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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Mynd44: 10:51am On Jul 08, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Most. Not all. Leave the ones who don't mind to their beliefs 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Nobody: 10:51am On Jul 08, 2017 |
optional1:Na to bring girl from village or to start matchmaking. Nigerian mamas no dey waste time. |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by jchioma: 10:51am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Mynd44: Ok o! Perhaps, if your father reasoned like you, you may not have been born |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by jaychubi: 10:52am On Jul 08, 2017 |
lalabrother: If not for children I dnt see d reason for marriage. Love and all those nonsense is an illusion. My wife must be 3 months pregnant b4 serious marriage plans begin |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 10:53am On Jul 08, 2017 |
AmoryBlacq:No mind them jawe 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Nobody: 10:54am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Mynd44:Lmao. |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by AmoryBlacq: 10:55am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Mynd44: lol! well you know what they say different strokes for different folks but you don't have to be married before you have a junior mynd4 to carry your ideas and values you could adopt one today. |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Mynd44: 10:56am On Jul 08, 2017 |
jchioma:Did I ask to be born? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by PregnancyExpert: 10:56am On Jul 08, 2017 |
As far the woman has womb, why not? She can still bear children. The man too can still produce as long as his joystick still functions. We now have cure for infertility and its working for most people now. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Nobody: 10:56am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Mynd44:People like you are rare. Impressive 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Mynd44: 10:57am On Jul 08, 2017 |
AmoryBlacq:But I want a connection with that special someone too. Sue me 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Oyindidi(f): 10:57am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Me77:Be careful what you wish for. |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by sisisioge: 10:57am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Mynd44: Awwww...you've got a beautiful heart Oga. I wonder will you carry a sledgehammer about though I will too. Although your account won't be the reason, mine would be because I know there are other options avail. We could still have children. Also, I wouldn't want to embarrass him, our feelings, our agreement, my family, his family, our friends and the entire society by acting like a stone aged bimbo...this is the jet age, God and science are in out favour |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by churchillfrank(m): 10:57am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Me77:See reasoning, there are different kinds of people in this world o |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by missyadorable(f): 10:58am On Jul 08, 2017 |
No, I won't My society expects a woman to be married and have kids latest 1 year after marriage Why will I go ahead and marry a man who can't produce children when I am sure that if I am in his shoes,he won't hesitate to kick me out and marry another woman? Answer to question: Capital NO 5 Likes |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Martin0(m): 10:58am On Jul 08, 2017 |
optional1:my dear I agree to what u said ooo,I be nigerian man ooo then again with how I do live my life I don't think my parents will intrigue into my life or my decision,I did grow that way...what you said normally e dey happen ooo I have withnessed but have not experience it...Abeg ooo coz she nor fit give birth na wa for u ooo is it her fault that kind lackadaisical attitude nor dey our family,my cousin has been married for 5year's now without a child and his heading to 50 now why his wife is about clocking 46 why didn't he divorce or marry another,the family I came from is not known for divorce or marrying a second wife though bible did not condemn marrying a second but we are not known for such...u eh dey find my mouth.. |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Awoo88: 10:59am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Mynd44:I can you have never been married!!! Not having children after years of marriage will put a big strain on you and your partner. |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by bettercreature(m): 11:00am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Impossible! Not in this life time. |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by optional1(f): 11:01am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Tahrah: and he will be like *mum i love this girl, she is the one who picked me from the gutter and made me who i am today, mum is God who gives children. God will surely give us our own at the right time* this is Nigeria not America. |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by urchman101(m): 11:02am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Destined2win:Well, you are right in your own sense. I think we should also understand that most, if not all barren women never chose to be barren. This is something that can happen to anybody, even if we don't pray for it. Yeah, I understand that there is a level of joy that comes with having your own flesh and blood, a child you can truly call your own. It's doesn't mean that the barren should be left out neither should adoption option be ruled out also. |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Nobody: 11:03am On Jul 08, 2017 |
lalabrother: yes and no |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by profhezekiah: 11:04am On Jul 08, 2017 |
yes If she is a virgin |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Omoluabi16(m): 11:04am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Hell no! Children are one of those important spices that brings completeness and fulfilment in marriage. I love kids way too much to have a marriage without them. |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by azeezat22(f): 11:04am On Jul 08, 2017 |
I will because I believed if I put God first in anything in life no matter how difficult it maybe it will surely be possible 0 |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Romerocollins: 11:07am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Very easy to say than done, just pray you never find your self in that situation. |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by ussy09(m): 11:07am On Jul 08, 2017 |
First I will find out the cause that led her to be infertile , if is as a result of many abortions or any man made sickness drawn upon her self by her own self then I will wave her good bye but if d problem is natural n unrecognize I will go ahead n marry her after all some children self en.. ... but we hope for d best. 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by wjxavier(m): 11:09am On Jul 08, 2017 |
I did. We went to MeCure, did expensive tests, and all of them said she couldn't have kids. All this before the wedding. She had had fibroid surgery before we met. My Dad is a surgeon, and I was somehow silly enough to mention it to him. He swore he wouldn't support it. Mum too. Siblings queued with them. For many reasons, I disappointed them. First, I felt and still feel a parent has no place in choosing your spouse. It is your life. They've lived theirs. Secondly, she was a 10 for me. Long story short, I went ahead and married her even though nobody from my family attended. Yes, the tests came out a week to the wedding! But I effin went ahead. (You gotta know what you want in this life...or else) I did it. I did it because I am a person of faith. I wasn't just arrogant or stubborn. I had a strategy. I knew that impossible is nothing with my God. I knew that the word of God is a laser that can address and redress any issue of life. I knew I didn't need to fast. I just needed to declare the Word. Whenever she saw her period, she would be sad, but I'd drag her around the house and dance. "There shall be no barren in Israel." In November, 5 months after our wedding, she missed her P. Pic below is us. PS: Not everybody can do this, so do not embark on this journey if you don't have the balls AND THE FAITH for it. PPS: Faith is not belief. Faith is the words you declare that agree with God concerning your life. 15 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by optional1(f): 11:11am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Martin0: guys forget that thing jor, your cousin and you are you guys same.. Your cousin married late. Beside the question said 1week to the wedding will you not after marriage... I said imagine you the only child of your parent.. Even if they can't detest who you will marry, my dear you can't marry such lady if you reach that bridge... Pray such won't help to us... |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Gloria3389(f): 11:11am On Jul 08, 2017 |
I can |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by jchioma: 11:12am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Mynd44: Now, you are really being funny! Anyway, you are entitled to your opinion and views. But, no talk am for where your old man dey o! |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 11:14am On Jul 08, 2017 |
jaychubi:Baba e never reach that level nah |
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by optional1(f): 11:15am On Jul 08, 2017 |
wjxavier: wow lovely family God protect your family... 2 Likes |
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