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Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Victornezzar: 6:44pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
WORDWORLD:Bro tank u jare some people are here saying d post is senseless |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:03pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
@wordworld Bwaaaah what a pile of gibberish nonsense... Here is a clue: if YOU want to remain a virgin until marriage then fair enough,... And let those who desire to live their lives differently to enjoy their lives ( so long as it ain't against the law), instead of trying to Enforce "your" archaic way of life on others. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:? Oh! No MrBrownjay1! The proper word is 'INFLUENCE' not 'ENFORCE'. Intelligent people don't enforce but influence. What does it mean INFLUENCE? It means to affect the way someone or something develops, behaves, thinks, e.t.c without FORCING them. This can be achieved through writing, or through film production like as HOLLY WOOD was and is still an intended PSYCHOLOGICAL THEATER for influencing minds across the globe without using force at all. Haven't you seen grown up men and women 'ADULTS' being conquered by all kinds fashion styles they watch on TV. Just an example is 'THE ASS DOWN' sagging one's trousers and panties to 'SHOW YOUR BUTT'? It wasn't forced on anyone but influenced. NOBODY PULLED BY FORCE THEIR PANTIES TO SHOW THEIR BUTTS TO THE WORLD. So, MrBrowjay1 TO ENFORCE IS OUT OF THE EQUATION. Intelligent people don't think that way. Enforcement is completely not a variable to be considered. What there is, is CHOICE. That gift of 'FREE WILL'. Which by NATURAL LAWS after exercising this free will comes what is called CONSEQUENCE. It is very certain that only the WISE consider the consequences of the VARIABLES at their disposal before making their choices and wisely. Humans pride themselves as 'RATIONAL CREATURES'. But a careful observation of humanity says otherwise. Rational choices should theoritically and practically leaves us and lead us to the BEST POSSIBLE result. What we see everywhere is nothing but CHAOS and CRISIS, results of human's CHOICES. What I have highlighted to you MrBrownJay1 is the result of CHOICE. Which is choosing not to continue living an MrBrownJay1:which limits sex to the bounderies of Marriage. FAITHFULNESS in this system of spouses, 'MARRIAGE' is a SOCIETAL SHIELD against the enumerated conseqences which are so obvious everywhere we look. ARCHAIC simple means: characteristics of an earlier period. Traditional values such as SEX strictly within marriage is indeed ARCHAIC which empirical consequences was only 4 SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES as against the practice of ANTI-ARCHAIC, so called modernization of carefree attitude to sex which has given birth to not less than 24 STD. Only the unwise will continue to making careless choices. And any society which CARE-LESS about the choices the make should be ready for the CRUELTY of carelessness. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
Mr.Brownjay1 Let me enumerate these fruits of the seed of INDECENCY by attaching numbers to them so as to make us see CLEARLY what we are up against . 1. Regressions in the qualities of life. 2. Out of wedlock births. 3. Rise in Teen pregnancy. 4. High rise in divorce. 5. Decline in marriage. 6. "During the 1960s, there were only 4 sexually transmitted diseases but now there are 24" 7. Children living in a single parent family has trippled. What does the above enumerated consequences justify if not a choice being made by people delusionalized. The enumerated is the epitome of MrBrownJay1:a result of choice by SENSELESS PEOPLE UNWISE. To choose to be MORALLY UPRIGHT or IMMORAL is a human affair not of God. God doesn't get infected with H.I.V. or GONORREAH. I am taking STRICTLY based on RATIONALISM not RELIGIOUSITY. Every truely rational being without bias knows that not indulging in premarital sex and remaining faithful to your spouse has almost a 100% of a shield against STDs an example of conseqences enumerated. While if one chooses otherwise being UNWISE , the probability of becoming infected is higher despite preventive measures such as the CONDOMS as being advocated by so called SEX REFORMERS, which the famous feminist Germaine Greer call such reformers as no more that "BAWDS OF CAPITALISM". Illicit SEX and everything invented to influence and encourage this CULTURE OF CARNALITY as it has become the culture almost every where in the world today is BIG BUSINESS. A money making CONCEPT by the MERCHANTS of ILLUSIONS, the CAPITALIST. Capitalism, an economic system powered by a handful who expliot the plentiful of their STUP!DITY, who are themselves STUP!P. Producing a few winners and billions of losers at the price of DEHUMANIZATION. In reality its a system which further shows that HUMANS are far from being truely RATIONAL BEINGS. A choice of system of a making the rich richer and the poor poorer. A DEPRESSED WORLD. The SEX industries are booming. 2016 Sex industries made over $15 Billion dollars as revenue. While Marriages keep on failing, obvious. The family have fallen, BROKEN HOMES. "Charity begins at home". Can broken homes have any CHARITY to offer to the world? "SINCE SEX HAS BECOME SO EASY TO GET, TRUE LOVE HAVE BEOME SO HARD TO FIND". There is more to sex than what PORN teaches. when one digs into the MrBrownJay1: 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
