She must be "wizkid" and u r DRAKE my friend !

Joel3:
Understanding girls sometimes is difficult. especially when you have done everything to prove to them you are not gamed. But after sometime they still come back and you keep repeating the same.

What do girls want from a guy who maltreat them without any regards. and still they refuse to get sense. if its the sex why still they don't want to admit it it just for the sex but still carrying the same love come again.

Also I find it hard to believe a girl just enjoy sex only like guys without getting emotional to it. guys can enjoy just sex and move oh. But girls will involved emotion even when the guy does not love or give a dime.

Brother the thing tire me oh, one just hang for my throat since 6 month now

This is one of the saddest mysteries and paradox of human inter-gender relationship....boy likes girl a lot, girl doesn't reciprocate...girl likes boy,boy doesn't reciprocate....

Truth be told,one can try,however,if one gives it his/her best shot without any luck then it's best to move on..if as a lady ,you give him your body,gifts and practically worship him,he still might not love you...conversely,if as a man,you give her gifts,become the kind of man any woman will want and practically worship her,she still might not love you....its best at this point,not to hang around anymore,because,beyond this point,all that lies therein is heartbreak,more heartbreak and emotional torture....

Make no mistake,she doesn't hate Him and He doesn't Hate her....He/She isn't just in the same place with the other person emotionally,he/she doesn't have any emotional connection with the other,He/She can't give/provide the emotional response the other party yearns for..if he/she yields at some point,it might be out of pity and pity isn't a good foundation for a relationship....

It's just life...I have experienced both(girl likes boy,boy doesn't reciprocate in like manner,guy is crazy about girl,girl doesn't give a damn if he exists)..

Move on...true love might be around the corner...one thing is sure,you can't force anyone to love you,you can't buy anyone's love either...everyone deserves to be loved for what it's worth and not out of pity...

Oga open mouth tell babe you no like am, she will move on jejely.

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koolcat:
That moment when your ba3 is @3% and you see your boss upload the picture of himself and his family. And wanting to impress him, you quickly comment "cool pics" but auto correct changes it to "cool pigs" and your ba3 run off☠

Omo, kuku kee me

ogtavia:
This is one of the saddest mysteries and paradox of human inter-gender relationship....boy likes girl a lot, girl doesn't reciprocate...girl likes boy,boy doesn't reciprocate....

Truth,if one gives it his/her best shot without any luck then it's best to move on..if as a lady n,you give him your body,gifts and practically worship him,he still might not love you...conversely,if as a man,you give her gifts,become the kind of man any woman will want and practically worship her,she still might not love you....its best at this point,not to hang around anymore,because,beyond this point,all that lies therein is heartbreak,more heartbreak and emotional torture....

Make no mistake,she doesn't hate Him and He doesn't Hate her....He/She isn't just in the same place with the other person emotionally,he/she doesn't have any emotional connection with the other,He/She can't give/provide the emotional response the other party yearns for..if he/she yields at some point,it might be out of pity and pity isn't a good foundation for a relationship....

It's just life...I have experienced both(girl likes boy,boy doesn't reciprocate in like manner,guy is crazy about girl,girl doesn't give a damn if he exists)..

Move on...true love might be around the corner...one thing is sure,you can't force anyone to love you,you can't buy anyone's love either...everyone deserves to be loved for what it's worth and not out of pity...

Bros you nailed it. This is the exact reality you painted up there.
I am currently in the same situation right now... this girl wont budge. I even sat her down and tell her to her face, but alas, shes back after two month recess.

I may have to carry mic and sound it to her louder. Hope she leaves me alone coz i feel nada.

ZarZar:
We're not mind readers. Before you start feeling phly, have you TOLD her that you don't want her?

Sometimes you can see that someone is being a miserable crumb to you, but you don't do anything, hoping they'd man-up & tell you to agitate the gravel. Why can't men be upfront? Because I doubt there's a girl that'll keep hounding a guy after he's told her to Bleep off. Maybe you're sending mixed signals, hence she's still holding on. Spell it out to her in no uncertain terms that you don't want her. If she's still pushing, then she's a nut!

I don't know why you think everyone would possess the heart of stone like yourself. I told my gal to Bleep off, but she replied saying it is not my first time of saying this. And that it has been my song anytime I'm angry.

walex25:

Bros you nailed it. This is the exact reality you painted up there.
I am currently in the same situation right now... this girl wont burge. I even sat her down and tell her to her face, but alas, shes back after two month recess.

I may have to carry mic and sound it to her louder. Hope she leaves me alone coz i feel nada.

Bro,she is really going through some emotional strain...keep your distance but don't be too far,help her get over you but don't be mean....be firm with her and don't give out any hopeful vibes.....she will definitely move on...she is just finding it difficult to cope with the pain...you can hook her up with any of your responsible friends...not anyone who will exploit her or take undue advantage of her though...

How do i get the girl i like?

