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Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Sapiosexuality(m): 5:07pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:You better don't send him any money. Not even a cent. Don't try it. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by femo86(m): 5:09pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
bencarson007: I'm sorry for the abuses...Even me dey vex ni.... So sorry.... If I can get some bottles of Star...he go dey ok...LOL Enjoy the rest of your day |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by bravolyk(m): 5:15pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Some of you are very funny here on nairaland. Redgal please if you can afford to come down to Nigeria please do. The guy might not be a scammer. I feel he's genuine. As for the visa fee Redgal it's possible it might be up to 2000 usd as he requested, he's going through an agent. For him to tell you that his family can't afford the visa fee means he can't meet the basic visa requirements to visit America not withstanding the visa fee. Where will he get the his statement of account from, a good landed property that will serve as a strong financial home tie, he owns no business or a salary account. All these are just the expensive basic requirements thats why he is seeking the help of a visa agent which is very expensive. I know of family members who paid 900k naira for American visa which is more than the 2000 usd he requested for. But listen if at all you send him money for the visa and he ends up telling you story of how the money is not enough or how someone jilted him and went away the money just cut ties with immediately. You might think you've lost financially and emotionally but I'll tell you he's the biggest looser why? This opportunity will never come his way again. But in all, I see a broke Nigerian who is fortunate to find love abroad and wants to also make a good life out of it too. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Jaqenhghar: 5:20pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
femo86:God bless you Thats what real men do. Not wait for handouts from women. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by gentleedu(m): 5:21pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
i can't say for sure if his a scammer but i will advice you to be cautious in your decision. this guy might truly love you but the image of Nigerians as scammers is giving you a second thought. my advice for u is not to send any money and monitor his behaviour, if he seem to change cuz you didn't send him money then his a scammer cuz scammers ain't that patient with their prey |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by luminouz(m): 5:30pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
dingbang:Like WTF u saying? A chick came to see u from LA n u couldn't meet due to which circumstance U dey born pikin ni? Oooohhhhhh! Dingwat u fall my hand oooo!!! 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 5:31pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
obataokenwa:Had to reply to something you said here. He said the agent wants $1000 US first then will collect the remaining $1000 after the visa has been processed. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Jaqenhghar: 5:31pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
If a girl you meet online asks for money to come visit you same people here will call her olosho, and al sorts of unprintable names. Now obe nigga is begging foreign babe for money and all of you are supporting him and advising her to send him the money. SMH 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 5:34pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: Don't send a dime, not even $100 unless you observe the measures i highlighted above. Have a fellow Nigerian investigate him...Yes they ask for such I agree but i don't advise sending a Nigerian money if that Nigerian ain't me dear.. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
After going to hell, my next biggest fear is for a foreigner sending a Nigerian money... ( red flag, bae...) |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 5:37pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Sapiosexuality:He told me recently that he borrowed money for food from his cousin last week but the food ran out. Although he doesn't want to ask me he says he's asking me to help him with money for food sometimes. Says. Recently sometimes he goes to bed without eating. I feel some type of way about sending money for food but at same time I can feel for him if true. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by indoorlove(m): 5:37pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Get someone in Naija to help you run a background check him |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by dingbang(m): 5:39pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
luminouz:I dey camp that time na.. Why not ask me what made me not to see her... Besides she didn't tell me she would be coming... It was impromptu 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 5:42pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
bravolyk:In all honesty my dilemma is I'm not sure if he's really broke. After I told him he would have to at least show that he can take care of half of the bill He said if I help him with $1000 for the visa he can sell the land he said he bought and spent most of his money on before he lost his job to pay for the remaining $1000. He also said his cousin and cousins fiancee could probably help me with the remaining $1000 when the cousin comes over to the U.S. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by obataokenwa(m): 5:43pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:Getting US visa without genuine reasons is not always easy. He will not pay a dime to the agent till the visa comes out which will be sent o the agent address and he can only collect it when he pays. US embassy will only require him to pay non refundable fee of 54,000naira($200) to Gtbank and they set the date of interview through email which he's suppose to copy you to be sure. Besides, why will the agent demand money before visa is processed and interview granted. The agent will charge only logistics money which can be $100 approximately. Please my sister, get a Nigerian over there and use their siblings here to be sure of what he's saying....If he doubt too much I can give u agent that will do it for him and you guys pay after it's out(not compulsory). The visa fee will be communicated to him and he pay that by himself which is affordable also by him. Don't send a dime till your witness here confirms it.... not 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 5:44pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: Lol..it's a scam dear..sorry it took me too long to reach this point..It's a scam..tell him i said you now know it's a scam...Lol..borrowed money for food..how lame...that's the sign i've been looking for..it's your e=mc2...Eureka..scam alert |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by bencarson007(m): 5:44pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
