obembet:


I don't blame the guy, he doesn't want to buy non- tested


Everyone dey fear fake things now.. Fake woman, fake pregnancy, fake womb....

Bros, you dumb gan o.

missbronze:
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Babe, i cant believe you brought this here, and you are even asking for advice.

Nnem, biko, why wld a man that claims to love you, ask you to have a baby out of wedlock?

For him to even tell you to your face that other girls are asking to be his baby mama is an insult to you.

Here is my advice, Dont have any baby out of wedlock for him.

Why wld you even want to reduce your market value? .

The way she sounds, she's either gullible or the type who loves blindly. Should that be the case, the advices given won't count, since he can easily intimidate and blackmail her emotionally. She'll probably still go ahead with it.

say no to premarital sex. It's fornication. It irks God. Desist frm it

DaddyGngeess:
I am reading through all the comments everybody is saying dont try it, dont do this, dont do that, but i still want you all to know that there comes a time in a woman life when she will be begging for a man to get her pregnant either by fire by force, my advice follow your heart.

No. She must follow her head. Don't give people such bad advice.

Shutup. You've received good advice already. Follow it and stop looking for validation for your stupidity.

lekpaciouse:
Thanks very much,like he said,he said other ladies want to carry his baby and I told him they are just looking for whom to father their baby,and he is very serious about it am just confused about the whole things.

kennygee:


A man who loves you won't put you in that position.

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord.

I have seen many ladies fall prey to this lie and they ended up as single mothers with no man to marry them.

Most guys these days are just looking for women to bear one or two kids for them so they can eat their cake and have it.

That man doesn't love you, do things the way God ordained it from the beginning.

If you are not born again, repent of this way of life, let the Word of God be your guide and your manual and I promise you, you will not miss it.

Don't allow any man pressure you. Its easy to have sex and get pregnant, but what happens after you give birth to the child and this man leaves you?

A child born out of wedlock is a bastard, forget the sugar they are sprinkling on it to call it "baby mama or baby daddy".

Omo ale ni won pe.

Good Advice except that there is no Bastard Child there may be irresponeible Parents. And Christian should also know that not everybody is into White weddimg Arrangement. The Op can ask for Traditional and Court Weddings

kennygee:


A man who loves you won't put you in that position.

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord.

I have seen many ladies fall prey to this lie and they ended up as single mothers with no man to marry them.

Most guys these days are just looking for women to bear one or two kids for them so they can eat their cake and have it.

That man doesn't love you, do things the way God ordained it from the beginning.

If you are not born again, repent of this way of life, let the Word of God be your guide and your manual and I promise you, you will not miss it.

Don't allow any man pressure you. Its easy to have sex and get pregnant, but what happens after you give birth to the child and this man leaves you?

A child born out of wedlock is a bastard, forget the sugar they are sprinkling on it to call it "baby mama or baby daddy".

Omo ale ni won pe.

Good Advice except that there is no Bastard Child there may be irresponeible Parents. And Christian should also know that not everybody is into White weddimg Arrangement. The Op can ask for Traditional and Court Weddings

lekpaciouse:
Please I need your advice as my guy want me to get pregnant for him out of wedlock that when the time comes we will get married,that other ladies are disturbing him have baby for him.
Please I need your advice
Thanks.

Does he have 30 billion in his account ? Are you an ugly somborry? Some cases are very easy to judge ...you just wrote that he threatened you with other ladies wanting to have babies for him....shows the are other ladies apart from u in his life..Never displease urself to please anybody....A word is enough for the wise. .

kennygee:


Husbands, love your wives like Christ loves the church.

Have a good day.

Things have changed..women remain chaste till marriage.. Whosai?

paradice:


Good Advice except that there is no Bastard Child there may be irresponeible Parents. And Christian should also know that not everybody is into White weddimg Arrangement. The Op can ask for Traditional and Court Weddings

I never stated what type of marriage.

I have personally been in a situation where when me and my young man went to meet his parents the father told me korokoro say he has told his son that the lady must be over 3 months before him bring am. After we left I asked him mgbo and it dawned on me say if we marry na dem dem go tell us how many children and how often we can be intimate etc iyama.


