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Can You Marry Your Mate? by joseph6071: 3:51pm On Jul 18, 2017
this interesting question kept on ringing in my head like a bell, because I have a girlfriend that I love with all my heart and she proved to me that she can do anything for me, but the only flaw to me now that is hindering me from proposing to her is that we are age mates, I'm just a few months older but she still looks very young and sexy...advice me, cox I don't wanna turn out like the guy in this video (almost rejected him)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks6RScQeGLQ&client=mv-google&gl=NG&hl=en
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by joseph6071: 3:52pm On Jul 18, 2017
cc. lalasticlala
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jul 18, 2017
Mental/psychological maturity is what you should look into. I think it's better she's your mate than when she's way older than you.
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by NairalandCS(m): 3:58pm On Jul 18, 2017
Of all the things to check for, like comparability, love, mutual goal etc.

Na to dey check age ?

Age is the last thing on the list.

She can even be older than me sef, but not more than 2 years abeg, make she no go dey beat me for house.

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Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Funky123(f): 4:02pm On Jul 18, 2017
As a lady i cant marry someone am older than....My man must be older than me
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by olaniyisamuel(m): 4:08pm On Jul 18, 2017
I laughed in grin @the moniker before me. Does ur view include the essence of marriage. Wish u well den. OLA
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by MissRaine69(f): 4:12pm On Jul 18, 2017
If your sole argument for not marrying anyone is because you are age mates then I have to say perhaps it's you that needs to mature a bit.
Age is not a quality to gage marriageability
Her personallity
Future aspirations and goals
Behaviour , morals that sort of thing is what you look at. If you focus on the things a person cannot change then you are shallow.

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Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by alfred007(m): 4:13pm On Jul 18, 2017
how is her stature? very important, in the long run u will understand
did she tick all the box? if yes go and marry her.
age is nothing but number
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by MissRaine69(f): 4:14pm On Jul 18, 2017
Funky123:
As a lady i cant marry someone am older than....My man must be older than me
That's your preference but then by having such a concrete point of view your drastically reduce your chances. A man being older than you guarantees nothing

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Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Nobody: 4:17pm On Jul 18, 2017
ask rick cannon when he got married to maria carey
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by kiddoiLL(m): 4:17pm On Jul 18, 2017
Funky123:
As a lady i cant marry someone am older than....My man must be older than me
na so

Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Funky123(f): 4:18pm On Jul 18, 2017
olaniyisamuel:
I laughed in grin @the moniker before me. Does ur view include the essence of marriage. Wish u well den. OLA
Everybody know what he/she wants and i clearly knows the essence of marriage.....I also wish u well, ve a nice day
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Martin0(m): 4:18pm On Jul 18, 2017
lefulefu:
ask rick cannon when he got married to maria carey
can u marry ur mate?grin
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Jul 18, 2017
Martin0:
can u marry ur mate?grin
even if iyam a yr older sef. .. no cheesy
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Martin0(m): 4:23pm On Jul 18, 2017
lefulefu:

even if iyam a yr older sef. .. no cheesy
Ah ah na wa oo age still gat limit again eh?Hiagrin ooo chim oo
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jul 18, 2017
Martin0:
Ah ah na wa oo age still gat limit again eh?Hiagrin ooo chim oo
do u want to date a lady and guys will be asking if she"s ur elder sister cheesy.u know ladies age quickly than men na.
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Martin0(m): 4:30pm On Jul 18, 2017
lefulefu:

do u want to date a lady and guys will be asking if she"s ur elder sister cheesy.u know ladies age quickly than men na.
hahhahahahahha na wa ooooo,aaaa so your reason is based on that na abi
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Funky123(f): 4:31pm On Jul 18, 2017
MissRaine69:

That's your preference but then by having such a concrete point of view your drastically reduce your chances. A man being older than you guarantees nothing
And even when am older than him it might still guarantees nothing.....Lemme just say ve never come across a man am older than as a suitor
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Jul 18, 2017
Martin0:
hahhahahahahha na wa ooooo,aaaa so your reason is based on that na abi
yes ooo grin
e get one couple wey i see for one wedding reception wey i attend last year.omo dis lady fat ehn no be small.she jus fill out d chair wey she siddon and na so d legs of the chair dey groan with her weight.i really felt for dat poor chair cheesy.u for see the mountain of rice wey she come dey attack.. and after each round na so she dey demand in her deep baritone voice for another plate of rice.when i happen to see her husband the man just look like her last born beside her cheesy.i really felt for the man and the poor chair wey d woman siddon.na so we just dey look d woman as she dey attack each plate of rice cheesy.
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Kirgyakos(m): 4:48pm On Jul 18, 2017
Ok i cee a beautiful lady dat i lyke so much n i intend 2 marry her n u say no! she's olda dan me... so bcoz dat we can't get married.... My dear even if she 5yrs olda, i don't mind provided i luv her...i can only marry a woman dat also luvz me in return......Williams Shakespear's wife was 8yrs olda dan him. No b say na mouth if u lyke go check!
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Martin0(m): 4:55pm On Jul 18, 2017
lefulefu:

