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Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nnemuka(f): 8:03am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Jman06:i have met one guy like that who must have spent his prime doing yahoo-yahoo, gigolo, kidnapping, or being a cult boy. The guy is 52 but single. never been married and wants to settle down at 52 with me? chukwuaju he is expired for me and may be he might die single because according to research Men in Nigeria start dying at the age of 54. who will end up with that one? 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 8:04am On Jun 21, 2017 |
uzobaby:Would you blame them when the society support most men committing infidelity, abuse and among other things 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by tosyne2much(m): 8:06am On Jun 21, 2017 |
asuustrike2009:Most "Nigerian" ladies that are feminists are usually those that have no men in their lives. Go and make your research |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by 7ran53nd: 8:08am On Jun 21, 2017 |
[b]Now this is how a post should be written - balanced; not one-sided. thank you OP, people should by this post, learn how best to write in this present world where sexism is the order of the day; this gender wanting to bash the other one thinking they know whats best about the other one. OP, frankly speaking, your head correct and your write-up is well constructed and organized. the points are valid, enough of this self delusion whereas it is all in the face while the heart is burning up with regrets, grief and fear. Marriage is not as bad as it is painted o, your life goes on almost as much as it was when you were still single. the challenges are there but they cant be more than you can't cope with so if you're a guy and you're afraid of committing, don't let the responsibilities fool you. they are there but so also is your present single life - you are never as "free" as you might think while single. Lastly, the small-small perks wey dey marriage worth am o. coming home to meet my little Seth wifey always melts all the stress from the day. Even if me and wifey get issues, still doesn't compare to an empty house. I was in a phone shop yesterday and this guy +-40yrs walked in with his 5 kids. FIVE DAUGHTERS MEHN... but it was beautifuuuullllll... the oldest was like six and the rest are like a year apart of each other. i can understand the stress that the man goes through with all the crying and such but the fun too is immeasurable. The family was just lovely sha. My point is guys, you might be afraid of committing but it is not as gloomy as you might all think. My 1naira.[/b] 4 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Lilimax(f): 8:08am On Jun 21, 2017 |
RadicallyBlunt:Well said bro!!! |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Wolfbrother(m): 8:08am On Jun 21, 2017 |
The way you people carry single ladies matter n to your heads is becoming annoying .. how is it any of your bloody business ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 8:11am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Chaiiii! Highest level of hypocrisy should be awarded to the guys on this thread especially Op himself, like Wtf! Not one of them could see the problem coming from their side even when the Op stated few ways in which they have contributed to this 28 and single madness they yapping loudly about, I know this is another thread to bash ladies out there even though op tried to be civil by apportioning blames to both genders, they still managed to push the blame on the girls. Wooz Wooz wobi... Marriage isn't for everyone, leave us alone abi it is your singleness nii? Stop using paracetamol for our headache, we are doing fine... Eeshey, eku Ife. ![]() ![]() 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Quinn22(f): 8:11am On Jun 21, 2017 |
That's a bloody lie from the pit of hell fire!what would you say about me, what would you say about Beyoncé and chimamanda? And they are many others, so your argument don't hold water ![]() tosyne2much: 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 8:11am On Jun 21, 2017 |
tosyne2much:I have made my research and found it that there are many of them that were once married. It's the way most men behave that's why it keep increasing. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Gaddafithe2nd(m): 8:12am On Jun 21, 2017 |
livinbygrace:Some guys too aren't left out. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Lilimax(f): 8:12am On Jun 21, 2017 |
firstking01:lol @ the highlighted ![]() BTW, I totally agree with you. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by deor03(m): 8:14am On Jun 21, 2017 |
emusmithy: There are MORE women than Men. The easiest solution is for Men to marry more that 1 wife If everyone go for the 1-1 matching, naturally there will be some leftovers |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by FRANKOSKI(m): 8:15am On Jun 21, 2017 |
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Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Barzinime(m): 8:15am On Jun 21, 2017 |
You are doing yourself...you won't be here if that was what your mom said IamKashyBaby: |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 8:16am On Jun 21, 2017 |
asuustrike2009:But it's not enough to discourage others in getting married, that a man cheated on a lady several times should not make her talk against marriage to those that have interest in getting married. .or begin to preach feminism they don't practice. . 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Sezua(m): 8:17am On Jun 21, 2017 |
GoldenSpine24:unfortunately many people won't see the most reasonable comment about this post. I salute u sir!! |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by tosyne2much(m): 8:19am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Quinn22:Remember I limited my assertion to "most Nigerian ladies" Forget about Beyonce or Chimamanda. Most young Nigerian ladies you see (even on Nairaland) clamoring for gender equally are either divorced or they're not just happy about their relationship, hence, the need to unleash their frustration and paint men bad How you ever wondered why they are usually very arrogant and spew out venom at any radius? Isn't it obvious on this thread? Please don't be sentimental when you know the truth. Abeg leave matter for Mathias jawe ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by kunletexs: 8:24am On Jun 21, 2017 |
