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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by apholaryn: 8:24am On Jul 11, 2017

TinaAnita:

Don't know whether to believe your story...! It seems I'm not different from your insecure and doubtful girlfriend..

Well, I had to break up with a particular wonderful guy simply because I couldn't trust him no thanks to insecurity. The thought that some ladies with zero self esteem might be throwing themselves at him as he is so cute/attractive and/or that he could be cheating on me worsened my fear and insecurity.

It was so easy for me to opt out of the relationship as I tried not to fall in love with him. How could I possibly fall in love with a guy I don't trust? You can never have my heart if I don't trust you. Thank God we never had *** despite the pressure and temptation.

but it doesn't make any sense u kno? it's possible u lost your future partner over useless insecurities.

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 8:27am On Jul 11, 2017

vicfuntop:

That means I look old

Old bawo

U look gorgeous!! (If datz u though)

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by sunnyeinstein(m): 8:27am On Jul 11, 2017

YelloweWest:

How would u feel if your gf ask u to choose between her and your friends? It makes no sense.

Bros it makes sense wen u've been seeing some unusual stuffs

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by freethesheeple(m): 8:28am On Jul 11, 2017

There is this lady i love so much.Was very optimistic to marry her as am only child..Woed her,she fell but my Friends told me she is a hore..I made up my mind to change her but all was in vain..i later found out she can Bleep any Thing that has the shape of a Penis..i left.
Later i discovered,it was not her fault.Her father died ontop of a woman,since then i stopped blaming her.
Lesson.
1.Never blame a promiscious woman
2.Never blame a cheating girlfriend.
3.Some cheating and promisicous women are genetic in nature..
How i left.
I moved out from my location,switched off my phone for one 8 months
Never called her,not chatting with her in whatsapp[Though i opened new one]
Blocked her on whats app.
Things i did before leaving.
Before i left,i called her,sat her down and talked to her like a brother..i told her,there is no gain from keeping many guys,fucking as if there will be no 2morow,after then,na so i take waka ooooo.
Am happy,i talked to her.
Its her life,i cant live with such.

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by colli247(m): 8:28am On Jul 11, 2017

olayiwola4u:
Pls, let's all be sincere...

Remember when you lie to people, they will lie to you.

Likewise, when you tell others the truth, they tell you the truth.

IF YOU LIE HERE, OVER TIME, YOU WILL START LYING TO YOUR FIANCEE; SHE, DEFINITELY, WILL START LYING TO YOU IN NO TIME.

Before you realize it, you would have married a LIAR.

PROBLEM WITH THIS GENERATION GIRLS IS THAT THEIR THE CAUSE OF THEY OWN PROBLEM

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by sidneyeze: 8:30am On Jul 11, 2017

olayiwola4u:
Let's use this thread to share our break-up experience so that others can learn.

You can help as many people as possible by sharing your experience.

Looking forward to reading about the experience of others...I have started writing mine.

i told her is over and got new bae, she pleaded wit me and i accepted her back, shes 100% aware dah m lashing ma new- none of my Biz

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by apholaryn: 8:30am On Jul 11, 2017

Kolinzzz7787:
Let me just use this opportunity to share my experience,
i complained to my girl everytime that i dnt like the idea of our lack of time for each other, because as of recent she develop the attitude of giving excuses each time i called her but she prefer to spend her time with her family, am nt sayin is wrong to do that, bt she is so so addicted to an extent that she will nt mind coming along with her siblins even she is d only one i want to see i let her to understand that in a relationship privacy & time is paramount, i now ask if she is ready to adjust her behavior & lets fix tinz right again she say No, that she want to be herself nt in any relationship again. I respected her decision bt now she calls & try to bring up chat which am no longer comfortable doin that again! Pls what will you do if u were the one

she is just been childish...if u gon reconsider her again just make her understand what u want first and give her reasonable reasons why time with her alone is more important to u and her.

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by kingfhaddo(m): 8:31am On Jul 11, 2017

it still looks like a movie,the girl that swore with her life that she is not gonna leave but suddenly asked for a breakup after four month.Her reason was that she has her own family problems and can't add my family problems to it.me i come be like sey na family u wan date abi me,she cum tok say whatever,na dat tym i know say my village people no want make i get gf be dat.............the thing pain me but i gaz move on with my life,so for now i am single and if u wana apply,i dey ground ooooo

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by apholaryn: 8:33am On Jul 11, 2017

Precious22567:
He was travelling out he told me about it and we promised to wait for each other.One month after he got there he started dating another girl.

your guy na fool...no offense

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by sheylarhh(m): 8:33am On Jul 11, 2017

jakandeola:
guy am a young boss money is not my problm but she waste my time took me as a fool make me quarell wit my mum and big bros dey neva like her but i fight for her, witiut me she will be a drop out. i neva sex her.