It's an involuntary action just like knee jerk and it's not easy to get out of the mind 'cause when it enters it becomes part of you

pls guys..im a newbie here...dont know how to post!!...need a help pls

Females are very easy to understand, it all depends on how patient you are with them and with your emotion.

ogtavia:
Bro,she is really going through some emotional strain...keep your distance but don't be too far,help her get over you but don't be mean....be firm with her and don't give out any hopeful vibes.....she will definitely move on...she is just finding it difficult to cope with the pain...you can hook her up with any of your responsible friends...not anyone who will exploit her or take undue advantage of her though...

Thanks...
She is just at a stone throw distance to my place, hence keeping distance might not work.
I do occasionally feels sorry for her that i dont feel the same. And like u rightly pointed out that sticking with someone out of pity indeed spells doom. so she is still a no go.

I'm still though tasked with how best to let her see that there still life beyond me.

The funny but ironiy of this whole conundrum is, there is also this babe too that am crazy about that doesnt give a 'f' about me.

It all goes in circle!

Joel3:
Understanding girls sometimes is difficult. especially when you have done everything to prove to them you are not gamed. But after sometime they still come back and you keep repeating the same.

What do girls want from a guy who maltreat them without any regards. and still they refuse to get sense. if its the sex why still they don't want to admit it it just for the sex but still carrying the same love come again.

Also I find it hard to believe a girl just enjoy sex only like guys without getting emotional to it. guys can enjoy just sex and move oh. But girls will involved emotion even when the guy does not love or give a dime.

God Is love.....

Conquest...the instance you give in, the instance she loses interest

For a girl to be acting that way it's obvious she is deeply in love. A lot of people here said you should just tell her point blanc, that you don't need her. Believe me that's going to hurt her badly.
What I will suggest is to break her gradually until she gives up and let go.

walex25:


Thanks...
She is just at a stone throw distance to my place, hence keeping distance might not work.
I do occasionally feels sorry for her that i dont feel the same. And like u rightly pointed out that sticking with someone out of pity indeed spells doom. so she is still a no go.

I'm still though tasked with how best to let her see that there still life beyond me.

The funny but ironiy of this whole conundrum is, there is also this babe too that am crazy about that doesnt give a 'f' about me.

It all goes in circle!

this is one heck of a conundrum you are in...if I were you...I would move on and face other things...give love,matters of the heart and relationship some rest for now..

ekensi01:
The simple explanation for that is Love. She really love you thats why she can sacrifice anything but you don't love her, That's the situation with Nigerians and love.


,Why not try to give that lady a chance in your life you will see that true love really exist. I have one like that, after a while i gave her the chance and that relationship have stayed long sofar.

Follow my leads, ladies are the most easy things to explore in this world.

Until they pour person acid

just try to express ur mind to her, because in life, relationship needs understanding. without understanding in marriage, the couple will just be living a shadows. so tell her what u want

CrescentMoon:


I don't know why you think everyone would possess the heart of stone like yourself. I told my gal to Bleep off, but she replied saying it is not my first time of saying this. And that it has been my song anytime I'm angry.

Haha! You're going to have a hard time breaking up with that one bro. She knows your buttons already.

idowupaulho:
pls guys..im a newbie here...dont know how to post!!...need a help pls

click on the section u want to post e.g politics,romance then u will see *create new topic.

My gf I lost December 28th 2016. My sweet Ogechi may your gentle soul kip resting in peace,she could never just leave me alone no matter what I do to her, I'm sure if she was still alive,I will be marrying her this year...Fvck these other women I'm meeting these days,u toast dem,u r already oweing them...

Hbd mansurah219

ekensi01:
The simple explanation for that is Love. She really love you thats why she can sacrifice anything but you don't love her, That's the situation with Nigerians and love.


,Why not try to give that lady a chance in your life you will see that true love really exist. I have one like that, after a while i gave her the chance and that relationship have stayed long sofar.

Follow my leads, ladies are the most easy things to explore in this world.

I disagree with you , giving chance when you know clearly there is no love from the guy's side. What do u expect from them if eventually they get married or a baby comes in? Lastly, ladies are the most difficult things to explore . As your guys

ZarZar:
We're not mind readers. Before you start feeling phly, have you TOLD her that you don't want her?

Sometimes you can see that someone is being a miserable crumb to you, but you don't do anything, hoping they'd man-up & tell you to agitate the gravel. Why can't men be upfront? Because I doubt there's a girl that'll keep hounding a guy after he's told her to Bleep off. Maybe you're sending mixed signals, hence she's still holding on. Spell it out to her in no uncertain terms that you don't want her. If she's still pushing, then she's a nut!

When I was single I have told someone the truth and simply said that she will try. I even told her that I have enough and she said that those ones will never be my wife that is what she thinks. I told this girl in very plain language.

Mehn! So this hit front page or maybe im seeing things. NL and some worthless threads hitting fp

Joel3:
I do not believe in love. its not not exist. nothing but emotion which can be develop at any giving time. its only a better option at that. like when there is no better option available on the card.

if dangote son should proposed to her just after you did. I am 100% sure you will be short change and dump. be wife no true love thing is relationship nothing but mere emotion which can fade away. only difference is that some are good in managing it. while others can't.

Love, hate, anger, affection etc are all forms of emotion. Yes love is a type of emotion that exists. Love do exist

Sir, what exactly is your question? because I'm confused