Good day nairalanders, I have a thorn in my heart, but I have to explain fully with details for you guys to advice me and I would love the moderators move this to the front-page, my cousin who is a month senior to me is acting very suspicious, I went to his house in Lagos for a business presentation and am staying with him for 1 week, the thing is his lifestyle does not add up, his salary is 70 thousand naira but he already has a house worth 3-5 million naira, I am not saying it is a crime to be successful but my cousin comes home by 2am or more for the 5 days I have spent with him, and since I am not a deep sleeper, I always wake up to welcome him, on one occasion, I asked him what kept him out this late ,he said it is work, I believed him but as I sat on the chair and he was going to his room, I saw clearly the shape of a hand gun in his left side of his trouser , i acted like I was not aware and in my mind I hope he is not what I think, even the car he drives does not add up to his salary and I Dont want to question him because it is his life but , he is getting married in December and I Dont want anything to happen to him, please how do I advice him to stop what I think he is doing

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you wey be green bullet nko? assasin!

Epositive:
you wey be green bullet nko? assasin!

is this your advice?

U beta do ur presentation and leave his house and his life

Criminals don't take advice and it is even dangerous to advice them.

So package ur life out of his house asap

You want to go and advice a criminal that hasn't been caught in the act?...even those caught more often than not, deny involvement. Don't do what he'll kill you in that house and hide your corpse in order to cover his illicit activities. Stop waking up when he's in to welcome him, if he suspects you know what he's into you might not like what he'd do.
I'll advice you hurry with whatever you're there for, and take your leave after.

Benita27:
You want to go and advice a criminal that hasn't been caught in the act?...even those caught more often than not, deny involvement. Don't do what he'll kill you in that house and hide your corpse in order to cover his illicit activities. Stop waking up when he's in to welcome him, if he suspects you know what he's into you might not like what he'd do.

this is exactly what I am afraid of, but he is family and the bread winner of his family, I imagine if he meet his end in his operation, the ones depending on him will suffer.

The other day, they beat your mother while your brother watched. Now your cousin seems to be an arm robber .

I will suggest you guys do family prayer

Rat him out to the police asap

HeOrShe:
U beta do ur presentation and leave his house and his life

Criminals don't take advice and it is even dangerous to advice them.

So package ur life out of his house asap

he is family.

jhudit:
The other day, they beat your mother while your brother watched. Now your cousin seems to be an arm robber .

I will suggest you guys do family prayer

thank you.

swiz123:
Rat him out to the police asap

not in my agenda .

Greenbullet:
this is exactly what I am afraid of, but he is family and the bread winner of his family, I imagine if he meet his end in his operation, the ones depending on him will suffer.

There isn't much you could do to savage the situation beside reporting him to the authorities. Going to advice him is a no no for me, the heart of man is evil and your plan could backfire. Armrobbers don't like involving a third party in their business.

Benita27:
There isn't much you could do to savage the situation beside reporting him to the authorities. Going to advice him is a no no for me, the heart of man is evil and your plan could backfire. Armrobbers don't like involving a third party in their business.

how do you think I would feel for throwing a full family into chaos and hunger, I can't live with the feeling that I imprisoned my cousin. And what of his upcoming wedding ?

And he is probably on nairaland, after reading this I wonder what he will do.
You have a very good reason to be afraid.

Greenbullet:
how do you think I would feel for throwing a full family into chaos and hunger, I can't llive with the feeling that I imprisoned my cousin.

Then pay a blind eye to what he's doing. He's still likely to meet his waterloo.

if you love your life , you better turn a blind eye to his activities. else you get yourself killed. once he suspect you're unto him , you're a gonna

Benita27:
Then pay a blind eye to what he's doing. He's still likely to meet his waterloo.

This is a case that I can neither abandon or try to solve aggressively , if I abandon my cousin to his fate, God won't forgive me because he knows I know I could save someone but I refused to .

Greenbullet:
This is a case that I can neither abandon or try to solve aggressively , if I abandon my cousin to his fate, God won't forgive me because he knows I know I could save someone but I refused to .

Then risk your life in giving him the advice you think could stop him from what he's already into.

Benita27:
Then risk your life in giving him the advice you think could stop him from what he's already into.

isn't there a way I can jokingly tell him ?

U are playing with ur life... by even opening this thread. He is ur cousin and not ur brother.
there's still a difference... so eliminating u wont be too hard for him considering what he is.

U better leave that hoise before he starts suspecting u.

Greenbullet:
This is a case that I can neither abandon or try to solve aggressively , if I abandon my cousin to his fate, God won't forgive me because he knows I know I could save someone but I refused to .

Then why bother to open a thread in the first place?You seem to have your mind made up to advice him.
My advice to you;

Mind your business.

Tahrah:
Then why bother to open a thread in the first place?You seem to have your mind made up to advice him.
My advice to you;

Mind your business.

hmmmm

Ur broda is an ipod member, He's an armed robber nd an ipod yoot, I think we have to investigate you

in warri pidgin they will say fly like witch from there na na. dont let SARS tie u crocodile style.

Greenbullet:
Good day nairalanders, I have a thorn in my heart, but I have to explain fully with details for you guys to advice me and I would love the moderators move this to the front-page, my cousin who is a month senior to me is acting very suspicious, I went to his house in Lagos for a business presentation and am staying with him for 1 week, the thing is his lifestyle does not add up, his salary is 70 thousand naira but he already has a house worth 3-5 million naira, I am not saying it is a crime to be successful but my cousin comes home by 2am or more for the 5 days I have spent with him, and since I am not a deep sleeper, I always wake up to welcome him, on one occasion, I asked him what kept him out this late ,he said it is work, I believed him but as I sat on the chair and he was going to his room, I saw clearly the shape of a hand gun in his left side of his trouser , i acted like I was not aware and in my mind I hope he is not what I think, even the car he drives does not add up to his salary and I Dont want to question him because it is his life but , he is getting married in December and I Dont want anything to happen to him, please how do I advice him to stop what I think he is doing

Lalasticlala
Royalroy
Mynd44
Tosyne2much
Aminat508
Dominique
Ishilove
Seun
Vickiz
Smellymouth

Though ur explanation of him sounds sort of suspicious, but at the same time maybe he just hangs out with his friends late clubbing and straffing olosho that? he doesn't wanna bring home cos u are around....

Do thieves go on operation and return with weapons casually placed in the pocket in middle of the night?....well if I'm an armed robber I won't do that cos police might be on the highway on my way home doing stop and search...mayb ur earlier suspicions about him made wateva bulge in the pocket u saw look like gun...

#Just saying... all in all...if he is, some armed robbers can be heartless...and some care about family like evans..... but u can't take any chances by confronting him to change like u have one anointing...just leave the place and pray for the best...

buharichild:
Ur broda is an ipod member, He's an armed robber nd an ipod yoot, I think we have to investigate you

Cure yourself of your hatred first,dumb tribalist.

Greenbullet:
hmmmm

Be safe,be wise.

Tahrah:
Cure yourself of your hatred first,dumb tribalist. Be safe,be wise.

Am an igbo boy mumu

buharichild:

Am an igbo boy mumu

So why do you come here to display your low self-worth and profound self-hate.

Tahrah:
So why do you come here to display your low self-worth and profound self-hate.

I hate anything related to biafra

Tahrah:
So why do you come here to display your low self-worth and profound self-hate.

do you have something special for ibos
Cause you might end up marrying one

OP,pretend as if you didnt see or dont know anything.

He might be a Watchman in another coy(Part of husting).