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Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 11:09pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
jaytime: Which law is that? ![]() |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Philinho(m): 11:10pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
dingbang:Don't mind her.as she's typing ,she's crying 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 11:12pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Not everyone is in a rush for marriage. It is not a race. Some people are okay with being alone until the right person comes along. 14 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by onyichick(f): 11:12pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Marriage marriage marriage!!!! Gosh, don't u hv better things to research n talk about? This issue has bin over flogged. Most people r married in this country cos of societal pressure n are mostly miserable in their marriages. Marriage isn't by force and it isn't the ultimate, in countries like Japan the govt is spending millions every year to Mk people marry but they still run away from marriage but here all we think about is marriage this n marriage that. The rate of domestic violence n divorce is on the rise cos people just marry any available partner so as to be counted among d married ones. We need to stop making people and most especially the ladies feel like a failure if they aren't married at a certain age, instead we need to focus on how to make people take their time to choose wisely. I have seen what broken home does to children. Please stop with all these sort of threads 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by jhudit(f): 11:14pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
NotOfThis:They don't ever believe this. 12 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by AZeD1(m): 11:14pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Am I the only one that thinks men like the OP are emotionally insecure that's why they keep coming up with feel good threads like this? If you feel there's an increase in population of single ladies over 28, maybe it because a large number of them have realised that there's more to life than marriage. 32 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by cococandy(f): 11:15pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
You people are disgusting. What is your business with single women? Did they ask you for help? Did they cry to you about their single status? Why aren't you just as worried for your single brothers above 28? You're all very stupid if you think a woman being single at a certain age means her life is worse than anyone else's. Such retardedd posts littering nairaland. 37 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Obalende: 11:16pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Some people think Women should be financially independent her husband should not provide for her... Feminism will create more marriages and liberate men from financial pressures of 'being a man' |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by kzubyar(m): 11:16pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
dingbang:35 I think 3 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Oluwaremythe(m): 11:18pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby:slaymama spotted,seeing ur picture here alone,I know d typa lady yu probably are already...bt yu fit reach 37 before marriage sha,if yu dnt change dis ideology of urs... yu may kom here and say yu dnt nid marriage ooo,bt I refused to be brainwashed with dat boldfacism... d scar is inside I know 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Fkforyou(m): 11:19pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
I no read your epistle, but IMO, the number of ladies above 28 are increasing because: 1) The number of sissies who call themselves men are increasing. 2) Female hypergamy is growing at astronomical rate, no one is good enough for them. You must meet all their criteria to be considered as a mate. 3) Guys who meet their requirements wants to take their pound flesh for their past disappointment before settling down with girls much younger. 10 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by cococandy(f): 11:22pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
How is this your business? Just give me one example of how the status of single ladies in nigeria concerns you. emusmithy: 8 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by hollah123: 11:22pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
tosyne2much:God bless u for this statement, imagine a lady who wish to be a full house wife saying I can't cook for my husband simply because am not his slave. like seriously I weak that day, just imagine full house wife.then what will she b doing all day? n if that kind of lady is referred to as sex object now,3rd World War will start. then what is she if not a sex object cos she only comes to the picture when a man needs to cool off. 7 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Obalende: 11:24pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
cococandy:I agree. This is a feminist cause. If men age discriminate women should also age discriminate! |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Some married women come here and be saying things to rubbish this thread but they're married! Some of them literally forced their way into his life but what are they advising the younger generation? To just chill and not worry about it, to keep being a slay queen and not prepare for a future hubby, something their moms are also saying. Right now, I know women who are trying to connect their relatives (ladies) to me, for a marital relationship. I saw their pics, it's obvious that some of them have 'chopped' life. Don't I have relatives above 28, single and I'm praying they position rightly for Mr. Right? I do. You can DO NOTHING against the truth BUT for the truth. #QED! 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by jhudit(f): 11:27pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
emusmithy:Close mouth biko. Na woman your power reach. That they are married means they should force every lady into marriage? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Obalende: 11:27pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Fkforyou: Also women inundated with attention from teens to early 20s believe it's going to last forever because they were not well informed. It's not that guys deliberately hate or are being harsh to older babes oh, I think it's just biological wiring and primal instinct (like those of animals lol). 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Oluwaremythe(m): 11:28pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
onyichick:calm ur nerves babe... 90% of broken home are caused by ego,either from the man bt mostly from d woman....yu gotta be humble to sustain a lifetime rlsp... marriage can't be write off for any reason in life...it's vital. 7 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by slimpoet11(m): 11:29pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
