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Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Jaqenhghar: 10:55am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:You wont regret this decision. Better safe tham sorry. Id suggest you cut off the friendship completely. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 10:57am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 10:57am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: My dearie.We Africans like to pull each other down, don't trust many of the negative counsel you get here... why not follow your heart? There lies the truth...If he's a fake you lose well some $$, but if the reverse is the case? Why not take your time to look into the details cause as they say the devil is in the details. Then dearie look into your own soul. Meditate ad think things through..Why coming to Nigeria may seem scary, lots of Americans are comfortable visiting Ghana..It would cost him around $500 to conviently jump in and out of Ghana and you can make your verification. Be careful taking counsel from we Africans, we are fond of pulling one another down. I don't say there aren't cheats however as a minister the truth i owe to you, that the answer is in your very own soul and at times in life, it's better to experience things for yourself than allow yourself dictated to... Bless you and goodluck in your quest 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 10:58am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Kellibae:Lol Thanks for your input. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by bencarson007(m): 11:01am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Kellibae: Nne, thanks for the kiss jare... You just cool my temper now if not my vex fit roast corn sef... How could anybody that could just afford to buy a little data just insult us at will even without being here or seeing or living with us eh ? Its comment like hers that make these saint onyibos always look at us as sinners... BTW, the first day my elder brother landed in Houston, some dimwit stole his bags and certificate and the little cash he had with him... We could only recover the certificates but all other stuff were lost for good... Good and bad are everywhere but I am happy and proud being a Nigerian. #Blessings Kellibae #Respects 2 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Jaqenhghar: 11:01am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Sapiosexuality:Redgal you better listen to this Gee.This is the best advice you will ever get here. @Sapiosexuality: Well done bro. I have seen where the guy marries a foreign babe just for the papers and his parents and folks know what he is up to and support it 100% 2 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 11:01am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Nigerians. You people are evil sadists. GP all of una. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Sapiosexuality(m): 11:21am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Jaqenhghar:It's very annoying. I hate to see people cheated. It annoys me more when they keep falling for same tricks over and aver again. What these guys do is simple. They hit the emotional spot of these women and they lose control. I won't be surprised if she still sends the money. These Yahoo things piss me off. It's very annoying to see someone claiming smartness when he destroys people's lives. It's very annoying the way we handle them here. These guys are murderers. I won't be surprised if she still falls. She's not in a healthy emotional state to see the scam. Last year, it was over 100 million Euros these Yahoo boys stole from Europe alone. 2 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 11:24am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: My dear it costs $2000 to process Visa to Europe.. This is without BTA, tickets and personal expenses..be careful taking counsel from anyone with dark color. A significant majority hate each other even without seeing one another, hence all counsel stems from this hatred...follow your heart..But most people on dating sites are 98% fraudsters... ask for a webcam chat for prolonged sessions ( this way he doesn't get someone to do it ) |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 11:30am On Jun 26, 2017 |
OrestesDante: -150 You are an idiot. Go and google the Most wanted Nigerians in the United states and those in Malaysia, then come back here to rant Sh1t here. Always born to denigrate a tribe. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 11:42am On Jun 26, 2017 |
gimakon: You can say whatever you want but don't call me an Idiot again. Pls. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 11:44am On Jun 26, 2017 |
connectpoint:Does it really cost that much? I'm skeptical considering the cost I see online and what these people are saying here. I can't write off their opinions just because they are "dark color" as you put it. I feel he has to make up his mind to come up with the amount of money if he truly does want to be with me even if it cost that amount. As someone else on this forum says if some folks there can do it why can't he. Thanks for your comment though. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Jaqenhghar: 11:48am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Sapiosexuality:What I find very annoying is those who support the cheats and we do a lot of that here. See those encouraging her to continue as if it were their sisters they will be that supportive. I agree with you she might still fall for the guy. Her heart seems to be in it. A pity? some of life's lessons are best learnt the hard way 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Princeboca12(m): 11:48am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: Babe go and download this song Yahoozee by OLu Maintain |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by femo86(m): 11:49am On Jun 26, 2017 |
The said guy could be here on NL reading and praying his hearts out.... Redgal........Just be cautious.....He should foot the bill if he is actually serious, forget those stories that he's out of job, blah blah....If he really wanna see you, let him sacrifice something. And do not think of coming over...I repeat, do not think of coming over. It's your choice. I'm out 2 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nina4u(f): 11:49am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:don't lissen to this guy.. If ur gut tells u something ur probably right.. U already answered ur question.. Visa is not 2000 ..its 160-260 dollar |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 11:52am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: Okay do this. 1. Ask for a voice call .. 2. Recognize the voice or make a recording 3. After two days ask for a webcam chat.. tell him by all means you need this.. 4. The voice must match the face 5.Yes it costs $2,000 to secure an European visa. Most of the 17-20 year olds posting may not know or deny this 6. You are have him investigated before investing emotions...don't post the profile publicly, send it privately to about 2 Nigerians you feel are reliable. 7. Call the number with another number or chat with a different number than the one he knows you with 8. Ask to meet in third party country like Ghana 9. Ask for social media handle like Facebook etc.. 10. Tell him your uncle has a vacancy in his firm, you are excited to meet and that he should send you his CV so that you can secure a job pending his arrival.I'm sure if he can meeet all this terms he's legit. If not, run baby. run 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 11:54am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Nina4u: My dear visa costs $160-$200 when the applicant has all requirements which a significant amount of people do not have...Hence the use of third parties that sees pricing soar to about $2,000 ( this takes care of documents, bank statements etc ) I know this. I'm not wrong.. 2 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by crixlight2(m): 11:56am On Jun 26, 2017 |
