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Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Between men and women, who do you think wallow more in the grief of heartbreak? I was having an argument with a friend over this. He confidently asserted that men almost never suffer from heart break, that it's nay exclusively a ladies thing. Although, I've never experienced heart break, nor have I had the chance to hear from those who have, I was strongly opposed to his claims. So, are there men here who have experienced heart break? How intense was it, and for how long did you feel the pain? Did it drag on for long? What about the ladies? How quickly were you able to get over your heart break in comparison to guys whose experience of, and subsequent reaction to, heart break you're quite privy to? 1 Like |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by drewxx88(m): 2:39pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
I hope your not the one ...I feel its the one who cares that feels the hurt the most and the dumpee or rather the one that got dumped... |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by lajoshua: 2:48pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
drewxx88:Lolzzz. Certainly not me. Making gender-specific statements on emotion-related issues is not in my nature. Although, I used to have the orientation that ladies are the weaker vessels [I grew up in a patriarchal society, afterall], I've grown out of that imbecility since the age of 14, about six years ago. So, it wasn't me making that argument. Now, back to the topic. You said the one who cares more suffers more from heart break. Of course, yes. But you haven't answered the question yet o, 'cos the thrust of the guy's argument was that ladies, on the average, or should I say in general, are THE ONES who care more, hence the reason why they wallow more in the grief of heart break. How do you see that? |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by subtlemee(f): 3:04pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Men rarely get heartbroken and if they do its usually fatal and may last a lifetime but women can suffer three heartbreaks in one week and the next week they are in love again with a fresh new dude 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
subtlemee:In other words, men wallow more in the grief and pain of heartbreak than women? But on what basis do you make this claim? Anything to back it up? |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by drewxx88(m): 3:07pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Tearless:Yes I agree with you that ladies sometimes suffer more from heart break ,but iv known guys who have been the ones to suffer and the reason being the one who loves more in any relationship hurts the most when it ends ,it could be either party... |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by swiz123(m): 3:07pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
OP..isn't it obvious that ladies feel the pain more,cos it's natural.however,on a broader sense,the one being dumped feels the effect more in most cases. 1 Like |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by swiz123(m): 3:10pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
drewxx88:No you are wrong,it doesn't necessarily mean the one who loves more,it has to be attributed to the mind.some people can natural stomach unbearable emotional pain more than others,thus making it seem they didn't care at first. A good example is me. |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
With the way they litter this my obodo romance section with bitterness, I give it to the guys biko. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by drewxx88(m): 3:17pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
swiz123:Lols not to argue too much stomaching pain or hurt doesn't mean you don't hurt Jus's means your adept @ concealment but either way I agree with you too ... |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Aderola15:What's your take about the OP? Modified: My bad. I misread your post initially. I only realized that you were giving your answer after reading it a second time. Lolzzz. So, you think the guys wallow more in the grief of heartbreak as a result of their aggressive and persistent vitriol towards ladies on here? Do you think that's a legitimate basis on which to judge? |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Young03(m): 3:33pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Both depends on who initiate d breakup Don't love a Nigerian girl to avoid stories that touch 1 Like |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
drewxx88:Not with ME, bro. Like I said, it wasn't me making that argument. But you seem to have missed the crux of the matter again. It isn't about male and female partners going their seperate ways in a particular relationship. It's about comparing the DEGREE to which a man with a broken heart, let's say CHARLES, in one relationship, and a woman with a broken heart, I'll call her Janet, in ANOTHER relationship, dwell on the pain of heart break, it's intensity and for how long. It's about comparing isolated cases. You get? |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by loswhite(m): 3:45pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Tearless:lol.....ladies care more in Nigeria?!!!! Like seriously. Tell your friend to come back from Mars |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 3:46pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
swiz123:It's natural for ladies to feel the pain more? On what basis do you assert that? And talking about the one being dumped being the one to suffer more; it's not about people in THE SAME relationship. It's the comparison of the feelings of a lady and a guy who got their hearts broken in DIFFERENT relationships. Who suffers more? |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by loswhite(m): 3:48pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
subtlemee:women do not love they only summit to whoever is paying the bills |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 3:51pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
loswhite:Lolzzz. What do you think? Men suffer more? Have you ever been heart-broken? If yes, how do you compare your composure after the incident to that of a heart-broken lady you know, if any? Do you think your suffering was more intense than hers or was it the other way round? |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by swiz123(m): 3:51pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Tearless:stil the same, the ladies.on a scale of 1 to 10,ladies gets 7.often,ladies are more emotional than the male folks |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
swiz123:So, you agree with my friend's assertion that ladies suffer more from heart break than men. Interesting. I know ladies are, on average, more emotional than men, but when it comes to relationships, I think it's more complex than that. Have you ever had an experience that made you conclude that women suffer more, or you based that assertion solely on the fact that they're generally more emotional? |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by loswhite(m): 3:58pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Tearless:it all boils down to what u invest in the relationship time money emotional attachment etc. The truth is if u love more u invest more in the relationship and the other party invest less, it is that simple. Relate it to business if u invest more and invest less if anything goes wrong, who will be the most affected? If u can answer that then u have your answer. It simply has nothing to do with gender |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
loswhite:Your take, in a nutshell, is that it's independent of gender. Cool. |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by swiz123(m): 4:07pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Tearless:Actually,i'm speaking out of experience.when I tried breaking up with my girlfriend due to unavoidable circumstances,she cried her eyes out that I felt empathy for her and decided to let it slide.mind you,i love her very much and deciding to call it quit was a very difficult thing for me to do.however,i summoned courage and did what I thought was the needful.But,such display of emotions like crying is something I cannot do,not in this life at least. |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 4:15pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Let me spread my tentacles here. |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
swiz123:Seconded |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Aderola15:LoL |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 4:24pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Both genders hurt actually... But the way I see it, men tend to have the ability to facade the hurt unlike their opposite sex. Break a girl's heart, and every body will hear it. Haven't you had the phrase, Big boys don't cry... Lol. |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
Both parties. But i think the party who invests more to the relationship suffers the most whenever good goes bad... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
IamZod:Lol. |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
adepeter26:Abi na. |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by nddydamzi(f): 4:45pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
from my observation I think its social media
thanks |
Re: Who Suffer More From Broken Heart, Ladies Or Guys? by Nobody: 4:46pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
swiz123:Interesting. I need more ladies to contribute to the topic. |
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