cococandy:Lol take it easy dear, why do u have 2 sound so pained? ![]() |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by GoldenSpine24(m): 11:29pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Nice one op. I believe it's directed towards all those who desire a marital union cos its obvious from some of the comments from ladies here that being married isn't a criterion for happiness.... Anyways My 5 cents, Reason 1....Some of them have been jilted unfairly early in life and maybe failed to grow emotionally and are still scared of losing their hearts again. However, to counter that, If you never use your heart to love, who cares when it gets broken? Reason 2....Some make a choice. Maybe environmental background or advise suggests that when they are older than a certain age they could settle. Again, we will always learn everyday. Marriage is the only institution you receive a certificate before you begin.... Reason 3...The attitudes. Oh, lawd! the attitude of some ladies make u want to cringe!!! Some are unnecessarily rude without cause, some believe that they are divine gift to man and therefore show an extreme level of pride cos of attention left, right and centre. Some get so choosy and blind their eyes to true intentions. If a man is financially dependent, has ambitions, worthy goals but not as rich as you would want him to be....I think if a lady despises such a man,she needs to be checked again. What prevents you from also sharing your ambitions or goals with him abi you nor get? Have something worthwile your are working towards, maintain a positive attitude of where you are headed and watch how he will unleash his undending stream of love and support towards you. Reason 4..Preconceived Ideas..When you prejudge an event or person, you will almost find nothing good. Imagine a lady telling me the other day; All men are the same no matter what. How do you prejudge a person before getting to know him..then i told her i assumed she was going to be married to a woman..When she forbade it, I asked her; Then why do you pray to God for a kind, loving and chaste mate if all of them are already the same, does it make sense? Keep an open heart dear ladies.. The truth is; if you are one who desires marriage, not getting a suitable mate at a certain time can have its emotional toll on you either male or female. It's not easy for our ladies out there. We know they go thru a lot. If you are a lady and fall within the scope of this thread, you know if you have some homework to do. You know where the shoe free you or pain you. We are not perfect doesn't mean we would not try. Why not look for the nuggets of wisdom from all the comments and improve yourself; attitudes, goals, open hearts? All the best to the ladies. Peace Out 13 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Fkforyou: You are right joor! They're everywhere now o! Recession too ain't helping their matter. All these we are saying are all True. They're too proud to concur. 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by jhudit(f): 11:30pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Oluwaremythe:From which woman? Most homes break up when a woman has had it all, not otherwise. There is a reason why marital teachings are directed at women. Do you know what Nigerian women are enduring to remain Mrs? 11 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
jhudit: Lols! You're funny damn! They should see a spade and call it a spade. Some married women, I feel just want to remain 'superior' over the single friends. They advise them to opt out of relationships anyhow. My friends brings out the best in me. Aunty: Tell them the truth ey! 5 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by jhudit(f): 11:35pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
emusmithy:Are you done talking? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by slimpoet11(m): 11:35pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Pls gals receive brain in Jesus name & be independent. No guy will spend money on u for free,u'll pay for it, either by hook or by crook,work hard,pray hard, nothing comes for free. And be contented with whatever u av. And to those girls who are ready to open 'yash' for any James & John who buys them material things, 'You worth more than diamond and Gold' use ur brain 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 11:38pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
GoldenSpine24: I tried to put it this way. 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by slimpoet11(m): 11:42pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
[quote author=GoldenSpine24 post=57708630]Nice one op. I believe it's directed towards all those who desire a marital union cos its obvious from some of the comments from ladies here that being married isn't a criterion for happiness.... Anyways My 5 cents, Reason 1....Some of them have been jilted unfairly early in life and maybe failed to grow emotionally and are still scared of losing their hearts again. However, to counter that, If you never use your heart to love, who cares when it gets broken? Bro i swear i wish 2 buy u one bottle ![]() Reason 2....Some make a choice. Maybe environmental background or advise suggests that when they are older than a certain age they could settle. Again, we will always learn everyday. Marriage is the only institution you receive a certificate before you begin.... Reason 3...The attitudes. Oh, lawd! the attitude of some ladies make u want to cringe!!! Some are unnecessarily rude without cause, some believe that they are divine gift to man and therefore show an extreme level of pride cos of attention left, right and centre. Some get so choosy and blind their eyes to true intentions. If a man is financially dependent, has ambitions, worthy goals but not as rich as you would want him to be....I think if a lady despises such a man,she needs to be checked again. What prevents you from also sharing your ambitions or goals with him abi you nor get? Have something worthwile your are working towards, maintain a positive attitude of where you are headed and watch how he will unleash his undending stream of love and support towards you. Reason 4..Preconceived Ideas..When you prejudge an event or person, you will almost find nothing good. Imagine a lady telling me the other day; All men are the same no matter what. How do you prejudge a person before getting to know him..then i told her i assumed she was going to be married to a woman..When she forbade it, I asked her; Then why do you pray to God for a kind, loving and chaste mate if all of them are already the same, does it make sense? Keep an open heart dear ladies.. The truth is; if you are one who desires marriage, not getting a suitable mate at a certain time can have its emotional toll on you either male or female. It's not easy for our ladies out there. We know they go thru a lot. If you are a lady and fall within the scope of this thread, you know if you have some homework to do. You know where the shoe free you or pain you. We are not perfect doesn't mean we would not try. Why not look for the nuggets of wisdom from all the comments and improve yourself; attitudes, goals, open hearts? All the best to the ladies. Peace Out [/quote Bro chop knuckle.. You nailed it gbam. 10000likes 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 11:44pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
jhudit: I thought I was typing and not talking... Madam, this is a social platform, not a one-on-one conversation, don't sound or think that I'm trying so hard to get you to buy my opinion or get your attention. Maam, 'Are you done talking' creates an awkward picture to me and IT'S NOT necessary. 6 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by cococandy(f): 11:45pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
slimpoet11:Yes I'm pained |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by tosyne2much(m): 11:45pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
KKKWHITE:So many fishes dey this forum nah... Abi You No get net ni? ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by juman(m): 11:46pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
A country with messed up economy. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Oluwaremythe(m): 11:51pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
![]() jhudit: smiles,women always playing d victim. Anyway,before you marry any guy,be sure yu know him well,at least to his faults,b sure yu can withstand his torture too,it's nt gonna be rosy every time(dat yu sud reckon too) and above all,drop ur pride at home before moving to a man's house seriously no man in his right senses will take an humble&loving lady for a ride. fights&arguments are normal... 1st to 5yrs in marriage are always d most delicate periods of marriage,jst be respectful and see ao things work out... bliv dat there's nothing like gender equality. 8 Likes 1 Share |
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