My girlfriend (who is my first) posted a picture of herself with as she termed a random dude.
She said its no big deal which I see as a very big deal.

Let me introduce myself.... I am a fresh graduate and I have never dated before. I have known this girl for quite sometime and we just started dating. I love her very much and would love to get married to her next year ending.

But there is this character of her I don't like at all. She feels too comfortable around guys and there was an evening she held a guys hands while we returned from church service.... the guy even called her his wife. We weren't dating then so when she said she doesn't have a thing for him..... I stupidly believed it all.


However posting pics with a guy is the biggest I can choke on. I need advice because I think love don block my brains and eyes.


NB: The phone she used to post it.... I just bought it for her a few weeks ago and even subscribed it. She has never posted my pics.

The main problem I have is her still love her


This is her post ..

Is she ur girlfriend

mods pls front page..... I need answers....
I can't think straight

How do we help you. Even if we advice you, the onus is still on you to do what is right and just.

slayking:
How do we help you. Even if we advice you, the onus is still on you to do what is right and just.

Just give me an unbiased opinion.... cos I am really confused

People are committing suicide upandan...


Not really a bad idea if you ask me

mordsith:
mods pls front page..... I need answers....

I can't think straight

what answers do you need?

Indomie Generation...smh...

Why did you go into relationship with her in the first place ?

The OP wants unbiased answer o, so here is mine...

How do we really know who that guy is (when you don't even know if you are her bf)? I suggest you 1st get to know what kind of r/ship you and that babe have. ASK HER and If she says that you are her bf then tell to change her FB status from single to in a relationship with you. If she refuses then you can move on with your life, as you are worthless to her.

Haba my guy, are you blind, its pretty obvious that girl is just remotely intrested in you,

Why even date a woman who is comfortable around guys, those kind girls are not marriage material.

More like friends with benefit, girls like that are only good for 1 thing......well you know

How can i bought a phone, do subscription for you & you refused to upload my pics on ur profile but some random dude who probably just finish screwing you!!!

Brother end dis thinh b4 its too late, your nothing but a low class mugu to her, dont forget to collect ur phone, only ur wife deserves such gifts

1st question....was she single when you guys started dating...if no, boss try and confirm if she has really done with the guy. if yes...women love adventures, talk some sense into her.

OrestesDante:

Is that Morgan Freeman in props?

The problem of Nigeria is greater than all this trivial issue na

Op mke we hear better word jare

Quick question..hope u got a phone for that relative that has been pleading for one from u

That was how my elder bros went and bought a phone bigger than his for his so called gf while i have been pleading for even itel fone from him for ages...tell me one reason why that relationship will work with my badluck prayers

Guys can mumu sha...

MrBrownJay1:
The OP wants unbiased answer o, so here is mine...

How do we really know who that guy is (when you don't even know if you are her bf)? I suggest you 1st get to know what kind of r/ship you and that babe have. [b]ASK HER and If she says that you are her bf then tell to change her FB status from single to in a relationship with you. [/b]If she refuses then you can move on with your life, as you are worthless to her.

Haba! Do you think that will stop a girl from cheating

Op, my advice is to have a dialogue with her... Most ladies(like me) don't love social media relationship... Few people know my boyfriend and I doubt if I've three of his pics on my phone, does it meanim cheating? Or maybe I don't love him enough?

Check yourself and her attitude towards you... Don't let nairaland people to push you into ruining a supposed beautiful relationship o

refiner:
Quick question..hope u got a phone for that relative that has been pleading for one from u

That was how my elder bros went and bought a phone bigger than his for his so called gf while i have been pleading for even itel fone from him for ages...tell me one reason why that relationship will work with my badluck prayers

Guys can mumu sha...

Hahahahaha....... Your brother drank love potion.

Are you from Kenya?

NevetsIbot:
Hahahahaha....... Your brother drank love potion.

seriously some bros are like dat,d story is even worse for my own brother,my immediate broa nids money for something vital from him which he kips pending the dude...whereas he bought phones(androids) for his gf,rented and furnished a shop for her,gives her makeup&hairdo money...d girl is his legit babe now tho,bt no matter what,to me o,brodas first,friends(bossom ones)second,then babe...
bck to d matter...bro,no girl is worth sweating over o,ask her to show yu off too on fb and tag some loving words,if she objects to dat,dnt chase her away o,jst delete d love yu av for her in ur mind(turn her to lashmate) till yu find better babe.
for ur info,kos e b like say yu be jjc for d game,"love a girl only when she's loyal and loving yu alone,once she changes,start executing plan B too"

refiner:
Quick question..hope u got a phone for that relative that has been pleading for one from u

That was how my elder bros went and bought a phone bigger than his for his so called gf while i have been pleading for even itel fone from him for ages...[/b]tell me one reason why that relationship will work with my badluck prayers[b]

Guys can mumu sha...

I can relate to that....

CROWNWEALTH019:
Are you from Kenya?

ppl from kenya must be daft?

This story is cooked up, my fellow naija guys cant do wut the op is doing...Stupeed man

Ur a full grown mumu

She no be ur girlfriend.u guys are just friends from wat i read from ur writeup.na for ur mind u dey imagine say she be ur babe.buying fone and subscribing for a woman doesn't make her ur girlfriend.

Relax bro, you're not the her bf.

bro I will advice u...........













are u still dating her, my friend leave her alone....................










lots of decent ladies are out there looking for decent guy like u.............







u are now dere wasting ur time on 1 bitch...................






my friend if u don't leave her by 2morow...............









the thunder that will fire u...........





will come in 4D+ form

Airtimex:
People are committing suicide upandan...


Not really a bad idea if you ask me

Why evuls
Repentance fall on you with heavy noise

refiner:
Quick question..hope u got a phone for that relative that has been pleading for one from u

That was how my elder bros went and bought a phone bigger than his for his so called gf while i have been pleading for even itel fone from him for ages...tell me one reason why that relationship will work with my badluck prayers

Guys can mumu sha...

lol, this gal na werey

My guy congrats...You are the maga, he is the fvcker.

Just accept your role in good faith

Or better still, put love aside and put your thinking cap on...

Ordinary picture and you're complaining. So what if you bought the phone and paid the sub. Still be observant and man up bro. Yes it's you're first I understand. If I were in your shoes, I'd be happy she doesnt upload my pics. That's old school. Focus on if she loves you or not. That should be your goal man. She can have 10 guys and still love you. We are in a century where it's hard for a lady to have just one guy. Face it. So be more sensitive... Less insecure. If it doesn't work for you, don't give you. That's life. Life is unfair