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Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 6:23am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Trina0936: Ok |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 6:27am On Jun 21, 2017 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: Gbam! Is anybody holding anybody's skirt? 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Toks2008(m): 6:27am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Emusmithy nice post I would say but the reason why the number of unmarried ladies of 28 and above is on the increase really has nothing to do with most things you wrote up there.... It's because men now realize they don't have to be married to enjoy the benefits of a married man. Sex is cheap and it is easy to be a baby daddy...in fact you don't have to bother about the stress of financing a family. Our ladies are making it even easier for the guys to aboid marriage with their crazy mindset of looking for a man to dump their bukata on and guys now know this....the worst part is that most guys who are very financially stable are never committed to one lady as they indulge in point and kill or pick and drop. Until every lady is ready to work hard as if there is no man to depend on and be ready to settle with a guy based on his tenacity to achieving success in life without looking at the present size of his pocket I guess we will forever have an increase in the number of old single ladies. If not for my love for christ abeg wettin I Wan use marriage do when I can conviniently lay as many random beautiful ladies as I can and get one babe pregnant while I continue with my life in total freedom without the stress of any lady. Ladies should wise up and change their mindset before it gets totally out of hand. My humble submition. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by EBBari(m): 6:31am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Please stp all dx *what's so special abt marriage talk?*. Marriage is absolutely cool(a thing to be proud of).....some girls r Jxt still comfortable wt the more than 1 di*k kinda lifestyle which hv landed most of dm in d single status they justifying nw. that's why they gvn excuses for staying single....lol pain dm sha. *Truth is marriage is purposeful and an element of success to every human(male or female), *at sm point in life even d single ladies justifying being single aspired to be married buh due to sm circumstances find themselves wia they r today(still aspiring or lost hope). *If u feel being self made excludes marriage when d natural law thinks a union btw a human [s][/s](nt lower animals lik lions, cats etc..)[s][/s] male and a female is essential and an act of orderliness [s][/s](which distinguishes humans from other lower animals lik dogs, lizard etc..)[s][/s] in being self made then u still don't understand what the criteria ppl look at when terming u a success/self made. *same applies to guys ![]() |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by froz(m): 6:32am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Yea yea yea, Red it all, yariyariya bla bla bla, Textbooks, Articles and the rest. Abeg the Cold nowadays no be here. If you are a Single lady seriouuusly searching. Just PM me, abi na E-mail me. esp if you are in Ibadan. Mk we yarn .... |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 6:34am On Jun 21, 2017 |
xynerise:help me ask them o,the way they take it personal and serious like it has a direct effect on the economy,just check out the choice of words "salvage the situation",smh, but they forget that just like it is the era of slay queens so also the boys of this generation are highly malnourished of sense of responsibility 4 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Dexema(m): 6:38am On Jun 21, 2017 |
"Meanwhile, make the work easy for God by applying any of these" this is the best thing I picked from your very sensible writeup. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Dexema(m): 6:41am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Kondomatic: What savagery? Oba Akiolu must hear of this. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nnemuka(f): 6:42am On Jun 21, 2017 |
if There're more single ladies out there that means we have single guys above the age of 40 and pls dont tell me men can marry at anytime because i aint marrying anyman above 32. Those old men you see in their 40's used their prime for yahoo yahoo, internet fraud , gigolo and useless lifestyle. who wants to settle with a cursed man? Everyone seems to be interested in reasons why ladies are single whereas women nolonger care about single men. Very lousy set of people. the time you'all sit and gossip about women should have been the time you think of how to become rich instead you sit your lazy ass on Nairaland looking for whom to scam. 5 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 6:43am On Jun 21, 2017 |
I can see the original bachelors jumping on this thread, so looking good has become a problem to you men or is it your money they are using to slay?, it cuts both ways, most Nigerian men are irresponsible to handle a family, too crude for companionship and worse still have Over bloated ego. And besides looking at marriages, it's just not encouraging at all 4 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by deewhydoski(m): 6:46am On Jun 21, 2017 |
You nail it bro |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Dexema(m): 6:47am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Olasco93:Bros, the issue is not that they offer it too quickly, it's that they have nothing more to offer after. 4 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nnemuka(f): 6:55am On Jun 21, 2017 |
dingbang:In Nigeria it may take upto 20 years after university. so lets say you were 20 after university, then it takes another 20years to be self made that means we might be single till 40. You think Nigeria is abroad where life begins at 16? Nothing is wrong with being single and you see most women prefer to be single nowadays, i dnt knw why you lots wont let them be. 4 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by UnityEkeinde: 6:57am On Jun 21, 2017 |
