Kayoski:
Fiancée? its better you start addressing her as your ex

Djbush:


Hi there,

There is a 50/50 chance that your girl is sleeping with her flat mate, the senior colleague. But what the heck if she sleeps with the guy? That does not mean that she won't be a good wife to you!

Believe me, your girls flatmate might have a serious girl friend, while your girl has a serious relationship (which is you).

Disabuse your mind from negative thought​s. I'm sure everything will work out in your favour.

frenzyduchess:
Firstly, no responsible lady will house a guy who is not family, if the financial burden of rent is too much why not get a smaller place. If she was my sister, I will slap the hell out of her for telling me its nothing,some ladies self ,like someone suggested spend the weekend there and you wikk find out all you need to know, and be prepared for the worse

Adelekeee:
....what if nothing happened in her own room for a month or ...or she saw it & acted on it for him,...makes him more foolish thinking he has been wrong for suspecting her,...obviously that kinda person will be wise to be very careful with all after the guy's visitation...its people like you that makes playing fun for those....no disrespect...

kenex4ever:
u can't find out by spending a month there if they don't want u to.

Let him be visiting the girl unexpectedly, have some one in d area to monitor them- the way they relate when they go to buy things together on d street, if really u want to stay with her-u can only know by monitoring her phone chats without her suspecting u do.

sexy74:
pally the earlier you go for deliverance to get sense the better for you.

iluvpomo:
Sister Julie, which other proof do you need again?? The lady no de answer phone between 7pm and 2am at night ..... you can guess what is going on that time

iluvpomo:
Sister Julie, which other proof do you need again?? The lady no de answer phone between 7pm and 2am at night ..... you can guess what is going on that time

freshvine:
Buy a small recording device, visit her and hid it underneath her bed. Go back there a week after and seal your fate.

Bamidele539:
what type of recording device can last up to a week without the power been drained?

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

ALEXIS0240:
Thats if she gree open door for am.him go sleep outside that day.

then that would confirm all his suspicion and he'd have to do the needful
viz:
fvcking kick her ass out
after bleeping her hard for one last time sha

freshvine:


https://www.ebay.com/p/Mini-Spy-Voice-Recorder-Sound-Activated-Listening-Device-286-Hours-Capacity-4gb/705765183?iid=122522930552

Hopefully this will cure your ignorance

lilyheaven:

, let me gist you small. One faithful night, I went to change a catheter, as I held the penis , it was erected, I looked at him, his eyes was all red, I was so scared, with his eyes, I didn't know when I started praying. Because I was alone in the room with him. Anyways with God's help I did my job and ran away from his room.

thorpido:
You should make out time to spend some days with her.You will find out all you need to know then.

frenzyduchess:
for me this is just all shades, if you are in a SERIOUS relationship ,never give room for your partner to doubt your loyalty, i dont just know what is wrong with the generation. That's how my ex was claiming just friends with a lady, he even gave me the phone to talk to her ,only for her to send me a whatsapp picture of their after sex moment simply becos my ex and i had issues. so personally I don't believe in just friends bullshit

lilyheaven:

Ye, it is, but how much can a therapist do for me, I have read so many books, watched pons movie,
I can't imaging telling anybody about this.

kenex4ever:
true, people want to eat their cake n have it.

When I was serving, my best friend had a corper girl in d next compound, he was batch A n me B so he left d town b4 me, after he left his girl kept visiting me and even started to sleep in my room because she said her compound is quiet and her only cotenant travelled. At night she will expose her under wear while asleep, sometimes am tempted to touch but I remember my guy and I just keep my calm.
Many corpers thought we were dating because they heard she sleeps in my room but my guys knew nothing was happening because I told them and they even tab me because of it.
D girl is married now, and when I wished her Hml she told me dat it could have been us if not dat i was forming pastor.

Back to d topic, it takes a lot for two opposite sex to live together without falling to d temptation, had d girl slept in my room for a longer time, I probably would have yielded.

frenzyduchess:
you see, I will personally not allow it,I cannot even sleep on the same bed with my brother, maybe it how i was brought up o ,not to talk of just friends except i want it to graduate to something else of which seduction is a stupid way to go about it, what happened to talking about it. I read some things and i just shake my head.

InvertedHammer:


Your problem is bigger than I can imagine.

Even if you see them going at it, you will still believe that they are merely wrestling bc you are a confirmed idiot. Sorry for the harsh word. I don't know how else to get it into your thick skull. What manner of fiancee!? What is wrong with you!?
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Vision4God:
@ Jahspet
I think it's time u concentrate on things that will add value to ur life. D lady has her own agenda different from yours

frenzyduchess:
you see, I will personally not allow it,I cannot even sleep on the same bed with my brother, maybe it how i was brought up o ,not to talk of just friends except i want it to graduate to slmething else of which seduction is a stupid wau to go about it, what happened to talking about it. I read some things and i just shake my head.