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Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by YelloweWest: 9:11pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Evaberry:My dear u are wrong. I'm all for women support but as a married woman I can't support this |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by cristianisraeli: 9:14pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Lizy100: get the f outa here..typical nigerian woman..u want the guy to die abi or develop HBP..or by the time he use annoyance and kill the woman u will be the first to come here and call him names..why must he live this one life with pain and sorrow..maybe u didnt ready well..the woman is not ready to change..the new generation of nigerian women are something else..prayer prayer prayer..when the muslims where invading europe and invaded the holy land..the pope didnt pray he formed an ARMY OF CRUSADERS to crush the islamist..so he needs action now and not prayers.FOR ME I WILL NEVER LIVE THIS ONE LIFE WITH PAIN AND SORROW..why force themselves on each other if it cant work.look.there is always someone out there for us and i will never kill myself because of any woman.i will move on with life.i swear life is sweeter than stick to one woman that is frustrating ur life everyday..he will still find love and it wont be like this present woman..kapish. |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by Nobody: 9:15pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Evaberry: Lol... Even mad ppl comment here |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by repogirl(f): 9:16pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
goingape1:keep deceiving yourself there. Most men also wouldn't marry women who don't have a source of income. Why don't they marry for love. Is it love thay will put food on the table? Bloody hypocrite. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by cristianisraeli: 9:18pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
iamloyalty: make i no just talk to u sha..so for ur mind u don make sense now..if he didnt bring it to social media..will u get the chance to post all this jagajaga u posted..out of everything..u didnt say anything about the woman..yea yea shes a saint 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by Nobody: 9:18pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Acecube: A lot of people want to learn for sure. But not all have the finance to start it.. At least, 80% of people who have mailed me have no capital. I can't help financially cause I'm not running a charity organisation. To get money, money must be spent. The aim of my blog is to cover as many lucrative businesses one can do in Nigeria.. As many as possible.. I want to cover every nook and cranny. Even how to make money selling fish.. Funny but people are making thousands from it. However, we always overlook them. A friend of mine Is a millionaire and guess what he does.. Snail farming! My blog is rich with some business ideas.. I keep updating daily.. Currently writing a book too.. Book that WIL surely help as many people as possible. This is my aim till I die.. I have all the time now... 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by Optimist88(m): 9:19pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Evaberry:You need a Specialist on common sense to work on you! A lady for that matter! I pity your husband in advance! |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by cristianisraeli: 9:19pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
TheEminentLaity: oboy u day vex oo..lol..nigerian women and money bi like beans and garri |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by QueenBeeQBQ: 9:20pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
discman2k2: specter: Hello Op, these are the advices that you should adhere to. See the few number of likes they garnered? This should serve as a reminder to you that other people rarely want you to come out victorious in your endeavours(a happy marriage definitely included), and would rather you joined them in their own current status(let everything spoil sef, and let the husband and wife go their own way). What they don't say on here, is the suffering that they're currently going through... Bottomline is that if she leaves, she'll regret it. If you make her leave, or watch her leave, you'll regret it. PS: She really doesn't want to leave, if she wanted to, she would have already left. But it doesn't mean that you should watch her build her resolve to the point where she does leave. Help her, Help yourself!!! That being said, this woman loves you, and you still love her(you're just doing yourself the disservice of focusing on her not so perfect characters right now). See how you just briefed over the areas of her not being stingy, but rather open-handed, when she was the one providing for your family? Well, stop doing this. Instead, good characteristics of hers like this, are what you should be focusing on(I'm very sure you know them all, you just chose to tell us only one). I also want to let you in on a secret, she's secretly detests herself for all the nagging, and keeps wondering how you turned her into someone like that. But the truth of the matter is just like Billyonaire said up there, she's just bone tired. So once again, I'll say this, help yourself by helping her. Take the advises of the two men I quoted up there and start living a happy and fulfilled marriage. Modified............. I'll like to go one step further and tell you to drop whatever you're doing right now, and pm them, call them, Whatsapp them, or whatever... They have the best interests of you, your wife, and your marriage at heart. Also, since they're males they'll be able to give you one or two tips from that angle. But most important, is to go into this mending of fences with an open heart. Don't play eye services to their advises and God will see you through... |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by cristianisraeli: 9:21pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
free2ryhme: have u heard of something called PRIVACY 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by Skmoda(m): 9:22pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
LoveJesus87:this is the dumbest post ever...na ukwu be your problem. |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by YelloweWest: 9:23pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Prognose:Pls are u single?? My sis is single pls Good husband are extremely hard to find 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by cristianisraeli: 9:27pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
QueenBeeQBQ: hahaha seems like u know the woman very well..a woman is frustrating a mans life and u are asking him to stay there like mario..lol.. there are lots of women out there looking for a good man..u know we nigerians we like saying E GO BETTER..E GO BETTER E GO BETTER..nigeria is still the same way..life is sweet and its one life..i swear money is good...when u have money a woman cant mess around..the new generation of nigerian women are something else..i would never marry a nigerian woman because i want to live a long life..them too get wahala..always money hungry..once the money stop coming ur life will be a livinghell..lastly..do u know some women will not want to leave u but frustrate u to make u leave them.. |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by cristianisraeli: 9:29pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
YelloweWest: exactly and some people are saying he should die with frustration and HBP...hell no..my friend give her 1 year and if u dont see any changes..move on and for now please use condom and dont get her pregnant again and i advise u to travel to any african country not ghana or cotonou.another african country..u will see a good calm girl..tell her stay here and she will..not a nigerian woman that will head butt u..lol..slap u sef..lol..and even hit u in the balls..yes nigerian women are crazy like that..this new generation of them.. |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by bikefab(m): 9:31pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