Na d sex dey vex u so?...u kip on repeating sex

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by M2dX(m): 8:37am On Jul 11, 2017

sekxy:
this is sweet...mine was during last 3years Valentine,,so I went to church because a friend had told me how interesting the program was...it was termed "Valentine for the holy spirit"so i had to attend...it was a 2days program...my then boyfriend called me on 14th February and said that he wanted to spend the Val with me but I told him that I was in church cos of the program. .the bobo said that i should have taken permission from him,,that I should come tomorrow or he breaks up ...I was like ok fine,,I'm choosing my God over you. .

he couldn't believe his ears shaa. .on the 15th I didn't go to visit him...so we went our separate ways..

he has been trying to take back his words and all the beggy stuffs...but I had already moved on. ..I later found the best man in my life ...I guess it was a gift from the holy spirit

hehehehe to God be the glory

ur funny..

,
holy spirit ko,

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Nobody: 8:37am On Jul 11, 2017

luminouz:

Old bawo?
U look gorgeous!! ([[b]If datz u t[/b]hough)

Common, I don't have low self esteem. I said that because the guy said I look like Mrs Ojo, his admin officer and I believe she should be in her 40s or 50s. That's why I said that.

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 8:38am On Jul 11, 2017

vicfuntop:

Common, I don't have low self esteem. I said that because the guy said I look like Mrs Ojo, his admin officer and I believe she should be in her 40s or 50s. That's why I said that.

Lmaoooo!!! Its OK ma!
U still look gorgeous!!!! cheesy

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Iamthoney(m): 8:39am On Jul 11, 2017

We dated for three months, during our courtship I found out that she's an acute liar(such word dey exist self?) very materialistic and she fvcks around like a roman whoore. I had to leave her before she carry her bad luck take spoil my shine.
Ever since then have been on a no string attach relationship and I'm enjoying it

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Nobody: 8:40am On Jul 11, 2017

luminouz:

Lmaoooo!!! Its OK ma!
U still look gorgeous!!!!

Thank you

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by drnoel: 8:43am On Jul 11, 2017

olayiwola4u:
Pls, let's all be sincere...

Remember when you lie to people, they will lie to you.

Likewise, when you tell others the truth, they tell you the truth.

IF YOU LIE HERE, OVER TIME, YOU WILL START LYING TO YOUR FIANCEE; SHE, DEFINITELY, WILL START LYING TO YOU IN NO TIME.

Before you realize it, you would have married a LIAR.

Cry me a river.
Years ago, had this flashy chick I was so interested in. That was until her bestest friend betrayed her and told me the truth about what I had been unaware of. Her friend told me plainly that she herself liked me and that the one I was interested in was not for me.
Told me the girl had a main guy that she was down for, that infact she calls me assistant boyfriend. Funny enof, when the heart wants what it does one is blind to certain things. The girl never gave me nothing, I was the one spending my parents money on her. I didn't even see her pants, nothing.
Anyways after her friends told me what she does and says, I visited them in school and her own friends set her up for me. I was at the door and overheard all their conversation. I heard all she said about me and how she referred to me. It hurt like hell, I thought I was gonno die from the pain. I didn't. I travelled back to my base and thought about my life. I made up my mind then that no more would I ever love any woman so blindly. I threw away her contacts.
This was until she got stranded in my city and came knocking at my door by around 10 pm. I had no idea she was even in town. I almost didn't open the door for her but I was still a nice guy then. I opened the door and even feed her sef.
What knocked me crazy was that what she started saying later, how I abandoned her in school and don't ask about her again and how I didn't care for her. I just told her the story of her life and told her to leave first thing in the morning. Later that night she started touching me, I initially tried to resist but kongi na bastard. I suddenly wanted to blast her, some guys will say atleast with the mindset of collecting back all I had spent. For where?
It wasn't meant to be. She let me get to first base but I never crossed to second base. She refused getting completely naked and never let me even get to her pants. Initially I was devastated but before she left that morning, I knew it was best cos I may have continued playing that fool. Anyways it was one thing that made me hard and mean to women for a long time after that.
Funniest part of the story was that she actually returned after a year, then she was cooling off from a break up with her main boyfriend. She offered me everything, even got naked infront of me around 1 am, hoping to seduce me. I just threw her out of my house. She still calls till date, telling me what a fool she was and how she lost the most wonderful guy that could have made her happy. I alway just roll my eyes.

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Fkforyou(m): 8:43am On Jul 11, 2017

Never had any experience and don't plan too.