you are wrong and he is right Sir, with all due respect. YES, see them as God fearing women not because of what they are portraying but because of the accountability you would give when you are face to face with your maker and come to think of it, was ninevah not a sinful nation yet God told jonah, i have my children there, even in their sinful state? you can help a girl or a prostitute see herself differently by going not the way of other men but trying to correct her self image and who knows you may be saving yourself (with all these mermaids we are hearing about that abound in the society). some of these ladies are deceived by what they watched, and the manner of friends they keep, some were even forced due to the economy and some due to early rape by an adult, they all have their stories and in the right word of Gandi "leave the world a little better than the way you met it" so Sir, try them differently like the God fearing woman you can view her to be even when she did not deserve it. Good morning Kondomatic: |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 8:25am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Any woman who is above 28yrs and is single is to blame. Just look at the lady in the picture posted. Is she a wife material? Capital NO. We dont even have ladies again just hoes. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Ugosample(m): 8:28am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Toks2008: Is sex the main benefit of marriage ![]() That your point on sex does not exactly cut it, The main reason marriage is on the decline IMO is the economic factor in Nigeria, and increasing apathy towards it by many men, and women too (unpreparedness for commitment) |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by coolviv: 8:29am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Looolll...see my fellow men masturbating on this post. Nice write up, well balanced, true talk and so on and so forth. Abeg well balanced towards where? Well, my take is that ladies stay late to get married for the same reason men stay late to make money. Nobody better pass Na God's mercy and help. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Emodeee: 8:30am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Quinn22: sheeee you have a boyfriend? abi na fvckmate you get? nor dey lie joorh. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by firstking01(m): 8:34am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Lilimax:And i rushed to check her pix ![]() Btw, hope you now guilty of the aforelisted ![]() |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 8:35am On Jun 21, 2017 |
I really don't like these kinds of posts. Right from the title and everything written above. They always portray being single as the ultimate failure in life, forget abt the fact that u may have made numerous accomplishments in life. This is exactly why so many ppl end up settling for jst anyone who shows them the slightest interest and then they end up tolerating that other person for the rest of their life for societys sake and innocent children. Unhappy families= rotten societies and the root of all evil. There is nothing wrong with refusing to settle for the best. If anything I admire single ladies and men who jst didnt rush into marriage for the sake of it but who waited for the right one, for as long as it took. And hey if they dont come along, then fine. But thats much better than being in an unhappy marriage and bringing innocent kids in it. Fighting ths perception that remaining single is the ultimate failure begins with disagreeing with posts like these. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by swankylay(m): 8:36am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Reason is simple! Single guys above 28 and below sef ain't employed |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by bayulll011(m): 8:36am On Jun 21, 2017 |
emusmithy: @Op you are savagely wicked so on point most of those ladies you see around are not it at all,some of them dont know what marriage is all about some dont even have the attributies to remain in the so called marriage,all you see around now is so many unfurtunate lady that cant even wash their panties not to talk of taking care of a home or family,they all have these fantasies and deluded mind that there is a perfect angel out there that will understand all their pathetic behaviour and wrong doing no wonder many home wreckages these days. i cant imagine a union between one unfurnate lady with an unfurtante guy and those poor kids that two irresponsible adult will birth. i have one around me that is already 35 still acting like a a 15 years old,me just jejely dey look her lol 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by firstking01(m): 8:36am On Jun 21, 2017 |
asuustrike2009:Counter it and prove me wrong sir. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Sylva2147: 8:36am On Jun 21, 2017 |
asodane:someone who can make her happy and she can sense that in the course of their courtship. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Sylva2147: 8:38am On Jun 21, 2017 |
asodane:someone who can make her happy and she can sense that in the course of their courtship. most of the ladies who takes marriage as a priority ends in breaking up after marriage. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 8:38am On Jun 21, 2017 |
coolviv: ![]() |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by bayulll011(m): 8:39am On Jun 21, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: stop deluding yoursself,you can self made,succesful and also have a wonderful marriage,go ask folorunsho alakija,olushola borha,tope alabi,nike adeyemi etc stop deceiving yourself. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 8:40am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Kondomatic: and u see nothing wrong with bleeping women till u meet the right one? 1 Like 1 Share |
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