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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Chukazu: 5:33pm On Jul 08, 2017
This is what you get when some delusional folks think they are the only candidates for Heaven...

Direct your questions to Gabriel Osu of Catholic secretariat TBS
Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by francisbiz: 5:34pm On Jul 08, 2017
ikechizoba:
I came from a staunch Catholic family, my dad is a knight, he has held many positions in various catholic association, right now he is down with partial stroke for the past nine years now.

In 2014, I got married to my Anglican husband with the full support from my parents,but my daddy's only sister, who lives in the village,was strongly against it,she fought our kinsmen when they secretly anchored our first for the fear of being reported to the church, threatening to report to the parish priest, saying that Catholics are not allowed to marry non Catholics in our village,she went ahead and reported l and my parents to the church.

Due to my dads condition, they couldn't go, so i went alone but was shocked at what the priest told me, he made me choose between the two churches, making it clear that if i wed in Anglican, that I have chosen darkness over light.

To cut the long story short, I successfully got married but my aunt made her own family and our kindred not to attend my traditional marriage, it was rather attended by the non Catholics, and also the church made my parents not to attend my white wedding, that if they attend, that they will not bury them when they die. But now, even without attending my white wedding, the church still insists that they will not bury my parents if they die since they allowed me to marry an Anglican, except if they openly apologize to the whole church.

My question is apologize for what? Please am not trying to paint catholic black, I was a devoted catholic even till now, but this?? pls NL, I need the address to the head of catholic church in Nigeria,I need answer to this please question
Why did you hide your state of origin?
I am dead sure you are from anambra state, that is where there are such deadly divisions in Christianity.
Always pushing their children to become Rev. Fathers sisters, even when they do not have the spiritual calling, just for the financial gain.

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Erhun10z: 5:34pm On Jul 08, 2017
Movingcoil:

Maybe the imbecility that is irredeemable in your family DNA never allowed you to comprehend where I wrote that "anyi Na agba war" and that my church is not what I believe in.
I don't blame you cos if the old hag who it's sperm you germinated from were used to plant mango and cashew as manure, Nigeria may be exporting those fruits and getting more revenue apart from oil and ridding this planet a toxic and corrosive substance like you.
Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jul 08, 2017
Apina:

It's really a pity that you had to bring such a sensitive issue Down here for every dick and harry who has little or no knowledge of how things are done in the church to advise U on what they don't know about. I won't blame just the priest, I also blame u for not knowing what's obtainable cos if u do, by now u would have called his threats bluff. Ur parents are practising Catholics and the priest cannot deny them the last rites, his light and darkness comparison was uncalled for even if it was to dissuade u. I believe he's not the only priest in the diocese, there are others who would gladly do the needful. U saying they all think alike(Priests) is wrong, u are just bothering Urself for no reason.
Don't mind the foolish gal. She has not even petitioned her Bishop but quickly runs to Nairaland just to embarrass the Church. Well, you are too small. Over the ages greater forces have fought the Church and failed. You silly rant will make zero impact.

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by kevoh(m): 5:38pm On Jul 08, 2017
Make una marry atheists, una no go hear! tongue We don't have wahala! wink We don't discriminate like the Orthodox and Pentecostal churches do angry or like the Shia and Sunni muslims do. We rarely grace the frontpage of Nairaland with news of divorce, wife/husband beating, paedophile case, rape, drinking of Pastor's holy milk undecided e.t.c A trial will convince you.

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by AnaCheks(m): 5:38pm On Jul 08, 2017
ikechizoba:
I came from a staunch Catholic family, my dad is a knight, he has held many positions in various catholic association, right now he is down with partial stroke for the past nine years now.

In 2014, I got married to my Anglican husband with the full support from my parents,but my daddy's only sister, who lives in the village,was strongly against it,she fought our kinsmen when they secretly anchored our first for the fear of being reported to the church, threatening to report to the parish priest, saying that Catholics are not allowed to marry non Catholics in our village,she went ahead and reported l and my parents to the church.

Due to my dads condition, they couldn't go, so i went alone but was shocked at what the priest told me, he made me choose between the two churches, making it clear that if i wed in Anglican, that I have chosen darkness over light.

To cut the long story short, I successfully got married but my aunt made her own family and our kindred not to attend my traditional marriage, it was rather attended by the non Catholics, and also the church made my parents not to attend my white wedding, that if they attend, that they will not bury them when they die. But now, even without attending my white wedding, the church still insists that they will not bury my parents if they die since they allowed me to marry an Anglican, except if they openly apologize to the whole church.

