Intrepid01:


I hope you guys are still waxing stronger Doctor!

—-

Kayoski:
Fiancée? its better you start addressing her as your ex

so on point.

lilyheaven:
I shared entrance toilet and kitchen with two male doctors, while I was serving ( NYSC), every thing was OK, they had there girl friends, one of the girls became my friend because of her constant visit. But I didn't like them, because each time they come back from work and see food in my pot they will eat it.
One of the doctors started visiting me , in the name of roommate thing, from there he said he wants to marry me, I told him I can't reason or think of marrying him because his girl is my friend, besides, he was aware i had a boyfriend, but I'm not a child, I knew what he wanted was sex, he started looking for ways to seduce me, sometimes he will go to the bathroom unclothed, and still come out unclothed, sometimes he will come to my door with erected penis, but I see naked people like everyday, both life and dead.
I told him to stop all his drama, because my erection comes from my mind not what I see, he tried sha, but my mind didn't change because I had a boy friend who trusted me , because not even him can turn me own, when my mind has not said yes.
He still calls me on phone, after 4years of service, his always like "madam strong mind"
So, know your woman
So you can be comfortable

I stopped reading at 'but I see naked people everyday,both life and dead'
I just imagine how many u have seen n am like

lilyheaven:

Yes sir!
We are married

Salute!!!

lilyheaven:

Ye, it is, but how much can a therapist do for me, I have read so many books, watched pons movie,
I can't imaging telling anybody about this.

A good therapist can solve this issue for you.

Be open minded and seek a qualified and well recommended one.

I can tolerate just about anything from a lady or a wife but not cheating!!!.
Certainly not, not for me. haaabaaaa.
Anyway you need to pray about this but my mind and experience tells me that you should just forget about her. Marriage is a serious business. Go into it with the wrong partner and your life will be a mess.

Kayoski:
Fiancée? its better you start addressing her as your ex

A word is enough for a wise

lilyheaven:

Yes, just start praying for me for a change, I'm not bragging about it, because right now I'm married yet I find it difficult to have sex, my husband is trying, but I don't know how long he will endure, each time I ask him how he is feeling, he always replies ,sex wasn't the reason he married me.
In my heart I Wonder, yet my body has refused to change.

Which kain body u get sef?
Men need sex o....as in...we need am
Prayers ke? U better visit a consultant or something before d man is forced to go outside!!!!

luminouz:

I stopped reading at 'but I see naked people everyday,both life and dead'
I just imagine how many u have seen n am like

;

Just kindly fix a spy camera in her room while you monitor her na. Shine ya Eyes my brother cos you're on a long tin

Is like it's only me who doesn't understand the definition of fiance here please choose the category she falls in here
Your girlfriend
Your side chic
Your sex partner
Your olosho
Dat your girl can lie for Africa

Bros u need tb joshua holy water

lilyheaven:


Yes, it was childish, to me. Besides my guy knew I was sharing flat with them , he was also a medical doctor, n he was my friend and gossip friend too, I used to gossip with guy every thing,
as stupid as he was each time my guy come visiting he will be the one that will go down stairs to drag his bag

....I read your other comments & if I may....I think what you are facing might just be utterly due to continious seeing of the "thing"....seeing such too much can have two possible opposite effects,...either u always want it or u so get used to it to the extent that it psychologically affect your desire to have it in that later manner.....my advise as I belief the later is the case,...try to the limit to draw a thick line between your work/career & your home...this is not going to be an easy task because of your kinda person,...going by your earlier wrte up but its becomes easy when u belief u can....u start today for all it worth...

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

Are you kidding me? You had better start addressing her as your ex

Thanks

Adelekeee:
....I read your other comments & if I may....I think what you are facing might just be utterly due to continious seeing of the "thing"....seeing such too much can have two possible opposite effects,...either u always want it or u so get used to it to the extent that it psychologically affect your desire to have it in that later manner.....my advise as I belief the later is the case,...try to the limit to draw a thick line between your work/career & your home...this is not going to be an easy task because of your kinda person,...going by your earlier wrte up but its becomes easy when u belief u can....u start today for all it worth...

Do u want to hear the truth? U don't have a fiancee yet.

GUY, NAIRA LANDERS CAN ONLY ADD TO YOUR PROBLEMS AS YOU CAN SEE IN ALL OUR COMMENTS.

BUT YOU MUMU SHA

You are basically waiting for her to get pregnant before you know that they are banging each other. What is wrong with some men

At the rate Nigerians girls have thrown all decency to the wind, sooner or later the average Nigerian man will end up marrying an olosho.

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

you are gullible sir! Find a better girl with good morals because by the time you catch her copulating your fiancee will say something like its nothing or its just sex.

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

Bro I have to be very honest with you, she's cheating.

I'm not trying to be funny. I'm 98% sure she's cheating based on all you just wrote. there's no way she's not cheating. I'd end the relationship if I were you. she's not innocent.
Ponder on the following :

1. Why did it take your surprise visit to discover she shares a flat with a guy? Why didn't she ever mention it?

2. What's she always doing awake by 2am? And why the hell can she not pick up the phone at 7pm? That's after work and the best time for lovers to talk about how the day went. She's enjoying her evenings with someone else bro.

3. Could your dreams be unreal? I doubt

Gentlevin:
@op. sit with her and talk things out. But hw can she live comfortably with d guy and say its nothing. Abi she be corper? Na dem sabi dis kind thin oo. HW CAN U KEEP FUEL NEAR FIRE AND U SAY "...IT'S NOTHIN'....I weak oooo

Exactly my thoughts. It's like keeping chicken as pet, you will eat it someday

Which kind boy talk b dz...person dey pound ur girl yam every night, u still dey talk lyk person wey dey collect hin bread on a plate of beans....

Ur gf dey gv ur dinner to anoda man chop daily, u sti dey tlk luv.......iraanu

Make friend with a close neighbour ,especially a street guy,and set up Intel's,then pay surprise visit ,if anything is happening u will see an uneasy reaction between the two,but the guy go still pretend.

Mr man,If u c anybody wey mumu/foolish pass u, u supoz sue am say hw e go foolish reach u....... #ode oshi.

My bro, she's up to something... Try to kiss her in the presence of the guy... But some guys don't care as far as she gives it to them free.. Or better still investigate and compare his d*ck size to yours, then you will get the best answer....

NaijaElba:


Wasere baba.....nice comment!!

Two of you are dumb, what's there to go and observe like they will be that stupid to do the do when he's around.

Kayoski:
Fiancée? its better you start addressing her as your ex

no mind d didirin

sexy74:
pally the earlier you go for deliverance to get sense the better for you.

u just killed itsha

Stupid Man! These are the kind of men that make women think men are dumb and foolish and stupid enough to be lied to and played.

You should have been a man and ended this shit instead of coming here to cry in public like a dickless, spineless SheMan.

I guess you love being the OtherGuy... Keep it up. But if you want a long and happy life, then walk away now, today, this moment as you read this. Walk Away with your head held high and your shoulder straight.

wonders

You are not serious. Keep dreaming. Go and rent house for her if she is truly your fiancee. For me is bad to assurm she is cheating on you but as long as you have a second taught end the relation because you don't trust her eventualy you got married to her you will still suspect her.