Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by midehill(m): 7:28pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Benita27: Your assumptions that you noticed she possessed things she could not afford like; handbags and shoes is funny, are you saying she's an orphan or doesn't have a relative who could give her money for those?. The only thing that validates she might be cheating was the calls you were suspecting. As for her not adding you on social media beside whatsapp is a good thing. Were you expecting her to flaunt you on social media 'cause you two are dating?...Silly girls do that. miss are u a councillor |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by midehill(m): 7:28pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Benita27: Your assumptions that you noticed she possessed things she could not afford like; handbags and shoes is funny, are you saying she's an orphan or doesn't have a relative who could give her money for those?. The only thing that validates she might be cheating was the calls you were suspecting. As for her not adding you on social media beside whatsapp is a good thing. Were you expecting her to flaunt you on social media 'cause you two are dating?...Silly girls do that. miss are u a counsellor |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Nobody: 7:33pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
midehill:
miss are u a counsellor I'm not. |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Nobody: 7:38pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Lol..... ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) You try but ur still a boy Mine was 9yrs and jus one small hole broke it "Change" |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Chibydinho(m): 7:51pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
EmyLeo:
burst my brain jare, nice comment bro.
@op read this comment all over again and apply it, Nd watch your happiness come back..
N.B : learn how to love yourself ,make money to make yourself look good(improve yourself)and not to impress any gal..
all the best bro . Baba, the story weak me.. Asin I won't allow those babes bite me twice.. I have amnesia in forgetting ladies sef... Some will be surprise and asking what happened? . Someone recommend Dating drills by Harddon for op too! 4 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by VellyG(m): 11:10pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Why did u have to wait till she tells u its over ? 1 Like |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by pythonkid(m): 11:11pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
bro this is serious, don't really know what to say... but you just have to know that's the future is always brighter... most of us here on NL can only advise u to stay strong and you just have to... you might be pushed to do smtin crazy if u don't man up... just b strong bro.. so much feel ur pain... tlk to ur friends about this.. 1 Like |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by jjjjj2017: 11:12pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
valnelly: As I write this.... I'm filled with so much hurt and regret. My girlfriend whom I thought would be patient enough for me so I could get married to her has broken up with me. I met her while I was writing my final year project in Yabatech about 4 years ago. We were cool together and the distance between us didn't mean that much to me even though she stays in ikorodu and I stay in surulere. The problem started when I gained admission to Unilag due to my decision for self development. I'm 31 years old and she is 25. During the last 2 years I noticed she has changed drastically I notice that she now has stuffs like new shoes and new bags. Which of course ordinarily she wouldn't have been able to afford. The only time we see is on weekends and that's because she is still in Yabatech schooling and sometime when she comes like that she acts funny with phone calls. The way she talks to some certain people so suspicious. But none the less she always feels cool with me and always wants to be around me. Could it be because of sex?
I noticed that she behaves single at school and even on social media. We do not chat or use social media, we added each other but at a point I had to take her off because she doesn't portray any thing that shows we are actually dating...i took her off all platform of social media and she wasn't perturbed about it. I don't actually know what's going on in school or her place of residence but I have a very strong feeling that she has been cheating on me and some other guy have been buying her things I can't get for her. But on top of this she was actually looking for school fees and I was deploying all methods to make sure she pays this on time and that alone made me confused!. We had a heated argument on Sunday and she was yelling and talking back at me... I left the house for her in annoyance only for me to come back and she is gone. She left a note that says that she is no longer interested. Guys please what should I do. I love this girl so frigging much. I can't sleep or think straight right now. It's almost impossible for me to start all over again. I feel hopeless. Please guys your advice! you gat to move on! the earlier you accept that she's gone forever the better! I met my own first girlfriend at my mid 20s, we dated for 5years but she broke up with me for 4good times. I have been the one that always file for reconciliation but the 4th time after she has hurt me so bad, I later let her go forever because I was already in my 30s. The best thing for you is to have 2 to 3 girlfriend but don't fucck them(I'm serious & not joking). 2 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Nobody: 11:14pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
op there is another man in the picture. u need to totally forget about that girl, delete all her contacts and pictures and stay away from student girlfriend 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by pioki05(m): 11:14pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Your assumptions that you noticed she possessed things she could not afford like; handbags and shoes is funny, are you saying she's an orphan or doesn't have a relative who could give her money for those?. The only thing that validates she might be cheating was the calls you were suspecting. As for her not adding you on social media beside whatsapp is a good thing. Were you expecting her to flaunt you on social media 'cause you two are dating?...Silly girls do that.[/quote]
Let s call a spade a spade.. shes a who***re, he'll get over it 4 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by jjjjj2017: 11:15pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
EmyLeo:
burst my brain jare, nice comment bro.