My question is apologize for what? Please am not trying to paint catholic black, I was a devoted catholic even till now, but this?? pls NL, I need the address to the head of catholic church in Nigeria,I need answer to this please question
And you came here to ask NL? Go and ask Pope na
Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Nobody: 5:40pm On Jul 08, 2017
it shouldn't matter.
Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by asksteve(m): 5:41pm On Jul 08, 2017
I'm also a Catholic n must say its surprising to hear this. But without being told I no u r from d East cos dat is d only place dose laws apply.
If Anglican dat is d closet to Catholic is not accepted den I wonder wat dey would have said had it being a Muslim.

Whether they bury ur parents or not if they are heaven bound nothing can stop dem.

Cos we attach too much importance to how a person is buried n not how he/she lived his/her life we get threatened in life n in death.

D Lord is your strength

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by ezugegere(m): 5:41pm On Jul 08, 2017
Afamed:

That's what my Quran teaches me my brother. " To them with their Religion and to me with my Religion" Who I am to criticize others? Ma Sallam.

Tell me about Sunni and Shia pls!
Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Erhun10z: 5:41pm On Jul 08, 2017
Movingcoil:

Maybe the imbecility that is irredeemable in your family DNA never allowed you to comprehend where I wrote that "anyi Na agba war" and that my church is not what I believe in.
I don't blame you cos if the old hag who it's sperm you germinated from were used to plant mango and cashew as manure, Nigeria may be exporting those fruits and getting more revenue apart from oil and ridding this planet a toxic and corrosive substance like you.
Honourable Professor Emeretus Of Spermatology And Agricultural Scince, I Salute You. But You Should Have Told Me Earlier That It Was Your Uncle Who Impregnated Your Mother Because Your Dad Was Not Anywhere Near The Task.The Type Of JESUS You Displayed Now Is Very Wonderful, I Believe It Was Thesame JESUS Your G.Os Are Displaying That Is Why You Guys Are Having Several Court Cases. And You Say You Do JESUS Not CHURCH. Let Sense Fall On You And Grow Up Man.

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Nobody: 5:42pm On Jul 08, 2017
Leopantro:
Can you give the agitated members a copy of the bible and ask them to point out where Catholics or Anglican is written in the Bible or where it is written been Anglican or Catholic are guaranteed entry into Heaven?
She can't. She doesn't even know the true meaning if being a knight, otherwise she wouldnt be posting such disgrace here. I dont even think she knows the foundation of Catholicism and everything that is birthed by it......free her

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by omoelerin1: 5:42pm On Jul 08, 2017
probably it happened in biafraland because biafrans are religious biggot.

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by dumodust(m): 5:43pm On Jul 08, 2017
ikechizoba:


This is nothing but the truth,it happened to me not someone else,l wish l could give you an address but l don't want to prolong this problem
its been happening my dear, you are not the first. crazy lot trying to enslave even your unborn kids

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by hugoboss70(m): 5:43pm On Jul 08, 2017
Homeboiy:
Me wey de attend catholic na just for show


I was baptized in Anglican n changed to Catholic

I was told that I need to be re baptized in Catholic _I said no


Well...Na only 3times I don go church since this year

They r always preaching about money always
point of corrections an Anglican converting to catholic doesn't need baptism he is welcomed to the church

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by kpolli(m): 5:44pm On Jul 08, 2017
ikechizoba:
I came from a staunch Catholic family, my dad is a knight, he has held many positions in various catholic association, right now he is down with partial stroke for the past nine years now.

In 2014, I got married to my Anglican husband with the full support from my parents,but my daddy's only sister, who lives in the village,was strongly against it,she fought our kinsmen when they secretly anchored our first for the fear of being reported to the church, threatening to report to the parish priest, saying that Catholics are not allowed to marry non Catholics in our village,she went ahead and reported l and my parents to the church.

Due to my dads condition, they couldn't go, so i went alone but was shocked at what the priest told me, he made me choose between the two churches, making it clear that if i wed in Anglican, that I have chosen darkness over light.

To cut the long story short, I successfully got married but my aunt made her own family and our kindred not to attend my traditional marriage, it was rather attended by the non Catholics, and also the church made my parents not to attend my white wedding, that if they attend, that they will not bury them when they die. But now, even without attending my white wedding, the church still insists that they will not bury my parents if they die since they allowed me to marry an Anglican, except if they openly apologize to the whole church.