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Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by bikefab(m): 9:35pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
This is a sad tale. It is better to live in the desert than to stay with a troublesome woman in the house. My guy try to make your marriage work. That is what life brought ur way. |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by cristianisraeli: 9:35pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
east and south african ladies love nigerian men..guys branch out and u will give a good testimony...stop killing urself for nigerian women they will drive u crazy and send one to an early grave...unless u want to go and bring a girl from the village..but this new generation girls are something else..other african countries their women love naija guys..just say the word and they will stand by u forever..they are not after money...i swear..somebody should give me a testimony abeg...i will never marry a naija woman u cross the line if u fight my mother..because i wont be able to look u in the eye anymore..nigerian men branch out.. |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by TheEminentLaity: 9:38pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
There is nothing wrong or bad with his wife. She married him even when he had nothing. There is only so much any human being can take. Now there's a poor child that the shameless man isn't even considering, completely blaming his wife for his financial recklessness and garnering support here to send her packing. He got married on GH, nothing changed he went on to get her pregnant, still nothing changed then suddenly it's all the wife's fault Musings of an irresponsible guy. It's a similar thought process that litters northern Nigeria with almajiri children. cristianisraeli: 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Why did you get married in the first place dumbo...well sha, marriage is for poor men, good luck with ya fat lazy naggy wife |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
I can't believe I read all your post. just 2yrs marriage and you're slap your wife, that's very bad.......only animal beat up his wife, what you both need is God and money. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by cristianisraeli: 9:45pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
TheEminentLaity: u mean the wife that fought his mother?ok oo..please i dont like hearing he married him even when he had nothing..what do u classify as nothing?should a man go rob a bank?nigerian women too money hungry and u can see money in their eyes..am sure they didnt use paper to do wedding right..they use money..look..a man shouldnt die because of one child..he can have more with someone else..life is still sweet and long..hell he can have from different women..thats life..he cant be dieing slowly.dont compare notherners that marry 9yr old to southerners that marry ripe women..my point..lets not live a life of sorrow or pain..if its not working..seperation or divorce..is it until the guy kill her with anger?my advise give her 1 year if she doesnt chance..leave her..pack out of the house and leave the house for her and make sure u always pay child support...I SWEAR MARK MY WORD Bluestreams..u will find love again... |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
cristianisraeli: Honest, I've been reading n following your post for month and I can say that we have something in common honestly! I wish I meet you someday |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by Nobody: 9:53pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
cristianisraeli: Please can I ask a question What type of woman do u want to marry n please can you state the nationality Thanks |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by cristianisraeli: 9:54pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
tescoman90: hahaha..i dont know how to beat around the bush..we all deserve to live a happy life.if the guy was a muslim u think he wont just go and marry another woman instead of one woman frustrating his life..i swear money good...if he had money my advise to him..leave enough money for ur kid for feeding and take a 2weeks vacation to clear his head..he would come back a different man.i think christians should start living like solomon..he had many wives..lol..hopefully maybe someday we could meet..lol |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by cristianisraeli: 9:57pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
tescoman90: i wont mention a particular country but u can choose from anywoman from east africa or southern africa..those women are nice and calm and they love nigerians..when u say sit here..i swear they will..they are not after money...i repeat they are not after money even if u want to spend money it woud be little..in those places true love still means something,where flowers and cards still means something..unlike nigeria where TRUE LOVE IS DEAD..if u no get 30 BILLION FOR UR ACCOUNT NOW...na OYO u day ooo |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by Nobody: 10:00pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
cristianisraeli: But are u in Nigeria? |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by cristianisraeli: 10:01pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
tescoman90: maybe.lol |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by Ekaka1(m): 10:04pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Evaberry:Eva calm down and read every details of that write up. You probably read one line that put you off but there was more in that story including the fact He admitted slapping her...And he didn't even sound cool with it and even admitted in the last paragraph that He might not be innocent himself. The bro has spoken from his heart and I can read some mature counsel here . Listen, people handle frustration differently. I might not be able to come to social media to wash my dirty linen here but go to a counselor or a pastor who is graced to counsel married folks , so I can't judge him...I rather encougevhim like most men and women here have done. |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by doubleZ88(m): 10:07pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
u guys need a time out. nw i dont mean separating, no not dat. take her out of dat environment to a secluded place and give her a treat u havnt done before. then u can have a hrt to hrt talk about d challenges. then see nw d outcome. if it works out, u can thank me later but if it doesn't then shes hell bent in destroying u without mercy. |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by clemmonce(m): 10:07pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
bennytfi:bros you just spoke my mind. he tolerated her from the beginning.. don't start what you can't finish... in order to please women don't tolerate nonsense things you don't like... My boss told me something one day he called my name and he said .... When you are married if your wife does something you don't like tell her immediately to stop and stand your ground. I will never forget that advice.. it is a lesson for us all.. |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by Lizy100: 10:09pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
cristianisraeli: Why are you so pained darling...oh I nearly forget..hate drains. Op I guess you don't want yo be like him. Take some sugar..I think honey is healthier. At least it will help you live longer to choke on your bitterness and hatred. Receive sense, Amen. |
Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by Oyindidi(f): 10:09pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Evaberry:Uncalled for |
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