ba7man: Smh see the way you spoiling the guy biz 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by bencarson007(m): 12:02pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: We are tired of Nigerians always getting a bad name due to the ineptitude of just a few... I can help you check the dude out at NO COST if you let me because I don't want anyone to give my country a bad name like Nina4U was painting for you. We are good people Not minding some stupid few Follow your heart but take your sense with you. Let me know if you want me to find out about him for you #Blessings lady |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Chimaritoponcho: 12:07pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:Please can you kindly help me with the site? What's the website |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by bencarson007(m): 12:07pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
connectpoint: OMG Whoever you are, you are the best... Your comment reeks of intelligence and may blessings follow you... Not like some partial dimwits here... #Respects |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 12:10pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
bencarson007: Respect brov... while we must be objective we also can't permit lazy arses rip people off.. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 12:21pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
connectpoint:I already talk to him by what's app. I've done video and voice calls with him on What's App. Thanks for your other good suggestions though. My gut instincts is saying don't continue with a "relationship" with him. Its too much stress monetarily and otherwise unless he foots the cost. 3 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: Trust your instincts..Even the guys @ GoldmanSachs would always say this... If you've made up your mind follow it.. Never take the counsel of the black colored people serious in future..Never |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by fernandoc(m): 12:23pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:What if he is genuine? Then you will never know. Visa is 160usd but you have to 'bribe' your way through agents to get visa especially if you're broke and have no rich sponsor. Have you considered meeting him in Nigeria or Ghana and posting your pictures on your Facebook letting your friends know you're visiting Nigeria for the first time to see him. Then he will bear responsibility if something wrong should happen. Your decision to leave him should be based on facts and not speculations. Nigerians are really good people if you have something good yourself to offer. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Kellibae(f): 12:25pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
bencarson007:U too dear.. dont mind that hyporictic gal. 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by bencarson007(m): 12:27pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
femo86: Stop saying trash... What wrong with her coming over if she has the means? We can only give her safe advice not badmouth her and say don't ever come here as if here is hell... If she change mind now say she want to see you instead, you no go start to jump dey form legit ? Bros, love is sacrifice on both sides... |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: Nice. The thing about folks like that is, they play on your soft part too often. How you were considering coming to a country where you have no one to stay with just to meet an online lover beats me honestly... 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 12:41pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
bencarson007: Its not trash, we all know the guy is a scammer . Most Nigerians guys can act love for Africa but deep down its all wash ! Always looking for the next Maye . Op ! Listen to your instincts o! Abort mission ! Please I take God beg you! Abort mission! Like someone said , let him foot his bills if he's serious ! Even we Nija girls are even fedup and are thinking of marrying whites Single mothers are Increasing by dozens due to Nigerian guys fleeing away from their responsibilities.. I bet , if u are regular on this site ,u wil see either abandoned new borns on streets or even bushes or new babies ripped apart by his or her parents or parents. Its not our wish to stain the image of our own but unfortunately that's how most of them are! Pls abort mission ! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 12:53pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
SirWere:I hear you ..I would really love to visit Nigeria and Ghana one day though just not under these circumstances. Hopefully I can visit with a family member or something. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by slinkman(m): 12:54pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
If it's your first time traveling out of Nigeria , yes it costs up to if not more than 2000 usd. Nigerians are always full of hate and never give one a benefit of doubt, we all know how strict these agencies can be , especially when the only reason the guy would give them is that he is processing his visa so he can travel and meet the woman he wants to marry having met her online. Trust me these agency officials will ask for all sort of bribe from the guy , leaving the poor dude helpless. It would be better the OP (Redgal) visits the guy but use Ghana as a meeting place. Ghana is very safe though. If the guy doesn't agree to that or comes up with reasons then just block him instantly because then you are sure he is fraud and is just after that money.. don't take advice from this website, it has ruined many relationships in a very negetive way.. you are a human, and we humans can find out if someone is indeed trying to scam us having learnt all this, you know ways you can test him... I am giving the guy a benefit of doubt because it is stupid advising one to end it all having invested 9 months of his life, when I am yet to see anything wrong in what he has said so far.. 2000Usd is 630,500.00 Nigerian Naira, tell me if this cash is even enough to fly this guy out of Nigeria to the USA for a first time with other documents.. those saying visa is about 150usd, 150usd is about 47,287.50 Nigerian Naira, this money is not even enough to take one to GHANa, talk more of USA for a first time.. you can check the travel section of this Website and see how much those traveling out have had to spend. It is easier after the first time and that is when those prices the agencies put up on there website start to reflect (speaking from experience and not guessing one bit).. I am not in anyway killing of the scam story, I am only saying the guy in question have not in anyway proven to be as bad as everyone is painting him to be. He has only commuted 3 crimes here to me , (1), being Nigerian, (2) Finding his relationship online. (3) asking for money, which you said he said it wouldn't be that expensive if you would agree to come down and prove to the agency that he on his part is genuinely traveling to meet you.. I still have benefits of doubt for this guy. No scammer, reaveals his identity to a victim, no scammer uses there real information, no scammer agrees to meet, no scammer video calls, no scammer tells you he is Nigerian and has a kid, despite knowing that this is a heavy turn off for the western world.. this guy has only but been truthful to you, and yes he is poor, and he made it clear he was that.. Nina4u might even be the one dating the scammer and is here dancing around and celebrating a marriage she is yet to even have.. which Nigerian man asks and offers if he will pay for your flight down? Lol, a genuine Nigerian man doesn't ask his fiancée if he should pay, he does that or tells you he has already or is about to do that, since he is wealthy.. those Rich ones are actually the ones that do the most damage... O.P (redgal), give your guy a benefit of doubt if you indeed love him from the start.. be sure , before taking any decision, that includes, sending money 3 Likes |
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