Alhkerimu:
My own be like a movie up till this moment....
Me and my girlfriend we both live in peace, our love is mutual i love her and she love me back. I care for her and she also care for me we are all living fine...
We hav never one day quarel nor fight throughout in our relationship......But suddenly she develop an unpredicted character towards me.
She came to my house one sunday morning and said she want to tell me something an i said what is that "honey "
I quote her saying,

" The reason why i'm here this morning is to let you know that i'm no more interested in this relationship. "
And ask her why but she only gave me a comic reason why she want to quit.
(1) She want to be alone
(2)She want to be closer to God.
And i said is that all she said yess and i respect her opinion an gave gap immediately because to love someone is not by force....

To my greatest surprise, a week latter she came i offer her chair to seat but she decline.
She started a conversation with me by saying,
I only tested you to know if you truely love me but you had fail my test already and this shows me that you did not love me rather you are pretending to love me, because how wish i love her i would have beg her not to quit the relationship, but since i did not beg her to come back show i did not love her.
This is how we take break up..
Happy sunday to all my wonderful people in nairaland

luminouz:
My last ex was an eyeful!!! Beautiful,tall n big ASSed..just d way I like em......but she was a LIAR....
Stupid coot told me she was a V n she doesn't wanna break it coz God told her not to.....n I said no pressure.
On a fateful day...she acted up n said she needed time alone that I am blocking her spiritual sense...she needed to feel God.I said no problem. 2 weeks later I was at a supermart close to her house n decided on a hunch to see her...I walked in on my ex using a big aladura candle on her pussay.....I just smiled n asked her if d candle has been baptised for holey penetration.....I took off my clothes n spent 1 rounds on her.....d Vjay wasn't tight at all.....I decided to collect tithe n offering n did 3 more rounds.......she was oh! Lumi ur such a great fvcker.....
I.smiled at her n said 'I do what I can for d lord's sisters', donned my clothes,walked outta d room n outta d relationship n outta her life...
MI o Raye oshi!!!!
Since then....I have been morafucking single!!!
Please dont ask me y women lie.....I fvcking have no idea!!!

Gofwane:
The b!tch lied to me that her mum gave her 60k to pay her school fees but she borrowed the money to her besty when her mum when she fell sick. But now the friend is no where to be found.…

… that she went to her friend's house and nobody was around, and their neighbors told her that they have relocated to abuja. But she got their phone number and called and her friend's mum told her that her daughter has fled to Ghana. I was like

So the issue was she needed the money to pay her fee which was closing in two days time. The silly b!tch went on to say threaten me that I have to give her the money if I don't want her to accept the money from one Alhaji that has been trying to fvck her. Imagine Ga!!!

So iwas like : "no problem I will give you the money". I then asked her if she needed anything else and she told me needed a new phone because the one she was using to call me belongs to her cousin the phone she had on mind would cost her 40k.

I then told her not to worry that I was gon give her the money tomorrow


My brothers and sisters, it is about 7 month now and tomorrow is yet to come


I no know whether the girl see tribal marks on my face and that made her to feel she has captured a mugu

Fernandowski:
she was like ' Shaq, though I love you so so much but I can't trust you .... you attract literally errone with your looks and height and Errthing...... cheating on me will be so so easy for you ' ........

I tried my best to assure her I ain't gonna cheat..... cut all ties with my female friends , spent more time with her, called her like trice Errday and sent numerous text just to assure her I ain't gonna leave her for someone else but she won't still stop being insecure.....

I had to call of the relationship by myself...... It wasn't easy that night....... we kissed and kissed till my lips hurt....... tasted her tears in my mouth..... it was hard to let go but with time, it healed.....


dating someone that doesn't trust you is a very stupid thing to do...... love Dey sweet shaaaaa

kushercain:
She was too narrow minded
When she found out I smoke weed she saw me as the devil.
She ended it but truth be told if I was left with a choice I'd choose MaryJane over her

sunnyeinstein:


Why cant he ask? Its called action and security. When u get land na to clear and fence am from intrusion. If d friend is gettin more time dan me it means there's somtin there am not givin her. Its either she tells me so we can make it beta or wen i ask her she gives a better response than "i'll go for my friend" it means i can neva giv her d kinda satisfactn she gets wen she's in d company of dat girl.
Bro, wetin i go do na to try chop lyk 1-10 meals, clean mouth and push her to d friend. Arrivederci!

luminouz:

Y d fvvk not?
Its a choice that can never be conflicted for me....ur gf is diff. From ur friend....so wat u on about

jakandeola:
guy am a young boss money is not my problm but she waste my time took me as a fool make me quarell wit my mum and big bros dey neva like her but i fight for her, witiut me she will be a drop out. i neva sex her.

BiafranYouths:
I met this sweet damsel way back 2014, our relationship was sort of perfect towards the end of 2014 I found out she was a virgin @23 I was perplexed. I was reassured I've found my better half, she was everything a man would want in a life partner. She loved me dearly,.... I helped her build her Events, Decor, Catering and Ushering firm financially and other wise as per my future wife.
Late December 2015 I had a massive contract to execute outside the State, I was to marry her immediately after the project, I didn't tell her though bought engagement ring.
I spent close to 9 Months without setting eyes on her though we've been communicating via calls and social media
Our reunion was awesome, we kissed smooch I didn't push further because I know the cooky will be mine in less than a month.
But unlike her that always reminded me of our promise to help her keep the cooky till the right time, she kept pushing, doing things we've not done before
For my mind I was like oh! So this girl missed me like this, I decided to play along to see where it leads to after reminding her of our promise.
We had Sex for the first time since I met and sadly my virgin fiance was de flowered by another!
After the deed I asked her what just happened? She started with the tears narrating how I left her I was not there for her physically that I should forgive her, I forgave and started making plans for the engagement party.
This fascinating day I was using her tablet to help her market her new design so in the process of uploading the product pictures I saw her photos @ golf course with this dude feeling all loved up, the inquisitive me looked further.
I later had a heart to heart discussion with her, asking why she got de flowered by another while I patiently kept my emotions and Dick on check...