Mr.Brownjay1 There is more to SEX than what PORN teaches us. In this so called 'MODERN AGE'. of DECADENCE. When one digs into the MrBrownJay1: A study of world's most revered ancient cultures "ARCHAIC". Shows that spirituality and sex were both central to life. Sex wasn't just about PLEASURE but TREASURED as SACRED, a SPIRITUAL affair not just PHYSICAL, as being taught by porn (as something mechanical) but EMOTIONAL and MENTAL too. And which is very,very well defined. The "archaic way of life", the ways of the ancient, in the realms of sex gave birth to KAMASUTRA, TANTRA, The 15th century Sex manual THE PERFUME GARDEN...............e.t.c. What has our modern world of "FREE FOR ALL SEX" given birth too. Now, LISTEN UP! A lot of people come online to shout "DON'T LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY" "REMAIN A VIRGIN BEFORE MARRIAGE" which is mainly a display of RELIGIOUS INDOCTRINATION without UNDERSTANDING of what sex is all about. The lack of proper SEX EDCATION by this RELIGIOUS MINDED, who infact see sex as a TABOO altogether is, has been A GREATER DANGER to our humanity. MrBrownjay1 I leave you, the op and anybody who cares to read this insightful story by Jessica Henrique which she titled: MY VIRGINITY MISTAKE. www.salon.com/2013/05/06/my_virginity_mistake/ As well as the commentary to her story by Arleen Spenceley. www.arleenspenceley.com/commentary-on-my-virginity-mistake/ It remains a choice, not by force. The choices we make is what differentiate the WISE from the UNWISE. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by davillian(m): 12:12am On Jun 25, 2017 |
After the man must have used his dick like an ATM card. Happy saving. over here virginity doesn't count besides there better things to look for in a woman. 3 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:19am On Jun 25, 2017 |
Bwaaaaaah wordworld, i must have hit a nerve for you to write 3 times as much garbage this time over, lol! Sadly your write ups are as clouded as the venom of the fraudsters in robe parading in churches Every Sundays. Here we have a person (aka me) saying that EACH AND EVERYONE SHOUlD LIVE THEIR LIVES HOWEVER THEY SEE FIT, and you zombies lose your mind at the idea, like most religious sheep would... I guess we should all turn to follow-follow gullible religious sheep, right?! So YOU have decided that sex today is indecent bla bla bla, and therefore we should all stop ?! Arrant NONSENSE. Let each enjoy sexual intimacy however they see fit, so long as it ain't against the law. There has been premarital sex since the beginning of mankind, therefore blaming today's society for it makes your words irrelevant. You guys are so miserable that you expect everybody to be like you, and you therefore look down on anyone who remotely wanna enjoy their lives however the desire (something you sheep can't ever accomplish) 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Dicedpineapple(f): 1:11am On Jun 25, 2017 |
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Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Nobody: 1:36am On Jun 25, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: I havent said anything otherwise if only you read so as to UNDERSTAND and not to just REPLY without haven digested the message. Thats why we were taught comprehension in school. Yes you did hit a nerve. Clap for yourself!!! And thank you for your inspiration making me to have written 3 times more PRODUCTIVE for those who are WISE, who would someday read. I believe you know or should know that it is called the INTERNET. If you think its about you please kindly free your mind. I beg of you. Despite as much as i kept on emphazising about CHOICE and not by FORCE. That we all have the GIFT OF FREE WILL which comes not but with CONSEQUENCES and that it not about RELIGIOUSITY but EMPIRICAL analyisis which is totally scientific. You still cant deal with your BIAS. Brother do you really believe its a free world? If you do you wont be all out throwing awful words because i have excersised my own freedom. Despite giving you two links to share the story of how religion has mismanaged and misinformed people about sex, virginity in particular "my virginity mistake" . YOU STILL CHOSE TO BE NARROW MINDED. Take good care of yourself. Its a free world, choices do come with consequences. Nobody ever sows cocoyam and expect to reap coconut. Bye MrBrownJay1 if hopefully next time we discuss i expect to see once again that reputation i use to know you for which is MATURITY. To be honest with you, you have only behaved so much like the little kids who have taken over NairaLand thats all that you succeeded doing. NOTHING INTELLIGENT AT ALL!!! |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:56am On Jun 25, 2017 |
