AlphaHandMaiden:



ciscamustexcel
Alternatively : Just form fainting dramatic collapse and let them rush you to the hospital! And admit you for one week bed rest due to exhaution!

Maybe his thinking will reset! And he will realise that you are not a machine.

Call me evil but it is something i can do? Ah what of the children you will say? Na only me born them? Deep down he loves them, They will be fine.

Just because mrs A is doing something easily doesnt mean that mrs b should be able to do it. How will he feel if you are constantly comparing him to his friends... if mr. A buys range rover for his wife, should mr b also be expected to do the same. It is very unfair for a spouse to be comparing their other half to another person.

On a less dramatic scale, ask him to take you to the hospital for examimation of your cs scars. Maybe if the doctor mentions to him for you to take things easy, he will see that no be forming.

Also find sometime when you are both in love wantintin mode and mention how you feel to him and that you are struggling. If the person he is comparing you to has help, or only one kid or contracting some form of househeeping or cooking let him know.

There may be other factors at play that he may be unleashing other frustrations on you unfairly.

Pele. Its a tender one, i pray ot works out well.

You bad gaan baddest mama

Emdee590:

You bad gaan baddest mama

He he ehe he. Oscar winning faint oh... complete with special effect and action sequence (fainting in the middle of serving fire-hot ogbono soup at dinner time whilst backing baby! but ensuring not one drop of hot soup or broken glass or plates touches you and your baby remains unhurt) ..... Post action sequence- you will now book thanksgiving at your church or mosque to praise God that neither your baby nor yourself were harmed in the making of this drama...lol"

Even Micheal Bay go bow!

i cannot come and go and die! sometimes you men are unrealistic in the expectations of what motherhood is all about. a lot of men still assume that women should deal with EVERYTHING in the home. cook, clean, look after baby/ Childeren, go to externl employment , look nice , have a nice temperament at all times and still have power for night-time-jiggery-pokery....... Oga abeg make una they cool down.

If men are left to spend one week in the woman's shoes, the perspective will change.

Men forget that the days that things like that happened was also a time when the average man was a farmer by day and a hunter by night. so the woman HAD to maintain the home as the guy was on a full Blown 24 hr Hustle.

you cannot conveniently substitute office work for the riguers of farming and club hangout for night time gorilla hunt and then expect that women should still do the things expected from them 100 years ago.

Pls don't read and pass...It's like my baby has gotten Apollo cos a church member of ours whom we visited ystday had it...She has sticky white discharge in her eyes and one is red...What do we do?

Just read online that I should apply breastmilk

ciscamustexcel:
Sabi mammas especially grannies in need advice before I take my hand kill myself.
1. When I am pregnant I usually have this pelvic joint pain and a very severe one through out the pregnancy though I still manage to go to work and still do some house work the body can accommodate. But my hubby feels I am pretending. So each time he comes home and things are not done he keeps yelling at me that I am lazy and compare me with other women around.
he is the type that does not lift a pin. After I delivered I was discharged 6dAys later and I went to my mom's and stayed there for another six days.
I had to leave my mums cos I couldn't bear to see her struggle to walk and do other thing cos of the state of her health. Now my mother in law didn't come until the grand daughter that is living with her had post jamb to write and her centre was close to my house so they came 5wks after I delivered and left. 2days later. Meanwhile when my brother inlaws wife put to birth my mil came immidiatly she heard the news and lived with me since my BIL house is not big enough to accommodate her. So I was the one going to the mkt and cooking all the food for both MIL and BIL wife. And when I dared to complain my hubby told me that I am just jealous cos she gave birth to a son and I lost my own son that why I am bursting with jealousy. And because of the stress I lost the pregnancy I was carrying. And I prayed my heart out and God blessed my with another son.
Since the day one after my CS I have been the one taking care of my daughter and newborn son. After I was discharged my younger sister went back to her husbands house cos she is newly married and pregnant. When hubby came to pick me from mumsies house she had to beg him to assist me as I am not strong enough to do chores cos of the kind of delivery I had. Indid he helped for 2days to boil water and sweep the parlour only. After the 3rd day making it day 15 after delivery I had to do everything for myself. Cook bath the kids, wash clothes keep late night to look after baby and even do school runs. And after doing all that the scare begins to pain me and when I complain he sees it as pretence. At one month he entered the house with his friends and the clothes I packed from sun was on The chair plus I have not swept for that day in the process of putting baby to sleep I dosed off. And what I heard him telling his friends is it is only in my house u can see things like dis. I felt bad and the next day I decided to mub and scrob the floor. When he walked in he said that this is how is house should look like all the time.
That day I suffered pains from the CS scare for a whole week but I still had to look after the kids. He shouts when the house is not tidy. I had to carry the baby on my back to clean and cook for the family. Though sometimes he carries the baby but when he starts crying I must carry him and do what I am doing.
For the past 4days my son has been crying fir nothing. I took him for a massage and things didn't change. Just dis evening when the boy started crying I was cooking when he ordered me to carry the boy.and started complaining of how I make him carry the boy, that his sister carried her children by herself. I call myself a mum and cannot find solutions to the baby's cry. That I am so lazy I cant take care of the house etc.
In all dis the scar is still paining me and my doc keeps saying it is stress that is making it pain me and my hubby keeps calling me lazy, All he does when he is around is sleep, watch tv and hang out with friends. I am really loose my mind. I don't know what to do.