If people start to give you conditions for being in their life you better examine whether this the type of life you want to live.

If so many other woman are clamouring to have baby for him please let them cos this statement alone tells me he really does not care about you.

lekpaciouse:
Please I need your advice as my guy want me to get pregnant for him out of wedlock that when the time comes we will get married,that other ladies are disturbing him have baby for him.
Please I need your advice
Thanks.

lekpaciouse:
Please I need your advice as my guy want me to get pregnant for him out of wedlock that when the time comes we will get married,that other ladies are disturbing him have baby for him.
Please I need your advice
Thanks.

Run! Run! Even if he decides to propose now RUN! For him to even think n voice such out.......my sisterrrrrr his husband material no reach half yard!
Run now wey em mouth don expose him. U hav seen thru him

lekpaciouse:
Please I need your advice as my guy want me to get pregnant for him out of wedlock that when the time comes we will get married,that other ladies are disturbing him have baby for him.
Please I need your advice
Thanks.

Kindly leave him o

As the demands never finish and will continue for a long time to come

He just want to reduce the crowd

lekpaciouse:
Please I need your advice as my guy want me to get pregnant for him out of wedlock that when the time comes we will get married,that other ladies are disturbing him have baby for him.
Please I need your advice
Thanks.

what is d circumstances that warrant d option. maybe d guy is not buoyant enough,or his wish?

ifenes:
Naija mentality on marriage is really low...... Marriage is no guarantee a man will stay with you. You don't have to get married to raise a family.

It is called commitment and it is not just a Nigerian affair.

Bolaadu:
what is d circumstances that warrant d option. maybe d guy is not buoyant enough,or his wish?

A baby is more expensive than a wedding.

Wow! the fact that you had to open this thread shows how gullible you are.

The fact that you believe when he says "other ladies are ready to get pregnant for me" raises your gullibility to infinity.

Even my 16 year old niece won't think twice on such matters.


You need to invest in yourself and become smarter and valuable. even if he proposes marriage, you are not ready!

ivolt:


It is called commitment and it is not just a Nigerian affair.

Institutionalised commitment which isn't from the heart.

other ladies are disturbing him have baby for him.

You let a guy open his smelling mouth and tell you that and you're still considering it? They say love is blind but what I really see in this world especially this part of the world, is that women are just deperate to get on the marriage train no matter what. That's how y'all will see monsters and still marry them and come here to start crying and disturbing us for advise, lying that y'all didn't know he was a monster. STFU! you knew, you just wanted to satisfy society so bad.

ifenes:


Institutionalised commitment which isn't from the heart.

Unfortunately love(heart) marriages don't last.
The love fades away as it came, only commitment
can guarantee a lasting relationship.

kennygee:


A man who loves you won't put you in that position.

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord.

I have seen many ladies fall prey to this lie and they ended up as single mothers with no man to marry them.

Most guys these days are just looking for women to bear one or two kids for them so they can eat their cake and have it.

That man doesn't love you, do things the way God ordained it from the beginning.

If you are not born again, repent of this way of life, let the Word of God be your guide and your manual and I promise you, you will not miss it.

Don't allow any man pressure you. Its easy to have sex and get pregnant, but what happens after you give birth to the child and this man leaves you?

A child born out of wedlock is a bastard, forget the sugar they are sprinkling on it to call it "baby mama or baby daddy".

Omo ale ni won pe.

my love for you eee....thanks

ifenes:


Caring for someone deeply has nothing to do with marriage. Marriage is a meaningless and old institution that does not guarantee love and affection. It only gives satisfaction to our parents who they themselves were subjected to forceful Union. Many married couple live seperates lives nowadays.

Many naija girls use marriage as a selfish tool to tie a man down. They feel old and useless once they hit 36 years old and higher, hence the " marry me" demands gets louder after wasting their youthful years dating sugar daddies or doing irrelevant activities. Worst part is saving their Virginas till wedding night( what a barbaric mentality)

A woman should rather become a happy baby mama over wasting in an unhappy wedlock. Marriage is old and outdated, lets embrace true love and more kids outside unholy- marriages.

