Me77:
Yes of course. Marriage is perfect without children, children ruined marriages. If only I can find a barren woman to marry all all my life, they're simply the perfect wife's.
Big love to all the barren women.

jchioma:




Hiaan! Easier said than done. No bi African man? When the pressure becomes too much, he may even be forced to marry a second wife or a side chick.

urchman101:

Well, you are right in your own sense. I think we should also understand that most, if not all barren women never chose to be barren. This is something that can happen to anybody, even if we don't pray for it. Yeah, I understand that there is a level of joy that comes with having your own flesh and blood, a child you can truly call your own. It's doesn't mean that the barren should be left out neither should adoption option be ruled out also.

swimmer:


See shallow thinking. Is it u that make children? Or u think childless people like to be childless? U re a kid tho

martineverest:
what if u are impotent? Will u advise wife to meet another man?

Martin0:
Nna eh na wa ooo,abeg oo I nor wan die young ooo,u bring in a second wife to liv with someone u ve lived with for many year's hmmm that where the home go just scatter I can't take such risk ooo adoption win am ooo chioma,for sure presure will come but mehn I nor go fit accommodate two women in my life ooo,just coz of child wey she nor born hian Nna aaaaaa ...but what u said is true sha,but in my own case I nor want problem oo

optional1:




guys forget that thing jor,

your cousin and you are you guys same.. Your cousin married late.



Beside the question said 1week to the wedding will you not after marriage...

I said imagine you the only child of your parent.. Even if they can't detest who you will marry, my dear you can't marry such lady if you reach that bridge...


Pray such won't help to us...

Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

jchioma:

Lol! I understand your fears.

Destined2win:


I think people who say this deceive themselves, there is a joy you have realizing you have your own flesh and blood, a child you can truly call your own.

The one you want to adopt, no be person born am? If everybody is Okay with inability to give birth, where will you see the one you will adopt. Abegiii leave matter

benlay:


If u write to get likes... you know that yourself. If it has not happened to u, you don't know how it feels. People say that until they face reality. I was there before. When people start asking questions then you want to proof that u don't have problem but your wife, and u go outside your marriage to have a child, do u think your marriage will still stay? If you know the process of adoption, u will run. Think about it... our elders say "oo ji ya oni ogbon, tani teacher re"? (if you have not experience hardship, u can't claim u are wise otherwise who was your teacher)

StOla:
I will if I truly love the woman, but on the condition that I will marry a second wife who will have my own children.

I don't have sperm cells for fun. I must reproduce since I am biologically capable.

Adoption has never been an option with me, when I am biologically fit to have my own. If both husband and wife are infertile, then adoption becomes the only choice.

Mynd44:

Did I ask to be born?

lalabrother:
Would you still marry your lover if you discovered a week to your wedding that they can not have children?

A week to a wedding, both families of the couple would be upbeat with preparations to make sure that all arrangements are made for a successful ceremony. But Saturday Punch is asking Nigerians whether during such preparation, they would still go ahead to wed if they found out their intended life partner can’t have children? Keep ur genuine answers coming...

Source: punching.com

PS: am sorry if this is in the wrong segment, mod pls modify and help move the post to the right segment. Thanks

matrix600:
are you saying a person that is unable to have a child doesn't deserve to be married?

If Yes, that is totally unfair to those people, and that would leave a black mark on the virtues of the marital institution. Meaning that marriage is not meant for all.

If No, then you believe that the ones who marry these people are deceiving themselves.

You underestimate the power of choice.

matrix600:
are you saying a person that is unable to have a child doesn't deserve to be married?

If Yes, that is totally unfair to those people, and that would leave a black mark on the virtues of the marital institution. Meaning that marriage is not meant for all.

If No, then you believe that the ones who marry these people are deceiving themselves.

You underestimate the power of choice.

Blackhawk03:


Hahahaha


You're crazie

optional1:



and he will be like

*mum i love this girl, she is the one who picked me from the gutter and made me who i am today, mum is God who gives children. God will surely give us our own at the right time*

this is Nigeria not America.

Destined2win:
I am not ruling out adoption for others bUT nobody should be comfortable with it. I am addressing the answer based on the question asked.

To me nobody is barren, I can't marry someone accepting that the person will never be able to conceive. I'd rather not marry the person. If I eventually marry the person, it's with the belief that she'd be able to conceive.

Olukat:
There's nothing wrong in getting married to a lady that has a child.
Love should be the base of every relationship not circumstances;
I am married with children but also have children that are not biologically mine, I treat them like mine.
I wish I have more resources to take in more kids.

lalabrother:
[b]Would you still marry your lover if you discovered a week to your wed
Source: punching.com

PS: am sorry if this is in the wrong segment, mod pls modify and help move the post to the right segment. Thanks

tosyne2much:
When the frustration heaped on the woman from family members is unbearable , she might be forced to bring in another man's child for her husband to father.

StOla:
I will if I truly love the woman, but on the condition that I will marry a second wife who will have my own children.

I don't have sperm cells for fun. I must reproduce since I am biologically capable.

Adoption has never been an option with me, when I am biologically fit to have my own. If both husband and wife are infertile, then adoption becomes the only choice.

Destined2win:
That's not nice. Nobody should accept barreneness. It's not natural

tosyne2much:
I think in an issue like this, let's learn to argue like a typical Nigerian but not like a foreigner

Let me tell you something, no one is completely fulfilled without being able to bear a child. Even people who adopt children did it because it's their last resort.

Destined2win:


I think people who say this deceive themselves, there is a joy you have realizing you have your own flesh and blood, a child you can truly call your own.

The one you want to adopt, no be person born am? If everybody is Okay with inability to give birth, where will you see the one you will adopt. Abegiii leave matter

Me77:
Yes of course. Marriage is perfect without children, children ruined marriages. If only I can find a barren woman to marry all all my life, they're simply the perfect wife's.
Big love to all the barren women.