ha u forgotten what. what doctor adviced when they discharged u? Abi they didn advice u not to do any strenous work an not to lift any thing heavier than ur baby. Mind u u ha an I cut too d yet to heal, u h to stay off hom shore i.e do absolutely nothing Dan carry ur baby, sleep eat and bath that's if u value ur life my sister internal bleeding is not good oojust form fainting let them gi u 1month bed rest if u h to do it in the hospital do it please don let that I kill u ooo u need at leas good 5 month to stay off house chores. Please oooo ur children needs u alive God help u

Una good afternoon oh!How is u and urs?Hope we are all good!Abeg sabi mamas make una help me wit dis oh!I notice dat my son is all of a sudden cranky and eats like neva b4 since yesterday!Sleeps little,has Anybdy xperienced dis?Uncle google says is growth sprut?How true?
zayine
Jazzyjazz
AlphaHandMaiden
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Sansa143:
Una good afternoon oh!How is u and urs?Hope we are all good!Abeg sabi mamas make una help me wit dis oh!I notice dat my son is all of a sudden cranky and eats like neva b4 since yesterday!Sleeps little,has Anybdy xperienced dis?Uncle google says is growth sprut?How true?
zayine
Jazzyjazz
AlphaHandMaiden
Enque and other sabi mamas,help a ftm pls!
Thanks

Yes could be growth spurt

Tnks dear!

jazzyjazz:


Yes could be growth spurt

Sansa143:
Una good afternoon oh!How is u and urs?Hope we are all good!Abeg sabi mamas make una help me wit dis oh!I notice dat my son is all of a sudden cranky and eats like neva b4 since yesterday!Sleeps little,has Anybdy xperienced dis?Uncle google says is growth sprut?How true?
zayine
Jazzyjazz
AlphaHandMaiden
Enque and other sabi mamas,help a ftm pls!
Thanks

Growth spurt it is

Yesitsme:
Pls don't read and pass...It's like my baby has gotten Apollo cos a church member of ours whom we visited ystday had it...She has sticky white discharge in her eyes and one is red...What do we do?

Just read online that I should apply breastmilk

Don't know the remedy but I think they said breast milk cures anything.

But are you aware your member had apollo? Next time pls don't allow kids to go such places, you can visit alone.

Don't know what's wrong with me, atimes I feel like something is scratching my navel , as in around there sha, What could be it?

Am afraid, that was my first preggy symptoms, I don't want to think of it, just want to know what other thing that can be. I still breast feed and no period and am going to be 14months post-partum in 10days.

Tnk You

enque:


Growth spurt it is

favoredgal:
Hi all. Pls how does this honey and lemon
Thing work again!?

My 3 years old and my 18 month old have battled cough for almost 7 wks now

We have gone to the hospital thrice

Taken all sorts of drugs including antibiotics

It's worse at night when it feels like they are literarily coughing their chest out

I wear them sweater don't use ac etc

I'm tired. We hardly sleep at night again

Sorry about this.

Have you tried zinnat by gsk? It's works. Twice daily.

Nairaland no dey free person post. What's happening? Find it difficult to read my followed topics.

favoredgal:
Hi all. Pls how does this honey and lemon
Thing work again!?

