Please advise me fam. A lady is trying to separate my fiance and his best friend.

Please I need your advice on an issue happening around me.
I and my fiance are getting married soon. I am currently running my masters program but staying with him.he has a friend of about 5yrs(we av become families)whom dey recently rented an apartment together but living in separate rooms. The guy met a gal about 7 months ago and introduced her to us as his girlfriend.we accepted her in and we all became one family doing everything together. The girl works a bit far away and only comes during d weekend.
This guy likes gals but we usually ignore his attitude since he usually hides it. Although he and my fiance are close, he tells him everything happening around him and my fiance gives his own piece of advice and ignore everything else
All of a sudden his attitude began to Change gradually. He first brought in a prostitute to sleep(none of our biz. We ignored )
Later on last month,he toasted a gal on our street inviting the girl to our church and the gal agreed. He invited the girl to sleep over and the girl started sleeping over every day.
I am usually the one that does the cleaning of the whole house and cooking etc. Suddenly this gal started beefing and told the guy that they should buy there own gas cooker and start cooking separately(the guy told my fiance as usual and they laughed it off).the girl started trespassing gradually, taking her bath and turning our house to hers(we ignored)
Me and my fiance travelled of recent but only my fiance went back cos I was doing some things behind. On getting back my fiance noticed she has brought in her clothes and av started using the kitchen.she brought all her dirty clothes from her house(3 houses away) to wash and spread them on all the doors.
my fiance hasn't been comfortable with her attitude cos he sees her as a cheap, loose prostitute. My fiance told his friend dat he doesn't like all what the gal is doing and she should not pass her boundary and use any of his things.
The guy replied by saying she is his girlfriend and she has right and that she will not use any of his things (everything in the kitchen belongs to my fiance)
The girl no longer greets my fiance and the guy no longer relates with my fiance well
She is trying to put their backs against each other.

What should we do?

Front page please

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This is absolute rubbish !!! come my gee, abeg make una tell dat lady make she park out jorh, which kind rubbish attitude b dat, how she go jux come from no where den wan come dey giv orders up and down and dey incharge...
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#My heart and mind is seriously boiling now as if its happening to me. Who get d house sef. if na joint payment house, i'll advice u ppl to leave d house for dem but if d house is for u, don't hesitate to tell ur frnd to park out if he cannot control his babe. period !!!



#I Rest My Case

Kingpinukecy:
This is absolute rubbish !!! come my gee, abeg make una tell dat lady make she park out jorh, which kind rubbish attitude b dat, how she go jux come from no where den wan come dey giv orders up and down and dey incharge...
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#My heart and mind is seriously boiling now as if its happening to me. Who get d house sef. if na joint payment house, i'll advice u ppl to leave d house for dem but if d house is for u, don't hesitate to tell ur frnd to park out if he cannot control his babe. period !!!



#I Rest My Case

Thanks.... U can really feel my pain..... It's irritating... The rent expires at d end of this year. We will move out. God bless

Dollysmithsmart:

Thanks.... U can really feel my pain..... It's irritating... The rent expires at d end of this year. We will move out. God bless

u r welcome my gee

That gal is certainly NOT the problem here, the housemate who invited her in and allows her to do what she pleases in your house, IS the problem. The fact that he values her now and tells her everything your bf tells him, shows that you are on a war path.... Best ignore her and leave this house when rent agreement is over

you said they both paid for the flat, since your man has told her not to use any of his stuff, and he agreed then no problem.
you shouldn't bother yourself, girls like that don't last long, Just give it time, and while you doing that please learn manners, you or your man just can't call someone a cheap loose prostitute

Kingpinukecy:
This is absolute rubbish !!! come my gee, abeg make una tell dat lady make she park out jorh, which kind rubbish attitude b dat, how she go jux come from no where den wan come dey giv orders up and down and dey incharge...
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#My heart and mind is seriously boiling now as if its happening to me. Who get d house sef. if na joint payment house, i'll advice u ppl to leave d house for dem but if d house is for u, don't hesitate to tell ur frnd to park out if he cannot control his babe. period !!!



#I Rest My Case

what is this one saying

some ladies are just devils

Following

I pity guys wey dey allow girls control their reasoning.

The solution is to simply avoid the girl. Which kind temptation be that one na? Shuo!

Abi the guy no get enough sense to see say na wahala he dey date so? Me call that kind person my girlfriend? Naaaah!

You guys should hold flat meeting... N have a MOU.... U shd all spill what is annoying you and define a pact for living together... Your fiance should handle it so maturely... Infact he shd act like a dad... A sane mind ll feel bad and wanna act mature too.... I know you ladies... Both will b d ones teaching ur guys on how to react... Cuz guys I know easily solve things like Diz

tetula123:
what is this one saying

You stole my meme

mykel25:
You guys should hold flat meeting... N have a MOU.... U shd all spill what is annoying you and define a pact for living together... Your fiance should handle it so maturely... Infact he shd act like a dad... A sane mind ll feel bad and wanna act mature too.... I know you ladies... Both will b d ones teaching ur guys on how to react... Cuz guys I know easily solve things like Diz

Hmm... Which flat meeting? Bcoz of dat gal?

Is like d guy nd em gf neva collect slap wey go reset deir brain ahbi
ur man is 2 weak.....can't he kick his friend out

Victornezzar:
Is like d guy nd em gf neva collect slap wey go reset deir brain ahbi
ur man is 2 weak.....can't he kick his friend out

You self. Morning till night na nairaland you they.

sonofLuci:


You self. Morning till night na nairaland you they.

lmao....my boss i dey do my IT 4 popsy place
So no work 2 do

Victornezzar:

lmao....my boss i dey do my IT 4 popsy place
So no work 2 do

Haha Okay bro, nothing do you. I say make I find your mouth small. You don turn elder for nairaland, we they see you for every thread when the op need advice.

At least better than that fake french speaking Toks2008 guy

sonofLuci:


Haha Okay bro, nothing do you. I say make I find your mouth small. You don turn elder for nairaland, we they see you for every thread when the op need advice.

At least better than that fake french speaking Toks2008 guy

lolzzz
wat of Toks na

Victornezzar:

lolzzz
wat of Toks na

Probably behind bars for deliberately deceiving a girl.

Felony charges.

sonofLuci:



Probably behind bars for deliberately deceiving a girl.

Felony charges.

lolzzz

tetula123:
what is this one saying

Rubbish!!! Am telling dem ur history... Mtcheeeew

Victornezzar:
Is like d guy nd em gf neva collect slap wey go reset deir brain ahbi
ur man is 2 weak.....can't he kick his friend out

He isn't weak. They both rented d apartment

tetula123:
you said they both paid for the flat, since your man has told her not to use any of his stuff, and he agreed then no problem.
you shouldn't bother yourself, girls like that don't last long, Just give it time, and while you doing that please learn manners, you or your man just can't call someone a cheap loose prostitute

OK.... But her attitude says it all. A guy toasted u today and u at started sleeping with him from the next day

Dollysmithsmart:


He isn't weak. They both rented d apartment

Oh
Both of u should get a new apartment na

Victornezzar:

Oh
Both of u should get a new apartment na

OK. Thanks we're working on that

More advise needed

This kind of situation is usually inevitable when 2 or more bachelors cohabitate with girlfriends under the same roof. if its not house chores, it will be cooking, who finishes whatever, or just rivalry among the ladies. You have no other option than to live with the new living arrangement and hope for a better relationship as time go on.

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let em av their space. e go taya dem o. jst ignore them. he wil come to his senses later