JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

freshvine:
Buy a small recording device, visit her and hid it underneath her bed. Go back there a week after and seal your fate.

Gourdoinc:
oga please address her properly. OUR FIANCE. also is she aware she is your fiance. because alot of you men go about saying an olosho is your fiance. what exactly made her ur fiance ? when and how did she show loyalty to demand you engage her for a life time journey. foolish boy

lilyheaven:
I shared entrance toilet and kitchen with two male doctors, while I was serving ( NYSC), every thing was OK, they had there girl friends, one of the girls became my friend because of her constant visit. But I didn't like them, because each time they come back from work and see food in my pot they will eat it.
One of the doctors started visiting me , in the name of roommate thing, from there he said he wants to marry me, I told him I can't reason or think of marrying him because his girl is my friend, besides, he was aware i had a boyfriend, but I'm not a child, I knew what he wanted was sex, he started looking for ways to seduce me, sometimes he will go to the bathroom unclothed, and still come out unclothed, sometimes he will come to my door with erected penis, but I see naked people like everyday, both life and dead.
I told him to stop all his drama, because my erection comes from my mind not what I see, he tried sha, but my mind didn't change because I had a boy friend who trusted me , because not even him can turn me own, when my mind has not said yes.
He still calls me on phone, after 4years of service, his always like "madam strong mind"
So, know your woman
So you can be comfortable

jashar:
Edakun, someone should epp me and the OP with that 'Na so' meme.

Thank a bundle.

Oma307:
Bro, u don enter one chance. Ur fiancee na confirm olosho

EgunMogaji:


For this Naija so?

jashar:
Edakun, someone should epp me and the OP with that 'Na so' meme.

Thank a bundle.

lilyheaven:
I shared entrance toilet and kitchen with two male doctors, while I was serving ( NYSC), every thing was OK, they had there girl friends, one of the girls became my friend because of her constant visit. But I didn't like them, because each time they come back from work and see food in my pot they will eat it.
One of the doctors started visiting me , in the name of roommate thing, from there he said he wants to marry me, I told him I can't reason or think of marrying him because his girl is my friend, besides, he was aware i had a boyfriend, but I'm not a child, I knew what he wanted was sex, he started looking for ways to seduce me, sometimes he will go to the bathroom unclothed, and still come out unclothed, sometimes he will come to my door with erected penis, but I see naked people like everyday, both life and dead.
I told him to stop all his drama, because my erection comes from my mind not what I see, he tried sha, but my mind didn't change because I had a boy friend who trusted me , because not even him can turn me own, when my mind has not said yes.
He still calls me on phone, after 4years of service, his always like "madam strong mind"
So, know your woman
So you can be comfortable

thorpido:
You should make out time to spend some days with her.You will find out all you need to know then.

lilyheaven:

Yes, just start praying for me for a change, I'm not bragging about it, because right now I'm married yet I find it difficult to have sex, my husband is trying, but I don't know how long he will endure, each time I ask him how he is feeling, he always replies ,sex wasn't the reason he married me.
In my heart I Wonder, yet my body has refused to change.

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

darqly:
Dey there. That's how my ex went for Shiloh (SHILOH oh ) and wound up in a hotel with one of the male "elders".
Confronted her and she said the hotel belonged to A PASTOR, so ....

PROPHETmichael:




Come here young man
Don't be shy
Yes you with pet on your name
Say after me
Anywhere they have used my brain to wrap fufu in the coven during the 1st half of the year
I unwrapped myself and I hereby received sense in this second half of the year.

Now you can go
It is well with you!!!

Intrepid01:
Some inexperienced people here are advising you to go stay with her for sometime . Oga you won't notice poo I bet you. You remind me of my nigga like that during my service year, he was kpanshing this babe in his lodge. at a time the babes original guy decided to visit, so my guy just give the babe distance. it was difficult for the guy to suspect anything cos it was a lodge with many corpers; both male and female.

Did you know that during the guys one week stay it was my guy that was taken the guy around town and all? At a time the guy for so comfy with my guy and started asking him about the behaviour of the girl. My guy told him he was one of the luckiest guy in the world to have such a babe, that many staff of the school have bn running after her but she kept telling everyone she had a fiance. My guy told the guy we all knew you before you came, cos she was always singing your name....

Meanwhile my guy had almost destroyed the babes p**sy...Chaii wherever Tope is, he can't make heaven walahi.

lilyheaven:


Yes, it was childish, to me. Besides my guy knew I was sharing flat with them , he was also a medical doctor, n he was my friend and gossip friend too, I used to gossip with guy every thing,
as stupid as he was each time my guy come visiting he will be the one that will go down stairs to drag his bag

ReneeNuttall:
What kinda cohabitation is that? Op try and get her a different apartment if u have the resources. Even though there might be nothing between them,to me this is totally wrong.what if the guy mistakenly walks Into her room while she's unclad? or vice versa?
There is a huge limitation of privacy here.

lilyheaven:

You are right, because the first day I saw my guy, I liked him, then we worked together, lived next door things in our lodge, before two months we were dating. That was before my service

EgunMogaji:


Have you seen a therapist?

Sex is a very important part of relationship, especially to men. Just look at all those pedophiliac priests.

Good luck. It must be very frustrating.