@op read this comment all over again and apply it, Nd watch your happiness come back..
N.B : learn how to love yourself ,make money to make yourself look good(improve yourself)and not to impress any gal..
all the best bro best advise ever! ladies of these days are commodity & when you have money/self confidence, you are good to get anyone that you like. owo n'a fi n do something o 2 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Victornezzar: Bro dats not an issue 2 get worried over....just forget her.....delete everything about her Infact ur lucky cos u no go dey think about anything again.....Make money nd look 4 someone better Na money make the girl leave a so. Choi Poverty! Aru! 1 Like |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Bowwow11(m): 11:15pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Victornezzar: Bro dats not an issue 2 get worried over....just forget her.....delete everything about her Infact ur lucky cos u no go dey think about anything again.....Make money nd look 4 someone better u ar right bro |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by kolawole247: 11:16pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
If you can make these your priorities in life you would not be bothered .
1. God 2. Destiny 3. Career 4. Woman
God bless . 6 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Tamarapetty(f): 11:16pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
weak |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by ademijuwonlo(f): 11:16pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Benita27: It's wrong to go about tagging boyfriends on social media, the only exception should be a fiancé and fiancée relationship. BTW, no one knows how many relationships they'd get into before finding Mr right...it's like being in a circle. you wrote my mind. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Newboss(m): 11:16pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Most of these girls are useless liabilities who have nothing but sex to offer. 5 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Victornezzar: 11:17pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
sonofLuci:
Na money make the girl leave a so.
Choi
Poverty!
Aru! Read his post again |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Victornezzar: 11:17pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
1 Like |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Nobody: 11:19pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Victornezzar:
Read his post again
Oh right. Sorry I didn't read it. I always forget to, addicted to the thrill coming from this kind of threads so I just rush to comment. Anyway. Aru! ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Victornezzar: 11:20pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
sonofLuci:
Oh right. Sorry I didn't read it.
I always forget to, addicted to the thrill coming from this kind of threads so I just rush to comment.
Anyway.
Aru!
![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) lol u con dey attack me ahbi |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by LuckyLadolce(m): 11:20pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
valnelly: As I write this.... I'm filled with so much hurt and regret. My girlfriend whom I thought would be patient enough for me so I could get married to her has broken up with me. I met her while I was writing my final year project in Yabatech about 4 years ago. We were cool together and the distance between us didn't mean that much to me even though she stays in ikorodu and I stay in surulere. The problem started when I gained admission to Unilag due to my decision for self development. I'm 31 years old and she is 25. During the last 2 years I noticed she has changed drastically I notice that she now has stuffs like new shoes and new bags. Which of course ordinarily she wouldn't have been able to afford. The only time we see is on weekends and that's because she is still in Yabatech schooling and sometime when she comes like that she acts funny with phone calls. The way she talks to some certain people so suspicious. But none the less she always feels cool with me and always wants to be around me. Could it be because of sex?
I noticed that she behaves single at school and even on social media. We do not chat or use social media, we added each other but at a point I had to take her off because she doesn't portray any thing that shows we are actually dating...i took her off all platform of social media and she wasn't perturbed about it. I don't actually know what's going on in school or her place of residence but I have a very strong feeling that she has been cheating on me and some other guy have been buying her things I can't get for her. But on top of this she was actually looking for school fees and I was deploying all methods to make sure she pays this on time and that alone made me confused!. We had a heated argument on Sunday and she was yelling and talking back at me... I left the house for her in annoyance only for me to come back and she is gone. She left a note that says that she is no longer interested. Guys please what should I do. I love this girl so frigging much. I can't sleep or think straight right now. It's almost impossible for me to start all over again. I feel hopeless. Please guys your advice! Move on quickly by getting busy with what you love doing ... don't call her Pls.. never!! Delete everything about her or store them where u may later go back to them for memory. Don't call I repeat. Don't beg! Just be a man ! This is the time to know if truly you are a man. Don't bug her with calls... enjoy everything around you. All hopes are not lost.. there's always a new day.. Alla the best! 6 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Victornezzar:
lol u con dey attack me ahbi
No na. You na my paddy paddy |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Xclusivedaniel6(m): 11:21pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
ALL THAT GLITTER IS NOT GOLD
Bro, please I know its hard for u but blv me, don't do anything.
you know why she left, its cos she knows you live her and you will come back begging, but pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, don't do anything.
