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Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by ghettochild(m): 12:54pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
well i would say... to those who think the guy is a scam... think twice. from all indication this guy is broke n not working. the truth is nobody will loan him money in nigeria. its that bad. u shd visit him... and i assure u that u r safe. that way u wd get to meet him n his family and feel free to ask questions even if they would want to tel u what u wanna hear. when u go back to u.s.a just continue with ur life. do not send hm any money yet. let him try getting a job first.... let hm save up then he shd send u half of the xpenses for applying for d visa. then u can look for a visa agent over there thats got a branch in nigeria and foot the bill. anyways am married to a californian lady.she came to nigeria in 2015 n we got married. check me up on fb @ oderinde omotayo tayotrump. n.b: if dat dude was a scam u would have paid him long b4 now cos those boys dnt w8 ths long 4u to pay them even if it would involve using voodoo to compel u to send money to them. chat me up on fb i wd gladly help vet this guy. 2 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Babacele: 12:59pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:oh my bad then! .......but on a serious note, a lot of Americans get married to Nigerians and are happy for it. Who knows where love would find us especially with the advent of the internet? Your concerns are genuine and it is important to get it right from the start to avoid the scorch of bad romance. ....have had a share mine here on NL and so know how it feels. I think connectpoint has some nice tips you could use, and ll sure make more available to you as soon as I can. Loverboy could be genuine though , so while not parting with a dime yet, don't take no rash decision yet based on everything you have read here Redgal. Yep when you go through 3rd parties , Visa cost could be as high as $2,000 which may not be what the US govt stipulates.Have you used the App True Caller or any kindred App to ascertain who he claims he is? cheers. 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by monlawal(m): 12:59pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Sister if that is your opinion about me, keep it up. Good for you. Nina4u: |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by bencarson007(m): 1:13pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
connectpoint: Yes bro... #Respects |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by KosiGee(m): 1:15pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Nina4u: Nkwu can mean 'brew', beer, drink. I meant I got loads of drink in my fridge. 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 1:21pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
bencarson007:Thanks for offering your assistance and for your suggestion. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:We would love to have you come. Nigeria has an amazing diversity of cultures and we are perhaps one of the most ressilient folks on earth. And I never talk about the pidgin. Sure we have issues but believe me we have good sides too. Really, once we get our act together, don't be surprised if we start eclipsing others. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by bencarson007(m): 1:29pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
alexialin: The guy might or might not be a scammer... But stop making it look like Nigeria is a bad place or filled with bad people... |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 1:30pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: Nigeria is acountry of good and bad people. While we strive to create a better image for ourselves and build a nation that is purposeful and one of liberty and lofty heights. Please do not come to Nigeria for now. This is not the best of times even if the circumstanceswere different. Nigeria will be a hub forpeople from all across the world in the future, but for now. On my knees, i'm pleading please stay away. The conomic strain is pushing people to do unusual things and your safety isn't guaranteed. Unless youre black and can blend in easily, stay away. There's nothing for you on this side of the world. The beauty of Nigeria is its people. If you have Nigerians around you there. Then you have all you need. Don't come here.... I told you hun... |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by bencarson007(m): 1:31pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: #Respects and welcome |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
bencarson007: Go to hell dimwit. And from where dd you see me color anyone bad.. Go get some education to become more enlightened cause obviously you can't reach intelligent conclusion even when the chips are laid bare... |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 1:32pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
bencarson007: Majority of bad outnumbers the good ones And thats the fucvking truth ! And when it comes to matters of the heart ,its either u are good or bad .. No need to base love on probability or give avenue for doubts orelse the end story is always filled with heart wrenching tears and pain. 2 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 1:35pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
connectpoint:I am black. I will heed your warning though Lol. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by bencarson007(m): 1:39pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