Layer found out that the guy that ripped her puuussy apart was a Malaysian based Guy that pressed her mumu button and slept with her, upon seeing she was a virgin proposed there and then, and she said yes!
Heart broke nearly killed me for the first time in my life I cried in a ladies present and begged her, telling her even if she was to be pregnant for the guy I'll claim the baby just to be with her but she said no. I took I'll for a couple of weeks
The girl was too good.
Beauty, respect, intelligence, struggling type in fact she'll be a blessing to a Man that marries her.
Am still heart broken
I used the wedding money to put up a decent structure and move
Ima Ima mmi thanks for showing me that true love exist, I'll continue loving you and I pray the good Lord provide me with a girl just like you

Juliearth:



Awwww!!!! Teddy hugs fall on you,true love void of hearbreaks fall on you...

YelloweWest:

How would u feel if your gf ask u to choose between her and your friends? It makes no sense.

sunnyeinstein:


4months is not too small na, dats at least 6times a week. Its achievable, especially for the very active and 'married off campus' relatnships

BiafranYouths:


Thanks Man, I'm Moving the fuccck on,...
Bro I was born and raised in the streets, I've been with different categories of Olosho, Am not a learner. To be sincere I have blames also, the fault is not entirely hers. I know a good homely girl when I see one, believe the girl was well brought up she was good

hurricaneChris:


you speak with wisdom. Please can we talk on some issues? But private. Just gimme any means to reach you.

jakandeola:
iv realise what a fool I was to give my heart to an animal. only a foolish man will ever belief in ttue love. The girl I thought is mine betray me last year. we hv been together for 2yrs, yet I neva touch her cos I was saving her for myself. we have been having issues. 3months b4 we brake up we quarrell because of money issue and we kept malice for 3 weeks until we settled. den her elder sister got married, and she told me she needed money for suveniar to share. she know I have money I want to invest, yet I gave her good 40000 naira. after the wedding she suddenly changed don't pick my calls or like my pix anymore. when I confronted her she said shes no longer interested that im not man enough for her and cant provide for her. this is a girl I wished to marry I never knew she is a cheap thing that goes sleeping around. In time karma will catch her. I will never in my life trust any woman again. now I believe love is wicked. I feel so sad.

olayiwola4u:


OOOOOOOH, the only day you know is the day you say YES; you can never know the day your HEART will be broken.

SO, don't be too smart...always hope for the best.

Knowledge and power have nothing to do with break-up.

IT IS THE MATTER OF THE HEART, NOT A MATTER OF THE BRAIN AND MUSCLE.

Gofwane:
no! That's not correct. This is my only moniker. I don't know anything about creamymoltenar.
Thanks

Gofwane:
you also look like Mrs Ojo my admin officer!

ikevictor:
Mine is gory...

We dated for over 9 years, though a lil break up and make up in between the times...

She was my first and I believe I was hers too cos we both deflowered ourselves...

Long story short, when I don hustle make money come propose to her, Her character changed.

She begins to scream at me at the slightest provocation. Something she would not dare for all the years we have known. Me i tire o...but I love her shaa.

Finally, she gave me a condition to agree to before the wedding can proceed....that I must join JW.

She was born a witness and me a Catholic. Mogbe

It started as a joke, but matter no be here. Promised her heaven and earth, whosai!!

In fact the most painful is that she said in.plain terms that "it is all about religion"...and me i thought the goal was love and companionship. At least I no wan open church, na marriage I de find.

That's when I packed my load and decided that Boko Haram should not be blamed, anyway.

But I am hurt shaa, cos she for tell me all this religious crap all along make I go find even Ogboni girl marry.

luminouz:

Wao...just wao...u mean ur so good n kind n all DAT
Where were u when I was looking for a girl to call my own This is unfair o
U know what? Could u redirect dat Botswana plane to Nigeria......I don't have much but I would make u happy!!!

specter:



If you love him,be patient with him. He will certainly come back for you and you will earn his respect for life. Speaking from experience believe me. I eventually came back. And today she is my most precious jewel. Even my parents don't cross her. She is my wife , my student and my teacher. We don't quarrel . If I screw up, and it's bad, she reports me to God. I hate it anytime she reports me to God. So I quickly check my self. Cos if God starts with me, who do I run to?
We dated for 10yrs. 2006-2016 and she was patience she won by love , cos I was so damaged growing up I was incapable of love and was screwing around while with her. She caught me in live action several times. She stayed anyway and today we use them as jokes while having our quiet moments. Today she is enjoying the fruits of her Labour as I am all sold out to her till death or until she gets tired of me.

yeeshanana:
Lemme sef share my own...Met this guy four years ago during my 100L days... I fell in love almost immediately because he was my first, we started dating a year after and I thought I found my Mr. Right...But hometown issue came up,we are both Yorubas ooo...I told my parents about it and they said my happiness is all that matters so we had no problem from my side but his. In all this my supposed *Mr Right" kept assuring me he was going to do everything he could to make us work out.... Few days later he called to tell me he's tired of trying to convince his people to accept me....I told him it's best we call it quit abi why postpone the evil day? I thought I wouldn't live to see the next day but it's been 10 months and I'm still Alive...Its hurts so much remembering all those memories. He has moved on with his parents choice but I'm here still searching for Mr. Right.