You are contradicting yourself, if marriage is meaningless then
a woman cannot be said to have wasted her life with sugar daddies,
she is simply following her "heart" as you recommended.

You even exhibited a barbaric mentality by valuing a woman based on her
choice typical of mysoginistic pretenders, it is none of your business if a woman
choose to follow sugar daddies her entire life or if she opts for celibacy.

You seem incapable of grasping the nuance of marriage and you feel
it is your right to demand love and sex from any woman while giving
nothing in return and you expect to be obliged because you are a man.

baby mama loading.

Safiaa:
If you have something to counter my argument then say it. If not, desist from quoting me again. Good girl.

Mchewwwwww.Immaturity written all over you

lekpaciouse:
Please I need your advice as my guy want me to get pregnant for him out of wedlock that when the time comes we will get married,that other ladies are disturbing him have baby for him.
Please I need your advice
Thanks.

My dear you are not the only person in this dilemma. My bf also told me same thing. That any woman he will marry must get pregnant first before talking about marriage and me can't do that because want if I get pregnant for me and he change is mind, then what will become of me. So you have to think well

kennygee:


A man who loves you won't put you in that position.

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord.

I have seen many ladies fall prey to this lie and they ended up as single mothers with no man to marry them.

Most guys these days are just looking for women to bear one or two kids for them so they can eat their cake and have it.

That man doesn't love you, do things the way God ordained it from the beginning.

If you are not born again, repent of this way of life, let the Word of God be your guide and your manual and I promise you, you will not miss it.

Don't allow any man pressure you. Its easy to have sex and get pregnant, but what happens after you give birth to the child and this man leaves you?

A child born out of wedlock is a bastard, forget the sugar they are sprinkling on it to call it "baby mama or baby daddy".

Omo ale ni won pe.

aunty no talk lyk dat, being maried doesnt garanty u even if he wan live u after geting maried he ll, my advice is study his kind of person b4 u tinking of doin any tin. Tink of the advantage nd disadvantage especial d disadvantage. Anytin any body say here is his/her own opiniön whch may nt b applicable to d solution of ur present situation. A word is enough 4 d wise

laudate:


Dump him! Unfriend him on Facebook, delete him from Whatsapp, unfollow him on Twitter or Instagram, do not reply him when he pings or calls you.... in short, erase him from your life. The guy just wants a cheap baby mama and free booty. A man who truly loves and respects you, will not dishonour you in that way. He will never put you in a position where family & friends would disrespect you, due to his actions.

dump him, unfriend him on fb, bla bla bla when she is carry is baby. is that a solution?

lekpaciouse:
Please I need your advice as my guy want me to get pregnant for him out of wedlock that when the time comes we will get married,that other ladies are disturbing him have baby for him.
Please I need your advice
Thanks.

Is he don jazzy? Whey other ladies wan born for am??

OLAJADON:
dump him, unfriend him on fb, bla bla bla when she is carry is baby. is that a solution?

Read the story again. She is NOT carrying his baby yet. He only asked her if she would get pregnant for him, outside wedlock.

2dugged:
thank you,I know two women who are currently suffering because according to the family of the men ,they were not married, the first is a lawyer who was assassinated, one would have thought as a learned man he would have atleast gone to the registrty ,they have three children and she is pregnant with the fourth ,now that he is dead,his family members have confiscated his properties saying that their brother never had a wife, the second example is my neighbor who have been cohabiting for 7 years, for the past 6 months he left her to camp with a young lady because she promised to ask her brother to send him abroad,even when she delivered two months ago,the man didn't show up,and his people and her people said they can't intervene because she is not married to him, she is left with three children ,the two older ones have stopped school, non of her family members or that of the man came for omugwo. Only a fool will say who marriage help, there are certain rights and privileges that can only be accessed through marriages, no woman with a working brain should knowingly fall for that, if the pregnancy is unplanned,that is a different case, if he is serious, let him do registry first,simple

Oh, your post make sense, die! May God increase the wisdom He has deposited in your life.

laudate:

Oh, your post make sense, die! May God increase the wisdom He has deposited in your life.

amen ,thanks