My question is apologize for what? Please am not trying to paint catholic black, I was a devoted catholic even till now, but this?? pls NL, I need the address to the head of catholic church in Nigeria,I need answer to this please question

That's sad, just enjoy your marriage.... Churches don't bury people, their family does that.... If they don't want to officiate the burial, get others to help with that.... If I were you, I will be glad to be out of that organization... Any organization that is so unforgiving and judgmental shouldn't be for you and your family.

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by MEILYN(m): 5:45pm On Jul 08, 2017
Mtchewww..... Who cares about churches sef?

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by dumodust(m): 5:47pm On Jul 08, 2017
jagugu88li:
She can't. She doesn't even know the true meaning if being a knight, otherwise she wouldnt be posting such disgrace here. I dont even think she knows the foundation of Catholicism and everything that is birthed by it......free her


please what is the true meaning of being a knight? all i see is some ceremonial sword wavng club, the real knights have died centuries ago

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Oluwafreshing(m): 5:47pm On Jul 08, 2017
see one of my problems with religion

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Agbalanze(m): 5:51pm On Jul 08, 2017
As long as u are happy in your marriage, that's all that matters... When God call ur parents, real Christians and not religious people will come...

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jul 08, 2017
Erhun10z:
Honourable Professor Emeretus Of Spermatology And Agricultural Scince, I Salute You. But You Should Have Told Me Earlier That It Was Your Uncle Who Impregnated Your Mother Because Your Dad Was Not Anywhere Near The Task.The Type Of JESUS You Displayed Now Is Very Wounderful, I Believe It Was Thesame JESUS Your G.Os Are Displaying That Is Why You Guys Are Having Several Court Cases. And You Say You Do JESUS Not CHURCH. Let Sense Fall On You And Grow Up Man.
Nonsensical dundy leave church and talk about your miserable self, if I never mentioned the church name I guess you'll never have any ground to masturbate. You so behave like you were conceived with a kangaroo saliva while whatsoever that gave birth to you was masturbating with its tail, I know she never wanted you but it was when it had abortion that you dropped and behold your brain injury is wreaking havoc in the civil society as you run around naked with rage.
Please continue and leave me out of your adventure O'child of miscarriage with misplaced Destiny.
Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by salt1: 5:55pm On Jul 08, 2017
Movingcoil:

Maybe the imbecility that is irredeemable in your family DNA never allowed you to comprehend where I wrote that "anyi Na agba war" and that my church is not what I believe in.
I don't blame you cos if the old hag who it's sperm you germinated from were used to plant mango and cashew as manure, Nigeria may be exporting those fruits and getting more revenue apart from oil and ridding this planet a toxic and corrosive substance like you.


And you claim to be a professing Christian worshipping with Assemblies of God!
I almost wept on reading this. May God visit you with genuine repentance. I pray for you
Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Nobody: 5:55pm On Jul 08, 2017
saintandsinnerz:

And you must bring Igbo into it just to satisfy your bigotry. God forbid, tribalism has really destroyed a lot of people

STFU...my love ones are Igbo.

and I said the truth!

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jul 08, 2017
salt1:



And you claim to be a professing Christian worshipping with Assemblies of God!
I almost wept on reading this. May God visit you with genuine repentance. I pray for you
Am sorry if I disappointed but my version of Christianity that I self tutored myself in never told me to please you or follow your standards,
When Jesus entered the temple and saw they were selling and buying, please I know he started begging them to leave.
Just leave me alone and face your own race, because I myself is at peace with my Lord.
Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by dingbang(m): 5:59pm On Jul 08, 2017
Nonsense...

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by akpunda86: 5:59pm On Jul 08, 2017
My sista,without being told ur from anambra,please and i know the priest doing this is in the village,all cos of ignorance.

Please just in case ur father owes no apology to any body rather the stupid priest that sees him self as God should apologise to u.Knighthood or no knight takes ur father no where.Im a catholic,my family a stunch one but my sister married to an anglican,thou the marriage was done in a catholic church.

Incase i can play any role to you ill be happy,the best place to report is the bishop of awka,and you better start now.my regards to your pop,must be a strong follower of the church and not Christ,who is the church,why did he listen to mens wish against his,the Catholic church or any other church can bury him when his time comes,Catholic buring him does not guarantee him going to heaven.MEEEE IM AGAINST KNIGHTHOOD,I HATE IT,I SEE IT AS A CULT,NOT SEE IT BUT IT IS A CULT,

Nne leave the priest and ur aunty in the village jorr,go enjoy your marriage.hope u have elder brothers or matured brodas,take the case up.