yes ooo grin
e get one couple wey i see for one wedding reception wey i attend last year.omo dis lady fat ehn no be small.she jus fill out d chair wey she siddon and na so d legs of the chair dey groan with her weight.i really felt for dat poor chair cheesy.u for see the mountain of rice wey she come dey attack.. and after each round na so she dey demand in her deep baritone voice for another plate of rice.when i happen to see her husband the man just look like her last born beside the woman cheesy.i really felt for the man and the poor chair wey d woman siddon.na so we just dey look d woman as she dey attack each plate of rice cheesy.
hahahahahahahhahahahahahahagrin chai lefuleful,na there u con decide say u nor go marry that type ni eh?kikikikikik aaaaa lefuleful u nor kill person for diz NL eh aaaaa

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Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Jul 18, 2017
Martin0:
hahahahahahahhahahahahahahagrin chai lefuleful,na there u con decide say u nor go marry that type ni eh?kikikikikik aaaaa lefuleful u nor kill person for diz NL eh aaaaa
bro dat day na so i siddon dey watch film..ppl dey dis life oo grin grin grin grin
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by emzeezlee(m): 5:20pm On Jul 18, 2017
Funky123:
As a lady i cant marry someone am older than....My man must be older than me
see another person with low state of Mind..i laff at you in japanese...aqe doesn't matters at all..it just a fiqure...funke Mi,plz change ur mindset
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by emzeezlee(m): 5:26pm On Jul 18, 2017
lefulefu:

do u want to date a lady and guys will be asking if she"s ur elder sister cheesy.u know ladies age quickly than men na.
ok..be there and be formin queen of the coast..bring ur ear lemme tel u somethin [whispers] president of france [emmanuel macron] married his class teacher that taught him in primary school...nd d quy is just 39yrs..
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Jul 18, 2017
emzeezlee:

ok..be there and be formin queen of the coast..bring ur ear lemme tel u somethin [whispers] president of france [emmanuel macron] married his class teacher that taught him in primary school...nd d quy is just 39yrs..
why una always dey bring dat french president own up cheesy.that one na rare case jor cheesy
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by nwakibe: 5:35pm On Jul 18, 2017
It depends on how old both of you are. If both of you are older than 35, bros go and look for a younger lady o. But if you guys are younger than 35, you are good to go. My 50cent though.
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by MissRaine69(f): 6:53pm On Jul 18, 2017
Funky123:

And even when am older than him it might still guarantees nothing.....Lemme just say ve never come across a man am older than as a suitor
See how you contradict yourself?
Age guarantees nothing.
If he was to lie to you and tell you he was 5 years older and you find out he was younger when you had fallen for him what would you do?
Don't be so shallow it's not attractive.
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by MissRaine69(f): 6:56pm On Jul 18, 2017
nwakibe:
It depends on how old both of you are. If both of you are older than 35, bros go and look for a younger lady o. But if you guys are younger than 35, you are good to go. My 50cent though.
And what's your rationale behind your 50 cents? Can it be something that has an ounce of logic not skewed cultural, religious, social, spiritual reasons.
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Funky123(f): 7:19pm On Jul 18, 2017
MissRaine69:

See how you contradict yourself?
Age guarantees nothing.
If he was to lie to you and tell you he was 5 years older and you find out he was younger when you had fallen for him what would you do?
Don't be so shallow it's not attractive.
Ezeun ma
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by banme1(m): 7:31pm On Jul 18, 2017
is it a crime?
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by Funky123(f): 7:36pm On Jul 18, 2017
emzeezlee:

see another person with low state of Mind..i laff at you in japanese...aqe doesn't matters at all..it just a fiqure...funke Mi,plz change ur mindset
God has created us to ve different desires and want,U might decide to marry a lady that is older because u both want it but as for me ve stated what i want and dats what God will surely give me......Come to think of it i never had a suitor am older than
Re: Can You Marry Your Mate? by emzeezlee(m): 8:44pm On Jul 18, 2017
lefulefu:

why una always dey bring dat french president own up cheesy.that one na rare case jor cheesy
lmao..4 reference purpose nah...infact macron own too far..gov of ondo state barr.akeredolu,his wife is older than him..xo wt are we sayin

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