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Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by sharpwriter(m): 10:48pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
RadicallyBlunt:Yea...you've said my mind. ECONOMY is one of the major cause. Which guy wan jux jump anyhow with girl into marriage without financial shock absorber. 6 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Kondomatic(m): 10:49pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Oyindidi:After Buharis second tenure 3 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 10:49pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Doctorfitz: Spot on! |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by don89(m): 10:49pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Well written , thanks for this ,those who have ears let them hear. Food for thought. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 10:49pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Doctorfitz: Put the blame on the mum. She either forgot her duties on her girl-child, started so late or practically went AWOL on the poor girl. And the increase in baby mama nowadays is going to further worsen the situation. Too bad ![]() Send bulk sms at a very cheap rate. Check my signature for details. 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Realhommie(m): 10:51pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Dasgoro:Very true.. 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 10:51pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
NavyBlue: Good to have a lady say such. I'm grateful for your compliment Ma. I'll follow you. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by jhudit(f): 10:51pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Economy is the major cause. All the good girls you men dated, did you marry them? 16 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by oglalasioux(m): 10:51pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Marriage and child bearing should be optional without societal and peer stereotype. That's the only solution. Marriage and religion remain the two fakest things invented by mankind. 18 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by feelgoodInc: 10:51pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
You'll never see a long post by women writing about how men should behave in front of ladies, all you'll see is men writing shit. Leave the women alone stop peeing sheets, your heart wasn't broken by women, it was broken by one woman. but to be fair I think I prefer the real femininity rather than a woman trying to be masculine in other to compete with men. No man is competing with you. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Oyindidi(f): 10:51pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by SGANIVA(m): 10:51pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
why always blaming ladies, is not always there fault, the major problem is economic situation in this country .life have become more difficult for men this days 10 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by NavyBlue: 10:52pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
emusmithy: thanks |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Kondomatic(m): 10:53pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Oyindidi:You won't meet me after Oct 1st if northerners keep their words 5 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Oyindidi(f): 10:55pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Kondomatic:Are you for real? Thought that was not something serious ![]() |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Kondomatic(m): 10:57pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Oyindidi:I have stayed here long enough to know when they're serious 5 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by slap1(m): 10:58pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Is this one an issue now? Must everyone marry? 10 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by KKKWHITE(m): 11:00pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Increase in single ladies and I am here still searching for a single lady ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Bibors(m): 11:02pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: After checking out your dp, I think I understand you better. 6 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 11:03pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Stop making it seem as though Marriage is a MUST, or that single ladies are unhappy, or that it's all single ladies that WANT to get married. Being single is NOT a problem, so you people need to stop suggesting "solutions" for that and focus on more important things, directing your energy towards more productive ends. I don't see Nuns/Reverend sisters complaining of depression, or divorced single ladies falling dead. You need to snap out of the delusion and false notion that ladies who claim not to need men to make them happy have holes in their hearts. Marriage itself does NOT guarantee happiness, and you need to stop pressuring the single ladies to get married as if being single is some sort of disease. Humans are teleological animals that inhabit a wondrous world of INFINITE potentialities into which they can tap from whichever angle. There's nothing cast in stone, no one way to achieve something. Marriage is not all there is to life. There are other ways of achieving happiness - a lot of them. Einstein was so in love with Physics that he couldn't invest his sublime passions into any other true love. That was what gave him the kick. That was for him, the bluest meth. Physics was HIS TRUE LOVE that gave him fulfillment, not a person. It was the same for Nietzsche, and a host of other people you can think of. You're therefore completely WRONG to have asserted, with such impudence, that ladies who claim they do not need men to be fulfilled are internally scarred. You overhype marriage and worship it like a God. Like that lady, IamKashyBaby rightfully said, MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE. 31 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by ashawopikin(m): 11:03pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby:be decieving yaself 6 Likes
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Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 11:03pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: True, you become self-made in your late 30's then end up being the one sponsoring the wedding, and still, he cheats on you with that self-made wealth of yours worse still spend your money on 'em little young girls. Soon you gonna learn. 7 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by jaytime(m): 11:03pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
I personally see this from an economic angle. Fact is, there are so many broke guys of over 30 out there who would have, all things being equal, gotten married to these ladies in question but they don't have the financial muscle to undertake marriage rites let alone shoulder family responsibilities. In that case, there must be a resultant increase in the number of "redundant" spinsters. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by iKON11(m): 11:04pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby:SMFH |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Softhands(m): 11:05pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Dey deceive yourself IamKashyBaby: 3 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by gokuu(m): 11:06pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Everyday a new stupid post comes up. How did op arrive at this conclusion that there has been an increase in "Women above 28 who are not married"? What was the null hypothesis? sample size? where was this study carried out? sampling method? He probably just overhead the crazy thought in a drunken beer parlour discussion and brought it on here. Even if more Women are choosing to join the workforce and develop careers, is that not a fantastic thing. It is sure better to have Women contributing to the absolute GDP figures as opposed to reducing per capita GDP by becoming baby factories. All these illiterate men that only think about marriage and babies are the ones pulling preventing national development. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Obalende: 11:06pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Who are men to think they have a right to discriminate against women on the basis of age? If men do not want women above a certain then women also do not want men over a certain age! Tit for tat. The problem though is marriage is no longer an institution suited to modern times in my opinion. With feminism came female financial independence which a good thing and I support that. What works today that offers both men and women good deals is have a girlfriend or boyfriend then when old marry...at least uv had ur fun... though not a biblical model but it is what it is. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by sharpwriter(m): 11:07pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
KKKWHITE:Lol....search for them within the age range mentioned 28 & above 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by ednut1(m): 11:07pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
money. most of dem don't wanna settle for less, Intro, pre-wedding pics, traditional, church and reception cost a fortune. if u tell most Nigerian babes to just do small court wedding dem or their families no go gree. our culture sucks abeg 10 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nigeriadondie: 11:08pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Improve the economy and men wud be financially bouyant enough to get married and the ladies are single would become wives and mothers not baby mamas. Our evil leaders by their actions and inactions are destiny destroyers. When men wey for marry dem never chop belleful how dem wan come feed other mouths. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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