Have heard some parents saying if she is not 25 yrs and above marriage is a no for her,but some said they can release their daughter anytime she feels like getting married
My question is Will u release ur daughter to get married in her final yr in sch. Nb her husband to be is a working class and is ready for marriage
Or can u allow ur daughter to get married in her early twenties
Pls matured comments only

The question is, will you (be able to) prevent her from getting married when she is ready to?

thesicilian:
The question is, will you (be able to) prevent her from getting married when she is ready to?

I just want to know people's opinion abt this...i know some people we are of d same age{early twenties}and they re married but it seems my dad is not cool with this,so i just want to know if its bad to get married in my early twenties cos i don't want to loose my man who will be ready any moment from now

Op. How old are you?

AndrewDex:
Op. How old are you?

Must you know dat before commenting on this thread

Funky123:
Must you know dat before commenting on this thread

your thread sounds childish.

AndrewDex:


your thread sounds childish.

Really,how

AndrewDex:


your thread sounds childish.

Really,how

Once my daughter is above 18 she is free to do whatever she likes let alone when she is in her early twenties.

Funky123:
Really,how

so you wan tell me na say u no know d answer to that ur question?

Funky123:

I just want to know people's opinion abt this...i know some people we are of d same age{early twenties}and they re married but it seems my dad is not cool with this,so i just want to know if its bad to get married in my early twenties cos i don't want to loose my man who will be ready any moment from now

There's nothing wrong with getting married in your early twenties. A lot of us did back in the day.

Your dad isn't cool with your decision (and rightly so) because he'd rather you concentrate on your studies, finish up and graduate. You're already in your final year anyway - not long to go - so why the rush?

Re: losing your man - no dear, you wouldn't. Not if he has your best interests at heart.

EfemenaXY:


There's nothing wrong with getting married in your early twenties. A lot of us did back in the day.

Your dad isn't cool with your decision (and rightly so) because he'd rather you concentrate on your studies, finish up and graduate. You're already in your final year anyway - not long to go - so why the rush?

Re: losing your man - no dear, you wouldn't. Not if he has your best interests at heart.

Thanks ma

Early twenties yes, maturity is not by age.

Final year? Well , if she insists after all she is an adult, but I'd prefer she got married at least after school

joyAA:
Early twenties yes, maturity is not by age.

Final year? Well , if she insists after all she is an adult, but I'd prefer she got married at least after school

Thanks

Oh yes o!
Better to become an ashawo AFTER HAVING YOUR CHILDREN.

No need allowing yahoo-yahoo animals to mess up your body with numerous dating sprees.

Get married right in the UNIVERSITY and use 10 years to have all your children.

No need for unserious loafers!

I got married in my early twenties. Nothing wrong there. I'll give my daughter my blessings too if she
wants the same for herself.

As long as you're mature enough to handle marriage it shouldn't matter.

cococandy:
I got married in my early twenties. Nothing wrong there. I'll give my daughter my blessings too if she
wants the same for herself.

As long as you're mature enough to handle marriage it shouldn't matter.

Thanks ma'am

Funky123:

I just want to know people's opinion abt this...i know some people we are of d same age{early twenties}and they re married but it seems my dad is not cool with this, so i just want to know if its bad to get married in my early twenties cos i don't want to loose my man who will be ready any moment from now

If you must know if you're ready for marriage or not more especially when you're still under your parent's watch, ask them. They're the only people who'd tell you whether you're matured enough for the task ahead or not without adding sentiments to it.

I think your father thinks you're not ready for it. Simply ask him his reasons, that's if the both of you have a father and daughter relationship, and you'll be shocked that he knows you more than you know yourself.

Benita27:
If you must know if you're ready for marriage or not more especially when you're still under your parent's watch, ask them. They're the only people who'd tell you whether you're matured enough for the task ahead or not without adding sentiments to it.