Bro wordworld, you keep gibberish nonsense, and unless you let each and everyone make their own choices (as to how they want to live their lives) then I will fully disagree with your very poor narrow minded message. Live YOUR life however YOU see fit, and allow others to do the same with their own lives, so long as it ain't against the law. Basta! If the above msg doesn't make SENSE to You, then I weep for your kind. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Nobody: 7:58am On Jun 25, 2017 |
Nice one Op, I'll keep mine till marriage. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
@ MrBrownjay1, let me ask you a very straight foward question. Are you a FREAK?!!! Yes I mean......................... F-R-E-A-K, in the real sense of the word, FREAK!!!. This word FREAK, even when qualified by another word, nobody in his or her right senses wants to be associated with the word FREAK. Except someone whose brain is upside down inside his or her skull.........will say: "YES! I AM A FREAK". So, I ask again. Are you a FREAK, MrBrownjay1?! The word F-R-E-A-K is inevitably an INSULTING word, its not a word of PRAISE nor one which promotes FRIENDSHIP. That you, MrBrownjay1 made such a response as: MrBrownJay1: What are you promoting? The doctrine of "LIVE AND LET'S LIVE"? The gentleman was only as he rightly responded POLITELY to you after your 7. Point counters and despite your aggression he said, Victornezzar: All that he was doing is sharing his opinion. In otherwards living his life according to his own cherished values while encouraging others to do the same. Obviously not by FORCE but be CHOICE. Nobody's words has ever come out of the screen posing a threat by transforming into a sword around people's neck, or a gun pointing at one's head FORCING them to do what the are not ready or like to do. Where did you get the idea of ENFORCING after read text on a screen? Victornezzar:VERY, VERY MATURE RESPONSE. Infact the title of his thread and content is a tale of the advantages of living his own way of life he has chosen for himself which he advocates. By telling who ever cares about the 7 reasons why you need to keep your virginity till marriage. It is a COMPLETE reaction against common sense for someoone who advocates the doctrine of "LIVE AND LET'S LIVE", you MrBrownjay. MrBrownJay1: To have began your response with, MrBrownJay1: Meaning those who advocate virginity till marriage are RELIGIOUS FREAKS.........................F-R-E-A-K. What then are those who live their lives contrarily called or should be called. ANTI-RELIGIOUS FREAKS? MrBrownJay1 are you an ANTI-RELIGIOUS FREAK?! And that's the reason for all the aggressive response. MrBrownJay1: Yet you advocate LIVE AND LET'S LIVE? All you needed to have done if truely you are well EDUCATED is RESPECT his opinion and the person whose opinion it is by stating your counter in ways which actually shows MATURITY, and SINCERITY to the doctrine of "LIVE AND LET'S LIVE" which you advocate. Instead of such an INSULTING expression, a REPROACH. On a more credible note you should have just ignored the post all together since its to you a distaste. I SURE WILL CONTINUE LATER. Its the internet, the virtual connect of cognitivity. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Victornezzar: 3:31pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
WORDWORLD:tanx boss some people wer against me cos dey wer thinking i was directing at dem |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Nobody: 3:39pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Victornezzar: It is the results of era(s), since after the Renaissance, which summerizes the programing of this so called Modern Civilization. In the name of 'HUMANISM' that has and is still breeding the mentality which eliminates every principle of a HIGHER ORDER. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Victornezzar: 3:42pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
WORDWORLD:Yeah boss some people now see it as a norm And it baffles me wen some people are not ashamed of saying dey av lost deir virginity 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Victornezzar: 3:42pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Ebayray:tanx dear |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Godstraight(m): 3:53pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Victornezzar:what the f*ck is so precious about this virginity,its just a state where someone has not have sex since they were born,was the scientific and rational way virgins are batter than everyone else both socially,economically and psychologically?,pls think and stop swallowing religious gibberish |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Victornezzar: 3:54pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Godstraight:Bro everybody has his/her own lifestyle dere is nothing religious here anyway tanx 4 ur opinion |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Victornezzar: As it baffles you, does it baffles the Anti-Virgins too. Which reminds me of an edition of American Idols. A certain youth, 19 years old by name Bruce Dickson was kicked out by judges because he said, HE WASNT ONLY SAVING HIS VIRGINITY TILL MARRIAGE BUT ALSO SAVING HIS FIRST KISS FOR HIS WIFE. He was kicked out, told by Randy Jackson, a judge that he should come back after he has kissed alot of girls. Dont be baffled just mind your own business. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Victornezzar: 3:59pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
