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Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Amadaz(m): 11:52pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
menwongo:bros i owe u a bottle of heineken for ur comment 3 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Obalende: 11:58pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Oluwaremythe: There is gender equality. Gender equality relieves men from financial pressures of marriage cos d woman gotta work. 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by jinneyb(m): 12:03am On Jun 21, 2017 |
I crosspath an old time friend(lady), primary school friend to be precise n back then we were very close friends but lost contact immediately after the pry school due to difference in secondary school. Uno we started talking and it seemed like things never changed except age and growth...we continued our friendship and did lots together and after months of been together definitely after a lot hav been said and shared together the feeling have grown and Uno delikes, I dropped the talk, babes this one we are getting along, let's move this our thing to another level and she was like hmmmm...no ish but what's ur genotype, after talks about compatibility we discovered it can't work out, so we busted it but were still friends. We kept a bit distance after the whole stuff only to come back together and I got the shocker of my life, she changed and her rate of act up was outa this world. I was like babes Wassup now, where this thing they come from, she just lock up and as per the way we use to be and our closeness, I word her real hard although I apologised after but that didn't change her attitude so I stopped contacting only for her to just recently start sending me some messages that I don't even understand... So I was like when you knew you had this kind of thing in mind, why the act up ![]() And by virtue of age, we are mate...so to me, it all boils down to attitude and what exactly they want. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Ugosample(m): 12:09am On Jun 21, 2017 |
RaggedyAnn: I wonder. Like it's anybody's business. 7 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by salford1: 12:15am On Jun 21, 2017 |
xynerise: RaggedyAnn:It's joblessness and secondly, 3rd world problems. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by sweetgala(m): 12:22am On Jun 21, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: Self made women don't exist because self made people don't exist. Even Jesus needed 12 disciples to fulfil the prophecy so why should yours be different; the man who may assist you to be all you can be may be just a friend or he may be the partner God planned for you. You may never reach that pinnacle you so desire without that God purposed assistance 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Shroud: 12:23am On Jun 21, 2017 |
pocohantas:Another single and bitter spinster spotted |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Oluwaremythe(m): 12:23am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Obalende:God help subdue dis ur arrogant arguments&confrontations before yu move in tho...we(Realmen) only nid an advisor and a friend...not a commander&a boss kos we're d boss naturally |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 12:29am On Jun 21, 2017 |
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Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Obalende: 12:30am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Oluwaremythe:Translated means I am a shameless ego driven animal full of pride. Women should work and make their own money in marriage. 7 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by salford1: 12:34am On Jun 21, 2017 |
AZeD1:Probably an ugly one too. This has to be the most sensless thread of the year. Alot of people went full retard on this one too ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 12:35am On Jun 21, 2017 |
OP you forgot to tell them how backward you are in researching and making up figures without any solid proof to back it up. One would think with such an elaborate writeup,you would at least spare us some truth without twisting lies to drive your pathetic point home. Below is the link to real time statistics of the world population showing male to female ratio by age!! It clearly shows(if you take the time to look closely at it at all)that males outnumber females by at least 20% and this number only reduces after the age of 50. So that trash you wrote about single ladies increasing in number in the original post is fallacy without any viable proof! Rather it is the old men that are dying early you should be more worried about. Here is the link,should you miss it blindly. ![]() http://population.city/world/ People just sit in their bedrooms and type trash from God-knows where without any solid proof! It is very irritating especially when they claim to be educated and enlightened. Just to make front page you had to concoct lies out of thin air about women and it worked as usual! ![]() As for the women who would believe every nonsense scrapped out of somewhere without proper research in this internet age,I pity you! That is how they want to force you to make mistakes and rush into marriage then rush out again after divorce just because of this same old 'time is not on your side again' theory! Even my own mother still saw her period till she was 55! Which means she could actually get pregnant at 50 if she wanted. Now with IVF its even better, women now get pregnant and give birth at 60! My point is just don't let anyone harangue you into something you don't wanna do. Marriage is not an achievement, ask divorcees! They should know better. Focus on yourself and be financially stable,you can have any man you want!! No one rejects good stuff! Peace! ![]() http://population.city/world/ 9 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 12:38am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Adults are talking, let me learn from them so i won't make same mistake. Hmm, senpei tachi, arigato gozaimas, i will try & get married b4 25......hmmm maybe 30...ummu, thats it 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by tosyne2much(m): 12:43am On Jun 21, 2017 |
GoldenSpine24:Respect sir! 6 Likes
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Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 12:44am On Jun 21, 2017 |
jaytime: Now dis is very impressive |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 12:44am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Will a woman die if she doesn't marry ![]() 11 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 12:45am On Jun 21, 2017 |
jaytime: This is also true. It happens in every society that begins to industrialize. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by tosyne2much(m): 12:51am On Jun 21, 2017 |
sweetgala:I like your analogy bro ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Gaddafithe2nd(m): 12:58am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Most of these ladies don't have anything to offer. Engage them in a conversation, and you will find out that they have nothing upstairs. Only few are okay. Unemployment and under employments also led to many Guys and ladies being single. 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Raypawer(m): 12:59am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Man you just nailed it on the Head... Well said tosyne2much: |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by obowunmi(m): 1:06am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Irresponsible lazy men. 5 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by coptic: 1:13am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Jiang: So you be small boy like this na ehn you dey follow your uncle mates drag matter abi. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 1:15am On Jun 21, 2017 |
