Mac2016:


She offered even begged to stay with me and Did I even do anything here? Or ure reading from the back... Save your emotions and advise pls and stop getting things twisted!

OfofoLagos1:
NO One is free from Cheating and Never Brake your Relationship because she or He cheats. Instruct her to leave the place. if she insisted staying with the Guy, you can stop calling and showing care. never brake up yet. sometimes we don't need a brake up we just need the Brake.

egopersonified:
na WA ooo. So no nairalander can even defend this girl and someone is defending Evans in court, is this not wickedness.

Op, the thing that keeps bugging me is, how can you not know that she is staying with a colleague till you paid her a visit? Is it that you guys don't talk or what? Was she deliberately hiding it from you? Even if the relationship is a week old, these are basic facts you should know.

NaijaElba:


You won't understand if you are not in op's shoe......spending time with her don't necessarily mean she will be caught in the act...but I am 80% sure he will get the clue he needs to enable him ascertain if the gf is sleeping with the so called flat mate or room mate. Or it might be another person away....

Nnamaka1:
May it be onto you as you have done to others! Oya say Amen if you feel your action was justified. Lol

Beey:
In most developed countries, people share apartments especially students to cut down on expenses of renting.It's common to find male & female roommates living together and it's strictly business with no strings attached.What I find strange though is that all this time you've been dating, she never cared to open up to you about her living situation.That then leaves one wondering what was she covering because if she can't confide in her fiancé, then who else?But what worries me is that you two dated to the point of engagement without knowing where she lives.You were too trusting.

jashar:
Edakun, someone should epp me and the OP with that 'Na so' meme.

Thank a bundle.

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

Mac2016:

I hear you oo... Lol. Naughty bae

patola080:
if he likes he can spend a year dia if d guy & d lady re slpin together dey will still do it under his nose dey will just add slpin drugs inside his food at night &d show will going on or dey will take dia time in office. Think twice please

Gourdoinc:
oga please address her properly. OUR FIANCE. also is she aware she is your fiance. because alot of you men go about saying an olosho is your fiance. what exactly made her ur fiance ? when and how did she show loyalty to demand you engage her for a life time journey. foolish boy

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

Goldfaze1:
MY BIGGEST PROBLEM WITH GIRLS IS THAT THEY KNOW IN THEIR HEART THAT THEY ARE NOT COMPLETELY IN LOVE WITH A GUY YET THEY ACCEPT HIS RING AND PUT ON THEIR FINGER THEN HIDE AND CHEAT WHY NOT REJECT THE RING AND BE A FREE PERSON TILL THE ONE YOU FULLY LOVE GIVES YOU A RING, AS FOR YOU TOPIC DON'T GET IT TWISTED YOU CANT ASK A CAT TO KEEP YOUR FISH FOR YOU.

1stCitizen:
At the rate Nigerians girls have thrown all decency to the wind, sooner or later the average Nigerian man will end up marrying an olosho.

Nnamaka1:
Lol. Point taken! Happy Sunday!

Odingo1:

There is no need for the girl to tell him since they are not intimate, the day that the girl that I am living with came with the boyfriend,the man did not know that she is sharing apartment with a man,two bed room flat,but sha it look somehow in eyes of people but nothing is happening.But sha sometimes person thing dey rise up oo,but i nogo fall my hand.

donifez:
I have shared a space with some girls, some even come to my room to sleep then. Nothing sexual happened. We are still good friends, call , hang-out and all. They even have boyfriends. Everything can't be sex, sex, sex. Nawa ooh

Kayoski:
Fiancée? its better you start addressing her as your ex

Papiikush:
I am tempted to call you a dummy but I realized sometimes love can make a man so blind he wouldn't be able to see a cliff he is about to walk off.

We have all been there...Juat walk away from the relationship already because your fiance is already giving another man head.

Oluwapresley:
I once thought that a lady and a guy with clean minds won't have any problem staying together.. but that mentality changed when I stayed with a lady myself.. I don't wanna paint pictures in your head, bro but if I paint pictures of what happened between us............. I don't wanna be d cause of a break up..

Papiikush:
I am tempted to call you a dummy but I realized sometimes love can make a man so blind he wouldn't be able to see a cliff he is about to walk off.

We have all been there...Juat walk away from the relationship already because your fiance is already giving another man head.

Goldfaze1:
MY BIGGEST PROBLEM WITH GIRLS IS THAT THEY KNOW IN THEIR HEART THAT THEY ARE NOT COMPLETELY IN LOVE WITH A GUY YET THEY ACCEPT HIS RING AND PUT ON THEIR FINGER THEN HIDE AND CHEAT WHY NOT REJECT THE RING AND BE A FREE PERSON TILL THE ONE YOU FULLY LOVE GIVES YOU A RING, AS FOR YOU TOPIC DON'T GET IT TWISTED YOU CANT ASK A CAT TO KEEP YOUR FISH FOR YOU.

Odingo1:

NO;the guy will be the one that rented the apartment and girl beg him for one room he is not making use of. That thing happen to me and I gave the room to the girl and nothing is happening between us.,It is just sympathy in my own case.