WORDWORLD:Anyway tanx we need matured people like u on dis section where u go hide 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Godstraight(m): 4:00pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Victornezzar:OK mate,in my opinion though most of your points were religious doctrines I hadly see any anti-sexuality stuff on this site without any of these |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Victornezzar: 4:02pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Godstraight:It wasn't created by me check pulse news u would see it dere....only dat I didn't provide d link |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Godstraight(m): 4:06pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Victornezzar:oh okay 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Emmyblaqie: 4:12pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Sum1 said "derz nutin wrng wit fornication" go read ur bible very very well... Virginity z nat old fashioned, nd even if it z, m keeping mine till marriage. If my current boyfrnd doesn't like dat, he cn take a ride out of my life if he wnts... |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:34pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
See the bunch of hypocrisy written by these follow-follow sheep, who are clueless about the word of their holy fukcing book. So let ME do the honor of educating you lot: A) doesn't your holy fukcing book tell you to love your neighbor?! Does it say you should only love your neighbor if they abide by your endoctrination?! I think NOT... So LOVE ME, regardless if I am indecent, immoral or whatever you wish to describe my way of life. Stop using (from the bible) what ONLY fit your selfish agenda B) many great men of your holy fukcing book had sex with women who they were NOT married to; they had countless baby mamas and countless mistresses. Were they viewed as sinners in the eyes of god?! Hell no. So The only one of these great men, who was reprimanded, was because he had sex with a MARRIED woman... But so long as the woman is single, you can fukc as many as you desire. For your education of the day, Abraham had kids with with 3 different women while only married to one, And was NEVER EVER seen as a sinner., even though these biatches certainly did NOT keep their virginity until marriage Stop using (from the bible) what ONLY fit your selfish agenda @victornezZar @wordworld |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Victornezzar: 4:50pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Emmyblaqie:omo wer I go see ur type na |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Victornezzar: 4:53pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:Alright ur opinion counts too but don't call d bible an holy fvcking book |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Nobody: 5:07pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1. If your kind of LOGIC here is the same as your PHALUS commands am almost too sure that it is very good at missing the hole too many times to count. Why mention me with reference to the Bible when through out, i have by myself not mentioned the book once nor quoted from it. ALL MY EXPLANATION AND ILLUSTRATION IS BASED ON UNDISPUTABLE EMPIRICAL ANALYSIS OF CONTEMPORARY HISTORY OF HUMANITY A.K..A "THE SEEXUAL REVOLUTION" IN THE U.S.A WHICH HAS SUCCEEDED IN ENCROACHING THE REST OF THE WORLD. Bro mind yourself o. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by syras: 5:51pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
WORDWORLD: Apt analogy - as this scintillating and fascinating description is duly reserved for the wise. You sir, dissected this issue intended in my mind. How I wish the world could see how sexual promiscuity had left the Lord's Green earth in ruins. But then again, we don't get what we wish(ed) for, we do get what we work for. And, I solemnly believe that work starts with educating the younger generation of the evils and dangers of sexual waywardness. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Need To Keep Your Virginity Till Your Marriage by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
syras: With Pornhub 2016 Review scoring not 23 million but 23 BILLION VIEWS gives an insight as to this disorder. https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2016-year-in-review Educating a generation of pornography is no easy job. I tell you because its a habit deeply cultivated. Yet one must do what he can within his capacity to as you have said "EDUCATE". |
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