i love threads like these because while they show me how stupid some nigerians are, some comments also remind me that we have some functional thinking ppl in this country. the reason while there are more spinsters in this generation is because nigerian women are finally realizing they can do and deserve better. most men here riding the "go and marry" brigade are the worst specimen of men out there. let's be fu<king honest, let's go there, how many nigerians want to have a marriage exactly like their parents? i grew up in a stable household with very nice parents but i can personally say that i dont want a marriage like theirs, a lot of you here talking trash wont even exist in this day and age cos your mothers wouldn't have settled with your fathers. but the differnce is that girls grow up wanting and grooming themselves for a more romantic fun marriage and guys are just more than comfortable being as uninteresting as wet bread. most nigerians are very bitter when they see a woman who wants to do well for herself, be it a woman who strives for independence and success or a woman who wants to marry well and won't settle for less. that's why they gather like ants when celebrity marriages fail because they love to laugh at those who even had the nerve to think they can have it all and still have their happy ending and i'm using celebrities as an example because they're the only public cases we get to see. this is why successful women like genevieve and rita dominic are constantly told "go and marry" by ppl here who can't even afford 1/10th of the life they live, that's why anytime a scandal arises about adaeze yobo's marriage, they gather around to laugh and say "she never see anything" meanwhile she married at 20 and did not even get the chance to "slay mama" before marrying like most ppl like to justify their dragging with, that is why they drag female celebs who got out of unhappy marriages when they cry on camera, then drag them when they show signs of moving on with their lives. this is why they're happy whenever a new rumor rises about caroline danjuma's husband's cheating, "oh she thought fine girl will save her" "haha shey she's the one that wanted rich husband", this is why they're at the uche jumbo thread typing "ghen ghen" hoping her marriage fails so they can come again to tell women that working hard and being a boss is nahhht the way to go. this is why when an everyday case of domestic violence goes viral, they sympathize but when it's a successful woman who's a celebrity they do the most trying to attribute everything to her celebrity status, she must have been a bad wife (because she's successful in her own right and we all know women who don't need you in order to feed are just terrible and must be dragged) the issue here is not that many women are not marrying but that many men are NOT marriage material but were raised believing "a man is never ugly" "woman education ends in kitchen" "let boys be boys"and they drank it in whole and did nothing to better themselves and are mad that girls are out here calling their bluff, getting sh!t done and not that bothered about marriage anymore with a "if it happens, it happens, if it doesnt, boo freaking hoo" mindset. basically these men are angry because they cant attract gold while being trash but in the old days of lesser female empowerment a lot of amazing women had to settle for whatever comes their way and these generation of girls are saying NO!!! no more being a maid with glorified title of wife, if men are not ready to be husbands, many girls these days are not ready to sit around wifeing for them and cleaning up after a grown man, whiny like a baby with a head full of entitlement that they dont even possess. many ppl born in the 80s-90s grew up in a world totally different from what it is now and they're refusing to stay stagnant as the times change. women are more practical these days, all the "slay mamas" are hated because girls these days are no more the breed to grow up with an impractical view of how life works, they see the harsh realities surrounding them and they know now that marriage is not a prize but a huge gamble. these men are so angry that women wayyy above them wont reduce their standards and settle for them, so mr man, why dont u reduce your own standard and find girls your own level, it's because mr man was lied to and told that a man is a prize and any girl will give an arm and a leg to have him and reality is just punching holes in the bubble he lives in. women just dont view men as a prize anymore, they view them as human beings and if u can't be the one, they're fine earning their cash, paying their bills and watching whiny threads like these from their comfortable cozy homes, live with it. ps. lol at the one complaining that girls these days want wedding, pre-wedding pic and reception which is expensive in his opinion and they should settle for court marriage, my friend, when women were marrying a lot like u claim, the same laws applied, you're just broke. 38 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 1:17am On Jun 21, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: YOU ARE THERE; KEEP ON KINGING |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by zeestone99(m): 1:31am On Jun 21, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: So many gehs ll see dis n folo ur tots only to see u wit 3 kids n a husband leta in future, dnt contribute to makin our gehs single. No offense jst sayin |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by pacifichunter(m): 1:32am On Jun 21, 2017 |
I wish to meet with a tall, educated and well domesticated working class lady between the age of 32-35 for a relationship and possible marriage. Tribe is nt a problem. What matters most to me is the fear of God and respect for manking. My name is Uche, i work and reside in Lagos state. I am 33years. Here is my email: uchelight84@gmail.com. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Olutayo89(m): 1:53am On Jun 21, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby:be deceiving yourself |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Selynbriel: 2:06am On Jun 21, 2017 |
gokuu: Tell them I been think say na only guys get this platform, cos na dem just dey vomit rubbish since, some men are disgrace to their generation 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Selynbriel: 2:06am On Jun 21, 2017 |
gokuu: Tell them I been think say na only guys get this platform, cos na dem just dey vomit shit since ![]() |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 2:14am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Was so special about marriage? People in it are running out of it, and you guys are here boring me with marriage...it's time u fink big 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Rozaybb(f): 2:15am On Jun 21, 2017 |
omg...I can see DAT Rita Dominic is really ageing gradually oo..dis ain't no joke chai.old age chill na 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 2:19am On Jun 21, 2017 |
KKKWHITE:just imagine,me also,this life sha. |
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