My 3 years old and my 18 month old have battled cough for almost 7 wks now

We have gone to the hospital thrice

Taken all sorts of drugs including antibiotics

It's worse at night when it feels like they are literarily coughing their chest out

I wear them sweater don't use ac etc

I'm tired. We hardly sleep at night again

Have you tried sabutamol or some anti allergy medicine?

olubankemi:


Don't know the remedy but I think they said breast milk cures anything.

But are you aware your member had apollo? Next time pls don't allow kids to go such places, you can visit alone.

we didn't know ooo....It was even after abt 30mins we realized the guy's red eyes but didn't know it was apollo

i hail all mamas ooo.

I'm kind of curious can a baby of 4 month be given Akamu? Is it okay for them.


I need to know please...It's kind of urgent.

Good evening house, please I want to know food breastfeeding mums should avoid. My 1month old LO has been having a running stomach for 5 days now,we went to see our doctor and he gave us ORS and some other drugs... it has subsided a little but my LO feels very light and hardly sleeps (started today) .

I feel really helpless and wouldn't want this to happen again since everyone is blaming me for 'eating anyhow'. Please any kind of food I need to avoid, I can't stand seeing my baby like this.



cc giddyperson
Jazzyjazz
Alphamaiden
Ahnie
Zaynie
All sabi mamas
Please epp

Please don't read and pass
wat can be use to cure stubborn rashes and it itches him too, it is on his face and chest

gigy:
I'm kind of curious can a baby of 4 month be given Akamu? Is it okay for them.
I need to know please...It's kind of urgent.

Started giving my dd @ 4 months but made it very light

poshestmina:
Good evening house, please I want to know food breastfeeding mums should avoid. My 1month old LO has been having a running stomach for 5 days now,we went to see our doctor and he gave us ORS and some other drugs... it has subsided a little but my LO feels very light and hardly sleeps (started today) .

I feel really helpless and wouldn't want this to happen again since everyone is blaming me for 'eating anyhow'. Please any kind of food I need to avoid, I can't stand seeing my baby like this.



cc giddyperson
Jazzyjazz
Alphamaiden
Ahnie
Zaynie
All sabi mamas
Please epp

Eat healthy. Follow your instinct always.

Onaswu:
Please don't read and pass
wat can be use to cure stubborn rashes and it itches him too, it is on his face and chest

Tribotan works magic for me especially when used three times a day. .

poshestmina:
Good evening house, please I want to know food breastfeeding mums should avoid. My 1month old LO has been having a running stomach for 5 days now,we went to see our doctor and he gave us ORS and some other drugs... it has subsided a little but my LO feels very light and hardly sleeps (started today) .

I feel really helpless and wouldn't want this to happen again since everyone is blaming me for 'eating anyhow'. Please any kind of food I need to avoid, I can't stand seeing my baby like this.



cc giddyperson
Jazzyjazz
Alphamaiden
Ahnie
Zaynie
All sabi mamas
Please epp

I think you should think back to what different/diarrhea inducing food you ate around the time it happened and try to avoid it, cuz me I still eat everything and I've never experienced this. The only time I remember I'm breastfeeding is when I'm given drugs or alcohol.

gigy:
I'm kind of curious can a baby of 4 month be given Akamu? Is it okay for them.


I need to know please...It's kind of urgent.

Yes a 4 month old can take pap..

ginababy:


Tribotan works magic for me especially when used three times a day. .

Thanks ma will get it

Good Morning Mamas. Please wld appreciate if anyone can help me with a list of medical tests to carry out on a new house help. Thanks in advance

Onaswu:
Please don't read and pass
wat can be use to cure stubborn rashes and it itches him too, it is on his face and chest

Onions water ninjas.. Ngwanu...epp ds mama

Mzmycoli
Hunniesuzie

Good morning sabi mamas
My lo is having a kind of dandruff on his hair. At first I thought it was soap and I was not washing it out but with time I found out it is no and it is called INFANT CRADLE CAP pls has anyone had this kind of experience and how did you go about it. And it's pulling his hair.

tatacherie:

Started giving my dd @ 4 months but made it very light

OK tanks

voucher:


Yes a 4 month old can take pap..

Okay..

Hi mamas in the house! Please where can one get rotavirus vaccine in calabar?