Tahrah:
Yoruba mi ko de ibeyen.Koyemi o.

Shot you a pm already. Mo mean around Lagos island

sshola:



Shot you a pm already. Mo mean around Lagos island

Okay but that pm matter na long thing o.

Tahrah:
Okay but that pm matter na long thing o.

Kile mean.. .e o like é bah? No wahala

sshola:


Kile mean.. .e o like é bah? No wahala

sshola:



Shot you a pm already. Mo mean around Lagos island

#clearsthroat

May God help us

emusmithy:


#clearsthroat

Hahahahahahahah...see as you be

Oge is supposed to be reading this thread. Fine girl and 28 years old with a very nasty attitude.
Rather than come and register on nairaland,she prefers watchn the kardashians and telling me how rihanna is her role model.

Na her mouth i first hear pepper dem gang and too much sauce too much juice

op, u nailed it. I cldn't agree with u more...slayqueens

sshola:


Hahahahahahahah...see as you be

I dey watch you na
You dey work out your 'salvation' with fear and trembling...keep adding more wood into the fire but in my orchard biko

ThatIgboBoy:
Oge is supposed to be reading this thread. Fine girl and 28 years old with a very nasty attitude.
Rather than come and register on nairaland,she prefers watchn the kardashians and telling me how rihanna is her role model.

Na her mouth i first hear pepper dem gang and too much sauce too much juice

Haha, is she your sister?

jamillion:
op, u nailed it. I cldn't agree with u more...slayqueens

Thanks bro

Social media is another factor. .you see older ladies telling the younger ones 'who marriage epp?even if you want to pursue your career, getting married won't stop you. ..ladies should be mindful of being misled about marriage on social media..if you must seek advice sift and sift through..

uzobaby:
Social media is another factor. .you see older ladies telling the younger ones 'who marriage epp?even if you want to pursue your career, getting married won't stop you. ..ladies should be mindful of being misled about marriage on social media..if you must seek advice sift and sift through..

Hmm true. You sound married?

emusmithy:


Hmm true. You sound married?

[quote author=emusmithy post=57705389] I dey watch you na
You dey work out your 'salvation' with fear and trembling...keep adding more wood into the fire but in my orchard biko [/quote


Hahahhhaahhaa...you na sniper ni? Your bullet catch me o. I just want make nairaland fulfill one of its plenty purposes ni

emusmithy:
The Sudden Uprise Of Single Ladies Above 28: Salvaging The Situation.

Hi all.

I'm not the kinda guy who narrates a menace with providing the solution.

I really don't give 'two rats' about the reasons why...

- Maybe she broke the heart of the son of a native doctor.
- Could it be she wasted away her prime years?
- Maybe, just maybe they stuck themselves to one guy with hopes of marriage but were later disappointed.

Look around you, there are everywhere, church, workplace, neighborhood, family etc.

Which is the way forward?

I believe it's high time we called a spade a spade and not an agricultural equipment.

The lashes fall on both genders, appropriately.

Let's observe some measures that can be taken to salvage this urgent matter;
(Forget those ladies forming, 'I don't need a man to feel fulfilled', I'm my own boss. It's deception + boldfacism. There's a scar inside.)

This thread is in Two Sections; Section A and B;

Section A - Guys :

A) Guys should start seeing ladies differently.

The average guy sees ladies as merely a *bleeping object*. With that kinda mental picture, how wan take marry? Ladies are delicate creatures of God to help you fulfil your purpose and theirs too (before feminists crucify me. )
Truth be told, very few of our ladies pose themselves as that object. Very few, I believe. Even at that, Guys, let's see ladies differently. This is a command.


B) Many Guys Don't Know What They Truly Want In A Girl

Why the make-up and break-up? It's all in this quote, "When the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable."

The reason many girls are still single is because guys have refused to propose and that's also because they're still NOT sure if she's the one. If you don't see her marriageable, don't fool her with promises thus chasing other potential suitors, hence overcrowding the 'single ladies world.' I told one lady, I can't promise you I'm gonna marry you. Today, we're still friends. I buy you lunch doesn't mean I love you. Stop arriving at asinine conclusions. Stop reading meanings into my generosity. I'm different.


C) Money and Diamond isn't all a Wife-Material needs.

The saying goes, 'if she's in love with you just because you're rich, she ain't a wife material.'
True ladies abound who want to build a home with you and your 'wretched purse'. Look out for them. Don't generalize that all girls are after the cash. Nada! That's archaic and shameful. There is more to marriage. Don't go for the uneducated girls just because you feel you can't 'afford' the educated and retty model who read Medicine. Why must you think poor before you 'die'? Infact, those other ones are not the solution. Your thinking is.
If I see what I want in any lady, your social status in inconsequential. Highest, you turn me down which all guys are used to, lol. Every setback is a setup for a superfluous comeback.



Section B (Ladies)

A) 'Clock is Ticking' ain't a delusional phrase but an obvious reality.

Many ladies don't really know that there is time for everything. Abeg open Eccl.3:1-13 and read biko. You're 21 and counting how many guys you've 'chopped' and didn't 'chop' you back. That phase of life is very brief. Birthday party after birthday parry and you are already close to 30 and your fleshy flesh ain't as inviting as they used to be. Those guys you friendzoned are now married with kids while you are there confessing, "My time is coming." Hello, wake up and smell the coffee, it's a bit cold now. Stop being repulsive and irritating when guys approach you today. Be nice and courteous. I remember LADY X who happily gave me her number, only for me to call days later and she starts forming, "call me later, I'm busy." I was like, who taught you this did a pretty awful job. So harrowing. Number Deleted, Life goes on!