I think your father thinks you're not ready for it. Simply ask him his reasons, that's if the both of you have a father and daughter relationship, and you'll be shocked that he knows you more than you know yourself.

Alrite,thanks

If she is up to 21 and I'm sure she is matured for marriage then it's a yes

Some parent can be a pain in d ass sha!so early 20s is not ready for marriage but can go ahead and engage in pre-marital sex provided she no carry belle cm huse.dat ur fada slf...his he a bornagain?education shud nt be an hindrance to any thing,hv seen people get marri while in school hv children slf and life goes on.are u burning with passion 4 sex? Abeg'marry'. Abi till u clock 30 or late 20 nah him he want mk u marry.....

That depends on how tough she's mentally.

Funky123:
Have heard some parents saying if she is not 25 yrs and above marriage is a no for her,but some said they can release their daughter anytime she feels like getting married
My question is Will u release ur daughter to get married in her final yr in sch. Nb her husband to be is a working class and is ready for marriage
Or can u allow ur daughter to get married in her early twenties
Pls matured comments only

Ladies tend to be cool.from 25.

Funky123:
Have heard some parents saying if she is not 25 yrs and above marriage is a no for her,but some said they can release their daughter anytime she feels like getting married
My question is Will u release ur daughter to get married in her final yr in sch. Nb her husband to be is a working class and is ready for marriage
Or can u allow ur daughter to get married in her early twenties
Pls matured comments only

experience is the best teacher, am 42 got married at around 27 and when i look back now, i see that i was still young for marriage. the best thing is never to come out blue to tell a daughter that she cant get married at certain age and below but you teach them as they grow and show them the advantages of getting married at very mature age,

i was 27 i wasnt ready mentally and financially, all i was, was being in love and that i took it as being ready for marriage but its not(african wise 27 is the right age but its the number ) mentally and financially we are not.

if you want to tell your daughter not marry early teach her to be independent and show
her examples of those married early and are struggling due to rushing, there was a thread here talking about getting married and within a year a child is born

as couple your barely know each other and child is born, there come trouble inmaturity,a
child to look after and culture wanting you behave like a 35 yr old woman/man who has matured through mistakes etc its not easy

i would love my daughter to get married at 30

ZIMDRILL:



experience is the best teacher, am 42 got married at around 27 and when i look back now, i see that i was still young for marriage. the best thing is never to come out blue to tell a daughter that she cant get married at certain age and below but you teach them as they grow and show them the advantages of getting married at very mature age,

i was 27 i wasnt ready mentally and financially, all i was, was being in love and that i took it as being ready for marriage but its not(african wise 27 is the right age but its the number ) mentally and financially we are not.

if you want to tell your daughter not marry early teach her to be independent and saw
her examples of those married early and are struggling due to rushing, there was a thread here talking about getting married and within a year a child is born

as couple your barely know each other and child is born, there come trouble inmaturity,a
child to look after and culture wanting you behave like a 35 yr old woman/man who has matured through mistakes etc its not easy

i would love my daughter to get married at 30

Woah.....30years,well I have come to realize age is just a number and what matters is maturity....Thanks for your input sir.

Why not? Age doesn't show maturity.

If she's matured and the guy too is matured I'll allow the man make a honest woman out of her instead of giving them both an excuse to fornicate.

5thElement:
Why not? Age doesn't show maturity.

If she's matured and the guy too is matured I'll allow the man make a honest woman out of her instead of giving them both an excuse to fornicate.

What does the term 'make an honest woman of her mean'?

bukatyne:


What does the term 'make an honest woman of her mean'?

Marry her instead of sneaking into her panties like a thief in the night.

Put a ring on it and make it all legal.

5thElement:


Marry her instead of sneaking into her panties like a thief in the night.

Put a ring on it and make it all legal.

Interesting.

You believe it's OK for the man to sleep around.

bukatyne:


Interesting.

You believe it's OK for the man to sleep around.

I can see that you don't understand what I wrote up there.

I wrote exactly the opposite of what you just typed.