Catholic church getting messier every day

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Dieumerci1: 6:02pm On Jul 08, 2017
I want to believe it's only practised in the Eastern part of Nigeria and I believe it's not right. For me, it's taking catholicism or christianism to the extreme. I am a practising catholic, i grew up in Lagos, i can tell you for free that my friend's mum married a muslim in the catholic church. So if catholic/muslim marriage could be allowed, what more of a fellow christian. Not long ago, i travelled with a stunch catholic friend for a wedding in a baptist church in Osun state. Another friend married a while garment (C&S) lady recently.

In fact as a catholic, here in Lagos, if you're marrying an anglican spouse, it's just as if it's a catholic wedding, so many things like baptism etc will be waived. So this practice is quite bizarre. I advise you write to the catholic secretariat in Abuja to correct this anomaly. It well my sister.

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Nobody: 6:02pm On Jul 08, 2017
Anusiemgood:
Anambarians...that's where you can find this rubbish. Nnewi south to be precise,even till now, many of their young ladies is still not married till date...foolish set of people

you are right,that's my state for you

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by leoblacky: 6:03pm On Jul 08, 2017
Sister it's not Catholic tradition its ur village tradition.

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Erhun10z: 6:05pm On Jul 08, 2017
Movingcoil:

Nonsensical dundy leave church and talk about your miserable self, if I never mentioned the church name I guess you'll never have any ground to masturbate. You so behave like you were conceived with a kangaroo saliva while whatsoever that gave birth to you was masturbating with its tail, I know she never wanted you but it was when it had abortion that you dropped and behold your brain injury is wreaking havoc in the civil society as you run around naked with rage.
Please continue and leave me out of your adventure O'child of miscarriage with misplaced Destiny
Lol, Waooo !!! I Am So Proud Of Myself. At Least I Made You Use The Dictionary Today And Because Of Me, You Are Constructing Better Sentences. Waoo!!! Your Concord Is Improving. Isn't God Wonderful ? Look At How The Product Of A Kangaroo Has Helped A Savage From A Human. Bros, You Can See That I'm Better Than You, I Don't Need To Stress Myself Over Piss Off Like You. Just Chill, And May Sense Fall On You.
Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by saintandsinnerz: 6:06pm On Jul 08, 2017
Joavid:


STFU...my love ones are Igbo.

and I said the truth!
Typical of a tribalist or a racist! Their first line of defence is to claim or show how their "loved ones" are from the other side. Your statement would have still made the same meaning if you had resisted the temptation of going tribal, but I guess it's difficult for people like you.

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by Nobody: 6:09pm On Jul 08, 2017
ocelot2006:
This is absolute crap. Are both Catholic and Anglicans not Christian denominations? Is it a sin for both denominations to inter-marry? What nonsense? I'm Catholic, but I'm happily married to a woman from a Protestant background. I equally have family members who did same, and they're still fine.

The men don't have problem bringing in a non Catholic into the church,but they have problem with we,the women, marrying out of the church

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Re: What My Marriage To An Anglican Caused My Catholic Parents. by david22uu(m): 6:10pm On Jul 08, 2017
ikechizoba:
I came from a staunch Catholic family, my dad is a knight, he has held many positions in various catholic association, right now he is down with partial stroke for the past nine years now.

In 2014, I got married to my Anglican husband with the full support from my parents,but my daddy's only sister, who lives in the village,was strongly against it,she fought our kinsmen when they secretly anchored our first for the fear of being reported to the church, threatening to report to the parish priest, saying that Catholics are not allowed to marry non Catholics in our village,she went ahead and reported l and my parents to the church.

Due to my dads condition, they couldn't go, so i went alone but was shocked at what the priest told me, he made me choose between the two churches, making it clear that if i wed in Anglican, that I have chosen darkness over light.

To cut the long story short, I successfully got married but my aunt made her own family and our kindred not to attend my traditional marriage, it was rather attended by the non Catholics, and also the church made my parents not to attend my white wedding, that if they attend, that they will not bury them when they die. But now, even without attending my white wedding, the church still insists that they will not bury my parents if they die since they allowed me to marry an Anglican, except if they openly apologize to the whole church.

My question is apologize for what? Please am not trying to paint catholic black, I was a devoted catholic even till now, but this?? pls NL, I need the address to the head of catholic church in Nigeria,I need answer to this please question

U sure na Catholic church
Cos I know during my marriage class
Almost all were mixed marriage and u will sign that on no occasion Will u force ur spouse to change her church, if he or she want, Dey should do so freely

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