she will run back when nemesis catches up to her
09063068374 buzz me on whatsapp, I'll teach you how I dealt with ma ex and made her beg with tears 4 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Victornezzar: 11:22pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
sonofLuci:
No na. You na my paddy paddy no p boss |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Viking007(m): 11:22pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
You need to set Your priorities straight oga op. You're 31! Still in school & You're feeling hopeless because a girl dumped You? Ok. ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) 3 Likes
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Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Bowwow11(m): 11:23pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
valnelly: As I write this.... I'm filled with so much hurt and regret. My girlfriend whom I thought would be patient enough for me so I could get married to her has broken up with me. I met her while I was writing my final year project in Yabatech about 4 years ago. We were cool together and the distance between us didn't mean that much to me even though she stays in ikorodu and I stay in surulere. The problem started when I gained admission to Unilag due to my decision for self development. I'm 31 years old and she is 25. During the last 2 years I noticed she has changed drastically I notice that she now has stuffs like new shoes and new bags. Which of course ordinarily she wouldn't have been able to afford. The only time we see is on weekends and that's because she is still in Yabatech schooling and sometime when she comes like that she acts funny with phone calls. The way she talks to some certain people so suspicious. But none the less she always feels cool with me and always wants to be around me. Could it be because of sex?
I noticed that she behaves single at school and even on social media. We do not chat or use social media, we added each other but at a point I had to take her off because she doesn't portray any thing that shows we are actually dating...i took her off all platform of social media and she wasn't perturbed about it. I don't actually know what's going on in school or her place of residence but I have a very strong feeling that she has been cheating on me and some other guy have been buying her things I can't get for her. But on top of this she was actually looking for school fees and I was deploying all methods to make sure she pays this on time and that alone made me confused!. We had a heated argument on Sunday and she was yelling and talking back at me... I left the house for her in annoyance only for me to come back and she is gone. She left a note that says that she is no longer interested. Guys please what should I do. I love this girl so frigging much. I can't sleep or think straight right now. It's almost impossible for me to start all over again. I feel hopeless. Please guys your advice! u av to forget about her she is nt meant for u ur right partner wont desert u wen u need her most i av been in ur shoe i kw hw it feels in my own i av ben dateing her for ten years bt she cheated on me just d year am suppose to wed her i cant kill myself life has to go on 2 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by 2sexycom(m): 11:24pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
pocohantas: You see, some of these ladies would have loved to remain with the love of their lives for however long it takes him to be ready...but, you people will not stop putting pressure on them. You have dated her for 4years? 4 years of constant testing and tasting. Now she is 25...Very soon emusmith will remind her she is 28 and single.
Don't worry bro, it's not your fault that things are this way. One thing you should understand is, most ladies don't have that patience of dating one guy for years. It's a risk in this Nigeria where they keep reminding you of biological clock and the guy can change his mind.
I know how you feel, i'll advise you channel your time into lucrative ventures. Don't go begging with catarrh falling out of your nose. That'll spell desperation and would turn her off, you'll lose your respect. Don't bug her with calls, call once and let go. If she deems it necessary to call, fine. If she doesn't...life goes on.
![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by 2sexycom(m): 11:25pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Viking007: You need to set Your priorities straight oga op. You're 31! Still in school & You're feeling hopeless because a girl dumped You? Ok. ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) He is done with school he said they met during his final year. 1 Like |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Xclusivedaniel6(m): 11:25pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Benita27: Your assumptions that you noticed she possessed things she could not afford like; handbags and shoes is funny, are you saying she's an orphan or doesn't have a relative who could give her money for those?. The only thing that validates she might be cheating was the calls you were suspecting. As for her not adding you on social media beside whatsapp is a good thing. Were you expecting her to flaunt you on social media 'cause you two are dating?...Silly girls do that. Ladies will always side themselves |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by lincs25(m): 11:25pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Be a man, is painful that you loose somebody you love but she did not love you. It happens to me three months back, I was at the point of going for list. We dated for four years, I am working and comfortable but it happen and I accepted it and continue with my life. Forget her completly, many are over there. 7 Likes |
Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by Viking007(m): 11:26pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Xclusivedaniel6: ALL THAT GLITTER IS NOT GOLD
Bro, please I know its hard for u but blv me, don't do anything.
you know why she left, its cos she knows you live her and you will come back begging, but pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, don't do anything.
she will run back when nemesis catches up to her
09063068374 buzz me on whatsapp, I'll teach you how I dealt with ma ex and made her beg with tears Nothing will catch up with her. They didn't work out & she's simply MOVED ON. Advice the op to do the same. He should channel this energy into becoming a better person financially. 7 Likes |