tosyne2much:
I swear I don change henceforth
Oga Toks, wetin you go talk for this matter?

Ki lo pa iya ijebu?

Toks2008:


I'm married to Jesus.

Toks2008, are u based in Lagos ?

alexialin:




Toks2008, are u based in Lagos ?

Yeah sure.

Toks2008:


Yeah sure.

Ok will click on your pm.

Hope it works ?

alexialin:



Ok will click on your pm.
Hope it works ?

That one is long journey jare. ..
Here is my wattsup contact 0eight02314sixzero46

Toks2008:


That one is long journey jare. ..

Here is my wattsup contact 0eight02314sixzero46

I will add u up

Thanks

Toks2008:


That one is long journey jare. ..

Here is my wattsup contact 0eight02314sixzero46

Have sent u a message on watsapp.

Kindly check?

alexialin:



Have sent u a message on watsapp.
Kindly check?

OK I will.

.Seun is it my phone or nairaland page that is bringing errors when I try to post comments?

lalasticlala another good one

You are right though cos it takes a large heart to forgive when pained...if his crazy matches my crazy,then we are good to go

lalasticlala

It is good to forgive yes, but when your partner tends to take advantage of the fact that you will always forgive, what do you do? I believe in teaching one's partner a lesson often to make your stand known

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Toks2008:


They have landed.

Esteem member of T.A.N(Trolls association of nairaland).

You are most welcome madam.

I don't understand why being married is such a major concern. Like it's you cementing your place in society or something.

Of course a man would be the one to preach forgiveness in marriage, because na them dey commit pass.


You cannot have two forgiving people in a marriage. Opposites attract. Someone is bound to have elephant memory

The best marriages are those where the couple applies tolerance, trust and respect. I tolerate your BS and I trust you not to engage in any funny business outside because you respect me.

Front page ke

The only type of woman who would enjoy her remarriage is a submissive woman who unconditionally accepts the fact that her husband is an African man with African privileges (no need to explain what this means).

By the same token, the only man who would enjoy his marriage is the man who has the aforementioned kind of wife.

I hardly take offence.. So there won't be much forgiving
I just act like nothing happened and focus on how to keep everyone happy.



Except its something huge like cheating.

You cant forgive a partner who has giving you HIV.

Please.

Marriage between two people who RESPECT each other not forgive.

If you respect someone, you won't do certain things.

PrickGetSize:
Marriage is so annoyingly overrated. Can't people just have random fvcks for fun, make babies if necessary and go their separate ways? Why do I have to live with one woman, who would eventually nag and complain over stupid matters, and stay loyal to her for the rest of my life? There will be less problem in this world if people stop seeing marriage as a necessity for adults.

I totally agree with you.

Why will society expect two different people, with different culture, with different idealogy of life, with different personality to marry and stay loyal to themselves till death do them apart?

They expect them to tolerate each other.., and this "tolerance" has been leading some people to their untimely death. eg.., spouse battering, Abuse which leads to depression, and depression that leads to loneliness or even suicide sometimes.

Marriage is truly overrated.

Most people were happier as singles.., untill marriage came into their lives.

So you never marry sef you dey form specialist..mtchew,Omo marriage go hard die,common dating no be here.

goodmorning40:
It is not true, u will soon get tired of forgiving. The best type of marriage exist between two people who apply the law of nature "do not do unto others what u will not like them do to u"

One glass of Tombo for you at Ogulaha community

The keywords are love and respect. It is impossible to intentionally hurt the one that you love and just as difficult not to forgive them when they err...it is also hard to dishonour the one that you respect...but it is best when these are mutual. Happy married life.

Nairaland Holy Ghost

dingbang:
Toks go and marry oooo.... Hian

Seconded.

Toks2008 it's about time. I was opportuned to join NL before you and I could somewhat feel your relationship travails from most of your posts.

My type of lifestyle. Y will ppl offend odas intentionally hoping to b 4given? Its hard 4 me though dats Y I respect God a lot ppl offend Him intentionally and continually bt yet He 4givs. Its nt easy to b God oooo

goodmorning40:
It is not true, u will soon get tired of forgiving. The best type of marriage exist between two people who apply the law of nature "do not do unto others what u will not like them do to u"

Bamz:


Seconded.

Toks2008 it's about time. I was opportuned to join NL before you and I could somewhat feel your relationship travails from most of your posts.

And who told you guys that I'm single?

I just enjoy the panadol you guys take over another man's headache...make una continue.

Toks2008:


And who told you guys that I'm single?

I just enjoy the panadol you guys take over another man's headache...make una continue.

Sigh, well enjoy the attention whole it lasts.

Goodluck in your relationship.

Bamz:


Seconded.

Toks2008 it's about time. I was opportuned to join NL before you and I could somewhat feel your relationship travails from most of your posts.

hahahhahahha.... Toks wey get access to girls but him never marry.. Chai..

dingbang:
hahahhahahha.... Toks wey get access to girls but him never marry.. Chai..

He's insinuating that he isn't single, lol, you won't like to turn that to a moot point surely.