connectpoint: Sorry it was an error... It was one guy that was annoying me on this thread... No vex |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 1:39pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: Please do...The street ain't jokin thesedays..the hustle is real |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: I'mma give you an example. My homeboi was dating a white lady who was head of her department in home land security. His fellow countrymen got envious told her he was using him for just obtaining green card ( gullibly she believed and broke the engagement ), i've got tons of stuvs like this..Meanwhile this guy is a far better man than me. The best gentleman i've ever met. Anyways after two years, he found another lady he got married...The other lady that broke up with him is still single five years later.. ..So at times, we need to experience things for ourselves and reach rational decisions after careful examination of facts and going through them thoroughly rather than act spontaneously...What we withhold diminishes, what we let go at times can be lost at times would yield an increase ( even in financial terms, but it love, sacrifice is often required, but when the party that feels has more is unwilling o let go off some cheers temporarily, then with time, it still declines and what could have been gained is lost forever...My two cents...)..Best of luck in finding love mam 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
bencarson007: Don't rub it in bro, it's okay..my apologies to you too for my comments |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by slinkman(m): 1:51pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
connectpoint:oh, never mind |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 1:52pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Since you guys are glued to this thread..I'm a jella fan.. Does anyone know if NBC has resumed work on Blindspot Season 3 ? |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 1:52pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
slinkman: easy off my case amigo |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by slinkman(m): 1:54pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
connectpoint:nothing to worry about bro, thought you were one of those badmouthing the Entity Nigeria. Sorry for the case amigo |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
slinkman: No "pL"oblem o |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by slinkman(m): 1:57pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
slinkman:for those that missed it . 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by femo86(m): 1:57pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
bencarson007: Whip your mouth....cos you are the one saying trash.... If she's your sister, will you advise her to travel down to Nigeria....? For your info, I'm very much ok where I am and will gladly reject her offer, and not like a frustrated fellow like you Redgal, you better stay where you are and let him hustle his way to come over.... 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by slinkman(m): 1:58pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
connectpoint:edit your post were they were mentioned, so it doesn't attract them here and ban you. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by obataokenwa(m): 2:04pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:To get visa to US is very hard... sincerely there are agents doing it for people by arranging the documents required for it and they charge 500,000naira which is about $1500. He may be willing to come over but how are you sure she loves you and will marry you when he comes over. They're many ways you can test his genuinty. There are many Nigerians over there... get a friend you know over there to connect you to any of their relations here they trust and hand over the money to the person and let the person follow the procedure up after they've confirmed this your friend as genuine by meeting him in person. Mind you also, the agents don't collect money till the visa comes out. so, if the visa comes out after the process I believe is the right time to pay the agent.... by then, you have genuinely confirmed the visa through your friends siblings over here...that should be the right time to send money. He's only required to pay visa fee which is about $200. I can brief u more Incase. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by femo86(m): 2:04pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Someone said I was saying trash cos I advised Redgal not to come over.... I knew they will come after me... Young Lady, you better stay where you are....I dey tell you now... Yes, love is real but know that love is also deceitful. I don't have your time that mumu guy saying I was spewing trash...You think say I dey frustrated like you....Sorry oooo...It is well with you 2 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by bencarson007(m): 4:47pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
femo86: Kids You people never learn I never told her to come down idiot I told the monkey in you to stop painting Nigeria in bad light Stop being stupid 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by femo86(m): 4:58pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
bencarson007: Fool at old age. Go back to my first post on this issue and indicate where I painted Naija in bad light. Seems you are frustrated...slowpoke |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by femo86(m): 5:01pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
bencarson007:Quote me |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Sapiosexuality(m): 5:05pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Jaqenhghar:Exactly. And when she falls for the crook she goes online to add her voice to those who call Nigerians scammers. It's a pity. 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by bencarson007(m): 5:06pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
femo86: And do not think of coming over...I repeat, do not think of coming over. It's your choice. I'm out It takes a strong heart to accept mistakes. Sorry bro I accidentally read you out of context No vex na Naim make you dey shout eh? Oya come take one beer Some people really said some bad stuff about Nigeria today so I shared the anger accidentally... No vex |
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