law, we the men will not even have a say in this country again.


She's saying all these nonsense because,she claims she went to school(trained by her father) and became a lawyer. she can defend herself by hating on her father n passing the hate to her husband. That she only married just to fulfil justification of being a Mrs. such an insane Lady, I won't blame her much BT Blame her mum that poisend her mind by painting her husband black.


I only feel for her kid because she will still poison his mind to tell him bad things about d husband.



If I marry yr type young lady,..I will plot for ur assassination if u mess up with me


homeboy has spoken
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jun 20, 2017
missyadorable:


Lol..Don't allow that be your concern

Anyway,Thanks for making me trend

I am enjoying the attention
It's a faceless forum

Wow, how did you mom endure for so long? Jesus
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Nobody: 10:55pm On Jun 20, 2017
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Op can you blame her though? She had a rough childhood. she has been moulded by her childhood experiences. I don't think this kind of mental damage can be undone. Impossible.
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Oyindidi(f): 11:03pm On Jun 20, 2017
missyadorable:


I don't think wickedness has a tribe.
I am from Rivers State.
This is getting more interesting. Which part of Rivers, I'm partly rivers
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by smellingmenses: 11:04pm On Jun 20, 2017
Dudeweedlmao:


Op can you blame her though? She had a rough childhood. she has been moulded by her childhood experiences. I don't think this kind of mental damage can be undone. Impossible.
Only iddiots gets locked up in the past. Everyone has some unpalatable history
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by smellingmenses: 11:05pm On Jun 20, 2017
Homeboiy:



Exactly, if Nigeria should pass equality law, we the men will not even have a say in this country again.


She's saying all these nonsense because,she claims she went to school(trained by her father) and became a lawyer. she can defend herself by hating on her father n passing the hate to her husband. That she only married just to fulfil justification of being a Mrs. such an insane Lady, I won't blame her much BT Blame her mum that poisend her mind by painting her husband black.


I only feel for her kid because she will still poison his mind to tell him bad things about d husband.



If I marry yr type young lady,..I will plot for ur assassination if u mess up with me


homeboy has spoken
She's very dangerous
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Oyindidi(f): 11:05pm On Jun 20, 2017
smellingmenses:

Only iddiots gets locked up in the past. Everyone has some unpalatable history
Damage done by her mom. It will take God's grace for her mind to change
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by smellingmenses: 11:07pm On Jun 20, 2017
Oyindidi:
Damage done by her mom. It will take God's grace for her mind to change
And she mocks reputable men of God too...
Re: When you're​ imprisoned by hate!!! by Fkforyou(m): 11:08pm On Jun 20, 2017
Wow....so much bile and hatred.

Funny enough she is a lawyer, Omo as a guy, don't pray she is your prosecutor, if not, you are doomed.

She is the kind of person that makes ordinary folks think feminism is about hatred for men. undecided
(No offense ma)

Ma, behind that cold exterior of yours is a heart filled with love yearning to be compassionate but don't know how to show it without be reminded of the pain you've tried so hard to suppress. Don't you think it's time for you to heal?

There is russian saying (from the comic series, arrow)

"A shark that does not swim, drowns"

Maybe it's time for you to move on. kiss


Cc: Mindfulness

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