femo86: I dey Benin o bros but travel a lot on business. I fit give you a shout if I know your area... Good to hang out once in a while with new people instead of us fighting online. #Respects |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
It's a scam..It has scam written all over it. Find another honest Nigerian please. This forum is flooding with responsible individuals not some dodgy fella begging money for food from cousin" ricky " ,lol... |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 5:47pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
obataokenwa:Ok good advice. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by obataokenwa(m): 5:48pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:from this particular words... the guy is fake |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 5:48pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
connectpoint:Ok Lol. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Sapiosexuality(m): 5:50pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:Nonsense! What else would he say to illicit pity from you and empty your purse? He's hungry but still wants 2000$ dollars to come over there? Interesting priority. Do you even know his real name? I'd be very angry if you fall for this. How does he get data to chat with you and make video calls if he's dying of hunger? Don't try it. If you feel like helping anyone there are charity homes around you. Go drop something there. 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Sapiosexuality(m): 5:55pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:Lololol. Smh. And you believe the trash? How will his cousins and cousins fiancée help you with the remaining 1000$? Why don't they just help him with the 1000$ dollars so he can sell the land and take care of the rest? If you fall for this, if you give money to a scammer when so many are hungry around you, you've wronged this world. 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Where are you originally from ? Redgal: |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by obataokenwa(m): 6:01pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:If he's serious, he will be ready to show you all the evidence on this earth. please, is time you cut him off. imagine opportunity people are looking for and someone want to play pranks. Be careful of online friends. 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 6:03pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
How certain are you that OP is real of her claims ? How old is she ? obataokenwa: |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by obataokenwa(m): 6:05pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
SillyeRabbit:We are in public holiday so we pass time with all we see here and flow with the message and comments. This one too will pass |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by swarzyli(m): 6:06pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
redgal... there are pretty good guys in Nigeria who can love wholeheartedly but the truth is DT d bad guys/scammers outnumbered d good ones. but my question is..why d long distance? Imagine from America to Nigeria..what happen to all d cute guys in America? |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 6:07pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Lol...You're right. obataokenwa: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 6:16pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
SillyeRabbit:I'm real with my claims. I'm not lying. I too wondered about some of his claims but I guess by talking to me for a while this guy hit on some of my emotional buttons and compassionate buttons. I'm just thankful I was skeptical enough and didn't send the $2000. I am thankful for the advice given and I will cut off the guy. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Transcendwonder: 6:16pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:Thread softly and dont be fast at all in reaching any conclusion about his genuineness. Play this game, Tell him It's not a must he comes over to the US before you guys build something solid. He has a land right ? Advice him to use that as collateral for loan if he can't sell it or something and challenge him to find a business to do with it, Observe his reaction. Take your time , dont rush, dont allow him to sweet talk you. Present to him logical advices on how to turn things around without you parting with a cent. If he happens to still stick around while feeding you back on how things are moving with the said business using solid facts as witness, You'll Know you've got yourself a keeper and you can then be safe to arrange how you guys can meet to share something real.It might take a year , two or more before things work out, but at least , you will be sure you ain't falling prey to a cheat. Most importantly, don't part with a dime whatever you do up until you're sure you're absolutely safe. 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by vcente(m): 6:19pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
redgal: its a scam alright,but that does not mean that you have to lose.by renewing his passport I believe he genuinely wants to come to America.so why don't you contact the agency he is using and make the payments yourself that way there are no doubts on side.p.s u will have to verify the agency yourself.but thats easy. |
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