They ll be like all this play were for nothing |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by einsteine(m): 6:59am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Why is this a situation to be salvaged? Why is it that black people are so concerned with marriage and procreation as if that's all they were put on earth to do? 4 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 6:59am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Olalan: You make a good point. Some have given up early while others are hoping to achieve statistical improbabilities. For every slay queen that gets married to her "befitting" celebrity husband, there are hundreds and even more hundreds who are perpetual professional bridesmaids. The economy has contributed but the real damage has been through two big shifts in value. 1. The desire to appear to be, instead of becoming; 2. The turning of sex into a commodity experience These two developments hurt women a lot more than men but inspite of this, many persist due to two other appearance based shifts in social behaviour 1. The exchange of individuality for "group think" and, 2. The socially cool status of the independent woman who asserts her right over her body and her lifestyle. All these factors are supported by the breakdown in community and the fragmentation of family and personality. You can be anything you chose when you chose; a debauched personality by night and a trendy business person by day, a doting child to parents on saturdays and a worshipper on friday and sundays. Fragmentations means there is no absolute value. What matters is how you feel. Basically women and men are victims of a massive sea change in human behaviour over the last 15 years. Everyone needs to take responsibility and stop blaming the trend while riding it furiously. 3 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nnemuka(f): 6:59am On Jun 21, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: very irresponsible, look at the case of our celebrity marriages. these marriages fold within one year and i don't see the trend going away soon. when a guy enters into a date with a lady all he tells himself is that he is doing the lady a favor, with that mindset he becomes a dog immediately he puts her in the house. Women are gradually becoming wiser, so they rather prefer to pursue their dreams in life, become selfmade than using their prime to shed tears till they die of hypertension. 4 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 7:05am On Jun 21, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: OK. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 7:06am On Jun 21, 2017 |
The best part of this thread is that................................................................................................. There won't be a COUNTER THREAD |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Viking007(m): 7:08am On Jun 21, 2017 |
You will hardly see a thread about education, religion, careers, technology etc gathering such a massive traffic & attention. We tend to give a lot of attention to absolute rubbish in this part of the world. Who marriage help bikonu? 8 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 7:09am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Gone are the days when you get work almost immediately you leave school. Graduate at 25 or less, Search for job for 5 years. If you don't have a job, don't marry- absolutely correct. Poverty affects mentality! If you say buhari administration is not to be blamed. So do i |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Iamsolslim(m): 7:14am On Jun 21, 2017 |
I guess b4 2040. sorry nah joke oooo. but aunty menopause is knocking, stop doing shakara. ask Linda ikeji she's really painful somewhere inside. 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 7:14am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Toks2008: Nice point Toks! |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by CYBERWEAVER(m): 7:15am On Jun 21, 2017 |
[color=#770077][/color] SOMEHOW i ladies with all oily makeup...they wonna be like ladygaga why not naijagaga |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by 4dor: 7:16am On Jun 21, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: "Selfmade" is a myth, whether directly or indirectly someone's effort will nudge you to succeed. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 7:17am On Jun 21, 2017 |
obikirinoni: Why |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 7:19am On Jun 21, 2017 |
RadicallyBlunt: This comment here is truer than the op's post |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by mrphysics(m): 7:20am On Jun 21, 2017 |
2dugged:Well it has no direct consequence on the economy. Not everything that does not affect the economy is good. This is a forum and people are discussing societal issues. Normally, ladies won't discuss this, so guys have brought it up. And everything said here are reality. I enjoy reading and only comment when I see a wrong comment. lol. Back to the topic, marriage is good, any lady that says "who marriage epp" is not being sincere. Let me say that slay queens made guys have a rethink. Do you know how ladies complain of dating broke guys. In most cases, I even earn more than what a lady can call a broke guy, yet I still see myself as broke. Lol. Most things you see ladies do on social media gives responsible guys like us a rethink on getting married to such class of people. 3 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Jman06(m): 7:21am On Jun 21, 2017 |
NavyBlue:You got the whole concept of feminism wrong. It is not about some crazy girls hidding under feminism to perpetuate evil, it is about empowering the girl child and women generally to be their best in all spheres of life. That you got educated today was due to the efforts of the feminist movement. My mum was a victim of the hitherto suppression of the female gender. Despite education being free at the time, her father refused sending her to school, reason being that women's education were thought to end in the kitchen. 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by soulfood(m): 7:23am On Jun 21, 2017 |
self made ko,,,self created ni IamKashyBaby: 1 Like |
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