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Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by kelzgie: 3:46am On Jul 12, 2017 |
getting someone pregnant doesn't mean you are bound to marry the person..if d girl frustrates d guy into marrying her...she won't enjoy d marriage ..he wud end up sleeping around... she'd finally move out of d house...dey shud jes reconcile and move on... |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by NaijaElba(m): 4:57am On Jul 12, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Baba o ti sahmahyah wahlai....you guessed right for real. |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by sekem: 5:31am On Jul 12, 2017 |
jashar: The op said it's her friend; not her |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by drnoel: 5:32am On Jul 12, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Crude and uncalled for. Please tell me, what shame? Grow up guy, things have gone beyond that |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by drnoel: 5:33am On Jul 12, 2017 |
Tahrah: More like it, good question |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by Iddossam: 5:42am On Jul 12, 2017 |
Your friend really need counseling....... the only way i can suggest for her is to continue obeying the guy instructions.... with very little time, am very sure, the guy will develop interest in her..... |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by juman(m): 5:59am On Jul 12, 2017 |
PrecisionFx: 1 Like |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by juman(m): 6:03am On Jul 12, 2017 |
Iddossam: You are right. Let her obey him, that might increase his love for her. Despite he does not love her she can give the relationship more trial. Because the economy is very bad guys dey fear responsibility. |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by jashar(f): 6:12am On Jul 12, 2017 |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by blackboy(m): 6:32am On Jul 12, 2017 |
Sex is not love, has never been love and will never be love. A lesson to guys and gals. |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by Pylony(m): 7:08am On Jul 12, 2017 |
This one weak my joins finish "He said it should better be a female child." i no know say na woman dey decide the sex of the baby o, until now... Mtcheeeew. From the looks of things the guy is in Lust with her body and never in Love with her, and he's still in Lust with her as he has become a monitoring Lizard that dictates wat she does when he has no love to share. I tell you a fact, he'll keep coming back for the sex because he's a Luster and not a true Lover. |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by teemy(m): 7:22am On Jul 12, 2017 |
tosyne2much:all the more reason she covered up 'cos of the 'shame' and most still stepped on her. |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by Iztklerh(m): 7:39am On Jul 12, 2017 |
So nairaland has become breakup or make up forum.....#observing 1 Like
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Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by TheSpellChecker: 7:41am On Jul 12, 2017 |
CzarChris: I believe the right word is battery, okay? |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by Nobody: 7:43am On Jul 12, 2017 |
My friend, please you are asking the wrong question, you cannot force a man to love you. That your so called friend is a foolish human being who just destroyed her life and still wont acquire sense, she is a disgrace to womanhood and i am telling you the truth. At times you ladies reason like you didnt go to school. If she knew she didnt want to be a single mom, why did she sleep with a man who hasn't married her without protection, or at least take postinor the next day let us leave that matter aside, what exactly does the friend do for a living that she has to depend on a man to take care of her. She still hasn't acquired sense yet. The man will never marry her. She better abort that thing if it is less than 12 weeks and carry on with her life. Her mates are being successful in their life and she is there selling her soul to a useless man who is just giving you feeding allowance. She is a lazy bitch who needs to grow up and get a life, taking care of her will not last forever o. My advise to her if she unemployed cos i am sure she is, is to collect as much money from the man since she cannot make money on her own, and start business. She better start bringing men into her house in his presence, the man has no right to prevent her from doing that, cos the fact that he doesnt love her should not stop her from attaining happiness. The maximum that man can do is to stop feeding her. Does she want to keep the baby, if she does better tell the man that he isnt the father and watch him run. Do not pursue any agenda with the man, i am also very sure she wanted to trap him with pregnancy in the first place. Anyway she has made the mistake, she better put herself first before any man or any child, puting yourself first always pays the woman. dammyluv911: 1 Like |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by Nobody: 7:50am On Jul 12, 2017 |
For once i actually agree with you, the girl is so stupid. PussyBlower: |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by Jman06(m): 7:53am On Jul 12, 2017 |
victor8269:You think it's everybody that sleeps with anything that has a hole in between two legs Guys like myself can't sleep with any lady i am not attracted to, even if she presents unclad self to me. We need to set standards for ourselves nau. |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by MRAKBEE(m): 7:58am On Jul 12, 2017 |
tosyne2much:So the idea of Internet anonymity is still strange to you? Or u deliberately did that to get cheap popularity? |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by Nobody: 8:05am On Jul 12, 2017 |
Shut up jare, our sister in the lord, holier than thou, it is your type that makes mistake like the foolish op's friend. freshvine: |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by tosyne2much(m): 8:06am On Jul 12, 2017 |
MRAKBEE:You don't have to take everything personal bros |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by tosyne2much(m): 8:13am On Jul 12, 2017 |
teemy:I'm sure you know that Nairalanders no get mercy at all |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by marvin902(m): 8:24am On Jul 12, 2017 |
sorry buh what happened to birth control pills.. the dude pour his sperm inside you and you relaxed... i smell opportunist here... |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by muymay: 8:37am On Jul 12, 2017 |
But really, what is wrong with Nigerians? Someone asked a question asking for advise to a serious problem. Instead of advising or offering a little help, we are heaping insults and abuse on the poor person. This is not good. Remember everyone has issues they are dealing with. Showing a little love will not harm anyone. The guy and the lady both made mistakes but ammends can also be made. How many guys here have slept with ladies they do not love. Lets be civil. For the lady, you cannot force someone to love you. Let alone marrying someone who does. If he has agreed to contribute to the upkeep, then accept that first. Try and be a good friend and civil to the guy. In time, he may fall in love with you. if he does not, then work on yourself, become a better person and another person will love you for you. God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by teemy(m): 8:44am On Jul 12, 2017 |
tosyne2much:yea, just as it is said in your sign line. i honor those who have made mistakes and can speak out. we all as humans make mistakes. |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by teemy(m): 9:02am On Jul 12, 2017 |
seemed babe wanted to use pregnancy to hook the guy but it backfired making the guy using her desperacy to hold her to ransom trying to tie her life joy to the sex of the baby. if only she could work towards self sustenance she could decide better. |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by tosyne2much(m): 9:07am On Jul 12, 2017 |
teemy:No one is perfect bro. Most of the people bashing the OP are not Saints as well |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by MRAKBEE(m): 9:12am On Jul 12, 2017 |
tosyne2much:I think u shud have answered her question or ignored it rather than attack her for not clearly stating whom is the victim. |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by tosyne2much(m): 9:21am On Jul 12, 2017 |
MRAKBEE:I'm sorry bro |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by teemy(m): 9:23am On Jul 12, 2017 |
MRAKBEE:true tosyn2much, i also believe most that condemned took a cue from you. |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by teemy(m): 9:24am On Jul 12, 2017 |
you have a huge followership tosin so care should be taken as it affects people's opinion. all the best dear |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by hardigsbaba(m): 9:36am On Jul 12, 2017 |
Theres nothing like "HE GOT HER PREGNANT'" Biko. |
Re: He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Doesn't... by donqx: 9:37am On Jul 12, 2017 |
for real |
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