Ladies, be nice to guys today. It's one of them that might marry you or recommend you to your *superman*. You mustn't stay single till 30 to learn this.


B) Having an inaccurate measurement of a successful spouse.

How do you measure a successful guy? Must he have a car? Good and fine, if he has. That's still not the yardstick.
Was once eyeing a lady when I asked about her, someone told me her REQUIREMENT. I retraced my steps. I'll be there soon, yea. Almost all the guys who asked for her hand are happily married. Do ladies have different privy parts Haba! Ladies, measure success by his dreams, prospect and daily efforts. How many ladies saw greatness in Mark Zuckerberg in Harvard dormitory? Only one gentle-looking, purpose-driven Priscilla Xang. Where were all the 'runs girls'? I'm discouraging the reason ladies wait endlessly for "Mr Right".
They look towards successful failures. They look at liabilities and demean assets. If you want to be a 'mummy' in church tomorrow, marry a pastor. Don't marry a bouncer that you would start dragging to church and forcing him to open a ministry. #yeye


C). "I DON'T CARE" attitude.

Lols, I told her, 'walk like a lady at times na. Not walking like a soldier heading for Sambisa"
She literally interrupted me with, "Any man that doesn't like the way I walk should go to *****." Okay o. I went away also. The truth is, if you don't kinda do the unusual, you might not get the unusual. Step out. Break out. Be rightly positioned. How can a guy love you for who you are? When you can't cook common egusi soup well, you aren't domesticated. You lack manners. On top all, you now joined them feminist- claiming right with you 'olowoorimi'. Who are you and what can you give him that he can't get elsewhere. Eish! He can get s*x outside from younger girls.
Get prepared! I-don't-care might be the reason no one cares about you but keep hurting you emotionally, year in, year out! Change!


Do you know? The world population is about 7.7billion and roughly 22% are young unmarried ladies. That means over 1.5 billion ladies are still single. Don't allow Amarachi do shakara for you jare!

SUMMARY; There are no general reasons why guys and ladies stay so late before choosing someone. Different strokes for different folks. If you have to go spiritual, it's okay. Shiloh 2017 is around the corner again. Meanwhile, make the work easy for God by applying any of these. Good morning.

PLEASE, DESIST from putting up such RUBBISH....
The LADIES are not complaining at all...not for one bit..
Please stop

IamKashyBaby:


Aha...well, some of us that are still single, simply bcoz we dont go down with all the BS some men will bring on the table...

Some of us are busy chasing our own dreams..dream to be a selfmade woman..

And some of us, juz dont believe in marriage as a true happiness..Marriage is NOT for everyone anyway..

No Vex Aunty, this talk nah for Nigeria?

Why won't there be an increase when materialism and greed has killed them.

They expect a young man to have the whole world ready for them while they act bitc.hy.. jumping from one rich dude to the other.
I'm starting to prefer foreign girls to most of these gold digging ones we have around

"F"
'they want to be free to sample as many deeks as possible...

Doctorfitz:
A vast majority of them have nauseating attitudes and they'd still stand on their horses claiming rights. It's so appalling, if a woman is marriage worthy my brother she won't be single at all. That's the truth.

Exactly..You have said it better..If a woman is marriage worthy she wont stay too long..we guys know what we want and when we see it we go for it..No Stories.

Most of them have very very irritating attitudes,who wants to marry a woman whos behavior is bullshit..Carry jesus on top ur head from now till tommorow,He no concern guys..Nonesense and Buhari..

Alot of things are responsible

They will never learn... That's them 9ja girls for you.

hmm Mr observer thank you for your observation

Na man wey never chop belleful go marry?

...Nigerian Guys are clearly more frustrated and depressed about issues concerning Nigerian ladies than the ladies themselves

..Theywill leave the gargantum issues bedevelling them like criminal activities,financial irresponsiblity towards their wives and kids,poverty,sickness,homosexuality e.t.c rampant amongst them to loose sleep day and night about women and their issues..

..If that is not mega joblessness,then i dont know what is..

Kondomatic:
This is funny especially your point A.

Guy, it is difficult to see women differently because majority of them intentionally portray themselves the way we see them.

Literally, you're saying that when I see a woman clad in the attire of a LovePeddler I should see her like God fearing lady because there are too many unmarried women out there? "

Bleep them all.

A lady who is serious about marriage will prepare herself for marriage and will marry, likewise guys.

The rest are gifts to enjoy while waiting for the one.

When you go take one girl off the market?

Emismithy u nailed it. To be sincere, i'm tired of all this trashy talk about feminism, it makes me sick. It seems like the fashion nowadays for every girl to be an arrogant feminist. U hit the topic from all directions not all the rubbish i've been seeing here.
Being a feminist and preaching it doesn't change anything.
#proudly anti-feminist

I don't think these ladies are interested in your suggestions.

Let's not forget the reality on ground, most men drive cara and get accident as our roads are death traps and die, most men travel abroad for greener pastures, most men are in the army wing killed or killing other men at war fronts, few men are armed robbers or thieves that have been gunned down by police or beaten to death by jungle justice and so on and so forth the list is endless
The economy is not helping matters]

This op self. Person never see work work you wan go Marry. Na lack of work d curse most ladies to be single as their boyfriends no get work