You never get heart broken when you don't get emotionally invested in anyone more than you do yourself...

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Nobody: 8:45am On Jul 11, 2017

apholaryn:
your guy na fool...no offense

No offense taken

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Gofwane(m): 8:45am On Jul 11, 2017

vicfuntop:

That means I look old

no! ! ! She's not old. I was even planning on toasting her cool

but I had to back-off when I learnt she's married.

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Broda09: 8:46am On Jul 11, 2017

queenbetsy:
lemme explain... you're madly in love with someone and he really loves you too but there's a condition. He met someone else that's just as awesome as you are and without that condition and he fell in love totally. You guys are still dating but his love for you has dropped. you should understand from there...

Let me guess....you subscribe to the "no-sex-until-marriage" nonsense and he got someone who was willing to give it to him now. I never understand women who agree to date but are not ready to do all that appertains dating.

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Nobody: 8:49am On Jul 11, 2017

vicfuntop:
Creamymoltenlar why do I think this is your second moniker

Maybe because I opened up to you that I'm going through something somewhat similar myself

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Alhkerimu(m): 8:50am On Jul 11, 2017

DavidEsq:

How I survived reading tru the gbagauns here is one hell of a miracle. Even the pidgin sef, get gbagaun . Abeg, who get panadol

See your head, olodo

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Fernandowski(m): 8:50am On Jul 11, 2017

TinaAnita:

Don't know whether to believe your story...! It seems I'm not different from your insecure and doubtful girlfriend..

Well, I had to break up with a particular wonderful guy simply because I couldn't trust him no thanks to insecurity. The thought that some ladies with zero self esteem might be throwing themselves at him as he is so cute/attractive and/or that he could be cheating on me worsened my fear and insecurity.

It was so easy for me to opt out of the relationship as I tried not to fall in love with him. How could I possibly fall in love with a guy I don't trust? You can never have my heart if I don't trust you. Thank God we never had *** despite the pressure and temptation.

awwww... the day she got really mad was a day I took her to shoprite to have lunch....... a girl just walked up to us and was like ' tallest, pls let's take a picture ' ...... I took a couple of it with her cus I didnt see anything wrong with it..... we left the shoprite and she started giving me attitude.... didn't call me or answer my calls for a whole two weeks..... later came back begging.......

she was so sweet though...... was very nice and supportive but her insecurity and jealousy was damn too high..... she was guarding what's hers but I think what I did was the best........ as for ***, we still meet till date to **** .....

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Nobody: 8:52am On Jul 11, 2017

M2dX:
ur funny..
, holy spirit ko,

lol

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Okohlient(m): 8:52am On Jul 11, 2017

queenbetsy:
take a chill pill mister. Quote me well enough. I never said "he fell in love with someone else while we were still IN LOVE" I said, "...while we were still dating"

So whats the difference anty., does that mean u both were nt in love buh dating?

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by YelloweWest: 8:53am On Jul 11, 2017

Precious22567:

It makes sense when you feel threatened..Happened to me once I was friends with this guy when I was in 100level then when we got to 300level he started dating one girl all of a sudden he started avoiding me I had to ask the bros what's up o he said his girlfriend told him to stop talking to me because she feels threatened and he accepted I had to respect his decision..dont want trouble

That's different. U are a girl so naturally his gf would feel threatened

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Nobody: 8:54am On Jul 11, 2017

Gofwane:
no! ! ! She's not old. I was even planning on toasting her but I had to back-off when I learnt she's married.

Good

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by apholaryn: 8:54am On Jul 11, 2017

Precious22567:

No offense taken

his loss anyway, God will send someone much more better yourway.

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Greenbullet(m): 8:59am On Jul 11, 2017

Homeboiy:

Lol her ex bf told her that she's a chaff, that nothing is remaining in her body

I accepted her like that n used my opportunity BT wat pained me most was that she kept talking about her ex, how she loved him n so. I noticed that something was about to happen n I increased my fûcking rate to 4times a day

Presently she has gone back to him because I refused to allow her live with me

fear any girl for Benin city

lol, DAT girl don pass second hand , them no suppose ask for bride price from her hubby, they should just tell him to bring anything.

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Fernandowski(m): 8:59am On Jul 11, 2017

Emperoradrian:
u forgot to tell us d name of dis Philippines movie,e swt shaa.

hahaha

the name is ' the life of a basketball player ' starring John okafor, nkem owo and Peter edochie

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Olutayo89(m): 9:00am On Jul 11, 2017

For me i did not break up. I gave her countless second chance, exceeded my limit of patience, then, I just decided to walk away without trace.

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by DavidEsq(m): 9:01am On Jul 11, 2017

Alhkerimu:

See your head, olodo

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